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MrBrownJay1:
Deepfeel
Come see how this lady got exactly what I am talking about... But I guess, in your world, so long as others don't get caught, cheating is RIGHT, abi?

***spit on floor***

Case of angry Nigerians...

Isn’t this funny? After discovering such things going on, more are still repeating itself. Imagine the pain that comes after training your supposedly children only to discover that not even one out of the six children is yours. It means that your wife has been playing games and perfectly concealing it for decades behind your back without you ever suspecting it. She perfected the art of being a player...Read full story

When I was still dating my ex-girlfriend, she needed help with her accommodation I helped her out because actually liked her and was hoping to have a lasting relationship, maybe marriage; little did I know that she was having other plans behind my back.

Neighbors told me that sometimes my girlfriend brings men to my house to sleep over and leave first thing early morning, because I worked night shift sometimes. I believed she might be bringing men into my house because I use to see traces of cigarette ashes on the table but I never believed them to be sleeping over, and never believed her sleeping with them.

This tip kept coming from my neighbours until I didn’t know what to believe anymore, so I asked her one day and she snapped and labeled it an insult because she was squatting with me, she assured me that nothing was going on and nobody was sleeping with her or sleeping in my house.

One night I worked shift, I closed very early and it was raining so I decided to enter the rain and...Continue

Am a youth corper serving in Calabar, Cross River state, even the house maid seems to have noticed this, she has begun a journey to make my life miserable as long as I stay in that house, the worst part is that the house maid has advised me to accept her madam’s advances at me and she will take care of all my needs. How can I do such thing with my uncle’s wife?

I don’t know if they are both working together to set me up so I can be kicked out or the maid is trying to use me and get favour from her madam or they are both trying to turn me into a intimacy gadget I can’t really tell. The first day I came into the house she received me with kindness and was all smileys, but now when she yells at me I sense frustration, I haven’t done anything that warrants that level of anger, I mean if she has troubles with my uncle let her sort it out with him why the transfer of aggression on me?

It all started one day when my uncle travelled for two weeks, she started making advances at me, she was all hands on my body, we were watching her favourite channel Zee world on DSTV, if she wants to say something to me she will touch me and be smiling, until she asked me to get something from the kitchen, as I went into the kitchen busy getting the thing I felt a romantic hand on my chest, I thought it was the maid because that one too get her wahala, I was surprised to turn and see my uncle’s wife smiling at me, she followed me into the kitchen...Continue

Common guys, this is real...

DaInferno:
direct your talent towards writing fiction novels... thank me later

Will keep that in mind

Greatzeus:
Get out of here with your stupid bull story and blog link

This is real

Am a youth corper serving in Calabar, Cross River state, even the house maid seems to have noticed this, she has begun a journey to make my life miserable as long as I stay in that house, the worst part is that the house maid has advised me to accept her madam’s advances at me and she will take care of all my needs. How can I do such thing with my uncle’s wife?

I don’t know if they are both working together to set me up so I can be kicked out or the maid is trying to use me and get favour from her madam or they are both trying to turn me into a intimacy gadget I can’t really tell. The first day I came into the house she received me with kindness and was all smileys, but now when she yells at me I sense frustration, I haven’t done anything that warrants that level of anger, I mean if she has troubles with my uncle let her sort it out with him why the transfer of aggression on me?

It all started one day when my uncle travelled for two weeks, she started making advances at me, she was all hands on my body, we were watching her favourite channel Zee world on DSTV, if she wants to say something to me she will touch me and be smiling, until she asked me to get something from the kitchen, as I went into the kitchen busy getting the thing I felt a romantic hand on my chest, I thought it was the maid because that one too get her wahala, I was surprised to turn and see my uncle’s wife smiling at me, she followed me into the kitchen...Continue

Criticaltemp:
Na dem bad pass oo

And they are bunch of hypocrites, when they see a lady wearing short skirt or tight clothes they start behaving like they have seen devil's wife.

