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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by debbydams(f): 12:07am On Nov 03, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Your cousin was bound hand and foot because of what again....? undecided

What your cousin needs is to go talk to a therapist to help her overcome the traumatic experience. Tell her next time time goes for those runs, she should make sure she she mentally ready to handle whatever it is her clients might throw at her considering we are still speaking of Nigeria here. These things are not for those who are faint of heart. undecided

If there is anyone who has the answer to what it was the man was supposedly looking to take from her, it is that man and he is gone, or does she have his home address so you can go ask him directly yourself? undecided

As for those of you who think her a useless being, stay far away from her life and her mention she can grow and become the individual she chooses to become. undecided
u still don't believe there's jazz, evil spirits..hmmm it is well

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Okonjo123(m): 12:09am On Nov 03, 2021
debbydams:
u still don't believe there's jazz, evil spirits..hmmm it is well
Amen o dear
Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Kobojunkie: 12:12am On Nov 03, 2021
debbydams:
u still don't believe there's jazz, evil spirits..hmmm it is well
You don't get it at all! undecided

I believe in God, I know Spirits are real.... I have 24/7 experience of this in my everyday life. No doubts here! undecided

What I don't believe are the silly stories told particularly by superstitious, even religious Nigerians who think everything they are too lazy to investigate is the work of spirits. undecided

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Okonjo123(m): 12:16am On Nov 03, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You don't get it at all! undecided

I believe in God, I know Spirits are real.... I have 24/7 experience of this in my everyday life. No doubts here! undecided

What I don't believe are the hogwash stories told particularly by superstitious, even religious Nigerians who think everything they are too lazy to investigate is the work of spirits. undecided
yes o no be lie o
Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by debbydams(f): 12:17am On Nov 03, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You don't get it at all! undecided

I believe in God, I know Spirits are real.... I have 24/7 experience of this in my everyday life. No doubts here! undecided

What I don't believe are the silly stories told particularly by superstitious, even religious Nigerians who think everything they are too lazy to investigate is the work of spirits. undecided
I understand sir..
Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Officialgarri: 6:36am On Nov 03, 2021
Kobojunkie:
She should remain prayerful about what exactly? Did she reveal that his cousin was a believer before the experience? undecided

She had a traumatic experience of which no one knows what if anything really happened but here you are already suggesting she turn prayer warrior before her time? undecided
Why are you angry?

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Kobojunkie: 6:40am On Nov 03, 2021
Officialgarri:

Why are you angry?
Stop projecting! undecided

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Nobody: 7:17am On Nov 03, 2021
Nothing is wrong with that girl, but something will be wrong if she keeps thinking that something is wrong with her.

Help her get a hustle that will be fetching her money instead of runs, and educate her on how powerful her mind is.

Nothing is wrong with her.

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Richy4(m): 9:02am On Nov 03, 2021
In as much as she was traumatized by her experience, I still think you guys need to teach her the value of being contented with what she has or what the parent provided while she is on campus…while saying it/ teaching her that, no one should sugarcoated it…

Not trying to judge your approach towards this case OP, I just want to know… telling her to be careful that Christmas was approaching, is it for her to continue with that lifestyle while on campus but should be careful or is it to abandon that way of life totally? Just asking because the Euphemism you used to describe what she was doing on campus sounds like a beautiful and pleasant thing to the ears….

If she was this afraid to die, just imagine AIDS or other incurable diseases happening?...What just happened to her was the nightmare of every parent… I believe many parent reading this would be shuddering and imagining their little ones in such position….
Letting her make a concrete decision to abandon that lifestyle on campus is better than any prayer house you guys planned taking her to in my opinion.…

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Double0h7(f): 9:22am On Nov 03, 2021
This is crazy! So, you're going to skip over the fact that this young lady is a prostitute and you're going to chase shadows instead shocked

I can't believe she told you with her chest, and you told her mum and nobody has disciplined her! What a world we live in. cry

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by AutoChick4U(f): 10:21am On Nov 03, 2021
Ishilove:

You think? E go shock you.
That which has been taken can be restored

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by AutoChick4U(f): 10:23am On Nov 03, 2021
Double0h7:
This is crazy! So, you're going to skip over the fact that this young lady is a prostitute and you're going to chase shadows instead shocked

I can't believe she told you with her chest, and you told her mum and nobody has disciplined her! What a world we live in. cry
Probably an adult. How do you discipline an adult? If the parents did their jobs well, she wouldn't hop for such and its pathetic

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Mystery9(m): 3:07pm On Nov 03, 2021
So you mean you hastly told the mother of the things she told you? It is well.

