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PoliticsRe: Governor Oyebanji Spotted Playing Draughts With Locals On the Street (Photos) by GABUJABOY(m): 5:51pm On Apr 21, 2025
election thing's
TravelRe: Construction Of Underpass At Barkin Sale Road, Niger State (Pictures) by GABUJABOY(m): 8:47am On Apr 09, 2025
what they are building is similar to the design but not that design on the paper.
RomanceRe: Is It Safe To Borrow Loans And Send My Wife To School Abroad? by GABUJABOY(m): 10:54pm On Apr 07, 2025
you are right,
allow matured adult to correct there mistake now,
then have that there dream child on your head.

you better follow agba don doe on Twitter

AllBlack:
I like this. Please collect all the loans you can and don't forget to sell your lands and cars because it would be the most worthy investment ever for a bright future.

Your eye nova see pepper in flying colours.
RomanceRe: Is It Safe To Borrow Loans And Send My Wife To School Abroad? by GABUJABOY(m): 10:51pm On Apr 07, 2025
you may not be lucky to tell the story few years from now.
since you can't learn from others mistakes.
do not empower your wife to be greater than you,
if you do the society will back her up, to manipulate and control you.
this is even better.
you may not be lucky to even conclude paying the loan
PoliticsRe: Abia Health Workers Issue 15-Day Ultimatum Over Unpaid Salary Review by GABUJABOY(m): 8:02am On Apr 04, 2025
THEY ARE NOT COMPLAINING OF NOT BEEN OWED SALARY, INSTEAD THEY SEEK FOR AN UPWARD REVIEW OF THERE SALARY, WHICH IS THERE RIGHT.
LIKEWISE THE STATE GOVERNMENT ASKED THEM TO GIVE THEM TIME.
AS FOR THERE PREVIOUSLY OWED SALARIES, THAT HAVE BEEN CLEARED BY THIS CURRENT GOVERNMENT.
AND THERE SALARIES ARE BEING PAID 28TH OF EVERY MONTH.
PoliticsRe: Rivers Government Debunks Report Of Fubara Shutting Down NNPCL by GABUJABOY(m): 8:14pm On Nov 01, 2024
we no longer see 100 likes 😂 on a particular post again 😜😄
PoliticsRe: Wike Flags Off Rehabilitation Of 10km Township Road In Gwagwalada Area Council by GABUJABOY(m): 7:20am On Oct 31, 2024
wait make i ask oh,
so what is the duty of Area council.
because the previous x2 council chairman started a portion of that road, that have been abandoned.

it's 🤣😂😆🤣🤣😂😂🤣
PoliticsRe: Who Increased Fuel Prices? – Reno Omokri by GABUJABOY(m): 7:08am On Oct 11, 2024
this one is lost by his selfishness.

i told someone that they will be forced to pay tax even for businesses in front of there houses inside trenches.

infact they should wait for 2025,
this is just the beginning.....

remember it has always been about widen the tax net.
PoliticsRe: The Man In Nyesom Wike Never Gets Tired, Always Return Deadly Blows To Opponents by GABUJABOY(m): 7:05am On Oct 11, 2024
Because they are career politicians 😭😞😞
TravelRe: Earth Tremor In Mpape, Abuja by GABUJABOY(m): 5:56pm On Sep 17, 2024
I heard the sound along Minister's Hill Axis
TravelRe: Construction Commences On Lagos - Calabar Coastal Highway by GABUJABOY(m): 6:21pm On Mar 22, 2024
I have been hearing about this road project, for over 12years now.
I hope the construction doesn't take over 12 years again.

