khristals:
and then?

it don't stop them from getting divorced if they're not right for each other

joborskill:
I still don't trust these products going by the antecedents of easterners at producing most things with low standard materials. I won't be surprised if these cars pack up in maximum of 2years. Its better to stick to foreign cars that we've tested and trusted. There are other ways to grow the economy than put Nigerian lives at risk all because an Igbo man is desperate to make money. The senate needs to ban innoson for now

kallmemrB:
I pray you don't encounter the wrath of evil doers...

jayfolarin:
I'v wanted to write this article for over 2 months but its discouraging thinking about the number of points i need to raise to support my claims! NIGERIANS WANT THE BEST THINGS BUT NEVER WANT TO PAY FOR IT!! HOW ON EARTH DO YOU WANT YOUR COUNTRY TO DEVELOP?!

Quick question; Imagine government fixes Nigeria's issues of electricity and internet with other basic amenities today, Who here would be willing to pay an annual rent of N1million for a single room (Not one bedroom flat oo) in a city like Ado-Ekiti and N3million for the most average single room (shared toilet and bathroom with at least one other person e.g face me, I face you houses) in a city like Lagos?! Note: This is just basic rent and is therefore without utility bills such as Electricity, Heating, Water, Garbage, Internet etc that averages about another N900,000 yearly.

I couldn't stop shaking my head at the gullibility of some Nigerians as i read the various comments on the N50 bank charges thread. That is what? 2cents charge on banking transactions that does not even include savings account that most of the commenters use oo! Even South Africa reportedly demands that you pay an equivalent of N500 for deposits into your own account (Savings or Current)! Where I live, you are demanded to pay an equivalent N4,200 in charges for deposit into another's account if you aren't a customer of the bank!

Nigeria has the lowest VAT tax in the world and i'm sure y'all will take to the streets in protests if this is ever increased! I pay N1,500 in charges for every ATM interbank withdrawal of an equivalent of N10,000 and you all couldn't stop screaming at the N65 naira (after 3rd transaction) that was introduced by the CBN last year! Haba Nigerians!! You want to live 'comfortably' like Americans and Europeans but aren't ready to pay the price! Who does that sh*t! One of the major reasons why you don't enjoy goodies is because because you haven't had to pay enough taxes. It is partly a reason why the government doesn't feel very responsible to the people as well. Oil is not anyone's property anyways.


I really can't remember the last time i visited an hospital but i'm mandated to pay an equivalent of N23,000 monthly for health insurance! Would you be willing to pay such amount for the sake of development in the health care sector in Nigeria?! I don't think so but you would be the first to take pictures for nairaland about the pitiable state of one hospital in your city!

You want the best Infrastructures in the world but have never paid taxes from your businesses! Some people would rather close up shop than pay the most basic tax to the government! How on earth do you expect any development if you aren't ready to help government with funds? Nigeria is not the only country with oil, we don't even have as much as Russia but expect to get everything for free because there's oil in the land! What would y'all have done if you didn't have anything but rocks and granite? you would expect the government officials to use their personal incomes to develop the country first and then see if you like it or not before you decide to pay?! I no pity your destiny!

Nowhere in the world is mobile internet data cheap, Nigerians automatically feel they are being ripped off by mobile operators who use the same infrastructure that's being deployed everywhere else! For a 2gb mobile internet data allowance from T-mobile, I pay N5,000 monthly, This is not even close to what Nigerians get from the mobile operators but they scream to the heavens still. Agreed, cable/ADSL, wired internet is cheaper but you cant blame this on the telecom industries, Government should make provisions for that! But again, how many persons would not scream 'Rip off' if you all are asked to pay a mandatory internet fee ranging in thousands of Naira every month

From food to clothings, transportation, even prostitutes (Girls in brothels here charge at least 12k for a quickie, Don't ask me how i know ), Nigerians live on the cheap and want to keep up with the expensive! No! It doesn't work that way! You have to pay for developments that leads to a robust economy which in turn leads to higher standard of living (Job creation, Increment in Minimum wage, Good roads, health care facilities etc)..

