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Phenomenal16:
..gud for u

ZooOga:
abeg, which one, babe #1 or #2?

Ariza:
And you feel comfortable typing this?

frankkydee:
I know there are a lot of good guys and ladies on here but am yet to meet a lady from here though.

Erediauwa:
Anybody that can get me out of this country is who I would love to meet.

Millenniumlady:
She should deal with her boyfriend amicably

OdefaGirl:
Small children and their useless posts

Phenomenal16:
Congratulations!!!!!
All this guys isolating with their gfs ......
This lockdown period,,,,, m expecting good news next yr.....

Masonkaycares:
you downloaded that pic from Pinterest. Secondly that's Josselyn Dumas pic on your profile. Stupid attention seeker

Jeweltz:
Good afternoon my fellow women,

This is going to be a long Post

Kindly be reminded that I don't need insultive commentaries as I'm already hurt by the narratives I'm about to share . I only need an advise. Google search lead me to this website few hours ago.

I have been into many relationship in the past with guys that their behaviour and way of life are nothing to write home about. The last straw that had the camel's back was the one that made me gave up on men to focus solely on my career. I was disvirgined at the age of 22 by a guy who I gave 100% love to.

It happened;

Sometimes around last year, a friend of mine was having her birthday. She was a colleague from work. I work in an audit firm in Lagos, VI( identity witheld). I didn't plan to spend the night there, but as it happened to be on a Saturday, I didn't have any objection when she asked me to spend the night in her place.

About 7pm in the evening, we decided to go out and chill which will be funded by her boyfriend. It was there I met this guy, which was a friend of the said boyfriend. Talks run into talks, he seemed like a perfect match for me and I was already getting used to him. I liked him.

Few days after,he asked me out which I found nice and cool.

Later, I got to know he has no job and has been into some side hustling all the while. I had no problem with this.

Months later , he started requesting money from me which he claimed went into settling some debts. There was a time I collected salary, said he needed 130k, it was so hard but I had to give him. All that I wanted is his happiness as he claimed he needed money for some hustles.

To cut the story short;

He told me his Love for Virgin girl and how he can Never marry a girl that's not a virgin. I asked him what if I'm not a virgin, he responded in the negative and I started getting nervous about us. I knew I'm not a virgin but ..........

He has been pestering me for sex, which I understand it's not a big deal. But the conversation we had about virginity has been making me scared of losing him. What if he dump after sex Just because I'm not a virgin. My mistake was that I had lied that I am Virgin. Didn't know why I had to .

I have resist all his attempts to have sex with me. Few days ago, I saw his chat with a girl which he's been going out. He had sex with her. I confronted him and he denied. This has make him to be ignoring me. He's not picking my calls, barely reply my text and if he ever, it's only one word and boring. But anytime he needs money from me, he call me.

Last week, he told me he needed money but I refused him. He started cursing me on the phone and vow to call it quit with me. he's still yet to respond to all my pleas.

Ladies in the house, what have I done wrong??

ZINIBANKS:
You are not a good person for recommending that type of location for him
What happened to our sexy borehole pussy girls here

Abalado:
Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

marsaintz:
please friends I need a serious partner for marriage. I love her very slim and skinny with small breast too.
link me up with anyone you know that's ready for marriage. am a virgin and would like her a virgin too. thanks

evil1:
The man say ee want virgin oooo... U qualify so

sheyitokz:
Good pm my fellow nairalanders at home reading this I need a reasonable advice
I met this very girl Oluwadayo about a year ago through social media "FACEBOOK" I talked to her their and finished the total work on Facebook so we fixed a date we 'll meet nd chat more on social life.My mind was filled with excitement that am seeing a new girlfriend again in my life after been jilted by an idiot in sch that got pregnant for another guy in bus admin dept on campus,the day am to see this new girl came thinking I was gonna see a very big girl like that that's gonna have those stuffs we boys love seeing I found this girl oranges too small and the backside gan lasan too flat like plywood but I did not look at that cos have promised to love her no matter the circumstance and we both agreed to date but what I needed was to f**k her hard but I discovered this girl was still a virgin and she was too afraid of this bazooka of boys so I maintained myself for months while I was in school the only thing have been doing with this girlgirl is to call and receive her calls from morning till night but with the call and calling I don't see that as part of what I want from her cos she isn't romantic at all and I do complain to her every time she 'll turn it upside down for me but I still endured cos ets still looking like love,all through the years have been dating this girl have only set my eye balls on her once but I now decided to go and stay with my friends living around this girl area cos of holiday we had in sch due to coronavirus wahala to my greatest surprise 've spent 2weeks in that area this girl no even think of coming to visit me for once at all I called her numbers repaetedly daily all she keep saying is that tomorrow tomorrow!! I 'll come abi shey tomorrow no dey finish for her she nii I complained to her so she later agreed to visit me this friday buy before today I called her last night and asked to aova abt today this girl shocked me with her response "I can't come again but Saturday I'll make it to your place" I was so annoyed and started giving her heartbreaking texts on whatsapp I even included her never to call me again if she know she's not gonna make it to me today.cos 've done a lot for this girl even paid her jamb tuition&tutorial fee just because of this love matter even some petty expenses and many more like that even planned to open an account for her and start funding it just to please her but everything stopped last night cos 've given her heartbreaking messages.After she read all the messages I sent she started giving more excuses and sorry but to me all of it has ended.
ALL I NEED IS ADVISE PLS NO INSULTS &PLZ HELP MOVE TO FRONT PAGE

