Family › Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Freeko4: 11:03pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
ozalogbo: I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.
However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.
Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.
Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.
What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now? You're not the man of your house, you never wanted your mother to stay with you in the first place that's the reason you had to succumb to your wife. Your mother will be ashame of you whereever she is. Now same reality that played out before has repeated again and you can't still decide. Man you're us*l*ss. |
Culture › Re: Some Interesting Nigerian Proverbs With Pictures by Freeko4: 7:46am On Mar 05, 2023 |
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Career › Re: Do 60 Sit-ups In 2 Minutes - SA Special Police Force Requirement (PICS) by Freeko4: 2:14pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Please My Nairalanders, What Is Okafor's Law? by Freeko4: 12:23pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Okafor's Law of Congodynamics states that once a Congo has been shined before (C1), it can always be Re-shined (C∞ ) provided it was shined properly the previous times it was shined (P). (C1 P = C∞)...
Okafor law So to all of you dating or planning to marry single and divorced mothers, just know that at sunset, the fowl will always go back home to roost.
but honestly women are created specially to cause emotional crisis in men,I just wonder how God will create such a masterpiece and turn around to install traps and pitfalls in it,I definitely will not blame any man that has emotional issues because of women,that's the way it's meant to be,if you take a good look at a perfectly shaped puffy tits you will agree with me that the creator has more ideas in mind other than for it to be used only for breastfeeding,then what about the ultra soft buttocks,the smooth skins,slender fingers toes,soft voices and the calm facade that hids an ocean of secrets, cunning, emotional traps and manipulative agenda that makes me believe that God created women to be a joy to the smart guys that can find the mumu button and apply mercilessly okafors first law and an emotional hell for those that can't find it. |
Career › Re: What Is Your Experience As A 3rd Class Graduate by Freeko4: 11:18pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Atiku Will Reopen Nigeria’s Borders — Tambuwal by Freeko4: 12:58pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
See the rubb*sh weh person take dey campaign for his oga |
Phones › Re: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by Freeko4: 9:01pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
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Sports › Re: Seven Countries Who No Longer Exist But Played At The World Cup - Including The by Freeko4: 9:53pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
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Education › Re: Survival Tactics You Must Know by Freeko4: 6:48pm On Oct 31, 2022 |
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Agriculture › Re: The 4 Broiler Breeds And The Ones That Grow Taller And Fatter In Shorter by Freeko4: 6:39pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
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Autos › Re: Chinese 'flying Car' Makes First Public Flight In Dubai (pictures) by Freeko4: 8:40am On Oct 12, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Labour Party Office In Ajegunle Destroyed By Thugs - Morris Monye. by Freeko4: 11:22pm On Oct 07, 2022 |
naptu2: Morris Monye is a member of the Peter Obi campaign team.
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Fake news, this never happened in ajegunle Labour party has no official office in AJIF Government should start arrested imposters of spreading fake news.. This happened somewhere in lagos but not ajegunle, if your news is true post the address of the location it happened |
Politics › Re: Labour Party Office In Ajegunle Destroyed By Thugs - Morris Monye. by Freeko4: 11:22pm On Oct 07, 2022 |
naptu2: Morris Monye is a member of the Peter Obi campaign team.
Mo-Mo� @Morris_Monye
Fake news.. This never happened in ajegunle
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Politics › Re: Wike Bars Usage Of Public Schools For Political Rallies Without Approval by Freeko4: 3:31pm On Oct 07, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Police Escorted Man To A POS, Withdrew ₦100k In Lagos. How He Got His Money Back by Freeko4: 8:20am On Oct 07, 2022 |
NPF I hail oh, if the people that are supposed to protect us at the one now robbing from us are we still safe in this country |
Phones › Re: Help I Bought S21 by Freeko4: 4:38pm On Oct 05, 2022 |
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Forum Games › Re: Spot The Pussy Cat (Photo) by Freeko4: 3:50pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Satanic Temple Sues U.S Govt, Says Abortion Ban Violates Religious Rights (Pix) by Freeko4: 3:22pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
American are hypocrites, they should allow abortion same way they allowed same sex marriage. You cant create law to ban one abominable human activity because it's against your interests and allow another human abominable activity because you are totally involved in it.
