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So cheating equals death, making her own children fatherless. How you want to rationalize murder beats me. Cheating is immoral but not a crime and the man can be chastised and made to recompense in many good ways.[quote author= post=109689326]Damn it!
This is the height of it.

In as much as the late husband's friends are calling for the head of the wife,
With this wicked act she carried out.
She may face the consequences of her actions,
But let us look at things from the perspective of cheating by the hubby.


Some Naija men can never do without cheating.
Thank God for some of them that respect their wives, families and respect themselves.

Those cheaters we are talking about,
when they are confronted with cheating,
they minimize, rationalize, and justify their behavior with statements like:

Every guy wants to have sex with other women. And when the opportunity arises, he takes it.

It’s a man’s biological imperative to have sex with as many women as he can. Why should I be any different?

If I got enough (or better) sex at home, I wouldn’t need to cheat.

I’m not doing anything that most of my friends don’t do. If you don’t believe me, ask them.

If my wife hadn’t gained so much weight—or if she was nicer to me, or more attentive—I wouldn’t have even thought about going elsewhere.

Who would call getting a lap dance in a strip club cheating? It’s just what guys do for fun.

And as we see on this forum on a daily basis,
If the police had been out chasing some bad guys, I wouldn’t have gotten caught in that brothel, Why don’t they go after some real criminals?

I’m only sexting and flirting. Where’s the harm in that? I don’t meet up with any of these women in person. It’s just a game.

When some of us @MANNA were in the therapy business, we have a name for this type of reasoning, it is called : Denial.

From a psychotherapy perspective, denial is a series of internal lies and deceits people tell themselves to make their questionable behaviors seem OKAY (at least in their own minds).
Typically, each self-deception is supported by one or more rationalizations, with each one bolstered by still more falsehoods.

The murder case of Chidinma comes to mind.
God save our men from killer women!

SAY NO TO CHEATING.



You are always welcome.
We will always stand on the side of the truth as long as we are here.
Truth is not bitter, just that people are bitter to the truth.
God bless your marriage.
Great things loading for you and wifey.[/quote]

Hmmm, there is now justification for use of "unpresidential" language. Fox is still the most watched network in US. The question was even the most germane to the press conference held but because it hit the raw nerves Biden cursed on live TV. I can recall the furore over "shithole" comment which was even a reported one not on live TV. Is that how to lower the temperature, unite the country? Sean Hannity and his mob in FOX has got something to feast on now.

God1000:
No need to apologize, I see it as political correctness because of his personality.

Fox news is notorious for character assassination, campaign of calumny and all sorts of propaganda against the democrats, it is the most racist media organisation in America, they support every ugly thing republicans do.

I won't forget how they aided and abetted Donald trump wrongdoings

Making statements back with no facts is absurd. Eguavoen has the highest winning ratio for Nigerian coaches. 3 losses in 19 games and they were all narrow 1 nil losses to Cote D'voire, Guinea and this Tunisia. He hasn't even drawn a match.

Marcobos12:
Oga, take your hatred elsewhere. He is not the reason even though I am a fan of buhari. Let's call a spade a spade. Your amateur coach who had no tactics was the one that sent you out of the tournament. You hired a coach who had worst record with the national team to come and perform wonders. I have long predicted the outcome even before the tournament started.

Harsh words spoken here and totally unfair.

Throwback:
No wonder many healthy females employ other healthy females to have their children through surrogacy. Just like those who refuse to breastfeed their babies because of a breast that must still fall.

Thanking her for leaving her endorsements to have another child after 13yrs?

This ugly low self esteem dude really worships his beautiful wife. Secretly, he thinks himself unworthy of his wife, and was still caught napping by his wife when he was sex chating an old acquaintance a few years back.

That is his foundational problem.

Yeah Kia Sportsge. She was the first movie actress to buy a cross over vehicle then.

NaijaNaWaa:
Looks like Regina Askia is in love with red KIA. She used to drive a red KIA (SUV) in the 90s and now she bought KIA sedan for her daughter.

People move from UK to US especially the non natives because of more opportunities in US not because it is a ghetto. UK has better transport and health system than US and even a better work life balance.
Concerning that dude, you are absolutely right.Damn too condescending.

otipoju:
People dey run from UK come USA for greener pastures. E get why. I no go talk pass like that. Hardly any one will run from USA to UK for a better life.


That guy talking condescendingly to the artiste just migrated from Lagos to UK and the thing dey shack am. My shade was directed specifically to him.

He sees him rolling,he is hating,he'd rather see him riding dirty.

MzBlessin:
sounds like you hating

It will shock you that song resonates well with them. My pal has a Kenyan partner,the way she rocks to the song is shocking. You think promoters are daft,they dont go near where there is no demand for the music act.

