₦airaland Forum

nortcentrallord:
You just mentioned her full name @ the end. Why?

No he didn't.
He only mentioned reporter's name.

Thespecialone:
The +1 phones are manufactured in China.

So If I told you I had direct access to the factory to get the real phone, that makes an invite useless.

The truth is the phone is elusive but that doesn't make it impossible to get.

I have ordered one for a client, he confirmed its the real phone, I have one in transit and received orders for two yesterday.

So my dear friend it's very possible to get original one plus one without an invite.

I have proven it.

Anyone looking to sell a used oneplus one?

Jeffy1206:
if need it, pre order the international version from me... Got some invite with which I have claimed... Contact me for more.

Anyone selling a used oneplus one?

simplicit:
Already don dat.. ..it shld land by weekend according to jeff

Are you by any chance looking to sell your OPO?

wisdomguy4u:
YeAh... Igbos troop to yorubaland bcus there are a lot of money making opportunity there and you pple do not have the brain to figure it out. Anytime I travel to yorubaland I see a lot of money making opportunities wasting while most of u live in poverty.

Doing business in Igboland is so competitive bcus everybody has the brain... Unlike in yorubaland

I'm proudly IGBO,
But bro, i must admit I'm ashamed of your comment.
show some maturity and don't stoop to a fool's level.

Wisdom or folly is an individual thing. Not a tribe or even a national matter. Your post has just shown that there are indeed shallow minded Igbos. Please stop painting us in negative light.


Dear yoruba brothers,
I apologize on behalf any half brained comments from any of my kinsmen, there are lots of ignorant teenagers on nairaland who say things without consulting their common sense first.

Dear Kinsmen,
I beg you all to please try overcoming evil with Good.

It doesn't matter how good you are, there'll always be ignoramuses with no home training who will come to show the world that they actually came from broken homes, hence the shallowness and lack of manners. These ignorant few do not and should not represent the entirety of yorubafolk. So do not insult these good people because of the uncouth few.

Words and insults cannot change how wonderful we are. The truth is what it is, and it needs no defense. Don't even bother defending the IGBO tribe. Just appreciate good comments from those with actual grey matter in their heads and ignore the empty vessels and all their negative loud noise.

It baffles me how we are SOOO willing kiss the butts of the Whiteman but won't spare some love for our brothers who have been through thick and thin with us together in a country that has proven to give hell a run for its money.
Please let us not inherit the petty rivalry and shallow mindedness of our fathers. We are better educated and we should act it!

On a final note,
The igbo man is known for action, not many words. So stay true to your tribe and ignore negative comments.


DEAR SEUN,

You have a part to play in all these.
20 years from now, there will be young ones reading these very posts which will sow hatred and rivalry in their otherwise love-filled little hearts. So this doesn't just end with now, these are seeds with the potential to ruin a future Nigeria.

Thank you

You seem quite smart to me. So please device a way to minimize all of these for the sake of our children.

RobinHez:
i believe we Nigerians dont know how to encourage each other, there's no harm in visiting someone else's blog. You know, there are some things you could gain from it.

but some bloggers are fools! they dont know anyother thing than KimK goes to church, rihanna forgets her pant, tonto dikeh pecks gej...and so on!
there are alot of 'bloggable' issues that can impact the lives of people.

Exactly!

Most blogs seem to be mostly about celebrity nonsense!
Whereas there are TONS of subjects that would add actual value to people's lives. Yes it may not happen right away, but with time, more and more people will return to that place that gave them actual value when they needed it. And what's more! Those are the kinds of value that retains visitors for decades. You make money by SOLVING A NEED not SPREADING SOME SHALLOW OvERFLOGGED GOSSIP

Pick a niche that people will seek you out for.
As a young startup photographer, is there any nigerian blog that could guide my purchases and other setup needs? Idoubt it! Because everyone is busy following and keeping up with the Kardashians when when they have their own lives to live.

Basildvalour:
Frisby P5 #10,000 Umuahia

Should have included my location, my apologies.

Lagos state here.

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If yes, please leave contact info and i'll contact you ASAP.

Lagos transactions only.

If yes, please leave contact info and i'll contact you ASAP.

njays24:
I've always been fascinated about the naval force,I love their look especially their white uniform,but unfortunately I didn't marry any,but I met my hubby through his brother who is a naval officer. But bankers and telecoms workers have never been my thing.

Hmmm.

Toks2008:
you got me wrong..

I never generalize and using the word most means there are exceptions.