All abominable activities such as abortion and gay marriage should be ban, abortion should be allowed only when the mother is @risk of death if she keeps the pregnancy |
Business › Apple Removes Metatrader MT4 & MT5 From App Store by Freeko4(op): 10:31am On Sep 26, 2022 |
Apple removes MetaTrader MT4 & MT5 from App Store
MT4 & MT5 apps are no longer on the App Store globally.
The removal of popular trading apps are reportedly linked to the US sanctions on Russia's invasion of Ukraine.
App versions of the popular PC electronic trading platforms are provided by MetaQuotes Software Corp., a Russian software company that also has registration offshore in Limassol, Cyprus.
*NOTE* if you still have the app running in your iPhone please don't update or uninstall, if you undate you won't be able to access your account again and if you uninstall you can't download from app store because the app is no longer in app store.
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Investment › Re: Apple Removes Metatrader MT4 & MT5 From App Store by Freeko4(op): 10:28am On Sep 26, 2022 |
Kobicove: Is the MetaTrader app owned by a Russian company? App versions of the popular PC electronic trading platforms are provided by MetaQuotes Software Corp, a Russian software company that also has registration offshore in Limassol, Cyprus. |
Investment › Apple Removes Metatrader MT4 & MT5 From App Store by Freeko4(op): 9:33am On Sep 26, 2022*. Modified: 12:26pm On Sep 26, 2022 |
Apple removes MetaTrader MT4 & MT5 from App Store
MT4 & MT5 apps are no longer on the App Store globally.
The removal of popular trading apps are reportedly linked to USA sanctions on Russia's invasion of Ukraine.
App versions of the popular PC electronic trading platforms are provided by MetaQuotes Software Corp, a Russian software company that also has registration offshore in Limassol, Cyprus.
*NOTE* if you still have the app running in your iPhone please don't update or uninstall, if you undate you won't be able to access your account again and if you uninstall you can't download from app store because the app is no longer in app store.
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Phones › Re: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by Freeko4: 8:39am On Sep 24, 2022 |
meshachdbuzz: Which network are you using cuz sprint g8x still on Android 10 I don't have strength to cross flash it.. T-Mobile varaint |
Phones › Re: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by Freeko4: 4:55pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
ruffbam: It's best to always factory reset phones after software updates. It will fix some issues/bugs that might cause the device to malfunction. Yeah, I know but I choose not to reset since the phone is working fine why reset |
Phones › Re: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by Freeko4: 1:33pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Freeko4: I got A12 ota update for lg g8x today but I didn't update because the update from lg contains alot of bugs and my advice to anyone using lg g8x is, they should not update to A12 for now |
Phones › Re: Can A Phone Explosion Cause A Damage This Much? [Graphic Photo] by Freeko4: 6:46pm On Sep 11, 2022 |
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Phones › Re: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by Freeko4: 4:29pm On Sep 07, 2022*. Modified: 1:43pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
I got A12 ota update for lg g8x today but I didn't update because the update from lg contains alot of bugs and my advice to anyone using lg g8x is, they should not update to A12 for now
Modified I later decided to update my lg g8x to A12 3days ago, I will say so far it has been working perfectly without bugs or lag and I didn't reset the phone.
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Phones › Re: Facebook (Lite Version) Is Down by Freeko4: 1:14pm On Aug 31, 2022*. Modified: 1:30pm On Aug 31, 2022 |
Solution
You all are using the updated version 318.0.0.16.105 and I guess the issue is with the version, to fix this; uninstall lite 318.0.0.16.105 and download the outdated version 303.0.0.7.106
How to download
Search on Google, facebook lite version 303.0.0.7.106 apk download
Once you download it, kindly install and login. Thats how I fix the problem for some of my colleagues
For those people that their Facebook lite is still working it is because your version is not the latest version of the lite app
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Phones › Re: Bored! Share Your Homescreen. by Freeko4: 3:54pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
Ahdunns: Is there a step by step tutorial to learn how to do it? Yeah |
Car Talk › Re: Most Common Reasons For Engine Oil Leakage In Cars by Freeko4: 7:35am On Aug 17, 2022 |
marryjamess: It doesn't matter if there are just a few drops or a substantial puddle; this raises some sort of concern in the mind. You can afford to ignore the oil leak, but you should never try to put it off completely while keeping in mind the repercussions.
