adecz: ▶️⏩Small time now, America or European countries that value talents will first give these girls scholarship & then give them citizenship so that they will be representing them in sports.
❌If they remain here, Buhari & his Fulani bloodsuckers will do all possible to frustrate & dim their stars.
OLULAW: Justifying fraud? You’re certainly one of them. Hope you’re caught sooner rather than later. I still maintain that I hope he’s daily raped behind bars so he knows what injustice truly means.
I'm not justifying anything. U r the one not knowing what u r saying. U think they have it all and just wanted more. When in fact it could be all about having rent money!
Slurity: Suddenly, Obi cabana now everywhere on news And social media after his mum burial
That guy will be president of this country one day
#ObiCubana for president
He understands the country from ground up, he is fully homegrown not with one foot abroad, plus he is a fresh face not another recycled looting poitician, and he studied political science!
** Obi Cubana, if you run, run for president NOT governor. Remember Trump would have been laughed out of state if he had run for governor, yet he won the presudency! You have a chance. The youth will stand behind you!
xandy84: You guys just trows figure around. 120k - 165k for non expert as a cyber security expert.. You must be joking... Guess you think all area for yankee na like Silicon Valley..... Think twice..
No mind dem. They don't know if US were that easy no one would go into crime
KosiGee: Which juju does igboho carry? It’s all fake or some placebos from some smart witch doctor targeting gullible ignoramuses out there.
DSS displayed Igboho’s collections and they included a properly made bullet proof vest which normally wear and then he will hang another vest filled with an assortment of shells.
Juju is nonsense belief. It doesn’t protect you from gun fire neither does it bring you women or vice versa.
Juju works sometimes, but not the way u think. Below is approximately how it "works".
Kazim88: Money, Financial stability are not those numbers on bank app, Its a function of your mental capacity to use it to improve your life.
No matter how much you have or don't have when you enter into marriage, if you are not developing on the inside, especially mentally, when the pressure start rolling your money will accelerate your crash...
Marriage is dangerous pressure point... Tho you buy her to everything yet she and her mother will work overtime to pull you (tie) down. You can't buy, that is even worse.
But the day you grow mentally, your finance, peace and overall happiness grows also.
You missed the point of the thread - that one should have some FINANCIAL stability b4 heading into marriage. Marriage is a vast topic, which is why there are thousands of threads on it - dealing with things like maturity, emotional and mental development, etc. But this particular thread is dealing with the FINANCIAL.
udoji2021: Your words are strong but you are actually saying the truth. Dating a lady is very different from marriage. Anyone that is arguing about this plain fact is either ignorant or choose to mislead people purposely.
rex21: What then is the essence of dating, what do you stand to gain
I'm ashamed of myself to have engaged you. Seems you are more interested in winning the discussion hence the flagrant disdain to common sense you just put up. To cover, appear convincing then finally win the discussion. I wonder what loosing or wining is looking for in all this. Na secondary school debate ??
I shame for myself big time. Do savour the words i could spare you bro, this will most certainly end this whole lugubrious charade of a discuss. Do have a nice day
Mr. Lugubrious you obviously live in la la land and your discussions prove it. FYI people do lose or win arguments in the real world, just like u lost this one. You should indeed be ashamed of yourself for making infantile arguments. "What is the essence of dating"??!! So the only essence of dating is marriage?? That does it. I'm done. You must be pretending. No one can be that dense.
rex21: Na wa o, what is this one even saying sef. So there are no 'non-liabilities' that can be married ??
You are the one admitting flaws now o.
I said if you can date her, you can marry her. Why will anybody be dating a liability or a stupid person ?? So that you can be collecting steady shagging bah ??
Now if you agree that one shouldn't marry a liability like i'v been implying, then what is the base of your argument. Na wa o, this discussion is rather pathetic.