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by DefJams: 3:15pm On Nov 03, 2021
What is cousin sister?
Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Jamesz12: 3:16pm On Nov 03, 2021
Bros this one na spiritual matter, she needs a spiritual diagnosis. ASAP

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by SmartyPants(m): 3:17pm On Nov 03, 2021
Mariangeles:


Her virtue.

There's more to life than the physical.

What exactly is this virtue -- is it different from the virtue in the dictionary -- and where did you first learn about it?

Just want to learn from you.
Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by WarriAproko: 3:18pm On Nov 03, 2021
I smell liesssssm i don't all this superstitious stories

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Traplord09: 3:18pm On Nov 03, 2021
What de man is trying to say is other man done use am bulid house.
Na empty da her body.......

Slay queen and yahooo boys are work...

Sha you like big man so y crying .... ....cry harder

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Okonjo123(m): 3:19pm On Nov 03, 2021
Traplord09:
What de man is trying to say is other man done use am bulid house.
Na empty da her body.......

Slay queen and yahooo boys are work...
Yes o
Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by FROGMAN101(m): 3:20pm On Nov 03, 2021
LiegeMan:
hello Nairalanders, sorry for the long write-up, it's LiegeMan again.
my name is Mr Omale liegeman and I'm from Kogi State, I thank you all for your kind advice on the other thread regarding my wife's past life and I can assure you all that I decided to put to use some of the advice from here ( yes, I read all the 590+ comments from A-Z) and it's yielding positive result as I've been experiencing happiness as never before in my life, though majority of Nairalanders who contributed in the previous post failed to understand my point of view because I was trying to make the post as snappy as possible. Thank you all once more.

Now, while I was planning ways to work things out with my wife with some of the advice that I gathered here, my Aunty who's married to an Igbo man from Imo state called me that her daughter, who's a student of Imo State University (Imsu) came home during weekend, Saturday precisely, locked herself up in a room and has been crying ever since without food nor water, and has refused to see nor talk to anyone.
I advice them to keep an eye on her so as to prevent her from attempting something stupid, she assured me that they broke into her apartment where she locked up Herself and brought her out.

So on Sunday, being 31 day of October, 2021, I left everything that I was doing in Makurdi and rushed to their village in Imo State, on getting there, I observed that both her hands and legs were tied and when I inquired why, she told me that it was an attempt to prevent her from escaping. I asked them to untie her, she was still crying when I asked her to go dress up that I'll be taking her out, she quickly went inside and dressed up we left the village for Orlu.

When we reached Orlu, we entered into a restaurant, and I started asking her what the problem was, I inquired if it was her boyfriend that broke her heart, she said no, I later succeeded in making her to tell me what the problem was because she's my closest ally.

when she opened up, she told me that she decided to do a little gbaje gbaje, ie do a little runs, she booked an appointment with a man and when she reached the said hotel, she and the Man started romancing and kissing and after awhile, the man started hissing uncontrollably, she inquired from the man what the problem was, he told her that what he wanted to take from her has been taken by someone else, in her confused state, she asked the man what he meant by that, the man looked her into her eyeballs and told her that she's empty, that what he intended taking from her has been taken by another person, he counted the said amount they bargain and handed it over to her and ordered her to get out of the hotel premises. I tried to console her by telling her that the man didn't mean what he said, that maybe his manhood disappointed him, he said those to cover his shame and I also advice her to be very careful because Xmas it at hand, immediately I told her those, she became relieved and stopped crying but I know right inside of me, that what the man said wasn't a joke at all.

when we got home, the news didn't go down well with her mother as tears started rolling down her cheek, she is planning a way to take her daughter to different prayer houses.