Thebig4:
Wat will he be singing, same noise zazoo with no meaning. Those ones go just dey look am like zoombe

You are absolutely spot on except the last sentence or paragraph. How is UK Ghetto compared to US . This is either fallacy or ignorance .

otipoju:
Na human being wey God create na him you describe so ooo. You think if he was privileged like you he would not wish to be in a better state than he was born and grew up in.

Music aside you should not be looking fown on people. Tables can turn anyday.
As for his music...live and let live. Not all music is meant to make sense or inspire. Know this and know peace. He has his niche and they love him like that.

Live your life and let others live their lives.

UK na still ghetto where US dey ooo.

All these harsh grammar on a guy just having fun. He is a product of his environment and it seems fame and fortune is smiling on him already. Take it easy,his product isnt for everybody so you can switch off when you see or hear it.

Egein:
A rageddy dreg from the innermost recess of the dingiest ghetto.

An uncouth wretch with a most-fleeting, undeserved fame as was with other upstarts before him e.g. Mr. Spellz; the laughing Ghanaian cab driver; the 600-years-of-suffering pastor and other talentless dingbats who have returned to the eventless obscurity from whence the emerged.

What about Imohimi Edgal that just left in 2019? No need to take this religion stuff too far.

Beremx:
It’s been a long time a Christian has been appointed as a commissioner of police in Lagos.

A quick chip here. The word stuff is never pluralized.

FreeStuffsNG:
Asiwaju Tinubu is going ahead consulting and he is not setting a limit to the Nigerians he will visit.
May God grant Asiwaju Tinubu favour in the eyes of patriotic Nigerians.

My appeal goes to patriotic Nigerians to please vote for Asiwaju Tinubu.
Asiwaju Tinubu is extremely capable and competent to lead Nigeria to greater heights.
Please vote for Asiwaju Tinubu.
May God bless you and may God bless Nigeria forever.
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"Arrangee gun shot" you people should be conscionable and leave the son out of the hatred for the dad. It was a serious battle to retake sacked Michika/Bazza When he was wounded and taken to Yola,it was Atiku and the Governor that went to visit him first. That time OBJ and ATIKU were not even on speaking terms.

StUriah:
Na arrangee gun shot. Obasanjo is a strategist and he always wants to demonstrate how patriotic he and his family members can be to Nigeria.

Obj wasn't the one that ended the Biafra war; he manipulated his comrades and took away their glory. Wicked man.

The more you look, the less you see.

Absolutely spot on. He even enforced competence and merit especially the staff and command college exams which is the toughest(moving from captain to Major). The quota system people used to waive a lot of their folks on without passing it properly. Obasanjo's military chiefs ensured if you dont pass you are going nowhere but your house.

If you are seeing a lot of southern folks in army top hierarchy postings lately it is as result of this. There are more southern Generals presently. That is why appointing Army Chiefs from the North lately has been a hectic task and involves retiring a lot of people to pave way.

ceaser:
Shey Buhari no get pikin for NA ni?

Why would he anyways? He got his own military appointment via quota system in the first instance and because he doesn't seem to hold so much believe in the Nigerian armed forces like OBASANJO did, he will not groom any of his seeds to carry on the legacy.

The moment OBJ became president, he brought about serious improvement in the living standards of the military and paramilitary. His policies were beneficial across board but still based on your rank. It was at that time that every military and paramilitary could afford a tear rubber automobile (Peugeot 203 and 206) with the mortgage payment plan. He also raised their salaries to be at par with reality of those times, a huge leap from what obtained during the Abacha era.

Fast forward to Buhari years. The military and paramilitary are at their lowest morale. Only the top shots are cashing out by looting the emoluments and allowances of the junior officers and even monies meant to be used to procure gears and equipment for them to prosecute the war against insurgency. Yet what did Buhari do when the service chiefs retired and were meant to be prosecuted? He donned them with a garment of diplomatic immunity by appointing them as ambassadors.

This shows you that the loyalty that Buhari claimed to have towards the Nigerian military was not deep down.



Head of state kò, head of local government ni.

Who dash monkey banana?

He was wounded in battle to retake Michika and Bazza in 2014 and not shot in any buttocks as you are peddling here. He was a Lieutenant Col then. It is a common practice all over the world to award medals to wounded officers and soldiers in battle. In US purple heart medal is awarded in France it is called State Medal. I am certain that situation must have got him Nigeria's Force Service Star(FSS) which will put him in good stead for promotion in the regular 3 year cycle which he will be eligible. So becoming a Brigadier General in almost 8 years is well within that cycle and not exceptional or favoritism as being insinuated. He must have passed his exams well at war college(now NDC) for him to be eligible.

