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Wowser.

Dude so handsome tho

Has it hit the Nigerian market ,yet?

Nothing. Just let her go, you lots are incompatible as it is...

You should have seen that coming... some people dont have a vibrant sense of humour ykno, so maybe try to tune it low or keep at it if it makes you happy. The right kind of crowd would come your way sometime if yo so good at what you do

Is this a joke? .. It's dry

Lol. Them bitches are like flu and they're everywhere , it's damn hard not to catch the cold these days married or not. So, it's not about the women going all repulsive, it's about them bitchess always lurking to strike wherever honey flows, so it's not the flaws of the men either...got it?

[quote author=professorfal post=55069433][/quote]zero chills lol

You are quite not so right about this.

We live in different societies from those you are here comparing our girls with and our norms and culture are not that convergent when it comes to things like who plays what role in a relationship. So, if you're broke , know within you your not yet matured enough for commitment. Just mess around if you must and dont catch feelings and you wont have anything up ur medulla to worry about

Ineedinfo:
:DThank you! Exactly my point. One needs to be smart about it. Exhibit decorum during this dates...no intimacy. And be honest upfront with the said partner before making such move. This way, it won't be "cheating".

That's it.

It may be because men are plain visual beings so to say ; they get turned on by what they can see. Women on the other side, auditory and sensual (if you would forgive my french) ; it's what they hear and feel about you that gets them in the mood.

Many men however, especially Nigerian men have lost the needed vibes to get their women's hormones screaming and inviting them for the situation where two unite body and soul to become one driving force reeling in wild ecstasy, to maybe the harsh climes?!. They are always in a hurry to dispose off the sexual tension that might have built up throughout the day without paying due considerations to turning the woman on for the show striking the right strings and whispering the right things... There could be tons of other reasons but I hope this helps.

It's logical but you gaz be smart and honest while at it. Something like being a good evil like you've said ... It's a complex matrix

Dont be such a pussee ! Stop looking that side! ... Be the man . You know what men do?, they keep their women on their toes! I know youre smart enough to catch the drift . Good luck!

Lol. U didn't ejaculate but "fish_aculate" abi? Naso, I hear you , bad boy.

Bigjagga:
You may come off as a boring guy if you don't get her to share her stories with you or take her out and get to talk happily about some of her past or future experience.

That's such a normal thing to do... It comes naturally , I mean and you dont have to preplan that. Or have ppl become suddenly so discombobulated and redundant ? Lol

Alphamale2017:
my pleasure , i just followed u, do well to follow back . Oh i am not gay. I mean follow me on nairaland .

Lol, Okay.

There is only one question to be asked, 'Are you ready to stick by me with my flaws and all? '

All those questions up there are meant to be learned during courtship and not asked!

Alphamale2017:
the girl is a visitor as he said earlier, he only has 2 weeks left

It's the 21st century and making friends and getting to catch up with them daily even if they are thousands of miles away is a very good friend to reality, welcome aboard. I'm your guide frolic

Such a misstatement! They always have been !

Take your time bro. Slowly but steadily build a very cosy and friendly relationship with her so much you dont feel shy around her no more. Along the line, if there is gonna be anything, you'll know and it will not be a one-sided flow of emotions...

Let your friend wait for the innocent fruit to ripen nah, haba!

Michellekabod:
If u don't mind can you tell me your gender, and relationship status?

I do mind, sorry.

gbarrett:
If you read my post well, I stated I asked her and she said at first she didn't know why its loose. And then I tried to put words in her mouth by stating that, could it have been that the constant annal sex is the cause of this, which she replied that maybe. Then she made the kegel statement later which I really don't know anything about.

oh okay, I didn't read your post well (my bad) but she might have been up to some kegel's who knows? ,or she might be getting strafed by some bulkier magic wands, who knows. Either ways, dont you dare leave that girl after all these years of "torture" . Calm down, get her back to her purported kegel days, wait for the ass to tighten up and progress with your free rides

Michellekabod:
The major point is that men show less mercy than women....i am a feminist(advocate for gender equality). Want ladies to know that the male gender ain't as merciful as they are when it comes to cheating, so the next time HE calls a booty call or sleeps around and they intend showing him mercy, they should recall if it were vice versa, their ass would be shoved out of the relationship (in exception of if he truly loves her-which is rare)

My apologies still

Holy molly! U think men are generally incapable of loving truly just cos the one's you've met find it hard tolerating a cheat? Thats about the wierdest stereotype I've ever heard! Or is this just cos you serve the false god (imo tho) "equality" whence cooking up claims that are borderline strangers to reality to promulgate your course? Thats not good for business miss!

Well, can't you guys talk about it? You can avoid all these silly suspicions giving you damned collywobbles by opening up on your observations ykno...btw, Oga are u on holiday from work or something? That ur libido no be here o

Michellekabod:
My apologies!
Found your comment offensive....was expressing my view and there you came

It was an innocent question you dont seem to have answer(s) for yet though...I mean, come on, men are generally known to be less emotional , and there could be arrays af reasons for that. So what if they fail to scream when deeply cut? Papa didn't raise a cry baby lol... The fact that those men on your referral came seeking for help albeit , their more toughened up disposition is enough pointer they're weak in the knees and are deep in emotional shi.ts!

Like you gotta choke on a chill pill or something?

Michellekabod:
The moral is booty calls like u should shut the hole in your face if you have nothing reasonable to say..cunt

oh! That was so unnecessary madam

And the moral lesson of this narration is?...