APOPTOSIS:
I deeply sympathetise with her family over this avoidable carnage & death . People should be taught to know when to run way with their lives intact.
Leaving your marriage is not a recipe for disaster.
No one on this planet has ever been reported to have died as a result of being SINGLE.
Avoid any form of Toxic Relationship, not even the one coming from your spouse or sibling.

By the way, she is not a Medical Doctor...
She's an Optometrist
An optometrist is completely different from an ophthalmologist who happens to be the Medical Doctor.
Optometrist acquired an O.D.
Ophthalmologist acquired MD, M.B.,B.S, or M.B.,B.Ch
Nigerians should learn the right terminologies & observe the distinguishing features especially when paramedics & allied medical staff come close to try deceiving them.

Same goes to Nigerian Optometrists who always want to be addressed as surgeons. Please stop distorting an already distorted nation only to continue blaming Buhari/Tinubu.

Again, people should be proud of their courses of study. After all, no single Medical Doctor has made it to the Aso Villa as President or the table of world's Billionaires meanwhile, others have.

An optometrist is a medical doctor. You're using Google to defend your stance. In Nigeria, optometrists i know spent at least 6years in school. No less. Some more than that. They also did MBBS while in school. Took lectures with the medical officers that branched out to family medicine.

In like 400level I think, all the doctors choose their specialty. And so the optometrists at this point chose optometry. They graduate with an O.D. Doctor of Optometry.

If they want to further, they can do residency, or masters or PHD and become opthalmologists. You can't read opthalmology in school as a first degree. But you can read optometry. So your research well and use Nigeria as your case study not oyinbo.

Another country is banning Binance. Hmmmm

Error401:
mtchew.... pls I need real comment. I just need to know for sure. The line is too faint to deduce pregnancy and she insisted she missed her period. This result isn't convincing enough

As long as you can see that line, baba she's pregnant.

It's faint because the HCG is not strong enough yet. It's quite early. Try again in two weeks and see how that line will be.

All I want to say is God makes all things right in his own time and in his own way.

As you pray and fast, do it with faith. Your answer may not come immediately. But the work God is doing for you in the background, you don't know.

Don't relent. Keep praying and fasting and out on the work as well. You will be alright. Devil is a joker.

May you find the answers you're looking for.

Veiniously:
look the truth is that all smartphone is upgradable that's if you can get source code and build a rom for it or you search a compatible rom on Google install twrp or cwm and flash it

Didn't know this before. I've already returned the tablet to the owner. I'll Iet him knom.

Thanks

Veiniously:
can you build a custom rom?

Unfortunately, no I can't. Took it to someone and he says it's not possible to upgrade it.

Thanks for your response.

Hello guys,

I have this android tablet, running on 4.42 Kitkat. I just want to confirm if it can be upgraded to a higher OS.

Please assist me.

Thanks

Gundel001:
Hi good day my fellow Nairalander please I will really need your experience about this issue. Please help me read to the end as it is a little bit long.

My junior brother is 14 years old and to be sincere I haven’t seen anybody as dull as him. I don’t know if it is natural but I just can’t understand why someone at that age could still be struggling with very simple arithmetic. My brother can’t write 1 – 150 correctly at 14.

He seems too dull; note he attends one of the best private school around our area, though I know you might say maybe education is not his way but even if you want to drop out from school you should know some basic things like money, time, multiplication and so on but my brother doesn’t know anything I must say, even to write his name correctly is a problem. It is making everyone unhappy lot of money is being spent on lesson teachers and other things for him still no improvement.

I am a student of one of the top federal University in Nigeria same as my other siblings even at both secondary and undergraduate level we were always above average so I can’t say his problem is genetic. I really wants to know what is the problem with him nairalanders. After I finished secondary school I once taught some pupils in primary school though there were dull ones too there but with time I could see improvement unlike my brother i always try to teach him from time to time but it kind of frustrating as he doesn’t even seems like he will ever grab anything and he doesn’t behave like he wants to learn anything.

He makes it seems as if he is not interested book or arithmetic at all …we all tried talking to him endless time to always read any time he his less busy but he never does except he is being forced.

He rarely talks, he loves to keep to himself always, he doesn’t have interest in anything unlike we the others that are die hard football fans, most times my mom will tell him to even go out to play and mingle he will not still want to go, he prefer to stay at home seating all day without reading or doing anything, even if it is to draw or play football he wont.

This matter is not making everyone happy at home we don’t even know the solution to his problem again, as in imagine having a child that is 14 years old that doesn’t know the difference between 17 and 71 it is just so bad…..

