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MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast, and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way,




MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men, and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how,

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them, EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her,



MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens,
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

And who are you to talk to both of them like that?

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks", but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple,
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT, but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.


MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You”
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like, but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you, YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.

If after doing dis your parents do not disown you, then the whole world shuld disown your parents.

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The man wan kill the woman b4 he die.

Funny ones.
Especially the true love and the plane must crash.

@ poster ____ Pls consult a psychiatrist

I have looked thru to dis point and i culdn't find a birthday mate.
I was born on MARCH 10 19XX.
Whoever is lucky to be born on dat day can get in touch if he or she doesn't mind having one more friend.

put more effort; who knows your promotion may be on the way.

Blacks.








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there is a war going on here. Let everybody watch out!

Why asking? U wan steal am?

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Can't you all find something better to do?

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I would rather live my life believeing there is a God and later die to discover that there is none than live my life as if there is no God and later die to discover that there is a God.

If i die and get to discover that He doesn't exist, i get to lose nothing. But if i live my life as if He doesn't exist and die to discover that He does, (Just cant imagine wat would happen)

If you are eating the sweet side of love; remember it has its sour and bitter side too.

Which language you wan know?

Place your bet!

I thought i declared this thread closed yesterday

Sorry to hear that you failed the exam. "If one is not under a curse, failing a course should not put one off-course". You are not a failure. So keep on keeping on.

As for those who think you have to attend a particular lecture centre b4 you can pass, i strongly disagree. Success is not in any institution but in the student. All you need is determination, focus, sacrifices and prayer. By sacrifice, i mean there are some pleasures you have to let go 4 now.

For those who think ICAN is a cult and requires a mafia to pass, you can be farther from the truth. ICAN is no cult and you don't have to be a mafia b4 u pass. That i can authoritatively tell you. I wasn't a mafia wen i passed mine in 2003. Infact you don't have to be a genius to pass.

I wish the poster best of luck. You are the only who can encourage or discourage yourself.
Life will not give you what you desire and neither will it give you what you deserve; it will only give you that which you demand.

Just 3 people went to fish.
Grandfather
Father
Child

Grandfather & Father are the 2 fathers.
Father & Child are the 2 children.

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