Congratulations to us all
PhonesRe: Subsea Cable: Glo Shades MTN, Others (Photo) by GABUJABOY(m): 11:47am On Mar 20, 2024
I have been browsing with both networks since then. But you see this glo, they should grow up, they can't be compared to mtn
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Commended For Reconstruction Of Road, Bridge Destroyed In Civil War by GABUJABOY(m): 9:37pm On Mar 19, 2024
Let me place a call across for confirmation
RomanceRe: Photos: Bianca Spotted In A Almost N*ked Attire With Kanye West by GABUJABOY(m): 4:00pm On Mar 19, 2024
Who else noticed the woman on the wheelchair was shocked 😧😳
RomanceRe: Guy Catches His Girlfriend Cheating While In Vacation (video) by GABUJABOY(m): 7:49pm On Mar 04, 2024
Eunoiaa:
I love the lady and her ruthlessness.

That is divine femininity in practice right there, and I wish more women like her would rediscover the true purpose of their feminine essence and being: spread their seeds and dominate men, just as Mother Eve intended.


The redpill is responsible today for so many unwoke ills ravaging our society, and most especially for the fact that it has bred a culture of entitlement to faithfulness in men.

This was literally unheard of less than 200 years ago. Women have never owed men loyalty in the past and will never owe them; it is not in our DNA to be faithful. Any woman who goes on and on about faithfulness, and propagating it, check well. She's a misandrist influenced by an utopian, patriarchal world that has had her brain rewired into thinking men desire faithfulness (the most*) in a relationship. Even nature doesn't support the female's faithfulness.


I will just advise men to go back to the drawing boards of their forefathers and restrategize. I know this can be hard for them, with them being the testerical gender (they hate hearing the truth), but they should internalize the fact that women are incapable of emotions in any form and so adjust their expectations accordingly. So long as a woman can give you a baby, a ring, and a roof, that is all you need to attain your fulfilment of masculine needs. Men's hard, larger bodies are literally made for nurturing, so y'all should get that nonsense ideas of romantic love and exclusivity out of your heads.

To find a cheating woman is to find the best woman.

Do not let me spill all these time-held, and -tested secrets to masculine liberation. I will be sharing it to you all in small doses, so you can follow me to keep up if you like. It's what I am here to do. Women are natural born cheaters, and the earlier you know and understand this as a man, the better and happier for you...
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You are right, women keeps secret more than men. But we men boast of knowing this game more.
As a guy the lady you are cheating wth is someone's girlfriend or wife, who have been playing this game secretly for years before getting married, while you were busy doing yours openly.

#Eunoiaa'sPotions
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RomanceRe: Avoid A Narcissist At All Cost, My Experience. A Must Read. by GABUJABOY(m): 4:08pm On Dec 07, 2023
I can easily understand, there is so much you didn't say.
They act like devil.
They see things from there narrow mind, and assume everyone should see it that way.
As a psychologist I can tell you so much about them.
They care about there desire.
It's about them.
They blame you for everything,
Use your words against you, by manipulating it to there satisfaction.
They are lost in their ego.
They look so nice and caring.
They can be so emotional.
Let me stop here.


Saintinoo:
I never knew that I will one day write about this, because, of all the advice I have been given, I taught it was love in the air.

Some months ago, I created a thread about how I can't get over my girlfriend and another thread where I confirmed that she was a narcissist. But now, I have not only confirmed that I dated a covert narcissist for four solid years, but I have come to learn a lot about narcissism and how to unmask them. Sadly, we have more narcissist both male and female going into serious relationships.
White you are thinking about the problems in your relationship, the fights everyday, the mental abuse etc, you might just be in a relationship with a narcissist and that is the worst thing that can happen to anybody.

HOW DO NARCISSISTS GET THEIR VICTIMS.

Be it male or female narcissist, they hunt for their victims same way. A narcissist targets an empath, they target people who have something they do not have, learn empathy from you just to use it against you.

They portray themselves as the best thing that can happen to you after egusi soup. Yes, my narc ex portrayed those traits, that wife material characteristics, godly and prayerful, dress decent and act same. Do not be deceived, they know that is what you want in a woman so they give it to you for the while.