It is on record he went back to war front immediately he got healed after treatment in Jos FMC and was not flown abroad. FYI, the the dude that was Buhari' s ADC got one of the fastest promotions at mid level in recent times. He was a Major that barely made it out of Staff college Jaji in 2015 when Buhari took over but by 2018 he has been promoted twice to become a Colonel. He had gone to NDC in 2020 on a course to become a Brigadier General despite no war experience yet. I wont be surprised if he gets this next rank before Buhari leaves next year as he is married to Buhari's sister grand daughter.

system21:
This guy was a colonel in 2015 (if I'm not mistaken) when he was shot by Boko haram in the buttock, how did he become a Brigadier General in 7 years

Celestine Babayark was red carded in extra time.First leg was 3-1 in favour of Chelsea and the scored first at Nou camp. That ref that officiated that day was worse than the one of 2009.

Kingcalls:
What u posted shows u are simply a teenager... at no point was Chelsea like Watford in the 90s... they were always top 5....man united, arsenal, Liverpool, Chelsea, Leeds, Newcastle... I fit bet say u no know who de drag shirt with babayaro... make I even test u...when Chelsea played barca in 2000 , what significant thing did babayaro do??

Martin Darlin the Swedish Nigerian and second top scorer after Oleg Sakenko at 94 work cup playing off Kenbeth Anderson the gun blazing forward and Thomas Brolin of Dortmund . Imagine Dude started watching football in 1993!!!

Kingcalls:
Guy u be pikin... when I was screaming goal...dem never born u... I can bet u don't know who Martin Darlin is so as Mario Jardel

Took those words out of my mouth. Once she is done with the photoshoot she is back to her room making tik tok videos. Is that her driveway she is shoveling?

Kelvin30286063:
All for the gram. Once the picture is taken, she drops the shovel and goes back inside. How do they live with themselves?

You have really schooled them.Many of them didnr know Micheal Owen won Ballon D'or in 2001 for winning two domestic cups and the lesser rated UEFA cup(not champions league) in a year Figo,Rivaldo and Zidane were far more superior to him. That is the extent of how the award was rated at that particular time. Also thanks for letting them know it was an European award until 1995 when George Weah was awarded it to expand the scope as the award has lost all flavour prior to then. That is the only reason why
legends like Pele,Maradona,Mario Kempes,Hugo Sanchez,Socrates,Zico etc never won it despite being the best players of their era. It was simply because it was an all European affair.

Kingcalls:
Most of u that think balon dor is more prestigious are children that started watching football... balon dor started in 1956 by the French magazine, nobody took those awards seriously cos it was only won by Europeans , when I was growing up, it was basically known as the European awards ...in 1991 fifa now created its award for outstanding players and it was called world player of the year award... So they were 2 awards that were given yearly ...balon dor started awarding non Europeans in 1995 and George Weah was the first to get it , that was because they were already loosing credibility and interest cos fifa awarded 94 to Romario, while Balon dor awarded Hristo Stiochkov of Bulgaria.... FiFa had taken total control of the award as balon dor was viewed as trash or consolation award.... all those Ronaldo delima , Rivaldo, Zidane, Figo Ronaldinho awards were not balon dor , but fifa player of the year... tho some times balon dor also awarded the sane player fifa awarded the fifa player of the year....thats y players like Owen, Shevchenko and Nedved that also won balon dor are not recognised, thats cos that was the same yr players like Figo, Zidane and Ronaldinho won the fifa player of the year ... messi was the last to win the fifa player of the year award in 2009 b4 they merged in 2010 ... when they merged , that was when prestige was attached to balon dor, and again being that fifa adopted balon dors golden ball plaque .... fifa detached from balon dor in 2016 after blatter was expelled cos they said it was blatters merging both was wrong ...

Most of u are kids that dint know these awards... all those glamour u see during balon dor award nights used to be fifa player of the year... balon D'or dint even hv that prestige or sponsors to host such events.... balon d'or dint used to host glamour events b4 fifa merged with them... but u too check am na, how can a magazine be more credible than FiFa itself when handing out awards... just imagine a magazine handing out the golden ball thats different from the one fifa gives after the world cup and then people will say the magazine is more credible than fifa ... Fifa is an organisation, balon dor is just a company

Wow a lady with keen interest in footie matters is a rarity lately.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lewy is good. He's my best and anytime goalscorer when Bayern plays. Big ups, man.

Stop misinformation. The penalty is on the accrued interest so far even if it is just a day so interest get paid definitely. I know some banks in Nigeria that charge up to 20% on accrued interest .

