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Ubunja, thanks for the piece, patience and devotion. You're highly appreciated!

Jaynom:
They are right though! The Office Of The Vice President na wash! Vice Presidents are Figure Heads, puppets. The VPs office is more of a consolation

Same goes for deputy governors

How will the none believers take you seriously when even the "believers" dey miss road?

crackhaus:
My only issue here is that he's not talking to you but still eating your food.
Does that man like his life at all...

Buhahahahahaha

Go to a general hospital, your situation can't be strange or new to them.

I no be doctor sha

ubunja:
you are wrong.

There, someone told you.

Because first and foremost you don't know anything about the guy's financial state. Yet here you are saying money is the problem.

Whatever rocks your boat man

Ran away from steady darkness in Minna to Kainji (power generation host community), thinking life would be better but guy as I type this na pure unadulterated darkness.

*clears throat*

Please it's for married couples oh. Don't come and create topics in 9 months on how your life has changed ever since she became pregnant; especially if you're not ready or willing to marry her.

Be safe

Now you see how our copy copy system kills dreams and sincere minds...meanwhile those enforcing these age crap aren't saints themselves.

My advice: be patient and keep searching or better still try entrepreneurship. God will see you through.

kingkakaone:
Your perception is wrong bro.
I see what some of you write always. The belief that a man must have money before he's genuinely loved by a woman which is wrong.
There are good ladies out there who care less about how much you have at the moment, the fact that you haven't seen does not mean that they are not around.

That you don't agree doesn't make it wrong. You're also entitled to your opinion which I wouldn't castigate because humans are quite different.

You don't realize how wrong you are by saying my perception is wrong as mine is even more popular than yours if you live in the real world.
Besides, he asked for advice not debates.

So you need us to tell you she doesn't dig you anymore? Ok your girlfriend sincerely doesn't like you anymore and is spending quality time with someone else who is 'probably footing the bills...that's what many do nowadays.

You become boring once cash isn't flowing.

My advice: try ignore thoughts of her and the temptation to chat or call her up. Go and make money, relax and someone will walk quietly into your life without a fuss.

UjuJoan2:
Pray for him, love him bla bla bla. That's the typical Nigerian advice for women in dysfunctional relationships.

Yet when I say women stay with abusive men for the wrong reasons, People will become all self righteous.

Nonsense!

As far as I'm concerned, the man is being completely unreasonable and i hate such men of little faith and caring towards their union.

I know it's good to have faith, be prayerful and all that blah blah blah but truth is since they're now married and stand as one before God and man, she shouldn't be bearing this alone.

Whatever the problem is, I'm pretty sure there are medical solutions to it. He should be ashamed of himself for not being your comfort at this trying time. Whatever he thinks or feels he's going through, I was there and stood by my wife for 6 good years till God answered our prayers via fertility clinic.

Let him go and raise money and take you to fertility clinic instead of behaving like hell on earth.

So many opt for marriage but are not emotionally and psychologically ready for it.

Please find a way to talk to maybe his parent or someone that can convince him to take both of you to a fertility clinic: it doesn't matter who has the challenge, you're now one and should behave so.

You can only pray after you've made concerted efforts.

Be strong and please stop the tears.

God bless you.

Guy if you let the things women say sink into your heart, you'd only have yourself to blame. Do what you can and free your mind.
You're a man, so act like one!

Nice one

If you claim such, why advise him on the options of resign or fight?

Trust any politician at your own peril

Someone said Kenya is land of the weirds

Wonders

khallebb:
Was expecting to see one young sweet fine girl, not some old granny.

Unfortunately the young fine girls priority isn't to achieve such feat

thesicilian:
You're worried about her infidelity when your own was much worse.

E tire me

None of my relatives is on that list why? And I should feel sad for who again?

LadySarah:
No contact,no address,no product name.No link for purchase.

Dear mkter,hw is it doing You today

When he's ready

Many people now talk like apc without knowing it...smh

OP what's with the "beautiful" and "personal" na..? Any plans to use her?

I was once a battery theft victim

SKYloafFISH:
YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN

My thoughts exactly. I just hope by the time you change your mind, your biological system won't betray you.

As an alternative, you could adopt.

SKYloafFISH:
Let them look for a way to reduce unemployment rate too

They're reducing unemployment abysmally by taking only their wards.

May God help the poor

Before nkor?

Ahh...dont tell anybody told you the reason...bri g your ear let me whisper the reason to you alone.

"It's incompetence"

See someone complaining of doing theirs since 2015....mine was on a mobile registration office since 2012 aswear. No news since then and I can't register twice.