Leece: My 50 Yrs Old Boss Shows A Lot Of Cleavage When We Meet, What Could She Want?
So I got this job around 2019 and I noticed from the very day I went for my interview, there was this woman who happened to be very lenient with me and cautioned others when they asked me tough question. All she did saved me from disgracing myself in front of 5 panelist. After the interview I waited till they closed just so i could say thank you.
When she came out around 7 pm she was more elegant and had this carriage that suits her age. I approached her and she recognized me immediately she was happy to see me and I thanked her. As I was about to leave she offered me a ride and being a very good conversationist that I am, I began to talk and she became very free with me. She told me a lot about her husband and his drinking addiction and how he neglected her sexual needs. I tried comforting her with words and ended by saying she is 50 na her libido should be dead by now, she didn't take offence but replied and said I cant handle her if we ever get down.
Fast forward to when I resumed, I realized she was the CFO of the organisation, now fear don catch me. I couldn't even look her in the eye to start a conversation. I think she noticed and she called me to her office and was laughing at me and later told me she would like us to keep talking the way we did yesterday cause she doesn't have much friends.
There was this day she was dancing to an old Fuji song in the office, her office is sound proof moreover it was already past office hours, i went to say goodbye, she called me to come in and didn't let me leave. I thought to myself another free ride.
She jumped up at a point and had a nip slip, i mean both breast were literally out. I just closed my eyes, she fixed it and was smiling at me. Since that time till now she has been showing massive cleavage anytime i'm around her. She has started calling me my dear and other staff are calling me omo mummy and they dont know what I am facing
Young man please run for your dear life, destiny and marriage if you are married. If you should indulge your oga CFO subtle sexual advances it wouldn’t end well and you stand to loose all o.
There is this babe I have been crushing on since last year.
We finally got chatting around December, and I sincerely like her. I feel she likes me too.
I wanted to finally ask her out last month, but she travelled to Lagos to visit her parents. She was supposed to return a week after, but the corona lock down came up.
I really want to ask her out, so should I do it over the phone? Or wait for her return?
Young man don’t waste time to shoot your shot. Asked my wife out on Phone and today we are married. What’s the most important thing is the genuiness and sincerity of your heart.
Its called Capybara. Its a very gentle animal. You shouldn't have even killed it. You could have raised it as a pet. It can grow as large as a big pig but can never destroy stuff but eats grass.
Mstick: Because OP said she abandoned her kids because of an alhaji that means it must be true right?
The emotional blackmail you Nigerian men use is outdated.
1) my wife left me because of no money 2) my wife cheated, once you say this every body is ready to crucify the woman without even hearing her side of the story.
You claim to have proper understanding of the situation, how? Did you ask the woman her own side of the story?!
I am a woman and I don’t exist to please a man. Women of old that lived their lives for men end up with regrets.
No gender is superior to another. So many Nigerian women have been abandoned with several kids for years and nobody bats an eye lid. Instead she’s told to shut up and bear it,
Lady let me spell this out clearly, i for one as a man would never ever support anyone abandoning their child, neither would i support infidelity and let me tell you i have seen the damage irresponsibility and infidelity could cause in a marriage. So if i see one at all i would speak against and fight it till my last strength by God to find a solution. Therefore don't think that there isn't an outcry against it if its vice-versa. The only problem is that in our socio-cultural society, there has been an imbalance in the reprimanding of who is at fault in marital issues and also who has to be forebearing. If peradventure the guy has been abusive and she leaves its fine by me cos i would never support battery of any kind or ill treatment. Nevertheless nothing of this kind was mentioned.
Why would a woman abandon her own kids? Even if u don't want the man, can't u take your kids to your parents or even siblings and look after them?
And what's wrong if a man takes care of his kids? Are you saying that raising children should be the sole responsibility of a woman? Peradventure a wife dies, is the husband not supposed to cater for their kids?
Look, the problem that man has is not because his wife left him, but rather because he wasn't proactive enough to figure out what he would do if his wife left him.