In an interactive session with a taxi driver, he explained that during his night duties he always picks up hajiyas to a spot somewhere in zone 4, Abuja where they normally buy hard drugs at night.

In his words he said; “Every night I always get to pick two to four Hausa girls going towards zone 4 close to bureau de’ change where Hausas change dollars, once I pull up in front of the spot, when those boys spot the hajiyas they already know what they are there for...Continue

Deepfeel:
In tiv land things like these happen especially those short short demons with horsehoofs are everywhere in tiv land

horsehoofs

A lady known as Sally (real name withheld) who recently recovered from a mental state has testified how she got entangled with seeing images of ethereal beings which caused her the illness, she stated how it all began, how she got the moment that she believes changed her live forever. Exclusive to hpluscommunity.com.ng


“I was 15 when my father passed on so we travelled down to the village in Benue state for his burial, so one of my female friends invited me to accompany her to the stream, she wanted to buy some supplies from the next community so she was supposed to swim across the river, because back then that was how the village women used to swim across the river to get supplies from the next community.


We got to the river and she pulled off some of her clothes, put it inside the pan she was carrying and started applying palm oil all over her body, she gave me to apply too but I told her that that was the far that I could go with her and that I wasn’t getting into the river with her, besides I couldn’t swim that far, I would wait for her until she swims back. She made fun of me and convinced me to go, so i went with her.


When I got into the river, I didn’t swim up to 5 minutes and I started losing strength, I began to struggle in and I guess I blacked out because I couldn’t remember anything else and nothing made sense. My friend dragged me to the shore. When I woke up hours later I started feeling funny from there on, I told nobody about this incident. Three days later I saw the first vision of what appeared to be the ghost of a pregnant woman. It just hovered across the room, it was a very light creature that made no sound, it just moved in a straight line from wall to wall. I didn’t tell anyone about it because I didn’t understand what I just saw.


I didn’t see any other vision until 2 years later when i was in...Continue

VRDroid:
Absolutely spot on.

Makes no sense having one woman if one can afford to keep more.

By being answerable to women, men are reduced from Masculine Alpha males to snowflakes who now whine like weeny babies and explain to their women of their where-abouts and even cry or kill themselves if a lover cheats.

But we must also give the women the opportunity to explore their sexuality too. I am for fairness as women are also having the quiet desperation to live their sexual fantasies.

In essence, we can all fucck around, catch diseases, treat the diseases and enjoy our sexuality until menopause and erectal dysfunctionality knocks as we age gracefully.

I am yet to meet a 60 y/o woman or man who has been with just one man or woman. So why the hypocrisy ?

Enjoy your animal instincts.

Spot on! Bravo ma'am!

By Kaynkwo

Even God Himself will never be happy with man for settling for just one woman when he has more sexual urges to deal with, why settle for one woman when you can have as many women as you desire? This current society greatly influenced and partly crafted by women as part of the culture of civilization, has been a plot to blackmail the hell out men to settle with the “one man, one woman” policy.

In this era, women have grown bold to challenge men for infidelity, they now have name for the act of man exercising his God given divine urge to pleasure himself with other women (CHEATING), and they become shallow men who think with their joysticks. King Solomon was the wisest man alive and his wisdom was given to him directly from God, yet he had 700 wives and 300 concubines (1 Kings 11:3) and all of them lived in harmony, now would you say he was a shallow man? A man who was worshipped, who leaders of nations travelled very far to pay tributes to. Who told you men that you must be monogamous?


Also King David, the man after God’s heart had plenty wives and concubines, he wasn’t still satisfied, he sent one of his generals to his death just to have his wife, he atoned for the sin of killing a man and taking his wife but not for the sin of enlarging his network of women, yet God loved him. And so many other Godly characters in the bible who was never ashamed to own up to their manly nature.


Women are known to fight with their principles to obtain gender equality or superiority over men,...Continue

Hello guys, I'm Splendour, I run a blog that deals mostly on sexual abuses or abusive relationships and community interactions https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng, I was abused as a child. This thread is borne out of the urge to expose the evils of sexual abuses and to tackle its negative impacts to our sanity.

