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Why do we need Sharia in the first place? Are our laws not sufficient enough?

May her soul rest in perfect peace.

Elusive001:
But you no support am then?

Were you not among those urchins that sang his praises?

Don't have hypertension over people/things you know nothing about.

Rather than propose bills to move the nation forward starting from constitution ammendment, they are thinking of creating more states to add more criminals to power.

The creation of states worsened the economy compared to when we had just regions. It never brought the government closer to the people, it only created opportunity for more criminals.

If the one telling a lie chooses to deceive himself, his listeners know the truth.

It is well

Dinner:

Rice and dodo.

May their souls rest in perfect peace.

This isn't mid life crisis. My advice is that you keep working hard and believing things will get better one day. Try as much as you can not to compare. Life is a marathon thus, we keep pushing till we make it.

unmask:
Most people with connections don't need to foot all the bills. They have wealthy connects that support them

The article suggested his firm is footing his CSR bills.

Peter536:
I don't remember signing any contract or reading one. He only asked few questions if I smoke and which I don't. And also where I work. Then I proceeded and make payment which he gave me keys and that's it. Other flats has family of over 5 why is mine different

Then you owe him nothing.

Nnamdipapa:
Be the first to file for divorce and get and aggressive attorneys. Most of your depending on cheap representations like the legal aid clinic for your divorce will never learn.
Divorce is very expensive and should be ready to spend.

I believe people need more education on this.

I also believe there is the part of the African immigrant not taking the whole process serious and thereby not getting the best of litigation. I only know two divorced couples and in both cases, the judgment was fair in that they were granted joint custody and mandated not to live more than 5 miles apart from each other. No party was asked to pay child support, I am guessing because both party earns six figures annually and have joint custody. However, the men lost out on the equity they had in the mortgage as they were told to leave the property for the women and the women going forward should pay for the mortgage.

I guess people should know there is no shame in the game and should speak up so that they can get good advice and perhaps, good family lawyers.

A friend who also went through a divorce, in this case I don't know the wife, and got full custody of their daughter said he learned that some of the lawyers connive to make money off the family. He gave an example where he witnessed another couple's divorce which he saved. He said every time he was in court, he noticed the lawyers of the man and woman come ahead and they have discussion. He said he was privy to their discuss on the final day where the woman's lawyer told the man's lawyer he has convinced the woman to claim she wants the property and his intention was to ensure she sells it and they (both lawyers) will make so much gain if the man's lawyer can convince the man to accept the woman's plea. He said he recorded it unknowingly to the lawyers and he played it to the couple and that was how they said they no longer want the divorce. So in some cases, these lawyers try to play a fast one on us.

Is the maximum number of occupants written on the contract 1? Is it written in the contract that you can't bring people to live with you? Is it written in the contract that for each person that lives with you there will be additional expenses payable to the landlord? Read through your contract first.

Good he is doing some CSR however, what is the net worth of his businesses to cover for these expenses?

May his soul rest in perfect peace. The impatient okada rider has caused a family a great and unforgettable pain.

Dinner:

Alfredo pasta.

cococandy:
Ah since when? Did you leave us in America to face this man alone?

No but I am in the US as a Canadian. I prefer it here however, I need defend my country of citizenship too.

Wish Canada had positioned herself better before now. We shouldn't wait until a time like this to take actions. Our dependence on the US is a bit too much.

Dinner:

Pounded yam with white soup.

Sunday brunch:

Carrot Waffles with over easy fried eggs.

Dinner from Saturday:

Beans and ripe plantain porridge.

Now, it is clear why he lost his license and the likely reason he took his life.

Ilekokonit:
You get good wife. If na some wives, every month before they drop their share of the joint contribution they will insult you or form unnecessary quarrel so that you will avoid collecting their share from them. Some will even lie to you about their finances.

You are right on the good wife. We discussed this before marriage and when she wasn't working, she knew I never hid a penny so, I guess I must have built trust. Besides, mine is also on the table.

Dpsychologist:
Lol is it an accounting class

It doesn't have to be but it is about fiscal responsibility.

Ishilove:
Won't adding boiling water to the beans in a blender crack the blender cup?

No it wouldn't. That is what I do and everyone around me does the same. It is the fastest way to peel beans.

We will be alright at last. The idea of changing posts to suit an individual will only make things worse.

Unfortunately, some men think providing is what makes them the man/head of the home. As such, they don't mind slaving away for the title.

In my house, we have our principle which is a joint contribution of 95% of net income and it is my job to draw out the budget (it covers everything even to hair cut/braiding and buying of personal hygiene kits) and discuss it with madam. The remaining 5% for each party can be spent on whatever either party wants.

This way, there's no pressure since we both know where we are. At the end of each month, we do a mini audit by discussing what was properly done and what could have been managed better.

faxana:
I want to make Moi Moi but I don't have strength to remove this black thing from the beans. Chefs in the house, is it okay to blend it like that? Will it change the taste or look?

Help!

Pour it in a blender and add boiling water to it, leave it for about 45 seconds and pulse about 6 times. Pour it into a big bowl, add lots of water and you will see the peels floating. That's the fastest way I know to peel beans.

luminouz:
That GboyegaD dude is someone I will avoid in real life because he can poison you. He is such a snake. How does living in saner(we know it ain't that saner) climes make you lose your reasoning as a man. The guy is always talking rubbish just to look good to the female folks on NL and I just wonder which kain low self esteem dey worry that guy

No go kill yourself on top my matter ooo. If all you read from my post doesnt align with your ideology, why not move on? It is your low self esteem and your fake pride that makes you bother about how any gender feels about your post. I sabi your type with low testosterone qey dey try form manly by force wey you no be.

Abeg, no be your type I dey follow waka for real life.

irumole1975:
Don’t worry. It’ll come back to you. Then you’ll see how right or wrong you are. You believe just because you’re not out to dupe people and take there money, people feel the same way about you and are not out to hurt you just because they want ease for themselves?

What will come back to me? People have issues in marriage wherever they are however, most humans are not so evil to the point that they disregard/take advantage of the sincerity of their spouse.

luminouz:
Jesus, why am I not surprised you will still find a way to blame the man even after he is dead?

Dude...dem use simp water bath you ni?

You are embarrassing the male gender abeg...

Do you have problem with comprehension? Where did you read my comment about the dead man in this case? If you have a problem with my opinion, it's your business because I don't have to reason the way you do.