Nevertheless i still tell you for a fact that a 27yr old guy ready for marriage may have to do a bit more work in searching except he has been dating a lady before that time..this is my point

Wat im saying is that if a man suddenly finds himself needing a wife then its better to go for ladies of say 25yrs at least to aboid wasting his time with a lady who is still unsure of wat she wants. i know wat im writing from experience and i guess its like a phase most ladies love passing through.

I quite concur with the bold part.
I've reread your post and observed you didn't generalize. My mistake.

Toks2008:
sometimes i wonder why guys stress themselves about not finding a wige material...

Stop chasing after ladies below the age of 26 because most of them are still dreamers with unreasonable expectations in a potential husband.

Go for ladies of 26 and above who seem to be realizing the obvious and the ladies in this category will definitely maintain a status quo that will put them at a vantage position for matrimony. Yes they can pretend but they also know too well the meaning of divorce should they mess up.

for me if u are not 27 and above i no go even think of wooing you cos u are probably still in your fantasy world.

Depends on how old you are yourself.
So a 27yr old brother should start looking for 28yr old sisters? Or even 27?

Actually we share contrasting opinions in this regard. I'd hardly take a 28yr old "wife material" as serious as I would a 21yr old who has her act together.

Just as guys pretend/lie when they're looking for something, ladies do too. Psychology teaches us that people do not change. They adjust their appearance to appeal to a target audience.
I've seen devils poorly trained girls, rude idiots set of people, suddenly begin to act nice and pleasant to everyone when they hit 25-28. Does that automatically change them from idiots to "wife materials"? HELL NO!

Even if I happen to meet a lady I like and she happens to be in her late 20s, I won't take her seriously until I've dug into her past and discovered that her behavior has been consistent right from her late teens.
Not every 21yr old lacks manners,morals and discipline. Some are even more Mentally and emotionally mature than the so called 28yr olds. It's all about upbringing. And I've seen quite a good number of them (Good girls/"wife materials).

I scrutinize every 25-n-above yrs old I meet with the thoroughness of a surgeon!

It's a lot easier to believe someone who has no reason to lie, than one who has 9!

Marriage is no joke, my peace of mind is worth more than a billion US dollars.


@OP:

Notice that I have been using the phrase "wife material" in quotes. That's because no one size fits all, there's no particular list that applies to everyone. People have different things they look for in a spouse (men or women).

Also let's not forget. You do not deserve a princess if you're not of royal blood yourself.
#guys take note#

TheRealAdonye:
Lol which Book?
The up down up down left down right - SubZero Fatality, etc one?

WAS THERE ANY OTHER??

Fatalities, brutalities, friendships, etc

iyke926:
Also played international superstar soccer...it was da bomb during the SEGA era. It's like your childhood was mad amazing like mine. Sometimes I think it ain't fun being an adult.

Naaah...
All the sophistication sucks most of the fun out of life. Simpler days were fun days. These days are just........convenient:

Who would've guessed a time would come when students (boys) won't have to pay their smarter buddies to draft them a "love note"

HOW MANY OF YOU HERE EXPERIENCED THE EXCITEMENT OF UNLOCKING YOUR DESK IN CLASS AND FINDING A "LETTER" HAS BEEN SLIPPED IN BY AN UNKNOWN CRUSH

Smh.... simpler times

ethylene:
Good old memories. Back then, cartridges was a very valuable asset just like stocks. Owing the latest collections of games back then, You could rent out or exchange and even sell. Some of us got scammed by renting bad cartridges that wont work. Only for us to be told that it wont work on our console and pay for a new one if should the guy who rent the cartridge comes back to complain that his stuff aren't working >

Oh I got scammed a fair share alright!

iyke926:
Yes oo


I started with ENDING MAN(8-BIT)....Played Duck Hunt, Mario,Contra then later bought SEGA MEGA DRIVE(16-Bit).. played sonic, Mortal Kombat, Sunset Riders, WWE, ..Can still remember some MK codes and killer moves....I had a book for those codes.

Every true gamer had the book bro
And carried it everywhere too, you never know where you'd run into a GURU.
There was no Internet to surf for cheats-n-codes then.

Although my first console was also "ending man" (that was after years with just the "brick game" handheld of course)

Duck hunt, CONTRA and Hoggan's alley were a delight!
Couldn't afford lots of game cartridges, so I did mad justice to the in-built games. Hurdles nd the rest. The soccer was ...LMAO! .. I just recalled the funky graphics.

I later got the SMD II. And those were my best gaming days.
You wouldn't imagine how many days I went without lunch, just to save for SEGA MEGA DRIVE II
It was well worth it. Spent so much time time with SUNSET RIDERS. I was always "BILLY". My bro preferred the other character.
There were also golden axe, sonic and international superstar soccer (not FIFA or PES)


GOD bless the white man for putting their intellects to use. They have come a long way in such little time. I pray our Generation of Nigerians would make a change. Life is more than just about making money. It's about leaving an impact on the younger generation.