After receiving the confession of a lady who was molested with her younger sister at ages 14 and 12 respectively by a catholic priest, documented here at https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/07/a-reverend-father-abused-me-and-my-younger-sister-at-ages-14-and-12-lady-narrates-her-story.html. I realized how easy it could be to be victimize by people that we actually trust with our own lives. We are here for those who have bottled up their feelings only to see the thread as an opportunity to express their own worries.

The aim of this thread is to share tips, Dos and DON’Ts among ourselves(what I'll wish to term Supportive Forum) to help those who wish to save their young children, nieces, nephews, loved ones or anyone we wish well from rape and prepare their minds. For the purpose of this thread which is to stop rape, I'm also going to include gaining your freedom the intricacies of sexual abuse by sharing your story(s) amongst ourselves.

THINGS TO DISCUSS?
(a)Get determined to gaining your freedom today. Tell us in this thread that you are so and so and wish to tell someone about the abuse you suffered and by whom.

(b)Tell us what happened and how it could have been avoided. Feel free to call on member through mention here when you are willing to speak to a professional.

(c) We talk about the measures we are ready to take in preventing rape. We are here to sympathize with you.

GIVE ME YOUR HAND
There would be times of intense urge guys. Run to this thread and mention all members, and those online will encourage you. The more you talk about how you are feeling at that point in time, the easier it is for members to share relating experience(s) of how they dealt with it to encourage you. WARNING: Please do not paint an errotic picture while sharing your feelings or experiences so that you don't ruin the supports we give others. We want to be sincere supporters to one another.

OUR SLOGAN IS Give support, get support!

Note: I'll be updating the main thread as the need arises.


Moderators please help people out from one of the causes of depression – Rape and Abuse by posting on front page. Thanks

resty4:
CAN sh be more vocal and active than it is. FFK is more defensive of Christians than so called CAN.

They only issue empty warnings that they don't actually take seriously unlike MURIC who issue warning and threats and embark on seeing it through.

An angry Nigerian known as Kaynkwo has come out to lambast the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) calling them hypocrites, charlatans and self-absorbed association. In his expression he said;

“How can a so-called Christian body fold their arms and watch Christians been slaughtered like animals on an almost daily basis and they do nothing? How can a so-called shepherd allow their sheep to be sacrificed every day on the evil alter of one Nigeria and they watch from the comfort of their fortresses funded by these slaughtered sheep?

Christianity in Nigeria is nothing but SCAM, filled with hypocrisy and selfish agenda; you would never hear the voice of CAN if it wasn’t of an occasion that would benefit them one way or another. Gone are the days when The Church was highly responsible for the well-being of its society, when they used to be the resting place of the afflicted, but today churches have turned into business centers where these pulpit hustlers cash in at the expense of their followers.

A protest was recently led by some well-meaning Nigerian Christian entertainers to the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) headquarters, the protest was just as a reminder to the general overseer Pastor E. A. Adeboye of his role as one of the highly revered Christian leader to address this of Christians being butchered all over the north every day, but CAN only has this to say, and I quote;...Continue

An angry Nigerian known as Kaynkwo has come out to lambast the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) calling them hypocrites, charlatans and self-absorbed association. In his expression he said;

“How can a so-called Christian body fold their arms and watch Christians been slaughtered like animals on an almost daily basis and they do nothing? How can a so-called shepherd allow their sheep to be sacrificed every day on the evil alter of one Nigeria and they watch from the comfort of their fortresses funded by these slaughtered sheep?

Christianity in Nigeria is nothing but SCAM, filled with hypocrisy and selfish agenda; you would never hear the voice of CAN if it wasn’t of an occasion that would benefit them one way or another. Gone are the days when The Church was highly responsible for the well-being of its society, when they used to be the resting place of the afflicted, but today churches have turned into business centers where these pulpit hustlers cash in at the expense of their followers.