We don’t know if his case is mental or spiritual. please nairalanders I know there are child experts in the house or anybody who have experienced something like this before what do you think is the problem and possible solutions to the problem your contributions are welcome.

Please help me push this pleaseeeeee

Maybe he is dyslexic or has some other learning disability. Nobody dull. Google learning disabilities. If he indeed attends one of the best private schools, they should have been able to identify that he may have a learning disability.

He is withdrawn because everyone s forcing him to read. Do this. Do that. Whithout identifying what the reeeaaal problem is.

Learning probably frustrates him and so he has no interest in it.

Have you guys ever taken him to a pediatric psychologist? Or first off, a pediatrician who can refer?

Davash222:
My dear, he doesn't even need your endorsement. Your endorsement is like the P in psychology.

They've debited me 5 times so far and I don't even know why and for what transactions. UBA de crase o!

So educative. Thanks!

Stevengold:
I like this love story

Me too

Bervelyhillz:
This is a bit long but please bear with me.

I’ve been married to my amazingly beautiful wife for 3 years. The problem is she is very shy around me but at the same time seems to try to secretly please me constantly. It leaves me feeling guilty and I’m not sure of what to do next.

Backstory:

I met her through my mom. My MIL and my mom are childhood friends who grew up together. I never met her at the time since I lived in the US while She was in Nigeria. When I was 20 I saw her in a family friend’s wedding album. I was floored and my eyes were watering. She was the most attractive girl I had ever seen.

I figured out her FB and messaged her since I didn't want to initiate contact through our moms. I struck up a conversation. I soon realized that my mom fed info about me to my MIL which in turn got fed to her , so she already knew a fair bit about me. We chatted constantly, met up on my vacation to Nigeria , and hung out together every day. I learn she is still a virgin saving herself for marriage. I was still one too, mostly because A) I was chubby most of my life and didn't dare go near girls in that state and B) when I did start getting more fit, I already fell in love with her and it felt wrong dating at the same time. So yeah we had that in common.

Skipping ahead again to three years ago when I graduated from grad school. We met up a handful of times more, and things were awesome. She was outgoing with me, giggling over almost nothing and general silliness. We never did anything sexual, but we were intimate enough and honestly seeing her gave me goosebumps, so it wasn't on my mind. On one visit to Nigeria, she brought up the topic of marriage in a joking manner, something about how our mom's always planned it. I jokingly replied that I would be happy to marry her, then she got all serious and asked if I was for real. I said yes and, well, the rest is history.

The problem:

We had our wedding in Nigeria and, after the papers got sorted, she moved to the US to live with me. The first few months were interesting. She knows English pretty well and she majored in her native language, so she looked for translation jobs. She never got replies from employers, so I was getting a little suspicious, especially since she was an honors student at a pretty high ranking international university. I found out that she wasn't actually sending the applications out. I bring this up gently with her, and she starts tearing a bit telling me she wants to be a stay at home wife and that she didn't think I would be proud of her if she didn't get a real job. She says she was going to tell me soon, which I believe because I found a recent word document in our computer that was basically a draft of the speech she was going to give me. I don't mind her staying at home as I bring in enough money for the both of us and she is a really good cook.

This prompted me to sit down with her and figure out where our communication is breaking down. After a bunch of long discussions about this, I felt we were on the same page. She was still growing more timid around me and didn't start conversations easily with me, but she always seemed happy. I stepped up my displays of affection, showering her with compliments, hugs, and kisses. I would often catch her staring at me (usually while we ate), to which she would get red-faced and look away quickly. It’s been 3 years now and still does the smiling stare, except now she doesn’t look away when I catch her. The conversation starting has gotten a bit better, but nowhere near pre-marriage. While she always had this quiet peacefulness to her, I noticed she is intentionally not doing things that might get me worked up. Examples being: discussing politics (we have the same views), discussing my work problems, discussing anything philosophical in nature, etc. She will respond if I start, but she doesn’t take the initiative like before. I really miss that.

The sex is...interesting? As I said before, I didn't have any prior experience so I can't judge her, but she just lays on the bed and doesn’t move until I suggest to. She never initiates but never declines. I try to make it about her more often than not, but if I’m looking for feedback she quietly agrees with whatever I'm doing. After we finish, she lays in the same position looking at me, sometimes smiling, sometimes teary-eyed. I take it she likes it, but then again she never likes to talk about sex. From what I gather in our pre-marriage talks, she doesn't have any negative views on it and it wasn't shunned by her parents, it's just that she is shy. She doesn't like me seeing her naked even though I do (ha ha...:/ ). She is…shy very well proportioned…and I tell her how it is so she shouldn’t feel self-conscious. But she still covers up outside of sex.