ILoveDemMANNA:
Usually, banks impose a penalty of premature withdrawal.
This means if you committed to keeping the Fixed Deposit for one year, but had to withdraw it after 2 months, the bank may impose a penalty.
Even, partial withdrawals attract penalty.

Banks are allowed to charge their own penalty fee in the case of premature withdrawal of Fixed Deposit.
However, most banks charge from 0.5% to 1% of the interest rate and this has to be communicated to the investor before the Fixed Deposit account is opened.

Do remember that no interest will be paid if the Fixed deposit is prematurely withdrawn within 1 year of deposit creation.

I hope this helps OP?

in these pictures I'm viewing Kunle isnt spotting any earring .
TBH, that lady is well mannered in my encounter with her at outlet at one gaming centre close to Leisure beach. The little son jumped into my hands from his cradle when I offered my hands. The mum was really excited about his warmth.

pocohantas:
Person wear cotton singlet, with cap, sunglasses, big Channel O earring and jewelry to enter swimming pool?

Tonto say she be King.
This one accept say na queen she be.

I like that.

What of Children home school Ibadan,Goverment college Ibadan,University of Chicago he filled on the same Inec form and which he never attended?Mix up too?Oh I forgot it was Senator Tokunbo Afiyomi that owned up that he filled the form for him.

trutharena:
Does that picture look like 1988 pics to you? Shey Tinubu was governor in 1988 ni?

That picture was taken between 1999-2007, the 88 you see there is the logo of the photographer.

Shine your eyes well well. Tinubu submitted his age in INEC CF001 form in 1993 and 19999, his age was not in doubt.

The only issue with his age was when his Chicago State transcript said 1952 and he said 1950 in his INEC form. So he filed an affidavit that it’s a mix up and that’s what Gani Fawehinmi was talking about.

Na only mentally deranged people dey go about saying Tinubu is 80 year this, 90 year that.

Are you planning their murder in advance?

Cholls:
My brother oh boy! RIP Dele Lake, RIP Leke pitan

Tales by moonlight. A staff of Deloitte in early 80s was paid 850k dollars as travel allowance. This claim can not stand any scrutiny He later abandoned this fantastic job to take up a job at Mobil Nigeria where he was paid in Naira.You guys should spin another yarn.

seunmsg:
This should answer the question of how Tinubu made his money. Baba has been a millionaire in dollars since his private sector days. Atiku on the other hand should come out and tell us how he made his first million. He should explain to Nigerians how an ordinary custom officer retired into billions of dollars.

Thanks for updating me.

Numerouno94:
77.

With heavy borrowings future generations will pay for,that is no big deal. Oil is $85 dollars today,so all those stories about dwindling oil price is hard to peddle. Somebody started this dispensation in 1999 with oil at $9 a barrel and external reserve of just about a billion dollars.

Timmi:
Speak for yourself, that is one woman’s opinion and everyone is entitled to their opinion. Mine is that Buhari has done well though not noticeable but he has build and still building a strong foundation where subsequent government will build upon. During Buhari’s time, the world and Nigeria have witnessed unprecedented stress in economic downfall - sudden and sustain fall in crude oil price, economic sabotage and political sabotage. Yet, he was able to do and invest in many infrastructure all over the country.

It is actually Pape Bouba Diop a.k.a Wardrobe may his soul RIP. He was a very strange midfielder who you hardly see but popped up with goals at crucial moments.He replicated that attribute as Fulham where he shone like a start .He had good understanding with fellow midfirelder Alasanne Salif Diao in Senegal's team.

Christane:
Burkina Faso never had a player name bumba Diop ....stop of correction it was a Senegalese footballer name Papa bouba diop bt his late now...
Cameroon had Patrick mboma not mbuma

Lyon won the league 6 times in a row. A rate feat then before Juve and Bayern Munich broke the record.

DubaiLandLord:
Juniho nah still the best free kick taker wey I don see since I don dey watch football

The guy once scored a free kick from the midfield for Lyon

I remember when he was still playing for Olympic Lyon, Olympic Lyon was dominating the French League back then.



I doubt there is any footballer better than him in taking free kicks

Obviously you are a newbie in football .Juninho Perambuno is credited with the highest number of free kicks scored in football with 73.

yaki84:
How many games did Roberto Carlos or juninho played for their clubs n country, how many goals dem score thru spot kicks?

But Tinubu owns Intels now as Atiku has sold all his shares to him.

omoolokunEsin:
And the Children of Hate and Begging.

A president working for 6 hours or max 8 hours in 21st century!!! it means this man wakes up like 12 noon everyday.

Kwanza:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/age-telling-on-me-working-long-hours-%e2%80%95-buhari/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter