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ghettokid1:
Pls Nairalanders Help!.
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I fvcked my fucking girlfriend about three months ago, even though i used a fucking condom, now she is telling me she is fucking pregnant and i dont think i'm the fucking father of the fucking unborn baby.
So i need ur fucking advice guys.

mabeni:
thanks. Ire akari o

mabeni:
How do I meet the parents of my fiancee that their daughter is pregnant for me? We are both in our early 30's and have planned to get married probably in 2yrs times for financial reasons but she's over 2 months pregnant now and we are keeping the baby.
My major concern here is not keeping the baby and my fiancee (I can convinently take care of them ) but how do I face her parents that I don't have money for marriage or bride price now.

Note: She's from akwa ibom

NAMYID:
I wish to request your humble opinion on this issue. The people involved are also on this platform and might see your views. It is a true life story.

My friend met this lovely, beautiful, nice, gentle and hard working lady. She works with investigation department of Nigeria Police. Before she accepted my friend's proposal, she told him she hates cheating and can't stand it. My friend promised not cheat on her for anything in the world. He also told her all about his past relationship and she accepted.

The relationship as lasted for close to 2years now with both parties been seriously committed and everything going fantastic.


Lately, my friend noticed that each time they have little misunderstanding or disagreement she tends to be physically. They recently had an arguement and he decided to walk out of the house to clear his head but the lady insisted no movement. Total lockdown!! Until they settle the matter. He was scared and had to accept her opinion before he could gain his freedom.

Now, he has distanced himself from her and as invited his ex for isolation period. Behold our detective has been monitoring his calls and social media accounts. She's aware that the guy is with someone else and has been issuing threats.

The guy is scared of going on with the relationship because he is forseeing himself beating her up someday. The lady as a small stature that he should be able to handle but he doesn't want to go physically with any woman.

He wants to end the relationship but the lady is saying no, we must marry I have been this committed to you, you can't leave me and go back to your ex. NEVER!!

The Lady has spent much on my friend since the relationship started. My friend fears the Lady could in future be having affairs with her boss to get promotion at work.


What should my friend do?

Starboytwo:
I have been a Marlian, even before Marley came about...

Starboytwo:
No smoker alive can be compelled to stop or be forced...

Few persons I asked that stopped smoking did it on their own... No force or anything... He just decided he'd had enough...

You can't force me to stop Arizona, or Loud... Oh my gawd... I need that shit this morning

Rosezee:
You're very sassy (and rude)! FYI i'm approachable and very friendly. That doesn't mean that i'm not classy or lack charisma. In fact, a lot of guys gave me compliments because of this. Some are the so-called 'big boys.' On the other hand, what you said shows that you lack proper manners to insault someone you do not know. Charity begins at home.

Badboibipo:
So I thought being a 30 year old man would give you a few life perks like allowing desperate women who find you attractive leave you alone but I guess women will always be desperate no matter how old you may be as a man. Why tf am I still dealing with women making it their life mission to stare till you notice them just so they can quickly look away like it's in your head? Wait dont these people realize I'm too old for all those weird shit now? No matter how much I avoid eye contacts I cant stoo these girls from intentionally creating weird stares that i cannot avoid because it's coming from dozens of females daily. Wait am I supposed to be happy about those or feeling like a fly boy when I'm fucking 30 years old? I cannot control my fucking appearance ,its not my fault you girls always want to stare but I'm too old now ffs.....I have too many real life problems to deal with.

fed9:
Hello everyone,

i am in a confused state of how and what to do, I am in a relationship with this girl that i love ( i naturally do not cheat and i love to the fullest) but the relationship hasn't been a loving one as i tend to do all the calling, missing, loving and messaging the worst part is that she sometime feel i disturb her with calls and she do not respect me that much. ( have lay with her , that isn't a big deal ).

called he making times for us to work on this relationship and make it more successful and loving but she hasn't been taking it serious and always laugh at every words i say.

