if you scan this thread carefully, none of the so-called feminists have posted as much as one full stop since the first page. they're viewing the thread but they don't know what to post.

Chiwude:
Well, I understand your point. No acrimony towards your view whatsoever. Obj was our choice and we voted him against your preferred Olu Falae. And with that we helped put a Yoruba man in the list of duly elected former presidents in our annals. Maybe your leaders can do the same by voting Rochas to spite the SE. All join! Well, it's my hope that you achieve your regional intergration. While we achieve ours too.

epic!

when i started reading this post i never saw the emboldened coming.

and you're right. if they want to pay igbos back in their own coin, they should support rochas the reject to spite us.


i also like how you made this your final post in this thread..

Dyt:


Even much more


I haven't condemned marriage
Have I?

no, you haven't but you've shown me enough reasons to believe you can't endure the tough side of it...which is inevitable.

marriage is not always a bed of roses as they taught us in school.

killabeauty, see how the mooooooslims outsmarted you and made you swear that oath involuntarily.

that's because you don't know your boundaries. now you'll have to bear the mark for months...good for you.

Dyt:



And red lingerie
I should even do pole dancing
Dress up as a maid or nurse

or as a dominatrix with a whip - that's if you fancy the idea of being the boss lady.

see? marriage can be fun after all.

there's much to enjoy...don't be in a hurry to drop the ring.

Dyt:


Hehehe hehehe
Some men are animals when konji hold them
They won't beg rather have their way


I don't just walk away without trying

na lie.

if you're sexy and know how to do 'it' very well you'll always have your man on leash. he won't look outside.

try bum shorts at times.

Dyt:


Well
We all have different ways to unleash our anger

you're a woman, you have the aura to punish your man without getting physical. unless you never truly loved him.

i think snubbing and denying him sex is better.

when konji comes he'd kneel and beg and make funny promises.

Dyt:



But I walk back too

after it has dawned on you that you overreacted?

i like that.

Dyt:


He said not really?
Which could mean he uses some harsh words on her

Yh
We love our partners and say terrible stuffs
But the moment that partner reacts
We begin to react like chemicals



So he's doing what she doesn't like
She's doing wha he wouldn't like too

Doesn't that make it even

dropping wedding ring every time you quarrel with your partner is a silly way to react.

you vowed for better or worse. marriage is not for the weak.

Dyt:



We all fight and settle too

i'm not sure you do.

people like you usually drops their engagement ring and walk away.

Dyt:


Where have I found any?
On the other thread
He came with his own version
I asked for what could possible cause it

I didn't advice him to do anything
It was just me trying to find out what could be the cause of it every time

they could have quarreled over a pot of soup or an unflushed toilet...but does it really matter?

he told you he doesn't use harsh words on her and he loves her very much. i expected you to put in a few good words for him after that.

but it seems you weren't satisfied with the way he answered you.

Dyt:



Have a great Friday

I love Fridays

me too.

i take my babe to a club every friday night for beer and asun.

we fight some times and settle our differences too.

Dyt:


Yes
And thousands die
Same way thousands survives

In all
Its our choices

I no dey advice married people

but you sabi find faults inside marriage.

Dyt:


Marriage is not a do or die thing

and there are couples who are ready to face the storm together and overcome it for the sake of the love they have for each other. don't discourage them.

Dyt:


Yes
Cos there's no smoke without fire

A woman doesn't just wake up to act like a mad woman

So cos he's a man
Everything he does is right?
Have you taken your time to ask what he did?

Very little things sometimes turns a woman off after several endurance

He only said his side and there you all are asking him to leave her

I am impulsive too
So I can relate to what could have been the problem

They say you never know what it feels like to be hurt until you have been hurt

your post nearly made sense until i spotted the hypocrisy, which i highlighted.

to be a good judge, you must be neutral and weigh the issue at hand equally from both angles before drawing a conclusion. but, unfortunately, your post here is ridiculed with gender bias.

i've seen and encountered women who act rashly without any tangible reason, likewise men. you just can't understand what pisses them off but they just get angry and go yabbing and nagging for a long time. there are also women (likewise men) who go haywire with the slightest provocation - i don't have the right words to explain this but let' just say it's their own nature.

the op here is complaining about his wife's habit of removing her wedding ring every time they have an altercation. take note of "every time" as it has become a regular thing. and he's worried about it very much. what he needs is good advice from experienced people to keep his marriage going, not judgment.

even if we must get to the judging part, i don't know if you skipped the part where someone asked if he loves her and he replied in the affirmative. yet you kept pestering him with questions, hoping he would give in so you could put ALL THE BLAMES on him and generalize his action to "all men" and probably invite your fellow 'feminists' and have another field day as usual. but when you couldn't find any, you felt defeated and disappeared without offering any advice, which is why he made this thread.

biko, stop this bias. you can't be using your own experience to judge others all the time.

chai! she felt humbled. the height is just so intimidating.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/7193145_img20180529wa0009_jpeg06b1adff0f0c1b323c6343a43fb0ed51

Dyt:
You see why some women just walk away?

Fucktoto

Will she be wrong for taking off her ring or walking away?

why haven't you left your own husband?

Dyt:


So cos he's a man
He's always right?

The way you men carry your ego and pride is unbeatable

i saw this coming. awon feminist crew...nairaland version. to you, everything in life is always men vs women.

but be sincere with yourself, if the op was a woman would you have asked all those unnecessary questions?

Dyt:


And you just want to believe the man hasn't done nothing to warrant that

Na wa

let's say he hasn't done anything to warrant her removing her rings, so what advice do you have to offer?

none, right? because he's a man and women can never be wrong.

Dyt:


But you do verbally?

see mumu questions.

you just want to pin the fault on the man and justify the woman removing her wedding ring at will.

and after he replied 'no' to your insinuations you still couldn't offer any advice.

na wa!

thatigboman:
touch the corpse and u will definitely spend long nights in police cell.

for what? is it a crime to help victims?

RIP, gallant men.


but if not for the way boooohari has been pampering boko haram they wouldn't have gained much ground now. we have to heap all the blames on boooohari the foooolani terrorist.

Abuforallah1:
Bloody liars, no sane Muslim will do that.

it's true, real muslims are turning to Jesus for safety, not terrorists and murderers like you and your useless presidiot boooohari.

Abuforallah1:
Bunch of noise makers, you kill by sword you die by sword,Benue belongs to the Fulani accept it and flee from our land.

like boooohari like his foooolani merchants and his online keyboard warriors.

allah indeed is a merciful god.

Abuforallah1:
No will must not let this happen, prepare for a serious reprisals attack soon, and I don’t want to hear any fvckatard screem like cow if the reprisals attack is carried out.

you're fasting, slamming your forehead on hard rocks and still breathing threats and murder?

allah indeed is a merciful god.

KillaBeauty:
When he was beating her nko? It was self defense

is that the excuse she'll give the court?

avoid women who don't hesitate using weapons when they're angry. they're potential killers.