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Winnin009:
Lol. Guy, go and self-service. No be by force for woman to like you.

sisisioge:
Omo osi radarada
Akuku ibi sanse radarada
Omo ale jatijati
Idamu adugbo
Alaini ogbonlori
Asiwere olofo

Whew! I think I'm now done with you. Further mentions will be well disregarded.

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

sisisioge:
Calm down son of Lucifer! Did you hear the man's side before judging her too? He who wears the shoes knows where it hurts....so fork off my mention, arindin banza!

murphybo:
She was dating a guy who got her job and husband got to know bt no one is talking abt dt

Evolutionlove:
Story.

Those People will only think about this for a moment, feel sober while reading this piece lol.

Immediately they are done reading, They'll switch back to their Wicked Lives

ukaface:
Typical example of a scumbag
Please divorce him

A4alpha:
Women are indeed incapable of love, they are programmed terror in men's world. Thunder fire you should you mistakenly empower them over yourself. Dear men.. learn to be selfish and be an asshole if you truly wish to live long.

Dear men never you take back a cheat cos a cheat is always a cheat. (Hypergamy) The question now is na who dey Bleep you now madam?

Madam with your own mouth you confessed here that your husband had never beat you when life was rough with the both of you, can you please tell why the sudden change?

He started misbehaving since he joined occult abi?

Yeye dey smell

pocohantas:
These guys would do anything for clout. It is the mods that push y’all threads to the FP I blame.

sisisioge:
If you already have your escape route planned, execute it silently and keep out of his way while at it. Good luck.

piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up

Hopeba:
A legend is gone..God you can't leave your office empty.. you have called him home.. pls use me to fill his office.. amen.. rest in peace boss Sammie

BigSarah:
Wahala, always follow the money, country hard..

Atiku is the next, experience counts,

Say no to rookies

annisy:
The best way to make anyone irrelevant is to ignore them!!!

Sweetplum:
bingo

Jeon:
He's even smiling.... for the camera
As if he went to modeling audition .

Sweetplum:
I'll go Get a life.
I will Drink sniper to go n die
Not Editing my post is childish.
Not Coming after me to tell me that I'm a STUPĪD FOOL is not right. Right now, I fit dey roam around dey look for who to bite like dog

Sweetplum:
I'm a shameless useless and jobless senseless she male and I have no future.

Sweetplum:
My mama

Sweetplum:
snake ll bite you in your dream tonight.

marcopollo:
@ fakum , I feel you, Bro. But you know what? My wife also masturbates, though I'm also good in oral s*x. She's not a s*x freak like myself. It's good we're on the same level of s*x drive. The thing is, when she masturbates, that's not the best time to have s*x. I allow her do her thing. At least if need be we'll do it like the next day or any other day. But in your case, your wife's s*x drive has dwindled. I wonder what could be the cause? Have you guys discussed on that? If so, what did she say? Denying you s*x is not good. Please you guys should talk about it and find a middle ground or some compromise.

bepositive11:
You're a very mature man. But to be honest, are you sure that she really loves you? If she loves you, why doesn't she care about pleasing you?

Have you talked to her about it? If she likes masturbating so much, why not allow her to do her thing but together with you? Why not learn what she likes from her?

Don't be passive aggressive when she approaches you. It's not a healthy way to resolve problems in relationships. Talk to her instead. If she loves you, she will try to make adjustments.