Stop acting dumb. You lost the argument. U can date a liability (for "steady shagging" or for whatever reason), just don't MARRY her. So your "if I can date her, you can marry her" is nonsense. You can date a barren woman, for example, even if you want children. Just don't carry it to marriage. Now stop arguing nonsense.
Kazim88: I won't quote again. For the record, I know at least two close associates, one was a relative that very well got married, the a grand wedding, their wives started isolating them and not up to two years and they crashed financially... These were entrepreneurs o.
How an employee that is doing well then got married, became pressured, queried then sack.
Sadly, be financially ok attract fake girls.
Also, not only marriage. Nigeria Universities also can make you discover your true gifting because the hunger Nigeria university students face is terrible.
It's simply a principle of leaving your Comfort zone. The moment you leave your comfort zone and enter a high pressure zone, you would come face to face with yourself and your fears.
Before a man get married, I would advise him not to just chase money, he should chase personal development especially mental growth.
Life is much sweeter when u can comfortably meet your financial obligations and still have money left over. It becomes something else when you are always scrambling to pay your bills
KingAttitude: P.S: The agreement with the Taliban on the US pullout was struck under the administration of former President Donald Trump! • So, leave my dear Uncle Joe Biden outta this y'all. • RENO OMOKRI'S remark about this news is very fair✓
Stop talking nonsense. Trump had conditions, Biden none. Besides Biden dumped every other agreement by Trump why only this? Man is simply too old and senile to be president of anything
rex21: Brother mi, put eye for ground before you date, dont goan pick up a liability as a wife or handicaps as in-laws. Even with a 7 figure income, hbp go still finish you. My small advice for you
You just admitted the fallacy in your statement. You can date anyone, just don't MARRY a liability (unless u can financially shoulder the two of you). Get it now?? Case closed. QED.
rex21: You are just making blind assertions simply to justify your flawed conviction. ts alright, besides, ts your prerogative.
If you can date, you can marry. Its a simple fact
FALSE!!! Dating does not involve in-laws and their obligations, neither does it involve setting up a homestead. Once you call it marriage expectations and obligations skyrocket. Don't be a fool and get into it thinking you'd simply avoid those obligations and expectations!
rex21: So, some men remain unmarried in the old days where love is not even a criteria due to lack of women to marry ?? Your assertions are mischievous and equally lugubrious
So if one gets married without your listed points, he becomes a societal misfit ?? Na wa for this kinda reasoning o.
I shouldn't bother engaging you in a discussion, its pointless. Live your life at your own pace bro. No need beating this horse further, e don die already.
Bros, bottom line, make sure u r somewhat financially stable b4 getting married. Simple common sense and you are arguing it! You'd rather marry without following any societal protocol of a proper marriage, and be taking contraceptives, and be avoiding in-laws, etc. Nothing people no go argue!
rex21: Just look at your reasoning. Your first paragraph states categorically that most men remain unmarried because women to marry is finished. Does it make sense ??
Oga its not about living on an island. One cannot please society in everything, one cannot even please himself completely, let alone society. Stop thinking myopic oga. You can do burial anywhere in the world on a low budget. FYI i'm an igbo person and have witnessed several 'small' burials. Person wey never see go just dey yarn. It depends largely on your root family. While some will insist, some will consider. There is no law written on stone with regards to ceremonies. Sometimes, i wonder how people just reason. Are you marrying your wife because of societal expectations ??. That is just plain stupid. The only thing society demands of you is to be civil in your marriage, no quarrels or disturbing the peace. I'v seen nigerian couples that have decided not to even give birth. Some have decided to live in the village, some have decided to live off-grid. Who the F lives to please society
Guy change your perspective so that you can be happy. Live, dont just exist.
How can u be telling a blatant lie?! I said SOME men not most. It is simple maths. Just as what would happen if one woman started marrying multiple men.
Bros, the point is YOU DON'T HAVE TO GET MARRIED! It is not like when someone dies or other unavoidable situations. You can't even say u r doing it to have kids because u said you'd avoid having kids. So u r getting married just to be a societal misfit??!!