However, finding an oil leak for a professional is not difficult as it can be done with just a quick inspection. However, once there is an oil spot, it is up to you how you respond.
Your car uses gaskets to close up a number of points, including the timing belt cover, camshaft, and the oil pan, etc. However, they frequently serve as the primary cause of leaks of any kind.
In the meantime, it is preferable to have a few ideas about what could be causes and where your car might be leaking oil.
Worn Oil Pan Gasket
The oil pan is a common spot for oil leakage. The oil pan is located somewhere near the bottom under the hood. Therefore, there is a huge probability for damage from a hit when travelling over an uneven bump.
However, if used for a prolonged period of time, oil pan gaskets are vulnerable to wear and tear. A worn oil pan gasket will not be able to seal the oil pan with the engine block.
Oil pan gaskets can be changed, but you must be sure of the exact amount of engine oil because leakage could cause it to reduce. Simply schedule a car oil change at Service My Car if it is below the recommended level.
Cam Shaft and Crankshaft Seals
As an engine’s internal component, the crankshaft is fixed at the bottom while sticking out a bit from two sides of an engine.
However, it is protected by the seals at both ends to prevent the engine oil from leaking. But, if these seals start to worn out, there are a whole lot of chances of leakage.
Similarly, the camshaft too has seals at both ends, and they might get worn over time, resulting in leakage.
However, it cannot be identified until you make an inspection under the hood. A leak needs to be taken care of on-time.
Cover Gasket or Seal
In an engine, a timing belt works with the crankshaft and camshaft. Modern automobiles use a timing chain rather than a timing belt, though both are concealed by a cover.
A timing chain is lubricated by the engine oil, so there are seals to protect any kind of leakage. But, there is always a probability of leakage. This leakage does not appear too hazardous until it results in a lack of lubrication and, consequently, some sort of internal damage.
A common risk due to timing cover seal leakage is damage to the timing chain and even the camshaft and crankshaft. Therefore, you have to check for the seal and replace it as well as look for the timing chain and go for car timing chain replacement if needed.
Leaking Cylinder Head Gasket
A head gasket protects the engine from the infiltration of coolant. However, if it gets worn, there are a lot of chances of coolant infiltration, but in some types of engines (especially boxer engines); the head gasket may cause external leakage of engine oil.
Therefore, a worn head gasket is not a matter of ignorance as it might affect engine operations and force you to go for expensive car engine repair.
Loose Oil Filter and Drain Plug
Every time you arrange a car service for your vehicle, the oil filter is always changed and the oil drain plug is exchanged. However, there are enough chances of human error that your car’s air filter might get loose and the oil drain plug is not installed properly.
In such a scenario, you may often spot some oil dripping under your car.
Loose-Filler Cap
Engine oil is reserved inside an oil tank and it is safeguarded with a filler cap. However, a loose cap might be the reason for the leakage.
However, it is simple to spot because there might be a sizable oil puddle under your car because oil may leak out of the tank's mouth in large quantities.
Excess Engine Oil
It is expected that a damaged seal or a loose filler cap will cause an engine oil leak. If there is too much engine oil under the hood, it could also leak.
You can recognize this if there is a puddle of oil under your car but there is no check engine light on the dashboard.
The overflow is caused by too much oil. The extra oil can easily be identified from the vehicle using a dipstick, so this is not a serious problem. When filling the oil tank, there may occasionally be some extra oil that spills out of the tank. However, this might only produce a puddle of oil once or twice.
Your vehicle consists of a number of fluids, such as transmission fluid, brake fluid, and coolant, etc. They all hold a risk of leakage. However, engine oil is more prone to leakage. The leakage from the engine often appears to be light brown or black in colour under your vehicle.
However, a leakage happens due to the worn and damaged parts, while you can easily avoid such events by opting for scheduled car maintenance at a reliable service centre such as Service My Car. Here, you also get all your needs fulfilled with your car service without any hassle. Just book a service online or request a quote at our website. You can also call our service representative.
If you need any type of Car service or repair, Service My Car provides you free pickup and delivery plus full car servicing at the nearest Car service center. Very informative |