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A friend of mine,who is also a nairalander is madly in love with a girl he met 2 years ago and he is even hoping to marry her, my problem with their relationship is that the girl has a very very very ugly past. She confessed and listed18 guys she has slept with in our street alone,a list including his close pals and his immediate younger brother, another ugly episode of her past is that, she had a son at 16,but she never knew who was responsible, because she was involved with four different guys on the month she concieved . Please NAIRALANDERS, is this kind of past forgivable? Is this normal? Has anyone been in such situation or witnessed something similar before? does such blind,dead and dumb love stil exist?
Please your advice is seriously needed as he doesnt believe he has a problem


Cc: Lalasticlala

Example of d white lies please

petiteee:
H do u cut him off? Use a knife Kiakia

i no b boko haram

yomi007k:
My broda, "oriburuku" is contagious.



Dem don jazz dat guy n he's probably gona run u down becos he can never have that girl.


Run dude, Run.

lol...God no go let us contact dis kind oriburuku

mizzkweenbee:
U already said u think his problem is spiritual. He's ur friend and you shouldn't jus leave him at the mercy of that karashika, y not take him to the church for serious deliverance. Cutting him off isn't the best option if u ask me. Try God, he never fails

he doesnt believe he has a problem,aside that,he has ceased being a christian because the girl is a muslim

cruzita:
op wire am spiritual slap the juju go comot from him eye.which kind yeye love be dat

lol..d love strong pass as u think o...as at now,none of his friends talk with him except me, but he obviously doesnt seem to be borthered, as long as the girl still keeps servicing him

Ginaz:
Just tell him to go, nothing big about it. Since he has refused to listen to advise, cut him off by bluntly telling him you can no longer accommodate or tolerate him as a friend again. He is not your responsibility! He's a grown man!

There is a difference between rendering help to someone and taking care of someone. He's a liability now to you, that's just the truth. And besides, when a tree is rotten and despite efforts to make it futile and fruitful yet no results, it is cut down and burnt. If you dont tell him to his face to go and you keep tolerating him, he'll slowing burn you out. At the end, your good deeds will turn to evil!

tnx...i find this very helpful

ronald4lif:
Kick the id1ot out of your house, warn him never to come around or near you again until he stop seeing the girl. That's how to cut him off from your life.

tnx bro...at this point,i really hav to consider that

I have this childhood friend that has been of great disturbance to me lately. We grew up together as neighbours and this guy was a young,vibrant and versatile prospect for the future, He greatly detested idlenes. His astounding love for hustling led him to paying his 1st year school fees single-handedly without having to wait for his parents.
This guy was easy going and was the type that couldnt ask a girl out,talk more of touching a girl he is alone with, but he changed for the worse when he started dating a young girl of about 17, renowned for her legendary bed to bed tactics in our street. Before my friend and the girl started their relationship, she already had a child that doesn't have a father, because the four guys involved with her on the month she got pregnant vehemently denied. In our street,i could count about 17 guys that have slept with this girl, my friend's immediate younger brother has also slept with the same girl and the worst is that she spends for all this guys with the funds she gets from my friend, he practically submits every money he has to the girl,down to his house rent,he is curently homeless and have been squatting with some of our friends, while his mom has been having serious health issues due to the fact that she has been taking loans to send him to school,but now,everything he gets from the mom,he gives to the girl. In his extra bid to satisfy the girl financially, he started stealing, and has been caught 4 times. Recently his younger brothers mobilized themselves to the girl's house where he was staying and thorougly beat him up,but all this didnt make him change, some of us,(his friends) adviced him as well,instead he went to the girl and tabled everything we told him. First i thought it was foolish love, but am now begining to think it is spiritual since he has sold every valuable property he has and submitted the proceeds to the girl. His mom and every wellwisher have begged him to leave the girl, but he has refused. Since he resumed school, i have been feeding him because he came with nothing as his mom has vowed not to give him a dime till he leaves the girl, another annoying part is that he even calls her with my airtime. I have also been getting series of reports concerning how he goes about begging, just to get funds for airtime to call the girl. THE PROBLEM AM HAVING NOW IS HOW TO CUT HIM OFF. mature minds please

obiorathesubtle:
omo.. Carry guitar, go her room window go sing for her..



If hot water reach you.. Don't give up..