i called her yesterday to have a proper direction of the relationship and focus in improving it but she laugh at it. every effort i put to make sure we have a successful relationship always prove not working as she isn't willing to and feel i do not worth her... . ( she was unable to answer if she see me like someone she could be with for more than 1 yea. I just need the best she says )


I am a freelancer and a successful one, i have money so that isn't an issue, though i do not let her know and only few people knows i am well doing as a single guy....


i know this relationship isn't going no ware due to her unwillingness , no call, no missing, no showing of love , just feel guys have to do everything and show all love .


right now i feel like not discussing any future with her, just fvck her anytime she come around, give her 2K to 3K , show less concern about her, show less love, no bothering again , just sxx anytime she come around and that is final.


is this worth it or should i move on ?


i find it uninteresting in wooing a lady, as in they don't really come to my mind ,,,,


i need your advice and please ignore the typos and grammatical errors

richidinho:
She is after

1. Money

2. plenty money

3. More Money

4. A lot of money

5. Spending money on her lavishly

frankkydee:
I just wish to meet a reasonable lady on here

frankkydee:
The beautiful ones are not yet born indeed

Midgut:
Hit and run? Not everybody thinks in that direction.

ziinee:
. I prefer to date the cigarrete rather than the smoker. Lol!

ziinee:
Hi house,
I am Biola. I need a christian wife. If you are a cool headed real christian lady who has always been waiting to meet a faithful man, send me a message and let's see if there is anything more. I believe there lots of solutions in this that we just don't have a means of meeting them. As you long to find someone, someone somewhere is also eager to know you. I can't talk more about myself here. You get to find out for yourself. God can use any means, even Romans nairaland. eminimomo@yahoo.com

crackclap:
I met this guy we dated for 4 year's and we got married, I had my first child I discovered my husband has extramarital affairs as I cut him with different women in his father's house, where he has a room there.

l try asking him he will say I'm not doing my responsibility at home, furthermore, he has been taking those girls to go and do abortion due to his lustful desire and uncontrollable quest.

The funny part is he tells me as long as u are not hungry I should not worry my self. The problem I do have with him is all about women, not 123 different girls, so I'm confused even when we are dating I never noticed it. I need advice pls.

frankkydee:
Lol at male character. The males posing as bae are just badass niggas who need to get a life

Mairice125:
Spare my grammatical blunders,dont even how to start ,but I ques I will have to start somewhere . destructive and constructive criticisms allowed Dating back to 2015 ,my life took a great twist ,fell into depression but never realise I was swimming in depression pool ,not until now .The lockdown is kinda bringing me back ,been alone in my thoughts I came to realisation that my life is not upright ,this is not how I want my life to be .The reason I came on here about my girlfriend,I am this kinda of guy ,that hardly trust ,most especially women ,I have alot of them acting that they are my girlfriend but within me am not into them,I couldnt pick out a girl out of the lots to be my girlfriend ,just maybe depression mode I was resulted to it partially or completely.2016 I kinda find solace in a girl ,gave here 70% of my trust ,one thing I have never done ,she is hardworking ,schooling presently ,and we have been dating like 3yrsplus now .But one thing i came to realise that she is hiding so many things from me ,yes I give her money ,and also we had countless number is sex .But my problem here is I do not feel her as a girlfriend ,and also she doesn't see me has boyfriend, it's dawning on me that we are in a "friends with benefits shit" that I do no like.She barely get to call me sweet names which beffit a boyfriend, sometimes I get so down when I drown in the depression mode ,I do not feel that companionship from her .she calls me "dear" when I give her money ,if I do not give her money no "dear .I feel she hiding so many things from me ,which I am trying to understand but cant.When we go out ,I try to hold her hands she doesn't allow me to , normally I am suppose to be the one avoiding holding her hands ,because of the manner and where I meant her .(she was a receptionist in a hotel I use to lodge and girls come to see me ) Na she act like a boss to me ,this get me wondering.Please I do not know if you be able to comprehend all what I said ,but your contribution and your questions will be welcomed.Ubunja and co please help out !!!.thanks