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DukeNija:
Nice post bennyrazz
I think you shouldn't damage your marriage by going the hard way. Make sure you save enough for your masters before any form of negotiation.
Your husband seems reckless to me, it's his nature and not his fault. Many men are the opposite of him.
Anyway, the most important thing is for you to save enough money, whenever you have a project you need to finance. I know a woman who takes her husbands financial responsibility because she earns more. She handles major financial projects with joy and even humility. She takes charge and you won't know if you are not told. Family is a bigger achievement than master degree.
You are not the first and won't be the last so don't listen to those women up there telling you to do what's not in your nature.

'Family is a bigger achievement' than master's degree that will guarantee better future and income for the family? Guy to whom brain is given, sense is expected.

bennyrazz:
@op, keep on being the good wife that you are. Lay less emphasis on money. You are looking at the future which is highly commendable while your husband is looking at today. You are very ambitious and you are a type of woman most men out there would like to have has a wife. Why? you have conscience, you don't want to hurt your hubby, you are submissive, financially strict etc Don't keep secrets from him. But you should make him understand that rain does not fall everyday so you need to save water in your tanks for the sunny day. You and only you can do it..Sorry to say this, you are the man mentally while your husband is the woman mentally

You think a full grown ass man doesn't know this? Do you want him to feel like she's dictating to him as a man and her husband because of money? How quickly you forget men have ego.

enoqueen:
One of the many mistakes we women make is allowing our men know that we av money.

U did not do anything wrong and let it remain so even after paying ur fees.

When men sees money with us, they will be coming up with different project that they cannot do alone just to make sure that we spend what we av.

Truly that what's marriage is about coperation, team work and a wife being a help mate and selflessness, consideration for the needs of others. I doubt you're married. My grouse with this particular man is insensitivity and selfishness. He should be man enough to carter to the needs of his ffamily not becoming a probblem

ivyT:
U did d right thing nd stand ur ground.Finances causes alot of problem_iv witnessed it

am nt been bias_but MenAintWorthIt,

How can you now judge men with the actions of this mof0 and perhaps that of your own man. Quit generalizing joor. I too condemn the actions of this man and dissociate from it.

He's iinsensitive and childish. How can he play with his wife's future like that? Woman you're not wrong, you don't have to tell him about your finances to avoid causing rift open a separate account and allow him play with this particular acccount as his toy. Talking about big party he can't even fund and home coming in these challennging times?

He's failing as a man and should be ashamed of himself.

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Gurgle:
Ok

is that the general consensus

but wouldn't he still be irritated knowing somebody else has touched her

Not really as long as she doesn't rub it on my face I couldn't care if she's been drilled before as men would be shocked on their wedding nights that sister Vicky's hole is an ocean.

Mogidi:
Buhari's accommodation doesn't worry me, just make sure the illiterate don't repeat the "West Germany" gaffe for the world press.

Meanwhile, every word/phone call in that house is monitored by CIA, Buhari doesn't know the reason they gave him that house.
Someone please tell him the house is bugged.

You think you're in the position to tell a retired general in the Nigerian army security procedures? You must be Dumbo himself.

JideJamez:
I said it.... When my wife forced me to church this morning...even our pastor said breakthrough On our way this week... So it has started..

Wait oo what is this thing with FTC.... I still feel same me


Warefa.. United till I die

What a shame. No longer Jesus again?

This one really got me 'stylist to the president of Nigeria'. What a portfolio.

What of Barber to the president of Nigeria. Okay him go be first barber of Nigeria. Office of the barber to the President Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Stupidity everywhere.

Crappy crap.

Seeing the number of viewers am very sure this must be front page.

Please I have not seen 100 likes before I want to know what it feels like. Can you help a brother fulfill his desires of 100 likes.

Thank you brother, thank you sister. We're almost there!

Kkkk

aloa3:
i knew i'd get crucified for putting engr courses on that list,i didnt specify which engineering course,the likes of agricultural engr,computer engr,food engr,system engr, food tech... this are cheap courses i knw some of my friends who are currently having a first class in engr courses

Op that you have brainy friends in engineering 'curses' doesn't make it any cheaper than it is.
No matter how hard a course is , there will always be people who can deal with it comfortably.

aloa3:
Well i might later be crucified.....but all this are just my opinion after researching and listening to testimonies......
1... Agric related courses
2....Engineering courses
3.... Computer science
4.... Philosophy
5.... Sociology
6.... Public administration
7.... Geology
8.... Yoruba
9.... Mass Communication
10...Political science

Now note people also do fail but am just saying this courses are quite easy to get a first class in with the being hardworking...dont be lazy
Contary opinion are accepted

Cc. lalasticala

Sees engineering courses and runs away screaming!