There is no reason why a man cannot raise his kids by himself when a woman can do so singlehandedly for years, and without any form of support.
I don't feel sorry for the man, and in his next world, he should learn that being a man isn't all about impregnating a woman, but also about learning the act of parenting.
Its sad you speak without a proper understanding. Who says he did not understand parenting? If a man could handle everything by himself then why the existence of woman? You should know single parenting is never easy and if this guy is having financial and job crisis it should be understandable and for all didn't you even read that the woman left with an Alhaji when things went south for this guy? Where is the love she made a vow of concerning the guy when getting married to her? This shows that there are some women out there that are just in for the rosy period and not having it when things turn hard. We are speaking here of 2 kids 4 and 2yrs respectively and you are spewing garbbage. Please have a proper understanding before conclusions.
DonMoel: Dermatologists and the experienced ones in the house please your help is needed.
I've been battling with this strange thing for upto 3years now.
It all started in 2017. I could see some dark patches on my body which looks as though they are under my skin.
I HAVE VISITED THE STATE SPECIALIST HOSPITAL to see a Dermatologist. I was told to do several tests which I did. After submitting the whole results, the doctor said nothing was wrong but it's just a skin allergy. She recommended a cream and since then I have been using it. It's more than a year now but no changes.
It's seen on my laps down to the feet.
Has anyone experienced this before ? I'd appreciate possible solutions to this please as it's making my skin look annoying.
I think what you are experiencing has to do with your blood,some kind of infection. Try a private dermatologist.
BuhariLooter: Why did the Oyoruba governors not seek legislature backing from their respective state assemblies when setting up the vigilante movement?
Malami will argue that Sharia and Hisbah came about through legislation by the state assemblies.
Are the current crop of Oyoruba governors so daft not to know that laws created at state level can not be overruled by the FG?
Why did Malami not declare Fayose's anti grazing bill and the security outfit he setup to enforce the law illegal?
Yaribanza, your APC governors are mocking you and were only using this Amotekun as political leverage. They are not interested nor concerned about your safety.
Where are the cows
I would have called you a fool but that would be a waste of energy. Are you short of remembrance that, both Sharia and Hishba came through Islamic religion and agenda? Why didn't this same Fulani crying out now not speak against it? Why is it that the peace that they claim to support isn't tolerant to other religion. Once you speak against their religion and atrocities, you become their enemy and they instigate that you are targeting them. As retarded to embracing civilization that they could be, they are swift to violence when things fail to go their way. Why don't farmers carry weapon like their folks do while herding? If they aren't up to something and afraid of reprisal for the evils they have committed why are they scared. If they are clean as they claim, then they have nothing to fear. And for those supporting the Fulani in their cause I see your generations and those outta your loins weeping for you.
frankleesehi: Nollywood Actor Chinedu Ikedieze known popularly as 'Aki' has revealed how he spent his Christmas holiday and it was in his newly-built multi-million naira mansion which he erected in his hometown, Uzuakoli in Bende Local Government Area of Abia State.
The Oppo Reno 2 has been my daily driver for over a month and in this video, I talk about all the features, pros and cons, of using this device. The #Oppo #Reno2 is one of two releases and it is priced at 179,000 Naira. Here are my thoughts about it.
My apologies but I don't think that's a wise decision to purchase this phone for that price, instead I would rather buy Sony Xperia XZ2 with better specs and have them delivered to my door steps with this same amount than buying Oppo Reno 2
The Lake is a tourist site, you can research about the Lake
Well done, places like this need the right publicity and I think investors and the government should also try to improve on the quality of tourism by putting attractive structures in place that will be well maintained. As a well traveled person I have seen islands and countries whose main source of income is tourism. It shouldn't be all oil and trading or farming, I can tell you that that lake alone can generate billions of naira if the right structure is developed there
portune: What should I do about this? I am gainfully employed. Gives her 60k for house upkeep. I buy bulk thinks like yam , rice, oil tomato etc. She locks shop on me always. I need your thoughts on this pls.