A protest was recently led by some well-meaning Nigerian Christian entertainers to the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) headquarters, the protest was just as a reminder to the general overseer Pastor E. A. Adeboye of his role as one of the highly revered Christian leader to address this of Christians being butchered all over the north every day, but CAN only has this to say, and I quote;...Continue

dododawa1:
let d truth be said, Nigeria first COUP put all in this mess today.

Maybe, may not be true but this mess began from somewhere

NkemChukwudi:
The bastards are responsible for the terrible Nigeria we are now kinda stuck with. Yam legged fools from their wawa villages.

NB: No tribe mentioned but the bastards know themselves.

Hahahahaahaa are you afraid to mention the tribe?

Ekez:
Especially since when bubu enter,everybody just dey para

MetaPhysical:
This is Ibo legacy for Nigeria.

If it wasnt Ibo soldier introducing decree and forcing unitary govt at gun point each of the parts of Nigeria would still be independent and self-governing and developing at their own pace today.

What are you talking about?

According to a research carried out by H Plus Reporters, Nigeria is been reported to have the highest number of frustrated people living within. What makes people angry in Nigeria is deep-rooted in frustration and poverty, a white man once said that if you are an intelligent Nigerian living in Nigeria, it is best for you to get out of Nigeria to be successful because the country frustrates every effort of the people. That is somewhat true.




This have brought outrageous rise in kidnap cases, rape, money ritual, cybercrime, killings clashes and a whole lot of crimes across the country. Nigeria, known in the past as Giant of Africa was once a peaceful nation and was once looked up to for playing the big brotherly role to other African nation, but today is known as The Joke of Africa. A young Nigerian will prefer to go on diaspora in a neighboring country than struggle with frustration in his country, even the ones that have been stranded in diaspora prefer to wallow in their misery than to come back to Nigeria.



At some point it is now believed that if you do not display some level of anger, you will be considered to be someone who is weak, who can easily be preyed upon, or someone who has never suffered a day in your live. Doing Almost everything in Nigeria is frustrating, from getting up very early in the morning to avoid traffic to work, to no electricity to press your clothes, to boarding a public transport filled with angry driver, conductor and passengers to your job only for traffic to catch up with you eventually, to receiving stress from your place of work, to spending hours in horrible traffic coming home in the evening only to meet darkness at home as a result of power outage.


That is for those who have white collar jobs, what about the ones that have to stand in the hot scotching sun in the middle of the traffic to do their jobs or get their daily breads? What about those who spend the whole day in traffic to drive passengers to their destinations and then police and other law enforcers will extort almost everything these drivers work for the day? And those who have no hope of daily meal, they must hawk around the whole of the streets in order to feed their families, but get chased around by some government thugs to arrest them and extort them? You get sick and admitted into a government, you meet angry nurses and doctors who make life a living hell for patients...Continue

A lady has come forward to narrate how she and her little sister was lured, abused and raped by a cleric as teenagers and how she was not believed every time she complained to her mother.

“I was in JSS 3 then, back then the Catholic Church used to send reverend fathers to towns on evangelical missions, then the church diocese will share those priests sent to them amongst the Catholic Churches within the town. Back then it was those churches’ responsibilities to cater for those priests’ shelters, feeding, among other things.

Then they will announce in the church and ask for volunteers who have extra rooms in their homes who can assist in accommodating at least one priest for couple of months. In cases like these there were usually more volunteers than required because there were people who loved the idea of accommodating a reverend father in their homes.

My mother a core catholic was one of those people, she accommodated one Father Andy; he won my mother’s heart with his kind gestures and his sensitivity to the minutest things, he helped my mum in the kitchen, he did domestic chores, he helped me and my sister with homework, he prayed in the house and so on. Since my father’s passing, we had always welcomed the idea of having a close male relative around the house since it was just me, my younger sister and mum.

I was so comfortable around Father Andy, I could tell him secrets that I couldn’t tell my mum or even my best friend, due to our closeness, I could lay down on the same bed and be gisting with him, he showed me many things that was accessible to me as a child. I was so innocent that I never thought that there were boundaries since he was a priest, and my mother was not always around though she trusted him so much...Continue

El Rufai is a man that has been known to be confused ever since, a saboteur known with his ill will and hunger for more control. He is guiltier of the accusations that he laid on the northern leaders that he’s blaming for the backwardness in development in the northern region.