They will always talk about forever with you, bring so many fairly tails and give you the soul mate feeling, this you will believe you have found a wife or a husband, then you start making marriage's preparation. They have successfully made you commit. Mine always use this word "forever is the goal". All these is to make you commit and when you have committed, they start the abuse stage.

The narcissist common aim, be it male or female is to get you trauma bonded to them. Trauma bond is a situation when you excuse abuse from someone, go back to your abuser because you are afraid to lose them. I cannot count the number of times I went back to apologize for doing nothing, that is trauma bond working for her.

The narcissist will never apologize for their wrong at the later part of the relationship, they will do wrong, and expect you to take it, when you try to speak up, they give you the silent treatment as a punishment. Yea,because they have groomed their victims so much through the various love bombing stages. I was given silent treatment every time, and yes,after going a week of waiting to see if she will apologize for her wrong, I end up saying sorry. I was groomed during the earlier days to not do without her.

The narcissist will love bomb you at the early stage of your relationship, this is not genuine love,it is a tactics to get you used to them and whenever you try to leave and think of the past memories, you will have no choice than to run back to them until they are ready to discard you. In my case,she calls every day to check on me, would spend over an hour with me on phone, gave me pet names and showed the world that she truly loved me. Those were all lies.

WHAT WENT WRONG BETWEEN I AND MY NARC EX.

For me, i thought she was the last bus stop, in fact I had been planning how our wedding even though I had limited funds at that time, I was ready to go against anybody just to wed my soulmate. But then, this problem keep coming. I felt someone was trying to control me, someone was doing wrong and do not apologize. We kept fighting almost every week, and yes, I kept apologising.

Early this year, I called her to discuss marriage plan, she disagreed with everything and went completely mute, I called the next day to resolve and ask for her opinion, she still went mute, the silent treatment increased. I vowed I am done and will not contact her again, went no contact. After two month, I saw her pic somewhere, and since I was trauma bonded to her and didn't heal completely, I went back begging her for over a week. That is was being trauma bond to a narcissist does, it completely makes you their slave.

During the cause of the discard from my narc ex, she knew that I have been trauma bonded to her and the sight of her pic will bring back memories, she used what is called " flying monkeys " to make me see her pics and believe that I will keep rushing back to beg her, because she enjoy all the abuse.

HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU DATING A NARCISSIST; if you do any of those thing I did, you are dating a narcissist.

1. I beg for her attention when she gives silent treatment.
2. I felt like she is just the one.
3. I do not look at any other lady not even a friendly look because all my attention was around her.
4. Her eyes goes dark when she is angry.
5. She shouts and insults to any extent when angry.
6. When she wrongs me and I refuse to call and apologize for reacting, maybe for 5 days or a week, she rages in anger.
7. She belittles me when she is angry, this is a common trait with a narc, male or female.
8. From her story, during our love days, and from my findings her dad is a narc. Pls try and know your lover parent, narc is hereditary.


Did I talk about how I later confirm that my Darling angel was a terrible covert narcissist.

Early this year, I had a neighbor whose 2 years old daughter exhibited the same traits my ex exhibited, the anger, the manipulation, the gaslighing, everything.

Finally, narcissists are demonic, look for these red flags in your relationship and end the relationship the minute you confirm that you date is a narc, there is no changing them, I tried and got hurt. The narc know what he/she is doing.

Narcissism is hereditary and they are born that way, they keep getting worse by the day, so best is to avoid them.