Always giving excuses. At night, "I am tired". In the morning, "go work abeg others have left and making money and you are here looking for who to ram."
Even few moments I press her to it she will insult me sotee my prick falls down.
No 1. Reduce the amount you give her by half. 2. Start spending quality time with her. 3. Help her out with things. 4. Talk about your feelings with her. 5. Do item 1 to 3 constantly before thinking of no 4 6. Talk about love making, ask how she feels and what she wants from it. 7. Learn how to get her to want love making. (find her ignition spot)
MiniImportation: Shut up Mr Pastor How much is 20 or 30 million compared to the amount you rob the masses every Sunday ,Ahmad Musa Paid 500 million to sponsor 100 Students
You and the crop of your likes who liked your post as only elevated yourselves to a new level of foolishness. The question is what exactly have you and your shenanigans done for humanity that's close to what this MOG has done? I bet it not even in the last 10yrs has any of it come close to his 1% and by running ur hands all on keyboard you have just invited problems for yourself
NLorubebe: WTF! Do you believe words you read in the scriptures or not? The bible clearly frowns against homosexuality. Why did God destroy Sodom and Gomorrah again? Can't believe you're saying this if you truly believe in the bible
Please don’t argue with people like this and the others who also have contradictory opinions. It’s just as the Bible said in 1 Timothy 1 vs 6 - 7 6. From which some having swerved have turned aside unto vain jangling; 7 Desiring to be teachers of the law; understanding neither what they say, nor whereof they affirm.
People like this already have already found themselves in a serious demonic web due to the conceived belief they now carry which is contrary to God’s word, thoughts and mind.
NLorubebe: WTF! Do you believe words you read in the scriptures or not? The bible clearly frowns against homosexuality. Why did God destroy Sodom and Gomorrah again? Can't believe you're saying this if you truly believe in the bible
Please don’t argue with people like this and the others who also have contradictory opinions. It’s just as the Bible said in 1 Timothy 1 vs 6 - 7 6. From which some having swerved have turned aside unto vain jangling; 7 Desiring to be teachers of the law; understanding neither what they say, nor whereof they affirm.
People like this already have already found themselves in a serious demonic web due to the conceived belief they now carry which is contrary to God’s word, thoughts and mind.
grossintel: This car na trash las las, I'm happy for Mercy but 25M for this car is not worth it. The same 25M or less can get you this machine. No wonder Innoson vehicles suffer low patronage.
This car u posted is wort N39,750,000 before import duty and tax. So any one complaining should think of the price factor
Uncle freeze no Dey reason well Mercedes Benz glen coupe 2016 starts at $110000, that amounts to N39,750,000 without import tax and custom duty. So please tell me is this man thinking well. And if it’s all about going for foreign product , how do we then promote local content?
Shaynai: Reno Omokri shared photos of some structures built in Western countries and alleged that they are dedicated to satan. He then shared biblical passages to back his claim.
He shared photos of structures in London, Rome, Washington D.C. and New York and said they are the "Asherah Pole, a pagan idol" which "God detests and warns believers to avoid". He wrote:
1 Kings 16:33, 2 Kings 23:6, Deuteronomy 16:21, Exodus 34:13 and many other verses of Scripture instruct us that an Asherah Pole is a pagan idol God detests and warns believers to avoid. But what is an Asherah Pole? Google it and check the images that describe it. An Asherah Pole is simply a phallic pole dedicated to satan. Almost all major cities in the West have an Asherah Pole hidden in plain sight!? #TableShaker
Shadbay: I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.
Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup. I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.
I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.
I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.
The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.
I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.
I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.
I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.
Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".
I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you.