zinachidi:
maybe u should mind ur business.

zinachidi:
endtime dEath

collinspro:
I am messed up right now and I need your advice. I work in a company where I report directly to a lady. My woe started when I went to her office one day to pick up a file. As I entered her office, my phone rang so I decided to take the call. The call was a bit long so she decided to get the file for me from one of the file cabinets. As she bent for the bottom drawer her skirt tore terribly exposing her panties. The phone almost dropped from my hand. I tried to hurry out of the office but she called me back to help her go across the street to stitch it. I was almost frozen. Ever since then she has been disturbing me to sleep with her.

She said she gave me the job because she love me. I just got married and don't want to cheat. Yesterday, she called me and and dropped the bombshell " if you don't sleep with me I will fire you". What do I do? I don't want to lose that job. I am considering reporting her to my general manager but I am afraid of the consequence.

martphreak:
We were not created to master our sexuality very early in life. We were created to master our emotions in submission to Holy Spirit.

Pornography is evil. Why are you learning sex styles as a youth? It is pollution & perversion. You eventually become an unclean thing before God as a result of lustful thoughts. It will push you into the sin of fornication before marriage & even hunt your marriage. The mind of God concerning sex in marriage becomes fulfilled when you & your spouse don't know anything about it. You must be ignorant of the details of your sexuality before marriage because sexual expression in marriage was meant to come naturally & not by learning. Couples who divorce because of sex knew many things about it before marriage. If you have known many things already, marriage is not an escape route for you because you will eventually fall into the sin of adultery if you marry someone who doesn't know much or rather anything. Your spouse will seem not to satisfy you. Instead, genuinely give your life to Jesus Christ, burn all bridges connecting you to sexual perversion today, discipline yourself & submit yourself to the power of Holy Spirit to restore your original factory settings.

Men & women of destiny guard their eyes diligently like Job who made a covenant with his eyes...

God bless us.

Les:
your post was beautiful and peaceful until you stated your false belief. Anyway, God's grace has already found me, thank you very very much!

Les:
!RUBBISH ! RUBBISH!! RUBBISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Girls live with as much guys as you want, fork as much dick as you want. Flex as much as u want. It's ur life and only yours. One man's stupidity is another man's fun!!

Engrpj:
she has been on my neck. for long thinking she will give up...but she won't....
what do I do pls??

blublahd:

Thats what most guys fail to realize.
She has actually imprinted on his psyche with that action of hers and made him to be what he is today from 12 years ago. If it weren't for her actions Mr OP you wouldn't have taken up such lifestyle, and proves your emotional resilience is weak.
Another thing is, you are no different from her now, because if you condem her you as well condeming your actions as well as yourself.
The ironic thing about life is that, she may have dropped that lifestyle and became a responsible lady today, you that is still chopping shes have just being led astray by her own silly act of yester years.

hawk05:
Jitsu joystick

refreshrate:


yet her husband 'borrowed money' from bank to pay for nomination form?

saaedlee:
Straight to the point, my HoD retired and a new one was transferred from a south-south state to take his position earlier this month. The problem is new boss is a young girl of about 30 years and during our first meeting, we stared @ each other for almost 5 minutes straight without saying "hi" nor "hello"! During the first week we would steal glances when the other wasn't watching.
My first field assignment under her command went smoothly that she put in a commendation for me and offered to buy me a drink to celebrate it, during the course of our drink she told me everything about her self and I fell in-love with her from that moment. Ever since, we cannot stay a day without seeing each other, apart from office hours, we have also coded it that no one in the office knows bout it; tho the service doesn't prohibit it!

Should I call it off or should I continue?

cc: Babyosisi, Falconey, eroticangelica etc

kalindaminda:


It doesn't take hours. Fireworks?

Aitee1:


You sha like to play, Oya enjoy the garri

Aitee1:


Thought you mum warned you not to eat in someone's house

snatches fish from his hand sends him away fast fast

Aitee1:


Will even give you a bowl of it, I wasn't trained to be stingy

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?