Hintona:
19

Mogajunior:
My only regret would be that I have not made that money you see on my profile.

nuelsam:
lol hell yeah,chronicles of a Mr nice guy..... after all this, u still asking questions ? like for real? y'all ain't ready to learn and judging from your write up, u still wanna walk her down the aisle.... nice guys and loser instinct.
one time for your friend, he's the real OG.... but as for you, I do not pity you.

HopeLoveLife:
It's over a year now and I can't t get him off my mind...


My sweetheart, my partner, the one who I thought was my soul mate...mehn we clicked like capsules

It's so difficult finding or loving another man, after spending almost 3 years with a man I prayed for to come into my life, it happened and now we no longer together.

Please, guys am I really the only one going through this? Have you ever imagined your partner to look in a way , still be responsible and love you like crazy? You Prayed and your prayer was answered and everyday of your life you feel you dreaming because you wake up to your dream man loving you like his life depends on it?

Who is going to tell me "Baby I love you so much and forever" 10times in a day?

Who is going to hide secret love letters in my stuff, some I found after so many months of being hidden by my man? I had over 100 of those love hidden letters... Last one read " Baby, I love you so much...you + me = Forever.... Oh my, I'm in tears!!! Found it in my glasses case*** Lord please help me!!!


Who is going to call me so often texts me often, video call me often, talk to me for hours?

Who is going to hug and kiss my forehead?

Who is going to love me this way without sex?

Who is going to be so responsible, respectful, friendly even with his great looks like him?

Who is going to risk anything just for me like him?

Who is going to tickle me and chase me round just to see me laugh?

Who is going Tobe so pissed at me for my wrongs, but lowers his voice while talking calmly to me? Dude never yells or get angry!

Who is going to act childish like him?

Who is going to always shout "baby I love you" from the sitting room to me in the kitchen while I'm cooking?

Who is going to hold me so tight while walking in public?


Who is going to tell me he misses me every single time I go out to the next street to get something without him?

List is endless.... I know I shouldn't be doing this to my self... I know... I don't even need any man to meet up because that'd be asking for too much! It just hurts that I'm no longer with the man that did all these for me... It hurts so much....


Our break up was healthy, because we were both perfect for each other but along the line we figured we got different goals, so we became best friends till date and he still takes care of me financially.


I envy his future wife already....


Thank you dear X, all my life I have never experienced the kind of love you showed me! So many times I used to get these feelings that you weren't a human being, because you were too good to be true! You are one special man, especially with how generous you are towards poor people by buying gifts for people in rural areas! How can one man have it all? Good looks and great personality? It's true, two people can love each other but not meant to be together. Well I'm glad you never stopped loving me, even till the night of our break up... You showed me so much love.


Right now, to be honest I don't have any feelings towards him anymore, but I miss him and I'm grateful.

Zayttoven:
This is hilarious.

Joyrise:
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Are you very sure he is gainfully employed? Some men are like that. They do not spend a dime on ladies but take from them instead. I have a friend like that and after he got married for about 11 yrs now, he has not given a kobo to the wife for meals, neither has he paid there daughter's school fees for once. You need to decide what you want. Would you be able to come by financing the house alone in future without getting tired?

I think he is just not a responsible man and most likely not changed. Pray God give you a better man that can support whatever you do no matter how little.

He is wrong for collecting that money back knowing fully well he will eat of the meal and has been eating in your house before.

He is Agro-d-quencher. Just passing time to get you hooked into marriage. BE WISE