If you are a northerner and you think that development will come to your state by engaging in religious crisis or always tormenting people from other religion, then your brain is far less developed. Mallam Nasir El Rufai has always been the frontier of prosecuting the Christians wherever the terrains of his power exceeds.

For him to make such statement blaming northern leaders for the backwardness in development in the northern territory makes it clear that he is one arrogant miscreant who has chosen to hide under such statement rather than accepting to be worst of them all, instead of accepting to be part of the cause and shifting his focus to changing his leadership skill.More

By Luscious Kaynkwo

#FeminismIsAScam
I read about a post online about a 55 year old Canadian woman who was narrating how she got entangled with feminism activities for the past five and half decades, how she has been lonely and couldn’t get a life partner, over 50 years of bitterness from hypocritical movement and wasted prime spent on mundane ideology about being equal with men, it was at that age that it struck her that she had just been deceiving herself.


At least she was bold enough to swallow her shame and pride to admit that feminism is a scam, a trait that no African woman possess, the ability to publicly surrender. They will rather surrender in private in other to protect other feminist’s ego hoping that they are doing them a favor.


Dear Men, if you marry a feminist, you are investing everything in a rapidly self-destructive marriage. If your woman always champions in women’s right or if you find your lady in the middle of any feminism activities, DUMP HER ASS with quickness without regrets because you will be saving your life for the nearest future.


No man wants to marry a woman who cannot take orders from him, YES! I MEAN ORDERS. The man is the commander-in-chief in his own house who went to another man’s house and married his daughter, and if the woman cannot submit to his government, she not worthy of him, do the needful quickly and don’t feel any remorse about it, mind you I don’t encourage beating a woman.


Do what you can to avoid ladies raised by single mothers, or who has never forgiven her father for offending her or abusing her mother in the past, this type of women have a misguided ideas about men which was as a result of their mother’s constant poisoning of their heart from childhood about their fathers, even when the father might have been fighting in the past to be part of their daughter’s life. These women were not brought up in love but rather in hatred, they don’t have the capacity to love, so avoid them. But if you must marry them, they must have to go through a shrink/psychiatrist, if you think these women are well, just think again...More

I want to thank you for the amazing work you have been doing with your blog since 2016, so many families and relationships including mine have survived today because of the humanitarian genius work you have been doing with your blog just to fix people’s lives.


I finished my youth service program in 2012 December and since then I have been looking for a serious job, while waiting for the main job I have been doing some peanut paying jobs trying to survive and pay my bills but 35k – 40k jobs in Abuja cannot even pay house rent not to talk of feeding and transporting you to work daily.


The last place where I worked paid me 40k monthly, it was a hectic marketing job, but my boss promised me a salary raise after a 3 month probation but I worked over a year with no raise or bonus that comes with closing a deal. To cut the story short, I started making side money from the job which got my boss jealous and asked me to resign, since then it has been from hand to mouth and nothing serious.


Years went by and I was still trying to fix myself up. Still on the process of fixing myself up my, my fiancé married to a guy she met barely a month, my second fiancé too married a guy she has been dating secretly for 10 months. Anything I touched never grew, all that has been going through my head are ways of killing myself with subtlety without making it look like suicide.


I have planned suicide in my head for years, I envisioned taking slow killing agent but I fear it might be a painful way to go, I envisioned accident but it gave me thrills, I envisioned a heart failure inducing pills, but didn’t know how to get such drugs. Then I thought of drowning myself but I wanted my body to be found and be given a proper burial, then sometimes I told myself that a dead body does not worry about what happens after death. Continue

carprogecu:
Do you know which is better, MB STAR C4 and MB STAR C5

C4 multiplexer is better and more reliable, though C5 is also good. But i would prefer C4 for its better sensor.