They have come o!

Kkk

HungerBAD:
Offered to return? she thinks she is doing Nigeria a favor by returning monies that rightful belongs to the country?all the PDP Big wigs that have been found guilty, in the court of public opinion for stealing will have no where to run to.

They know they are cornered. The international community via the Interpol will work with the Nigeria Government, just in case some of them decide to do a runner to some foreign country. The final target should be Goodluck Jonathan, that man should be made to see the inside of a prison for looting Nigeria 50 Years backward.

There is a couple of more Billions of $, where this woman brought this money from. She should be made to return the rest.

Once again, President Buhari is demonstrating his resolve to sanitize the rot, left by the PDP.

We are behind you President Buhari.

Bros me the one that is still paining me till now is they went far as to scam innocent unemployed Nigerian graduates of their money during the immigration recruitment, some graduates lost their lives too.

Abba Moro should answer o.

For her to agree to remit $250 million means there's more from where its coming from.

Someone should check her swiss bank account. If Abacha's loot in billions of pounds couldn't cripple Nigeria it means Nigeria is stinkingly rich.

Before I forget the arms deal money has it been remited to fg account why am asking is that inspite of all the money that was recovered from Abacha yet Nigeria is a shit hole and our money is becoming like tissue paper.

otunsman:
Any girl who says she doesn't do a broke guy is a hoe.

That's a new one. Are you a broke guy? Must really hurt but you can change your status by working hard. Girls are beautiful and sexy creatures that needs to be taken care of. Brokeness doesn't fit into the equation.

Pinkiedearie:
Hhahahahahahah..OP you forgot *recharge card boyfriends....ths ones are responsible for their phone recharging..

They fall under assistant financial booyfriends.

Op you didn't state their various rewards.

atmy:
Hello folks. I recently realized that the company I work for has been advertising vacancy for a job position that is exactly as mine. I was surprised to even see people talking about the job on nairaland and receiving interview invitation. Please what does this mean. Although i am not perfect but I have been working hard for this company. Do you think they are trying to get rid of me?

It means the oloshos wey you bin dey brag about don use ya destiny play kalou kalou.

Teryfik:
FTC:dedicated 2 all my guys in warri......area!!! Chai see all this witches way dae up

Warri nor dey carry last. Area!!

You've been validated as FTC. Carry on!

devour129:
You guys have to learn that you don't need money to marry a wife ! Ask me why

Do your people dash out women? Okay why?

Gurgle:
so basically he doesn't want to marry her until she has her own income?

and his parents are saying he should marry her anyway?

Why I agree that marriage is a good thing I cannot subscribe he's ready to face the pressure since he's hands are full at the moment.

What is #600 000 that would be gulped down with the marriage preparation? Meanwhile the fiancee is unemployed and there's no guarantee she will get a job immediately after the wedding meaning that all her financial needs and desires will be shouldered by your friend as it is. I don't know if the fiancee is as ambitious as he is or if she can manage finances in wisdom as you left that part.

Let him start building a house on those plots of land as it would make things easier for him in future. He's right to insist the fiancee should get employed albeit self employed since its her role to be a help meet. So what help can she render to him should he marry her now?

If your friend or you as I don't know if you are person marries her now then it means you are not man enough to take decisions and would fall further to future pressures to them.

Marriage is a liability especially where only one party iss financially involved.

vickoozy:
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First of all before I comment I want the Mods to ban this guy for booking space.

Op na so you wan pour sand for your brother garri?
Pray this prayer with me, Oh Lord grant me wisdom in Jesus name, Amen.

At the mention of money people eye don dey choke. Money that hasn't even been secured and you are mentioning about it on social media.
Wait until the organisers of the competition see the post and revert/ cancel the money. Your eye go clear.

sirxbit:
i rili dnt undastand.dis moment the poster wil say he,b4 u knw hes saying her

I understand op is the receiver of the slap which actually reset his brain to factory setting.
There's need to re-install the necessary apps to get his brain functional again.

Please my people can I get just 20 likes?

Thanks and God bless.

Naijaa I hail thee. Op is looking for buyers of ebook to make money for himself while the poster above me is trying to make money out of op through advert placements.

Whether the buyers of the ebook make money or not is not their business. Buy the ebook and call op later for explanation and you will be surprised op knows nothing about the ebook nor has he read it as that too is not his concern.

Op make money for you and you alone.

ogalawyer:
I ve definitely learnt my lessons. But it's not like I was trying to post the pictures on Nairaland or something. Anyway what I s wrong in posting pictures of a protest on Nairaland. Are we not in a free society?

Yes of course we are in a free society so why are you complaining when they acted freely with you?

Kk