Uhmmm let me start this way, firstly thank God for those hurt and pa8n cos if things hadn’t happened the wa6 it did you would have never known that the lady who hurt and left you did so cos of what she wanted and if you see i the end you will understand the swiftness of how she’s about to settle down which shows that she’s been in another relationship all the while which you don’t know of and I will encourage you not to give up on love. Nevertheless I give you this word that she will surely reap what you have sown and please I beg of you don’t ever let this deter you from loving again and neither should you listen to the ill hearted thinking boys on this platform who lack proper relationship understanding. I will only encourage one thing that whenever you find any lady you are interested in again, pray about it before any actions. I am in my 30’s and I can tell you from experience that at some point in my life, I took 8 years break from relationship because I felt there are things I must work on in the place of maturity in all form of manner to be enable to manage my emotions and to also be able to handle the issues of women cause they are a funny creature whose mind are wired like tangled wires ruled by their own emotions and desires leaving men most time at their mercies while playing victim even though men are mostly on the receiving end of this emotional blackmail and abuse and in the end hen Karma catches up with them they end up saying men are dogs etc whereas it’s the fruit of the evil that they have downed that they are reaping. So please be encouraged and do yourself a favor forget about women for now and focus on getting yourself back on your feet and making something solid out of your life cos you owe it to yourself to make it with the help and grace of God and watch every other thing being added to you. Mark my words she will end up begging at your feet very soon. You just play your part in becoming a success and established. Find what interests you and work on becoming the success you are meant to be. The fact that you are rejected, insulted, blackmailed, distraught and worst of all abused is the fact that better is what is in store for you. So don’t let any woman issue ground you, get up and fix up yourself in profitable things.
aysnoopy: Good morning good people of Nairaland. please don't mind my grammatical errors coz I'm not that good.
I'm 28yrs, working and I had a gf of 21yrs. we are very good together and I love her so much. we started dating a year ago and I told her what can make me breakup with her which is cheating. she swear never to cheat on me coz she loves me. (she's a virgin when I met her).
But after 6months of dating, I suspect she's still attached to her ex.. they are very close. I warned her but she said she'll rather break up with me than to cheat. she swear never to do that. I accepted but I keep watching and been sensitive.
Fast-forward to last month, I checked her fone for the 1st time. she don't expect it. I notice she's eager to get her fone back but I don't care. I checked and I notice she and her ex are having romantic affairs (no sex though) ..
I confronted her but ever since den she kept begging. her friends keep begging.
I'm a type that if u cheat on me, no matter how much I love u, d love will dropped totally. one of my ex did same, despite our relationship is 4 years, I broke up with her.
She's so afraid and keep saying she can't leave me Coz I'm d one that disvirgin her, but I wish to leave.
She said she never mean to do all those bull'shit with her ex, but I let her know that she still have feelings for him.
Each time I remember, I felt hurt and wish to quit. whenever she come to my place, she'll beg from morning till evening but that doesn't move me.
Please good people of Nairaland. what can I do? if you're on my shoe, what will be ur judgment. I've never accept cheat with any of my ex but this particular girl keep apologizing.
Since you caught her, the question is has she truly changed? I will advice you watch her for a little while and see how things turn out to be also don't ever try to make love to her again ever during this period cos even though she has been begging there's need to forgive her cos we also offend God including you who bleeped the girl with consent and also know that girls age are still naive sometimes. So u need to understand that you can't go all breaking up with girls cos they cheat. Cos i want to believe that this girl hasn't had sex with her ex according to the account that you deflowered her. So forgive but shine your eyes and look past her wrong and also learn to correct what lead to her cheating.
Tunagee: My wife started behaving strangely immediately I lost my job in April 2017. She leaves home to her mum at the slightest disagreement without even communicating or making to express her feelings; and to worsen it, her mum gives her a great welcome with a room and parlour for her to stay, without even calling me to discuss what the problem. Whatever her daughter says is always the final, and she concludes on that.