Looking for a tecno p5.

Anyone?

State your best price please

ginawest:
i gladly will....as far as dre z a roof ova my head,d type of ouz doesn't matter.

If this is really true, then you will find true happiness and pretty soon too.

But then all that should matter is not just having a roof over your head, but the person you're sharing that house with. If he isn't a ambitious or a self-driven person, you may be stuck in that single room with 5 kids for 20 years

Whenever a patient woman finds a man of passion and ambition, a star is born somewhere.

fpeter:
This topic is always a hot debate amongst Christians, most Churches condemn the act of cunnilingus.
I asked an elderly pastor what he thought about it and he said it was a sin and quoted;
Romans 1:26 (KJ21)
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women changed the natural use into that which is against nature.

Well, i wasn't satisfied so i sought the opinion of a younger pastor(female) she said she and her husband do it and she also quoted;
Hebrews 13:4King James Version (KJV)
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
...she reiterated that the the older generation of pastors mostly frown at it because it is strange to them, perceived as taboo and
alien to our culture,customs and beliefs as Africans...so in her view it is more a personal belief than it is spiritual. A lot of us bring sociocultural
beliefs into church and confuse it with Biblical doctrines.

My thoughts exactly!
Now I do not have to type some long response.
Anyone who reads this and doesn't make sense of it should log out and go do something else with their life.
The church is now filled with people (preachers) preaching doctrines... self-made doctrines. The label anything they are not comfortable with as sinful and brainwash the gullible members into believing same.

Please people, in the name of enlightenment I implore you, whenever someone tells you something is wrong from the biblical pointof view, learn to ask "WHY, HOW and ACCORDING TO WHO"?

silver94:
Capital NO. Born again pple re sumtin else. My gf is a born again, she doesn't giv me a head neither does she let me giv her one.

You have no idea how funny your comment is, do you?

RickRichards:
Ewww! Is he high on something?

Yup,high on heels....... didn't u see?

Dear op,

Obviously there's more to your recent episode of wet dream that bothers you and that you're not comfortable to share openly.

But if after everything you have/will read from here (this thread)you're still bothered about it, then you may pm me.

The reason you shouldn't take everything you read from here seriously is that not everyone has experienced one. Ladies do not have wet dreams and a sizable population of them were a little bit too fascinated by their budding breasts at the time to pay proper attention in Biology class.

And the guys, not everyone experienced wet dreams. Either they fall into the lucky group whose bodies naturally were able to save them mornings of embarrassment and emergency laundry (you'd only understand this as a boy who slept in his only pair of boarding house "house wear") , or they had become a little too friendly with those girls with the budding breasts and therefore missed the chance to experience life's first true lessons on masculinity and sexuality.
These set started masturbation or even sex early and most probably never experienced wet dreams, and even when they did, it wasn't naturally triggered.

Having wet dreams isn't a sin. Just be Sure to always wash ur sheets, briefs and pajamas right after each episode.

Bonapart:
There are two things about wet dreams...
1: it has something to do with spiritual wife...daughters of jezebel
2: the enemy use it to cause set back and retardation in a man's life...
Your spiritual life is very low and you barely pray.
Revive your spiritual life and always fast and pray midnight prayers. Anoint yourself before you sleep...
*note*
If anyone come here and preach biology to you, tell the person he/she is a buffalo

Dear sir,

Please this is obviously a kid who is very bothered about this issue. Stop making it worse for him. Wonder which printing press prints your own bible

I refuse to call you a buffalo, but please go and actually take time to study your bible instead of wasting hard earned cash buying and reading cheap books written by hungry people seeking to exploit the typical gullible nigerian christian

Bootybuttchic:
no op.....its not a sin.....but since it seems unpleasant to you......always pray to God that it shldnt occur again .........u have no reason to be scared ,God isnt hitler....he knows whats going on and he is merciful....

Pray for a wet dream not to occur?

Ok,
Relax, now imagine overhearing a teenage girl praying for her period not to occur.
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EXACTLY!
Now u see how that suggestion just made u sound.


And must understand why I'm choking back tears from insane laughter at the moment..

praying to God for a wet dream... Kai!

uselessgoat:


Yeeeeboes, causing troubles in Nigeria since 1967

Very mature sir.
Kindly give yourself a round of applause.


@ post.

Did you all see the mature way the oodua addressed the matter?

I'm igbo, and proudly so.
But I say shame to the Igbos and yoruba who are handling this issue like blindfolded fools.

Please act like people with some bit of enlightenment.

