Supremedrizzy: Someone gave me a simple job of making an existing static site template responsive within 24 hours and I blew it. A simple task that should take few hours, it looked all good on my localhost only to test it on netlify and it turned out to be a disaster. I'm just so ashamed of myself.
firstly bro... your are doing great... and u will still blow more project...
i don tataly delete a website becasue i was throubleshoting it, then i resinstalled, i was till having same problem... then i realized i should have just remove all the plugin and start instailling one one, that solved it but i have to wasted tim...
so u just started srewing up and get use to it, u only failed if u face the same challenge again an u where unable to solve it...
and about coding trying and do one or two project, it could be free for a freind and personal, so as to get busy...
but don liv your job yet, u cant code without eating... but try and reduce how much energy u put in hard labor
Great people of this forum, honestly things have never been better ever since that incident and I wish our minds are like show glass so that y'all would see how sorry I am inside of me. I messed up and I'm really sorry.
5 days after I created that post above, My wife traveled with my daughter to her parents house to stay without telling me. Since that incident my wife haven't said a word to me, Not a single word. Sometimes I wonder if she's the same woman I married. I'm frustrated, incoherent and I'm losing my mind.
I've been good to her, I provide 85% for my family while she bring just 15% yet I don't complain, I'm romantic and good looking, since we married I don't keep female friends not to talk of cheating. Yet She denied me sex over 2 months without any reasons, that was why I acted that way and I'm so sorry.
On Tuesday here, My friend and I traveled to her parents house, they did not even welcome us well, I don't know what she must have told her parents but I explained myself, knelt down and asked for forgiveness.
She refused to come home with me, her parents were just starring at me like I'm some demon, I requested for my daughter but she refused to release her and I've already paid my daughter's school fees for the term. Her parents said they would register my daughter in a new school, that my wife need some space for now.
Please don't call me a weak man, I'm family oriented, I don't want broken home, if she needed some space that's not a problem, I can give her all the space in the world but let her come home. It's not proper raising a child in a broken home...I'm really losing my mind.
I faced query today at work because I traveled without informing my Boss which I know he won't allow me and I know how much would be deducted from my salary. what I'm going through now I can't wish my enemies and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I messed up.
Beloveth Pls I need advice.
Bro... It's cool that u regreted your actions... And if she cary you go court na jail be that...
But there is one thing i always tell people to pray about.. That we will not be with someone that will push our dèmon out...
And someone should never say never
U can be a good person and at a blink of an eye someone will just make u lose control...
For any man that is facing this type of ish.. My brother V is d most cheapest things in d market right now, just drive from work, branch a location, do one or two and go back home smiling ☺
That doesn't change d love u hv for her...
And back to d discussion, my brother the relationship don end much earlier b4 that issue happened you just didn't see the writing on d wall
I hope u can move on with your life and be a good man
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buksarki: But why do you think Osinbajo will be better than him, is Osinbajo not a Tinubu boy and also part and parcel of this ( Buhari/Osinbajo) mandate . During Obansanjo/Atiku Nigeria condemn Atiku more than Obj but today Nigeria V.P has suddenly become inconsequential . Sentiment apart if Atiku stand with Osinbanjo i will vote Atiku 100 times, simple because Obj/Atiku government are far better than what we have today. Nigeria will always make mistake just because of tribalism but wait is Dave Umahi not worthy of becoming Nigeria President or is because he is iboman?
Nice write up... But you guys need to remove that sentiment of (Iboman) thing... Politics is a game of number, apart from Oshomole which other person from your region has been fully active in national politics Despite the facts that i don't like timubu but he has been going around, meeting stake holders and getting support
Q1. How many people in remote are known David Umahi
Q2. Has he been active in the national politics of his party (i meen national not state)
My brother, police is a game parties give the person that have either financial muscle or peoples muscle or both
paulolee: hmm.....see were u reason am reach? Wetin concern d media outlets doing such with computer games? I thought both players involved are stars n gat dier pics scattered all over d internet n Google is free dt mistake is too childish n shows shades of lazy journalism..free computer games excuse abegi bcoz dey own it n u weren't forced to buy one..
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Why are u guys like this na... Don't you guys take time to understand something b4 una reply
He was just saying... This guy's don't take time to do proper research or care for perfection with anything that relates to blacks
Havilaah1: Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.
I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.
Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.
The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).
This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event. Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.
I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions. How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.
God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.
I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation. Moderator please help move to front page to get a wider view. Roctation farano Please help move to front page for wider view.
I try to read most of the comments and i realize that a lot of people talk as if the next relationship will not come with it own ish...
And Alot blaming your bf...
Let's me start by saying... Your both family is important in your relationship and your bf is a family person...
Am an introvert but i can be a talkative when am with people i like
So back to the ish...
You can't expect your bf to take you over his family and i don't expect u too to take him over your family with this fact you have only one option...
Create a talking relationship
So, how can it work...
Let's me tell you a simple way you can start. Be intentional, no pretending
Have a discussion with him and tell him you want to work on your relationship with the family and also let him know how difficult it is for you but you are doing it for him and d relationship
So. The fastest way is... Tell him anything he is on call with them gisting (not too private talk) and u are around, you will like to be part of the gist.. If 2 of u is talking to them at the same time it will help you to build the relationship
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