Drops pen.
PoliticsRe: FG’s 1 Million Digital Jobs: VP Shettima Lauds Google's N1.2bn Grant Initiative by GABUJABOY(m): 6:45pm On Aug 15, 2023
#1.2b ÷ 1m = #1200 each
BusinessRe: Investors Of AAS Curse Abayomi, Anyone Defending Him For Stealing Billions From by GABUJABOY(m): 8:42pm On Jul 18, 2023
If I reply this guy, posting all this efcc stuff.
His people will block me from responding.
InvestmentRe: Abayomi Segun Oluwasesan: How I Hacked Afriq Arbitrage System, Stole Billions by GABUJABOY(m): 5:09pm On Jul 14, 2023
Please move to front page, my money is involved
PoliticsRe: MT TURA II Vessel With Stolen Crude Oil Destroyed - NNPC (Video) by GABUJABOY(m): 6:24am On Jul 11, 2023
Your Asari Dokubo once said on NTA one on one Early morning program, that He was using crude in exchange for weapons.
NTA Nigeria has the record. He made this proclamation after he was granted amnesty, he said so much.
I have even seen his short tanker with his name written at the back , heading to distribute fuel as a child then.

TemplarLandry:
huh This is how they pilfer our oil and ship it out on a daily. This high-level oil theft couldn't have been possible without the complicity of our military apparatus. This was what Asari Dokubo was prattling on.
Ah..
Nigeria...

I reluctantly dedicate “Here We Go Again” by DMX to Nigeria.
TravelRe: MMA: Thieves Breach Security, Steal Million-worth Lighting Components by GABUJABOY(m): 4:08pm On Jul 10, 2023
STOP THE BLAME GAME,
In advance countries there are people monitoring CCTV 24/7. Usually they rotate the job. Which is also part of creating short time Job.
But in Nigeria you look into the CCTV after a crime is committed for proper investigation.

Most problem in this country can be corrected by applying the right measure's.

But they won't, because we have leaders that don't have foresight.
No one cares because it's not there private property.
EducationRe: The FBI Just Put Woodberry, Hushpuppi 152 Bitcoins On Sale by GABUJABOY(m): 12:50pm On Jul 09, 2023
One aboyeme of resent stole $15m from AAS.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Relocation To Lagos For Better Job Opportunities by GABUJABOY(m): 10:55am On Jun 29, 2023
https://www.nairaland.com/7741452/hackers-aas-afriq-arbitrage-system


NO BODY SHOULD ACT LIKE THIS GUY IN THIS LINK.
HE WAS GIVEN A JOB TO DO IN AAS, INSTEAD THIS NIGERIAN GUY WENT BEHIND CREATED HIS OWN TEAM, HACKED INTO THE SYSTEM AND STOLE BILLIONS IN NARIA.
LET'S STOP CELEBRATING CRIMINALS
InvestmentRe: Hackers Of AAS (afriq Arbitrage System) Have Been Caught by GABUJABOY(m): 10:50am On Jun 29, 2023
The Criminal dey even build hotel close to dangote refinery.
This guy will even be worse than that guy at the USA prison
FoodRe: What Is So Special About The Bottle Of Azul by GABUJABOY(m): 3:51pm On Jun 21, 2023
The first time I noticed you posting something funny 🤣 😂 😂
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This reminded us of the guy at our Barbecue Joint shouting to the Bottle ladies that "Na ASUN I order no be AZUL",

After dem don tell DJ to stop music dey play dorime on a low key, wey babes come dey dance in front of am after with placards and a bottle of Azul.
Our guy shout tire "Na ASUN I order no be AZUL ooo"
😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Vs Peter Obi: 8th June 2023 Live Court Updates by GABUJABOY(m): 4:50pm On Jun 08, 2023
We move regardless 🚀🚀
PoliticsRe: NNPC Confirms Increase In Pump Price Of Fuel, Releases Statement by GABUJABOY(m): 3:17pm On May 31, 2023
Food stuffs will soon skyrocket, then Renewed hope will kick start. shocked
PoliticsRe: Fuel Subsidy Removal: Tinubu Should Remember His Stand In 2012 - Ajaero by GABUJABOY(m): 3:14pm On May 31, 2023
HOPE YOU ARE AWARE PRICE OF GOODS AND SERVICE'S WILL DOUBLE AS WELL. embarassed

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