I'm getting sick of all these.
Infact I wish neither Pdp nor Apc wins the lagos governorship office. When did elections become about political party or ethnic group?

Shouldn't we be voting a leader based on our HONEST assessment of his character?
This is why our nation is still where it is.
It's alright to support a fool/thief, provided he is a member of a particular tribe, political party, church, etc. That shows just how primitive out intelligence is.

DEAR NIGERIANS, PLEASE LET'S GROW UP, let's work together to build a nation EVERYONE will be proud to raise children in

Hmmmm...

See why it's good to listen to people share experiences.
Maybe we should just enjoy being single for as long as we can stretch it.

And it's quite baffling because every gal who wants to describe her ideal man will ALWAYS Start with " loving" "caring" "good natured" "attentive" etc.

So that leaves the questions:

1. does it mean they're just listing some empty memorized nonsense for the sake of social reputation

OR

2. does it mean they live with the purpose of someday finding that IDEAL man who'll provide the IDEAL environment for them to finally show their true (IDEAL) colours?

Thanks OP for this thread, for I've learned a lot from it.

1. Women don't know what they want
2. When they get what they want, they make you regret it
3. The nice guy doesn't get the girl, and when he eventually does, she makes him miserable...AND ENJOYS EVERY MINUTE OF IT.
4. You are not ready for marriage until you're ready to abandon your peace of mind (and probably your sanity too)


And finally

THERE'S "MR NICE GUY" and then THERE'S "A MAN", and only one run a. Family

babajero:
You said igbo didnt make lagos there you lie because yorubas has always been lazy right from time, that was why awolowo used the opportunity that fed capital was in lagos to make sure yorubas go to school by introducing free education that is what we call spoon feeding because yorubas was too lazy to send their wards to school but igbos on the other hand sent their children to school no matter their occupation and their salary level, just take a look around you what do you see agberos that is another another name for almajiri in yoruba, while the girls give birth like dogs with no father or husband to take of the children, if yorubas didn't rely on igbos for development why did awolowo told gowon not to allow igbos to have self rule as agreed in aburi, even till today they still see the potential of igbos that is why they can't allow us go because of our potentials, check every crucial and lucrative things in Yoruba land igboman owns it or is a top executive there and the position is by merit and not quota system. You said something about being among the top three richest, let me tell you, that is an excuse for a lazy and lame man, igbos don't count number we count percentage, let me tell you a fact more than 80 percent of igbo live comfortable with no government contribution to their life, and that is what Yorubas can never do even if given 100 years as dead line, you count Yorubas and hausas that are rich, but more than 80% live bellow poverty level SHAME ON YOU. (words of wisdom) south and east made nigeria, nd still the string holding nigeria together.

Did you have to stoop to his level.

I honestly do not see the sense in all of this.
None of these two men are related to you, JK or AMBODE.

It doesn't matter what a politician has promised any group, they almost never follow through.

I wonder when lagos governorship elections became a yoruba/igbo challenge.


please DEAR IGBOS, let's be mature. Stop stooping to everyone's level. Not every foolish talk deserves a response. Politics is a dirty game. But it's still a game, let's be smart, vote the candidate of YOUR choice, depending on your perception of his character, not because of some threat from some senile old bat. If you think ambode is a better leader, then PLEASE vote him. And vice-versa. Let's not divide lagos.

WEWANTPEACE!

No one is superior or inferior to the other. We're humans, all of us.

Pls let us be smarter than our old men.
Stop promoting hate.

Good morning.

To get an installation for my business (I need clean water for a small production outfit I plan to setup), what options are available to me and what should be my budget?

Yareey:
The butterfly comment was more or less a joke. He needs to be able to move feelings in me, I won't stay interested if he doesn't. That's just me.

There is no wrong or right way to look for a partner. We all have to do what ever feels right to us. For me I'm not impressed by necessarily but basic things like being trust worthy, somebody you can build on, reasonable ect. There are a lot of good man so how do you pick from them? Some fancy a man with a lot of money, power, good looks. I fancy a man who can be my best friend, one who enjoys the things I enjoy.

Good Point.
You're quite right. We all have these things we look for in a mate.
There re also a lot of good ladies out there, but then compatibility becomes another factor to consider.

I learned something from you. So thank you.

Isn't she entitled to her opinion of her own self?
She's telling u she looked dirty while still a darkskin. So she altered her skin color to look at least tolerable. Although to be frank (afterall beauty, they say, lies in beholder's eyes) the "before" photo is actually the clean-looking one in my opinion.

I'm attracted to beauty, not skin color.
An ugly rat will remain an ugly rat even when stripped down to the bones.

As for your question, i'd say psychological. It's a serious case of inferiority complex.