₦airaland Forum

daretodiffer:
Better to be jealous blind than stu.pid blind...By the way jealousy is not gender specific.

Can we stop assuming for God? Can you stop inventing biases to justify a choice? Show me the chat you and God had or stop self serving righteousness.

You are not a true believer if you enjoyed being a hypocrite. Can you swear to God you have always kept true to the Hadith? Still you don't have any RIGHT to judge anyone. Until you can prove that it is a sin, you need to stop acting santimonious...I can't deal. If you want to be charitable, there are so many orphanage in need of volunteers, so many children who wish for a stable home, so many fathers who want enough to feed their family....Don't force it man, you don't have any argument.

Maybe....just maybe if you paid more attention, you would realise that the gender population argument is nonsense. It doesn't hold true at all.

Ayadeji:
Salam alaykum brothers and sisters in islam. All protocols duly observed.

I know Islamically it is allowed for a man to marry up to 4 wives. But if as a wife, you feel you feel you cannot cope in such circumstances, (as resentment towards your spouse or jealousy towards the new wife may make you become sinful) is it permissible to opt out of such marriage?

Pls kindly answer with proofs. Thank you.

Loyalblak007:

PaperLace:
OP, the only thing you did wrong is posting this on Nairaland. There are lots of sad males here, they don't like to hear that a man helps out in chores. To them, all a man needs to do, to be the HEAD of the house _ is have a dick and provide money.

They'll try to make you feel less for doing these things, please ignore them. They will tell you to go and make money, I doubt they are richer than Dangote. If they are so smart and rich, they would know different strokes for different folks. A traditional man, who believes all he has to do is provide dick and money, should marry a traditional woman. A man who doesn't believe in that ideology, should go for his kind!! I didn't even know that making money and doing house chores are mutually exclusive. Lots of women do these two things and more at the same time.

If helping out in the house,makes your wife lose respect for you,then you should be more concerned about the kind of woman you are married to... because if you lose that so called money tomorrow_you'll see hell.

One even said it's not in your place to wash your wife's cloth. A woman that puts her life on the line every time to have you guys lil ones? Sometimes with complications? Tears?
You go down on that vagina and bury your head there like your future is inside it, and it's not your place to wash her cloth? But it's in her own place to wash your clothes?

Some of you have made marriage seem like a battle field, where each party is always trying to exert some authority. Sweet Lord, I can't deal...

Aderola15:
What's your case young man?

Aderola15:
Not funny. Might not be in good mood next time.

dom:
They're inverted. Nothing strange. With consistent "persuasion" they can come out.

daretodiffer:
Anomaly ke? How mister?

daretodiffer:
How is that your business again? Tell me if you have never done worse. Hypocrite oshi!

daretodiffer:
Lets ask your mother, she will know better