Now what exactly is this man talking about, what exactly did he take from her, is it her womb, destiny or what?
please house, any advice for this kid cousin of mine?
or way to find out what has been taken from her and get her liberated.

You travelled from Makurdi down to IMO in this security crisis era in Sh it hole Nigeria.

You better be careful as per your own safety.

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Metsolo: 3:24pm On Nov 03, 2021
What exactly has been taken away from her nobody knows, Destiny is it really true destiny is taking away from someone?
Best I can say is the advice u gave to her, she should pretend nothing had happened. Leave the environment and pray God undo whatever she thinks has been done. If u guys send her out of the country or state in Nigeria is a good start. For me nothing really serious happened

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Loverboy3333: 3:25pm On Nov 03, 2021
I said it b4, banchelors hurry and marry now because in few years time una nor go even see foreign used marry na Nigeria used una go see
Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Mozegee: 3:25pm On Nov 03, 2021
That is it,she has been used and what is remaining of her is her physical body.
general111:
Your sister has been used..

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Commotfornigeri: 3:26pm On Nov 03, 2021
bullshit!

fake story.

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Yankee101: 3:27pm On Nov 03, 2021
Runs girls chasing politicians, yahoo Boys and ritualistic overnight rich men, be caferful

You do lose something by sleeping with them

Sometimes you can't get it back

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Odingo1: 3:28pm On Nov 03, 2021
Nigerians and Africans with their superstitious beliefs. No human being have power to take anything from anyone. Nothing like that juju, instead of her to spend the money and move on with her life she is running up and down, her problem is the fear within herself, nobody have taken anything from her. This are tactics some Nigerian pastors and scammers use to trap people to exploit them.

You guys believe in juju powers but those powers have not been seen physically.

Nigeria without electricity, water, good road and hospital etc have tons of people with supernatural powers. Una mumu never do una.

How can someone take something out of someone body without physical surgical operation. Nonsense myth beliefs.

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by PrinceOfLagos: 3:29pm On Nov 03, 2021
Ashewo no be work, dey won't hear

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Fidelarinze9(m): 3:29pm On Nov 03, 2021
No time is late, let her give her life to Christ, and truly follow him with all her heart, read the word and live by it, before long everything taken from her will be returned and added to. Why panic at what men said but not what God said. The Bible said " who will speak if the lord has not spoken" there is redemption in Christ for her, she should cry no more.

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by hope4nigeria(m): 3:30pm On Nov 03, 2021
LiegeMan:
how do you mean sir, should I bring her to you for prayers and council?
Send me your address and location.
that's how 419 and kidnaper will get you

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Nov 03, 2021
Iyaebe:
ladies should be very careful, a high percentage of men are now ritualist,don't exempt anyone of them so as to be on the safer side.Stop allowing men come close or have access to you easily. If you are broke,work and earn money and don't depend on any man for relief.


Men should be very careful, a high percentage of women are now ritualist(kanyanmata),don't exempt anyone of them so as to be on the safer side. Stop allowing women come close or have access to you easily. If you are Hot,masturbate...work and earn money to afford data to stream porn and don't depend on any woman for sexual satisfaction and fantasy .

how does this sound now,MUMU PEOPLE ALWAYS TRYING TO AGEND GENDER WARS IN EVERYTHING,ODE

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Re: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by SenecaTheYonger: 3:32pm On Nov 03, 2021
Oyiboman69:
Humans always afraid of the unknown...

someone is alive, hale and hearty and still wondering what a man said to him.

Now you people have ignored the whooreing side of her and all you could do is what one man told her when she has been living a prodigal life...who no go die?,na every body go rich or born pikin? ,black man with fear....

E be like say you and your family problems no go finish for this nairaland...ooya make una dey go dey waste money untop wetin one man tell una pikin for pastor and native doctor place instead of una to descipline the the young girl with better wire for even venturing into that lane for whatever reasons...

As in eh, better wire. But it's probably too late. She could take her life just to spite her parents.

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