Next one.. For front of her class, when lecturer dy teach.. Go write for board..


I LOVE YOU (HER FULL NAME)...

Iswear.. If she no suck your Dick for class.. Just know say my name no be obiora..


Pay money.. I go give you more tips.. Better tips.. That na how I don use sweep girls off their feet...

I dy final year right now.. Since my yr1.. I don disvirgin more than 20 girls.. Because of romance.. So, if you're interested.. Just pay.. I go give you more tips wey go make virgins flock around you..

chai ...igbo boys again
nna how much for all dis tips

I have this childhood friend that has been of great disturbance to me lately. We grew up together as neighbours and this guy was a young,vibrant and versatile prospect for the future, He greatly detested idlenes. His astounding love for hustling led him to paying his 1st year school fees single-handedly without having to wait for his parents.
This guy was easy going and was the type that couldnt ask a girl out,talk more of touching a girl he is alone with, but he changed for the worse when he started dating a young girl of about 17, renowned for her legendary bed to bed tactics in our street. Before my friend and the girl started their relationship, she already had a child that doesn't have a father, because the four guys involved with her on the month she got pregnant vehemently denied. In our street,i could count about 17 guys that have slept with this girl, my friend's immediate younger brother has also slept with the same girl and the worst is that she spends for all this guys with the funds she gets from my friend, he practically submits every money he has to the girl,down to his house rent,he is curently homeless and have been squatting with some of our friends, while his mom has been having serious health issues due to the fact that she has been taking loans to send him to school,but now,everything he gets from the mom,he gives to the girl. In his extra bid to satisfy the girl financially, he started stealing, and has been caught 4 times. Recently his younger brothers mobilized themselves to the girl's house where he was staying and thorougly beat him up,but all this didnt make him change, some of us,(his friends) adviced him as well,instead he went to the girl and tabled everything we told him. First i thought it was foolish love, but am now begining to think it is spiritual since he has sold every valuable property he has and submitted the proceeds to the girl. His mom and every wellwisher have begged him to leave the girl, but he has refused. Since he resumed school, i have been feeding him because he came with nothing as his mom has vowed not to give him a dime till he leaves the girl, another annoying part is that he even calls her with my airtime. I have also been getting series of reports concerning how he goes about begging, just to get funds for airtime to call the girl. THE PROBLEM AM HAVING NOW IS HOW TO CUT HIM OFF. mature minds please

Can she speak english'?

He don die na.lol

Nonsense

Ok

...

Op takeheart......I can imagine how painful it is....

She may still hav a bf even with all dis problems o

Ok

Rubbish....doesnt he have legs...i nor blame am,na d man wey deliver am i blame

CARLOSZ:
I'll cook okro soup.
Okro 100 Ugu 100 Oil. 50 Maggi 10 Crayfish 50 Meat. 300 Salt 10 Fish 180 Fufu 100 Pure water(1bag) 100
And I'll serve it hot to Lalasticlala and Seun.

no pepper no onions

Abeg who be dat mad man wey wan chop 900veg

FTC

aaronson:
Thumb up to her for being herself. It takes a lot being one true self in the public.

Are you gay

All my money wey he dey chop no even show for him body

Na d pix i come see o

radiokilla:
yes, i'll try my best to get this issue sorted out. My friend has spoken with the others, your's won't be an exception. Please bear with him, something happened which i believe he'll explain to you.

Thanks you have spoken well, but in as much as i stand to believe you, your friend still hasn't replied any of my mails

radiokilla:
i got your mail. I'm the editor of Gunnerscity and i can assure you that you did not work for Gunnerscity. I have forwarded your mail to him and he will treat it accordingly. Thanks

yes i understand i never worked for gunnerscity, all i knew was i started work with Abayomi Aje, using the admin@gunnerscity.com email until
he decided we continue with another email, which was abeswriters@gmail.com. I believe you understand me now.

radiokilla:
nynd44 please come and take care of this defamatory posts from this guy. i am not a scammer in the least

oga am back, i actually followed the cases of those that worked for Abayomi your frnd. I was able to detect you knew nothing concerning the whole issue. Am actually sorry for throwing tantrums. I will lyk to plead with you to help talk to your frnd to pay me. I worked for gunnerscity.com and i worked with the email adedavid37@gmail.com. i already sent you a mail. Thanks