My wife literarily destroyed my image before my in-laws to such an extent that I can't even visit them again. She tells them i insult her and her parents, and i make negative remarks about them, that i abuse her verbally at the slightest provocation. Several lies against me that I did not allow her travel out, I don't give her money, I told her not to have another kid, that I told her not to work, her mother has decided to keep her with her as I speak without even calling me to discuss, even despite all my appeals. She has been with her mum now for almost ten months(my wife is a fully grown legally married faithful woman of almost 40 years)
All these disrespect, probably cos I lost my job two years ago of which I fulfilled all responsibilities to the home. i don't drink, i don't smoke, don't womanise(even till now) I have never beaten her, I never another child out of my matrimonial home, and never impregnated another woman.
Rather than resolve her marital problem by discussing with her husband, she takes it to her family claiming emotional abuse. Fine, I agree I get provoked cos of her persistent shortcomings, and of course, frustration which leads to unguided vocal utterances towards her, but this could have been resolved easily without having to involve her whole family. Now what she keeps telling my family is that her family said she should still hold on at her mum's place. This is the 10th month since October 2018.
The last time my mum went to her mum's house precisely June last month, she was asked if she was still interested in her marriage, and she said yes, that she does not intend leaving her marriage; but we should give her time. Her mother practically told me to go and do something meaningful, and that there is time to marry, separate, reunite and hustle. Her mum is the one controlling her movements and everything about her for now; not even giving her room to give me audience.
Pls advise on what to do.
We are legally married.
Please don't listen to the ill advises u get here. What i will tell you to do is this, find a business you have passion for and seek for assistance to start doing something for yourself and the sake of your kids. The truth is that the woman you married never loved you genuinely she only cares about you being able to cater for her needs. You owe it to yourself and God to be a success and also your children who are looking up to you and as your wife don't plead with her again cos you have tried, face how to get on your feet and become something good, believe me she will come around herself and do the pleading and in that time let her and her mother know how wicked and inconsiderate they are to you and your children as per the decision they took and the damage it did to you and your kids. Then take your time to fast and pray before now take her back. But first let her learn her lesson.
lawman88: I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her..... How can I handle this matter?
If you want to keep your marriage, please let your wife know that you are not comfortable with the way her sister is dressing or else the way you are going about it you are bound to yield to temptation one day or the other. Save yourself and marriage now by telling your wife to control her sister so something uneventful don't crash your young marriage. A word is enough for the wise.
Abby255: Please who can recommend a very good skin cream for me, my heads and chest are really rough but other parts are clean. Have used a lot of expensive creams and they're really not working
chinambusay: Ghana's newly built airport, Kotoka International Airport was heavily flooded yesterday after a downpour.In a viral video, the workers at the terminal 3 are seen trying to mop the floor at the terminal as it was further gathered that the heavy downpour trapped scores of vehicles in the flood. A resident who confirmed that Ghana's newly built airport, Kotoka International Airport was flooded after the downpour yesterday, told PrimeNewsGhana that the rains are better and not heavier than what they saw years back.
''Today's rain is a bit better as compared to two-three years back. I have been here for ten years now and I know what am talking about. It is normally like this, the big gutter, that leads to the Odaw has been filled to the brim with water. The government should fix the drainage system, the drainage is poor. The gutters around are chocked if it rains heavily, flooding is massive" he said.
Mr Blogger please stop passing wrong information, Kotoka international airport is not new built it's been there for years, it was only renovated and upgraded. GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT
Sadiqali24: Hy my friends, I want you to help me out.
I'm an N C E holder but currently in 300l.
There is this lady at my work place(I teach in government school) who is doing her MSc(currently), she profess her love for me and want to marry me and I'm just 22. the thing with women is that they can be intimidated by friends and maybe along the line after giving me so much hope will end up saying, "I'm not her class". your advice is strongly needed please.
Do you have a pic of her, DM me privately and let's have a bro's talk
Career / Re: My 50-Year-Old Boss Shows Massive Cleavage Whenver We Meet, What Could She Want? by freenature: 6:27pm On May 20, 2020 