Another issue is fitness: I work out constantly at home or in the park (calisthenics) and I invite her to join but she politely declines. She runs almost every morning so I thought maybe she gets enough from that. But I have noticed that my weight backpack at home is sometimes at a different weight than when I left it. I have also noticed She has made some serious butt/thigh gains which really stand out on her thin frame. When I ask if she is doing anything differently, she says “maybe it’s the running” then changes the subject. I don’t understand why she is working out in secret. This is most likely my fault though since I used to try and tease her into working out with me; I made a silly remark about how squatting/ham-raises will put more meat on her legs.

Conclusion:

Guys and gals, I need help. I love my wife dearly. She is funnier than any comedian, more disciplined than any soldier, and more beautiful than any celebrity. But she is making me feel weird by trying to secretly improve herself based on my preferences. Her shyness around me is awkward and I want a return to the easy-going pre-marriage . Has anyone had experience with this?

Also: she has made many friends here and still is in contact with a few back home. However she doesn't seem excited to be around them as much as when I offer to go out with her. She's always offers to cancel plans to stay in with me or go for a walk. I thought she might be depressed, but she is super cheerful even when she doesn't know I'm around.

Awwwnnnn!!!!!!!

She sounds adorable. It also sounds like she is sooooooooo in love with you.

Kallmerb:
This virus is scary but why are all this dangerous viruses always from China... It seems lab practical gone wrong

The Chinese? Lab kwa? With all the uncooked meat they eat? That's enough to contact all these yeye viruses.

kingcolearchive:
I use OPPO A5s and i'm loving it

Me too

If she's getting fat, tell her o. Me I know I'd prefer to hear it from him and not from an outsider.

bukatyne:
Take her to the hospital for general body checkup as per her age.

Tell the doctor forehand and then take it from there.

I agree with this route

petux:
I had to bring this here maybe I could get some helpful advice here as I am really clueless about what to do about her.

My younger sister is too dull. She is not smart and brilliant at all. She doesn't love studying at all. She is doing so poor in school due to her lackadaisical attitude towards studying. I have tried to talk her and advice her into studying, but she will just looking through it as if she doesn't know what she is reading and all.

During the time she was doing WAEC and NECO, you won't even know she was writting exam. My mum bought textbooks for her but she will end up misplacing them since she won't read them. What she enjoy doing most is just to eat,sleep and all these children story books. She is now fat like Bleep.

I always try to make her study or sometime even force her but there is little I can do for her as I can't put all the book in her head and I am not even always around because I'm in school.

I helped her check her waec result yesterday, and what I saw made me sad. She failed 6 subjects and passed only 3 subjects which she even had only C5 and C6.

I don't know what do to about her because I am tired. I don't want her to gain admission into the university with this kind of spirit because it's not going to help her at all. What can I do for her? How can I help her become more serious and become a better girl. She is 17.

Useful Advices will be highly appreciated.
Mods, please do the needful.

Thanks

No body is dull. She probably has an undiagnosed learning disability. Dyslexia for example is one. There are others. Find out if she has one before calling her dull. When the right diagnosis has been made, treatment can be given and she can learn better.

denzly4real:

Thank you so much.

You're welcome

denzly4real:
Good day everyone, I need a job please, I studied Business Admin and management studies, I had 2 years work experience as an Admin officer,please help a brother I stay in Karu area, I can also work as a store keeper, Admin Assistant, front desk officer or any other related field. This is my email address. denzlyexcel@yahoo.com Thanks

Found this somewhere:

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ahms12:
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Venue: 3rd Floor, Crownet Plaza, Idris Gigado Street, Wuye Abuja.

Time: 9am

Kindly come with a printed copy of this invitation, a pen and a print out of your updated CV as you will not be allowed in without it.

Best Regards,

Human Resource Manager
Dexter Consulting.
please I want to know how true is this

Please don't waste your transport money. It's all these marketing seminar GNLD ish.

MrHighSea:

Now I step in.

Fighter jets are flew by fighters. The fighter pilots pass thru rugged simulations and they are combat certified. They are good marksmen. Shoot a fighter pilot down, he changes to guerrilla, war continues. The prominent safety gadjet in jets is the ejector seats, others are that dy wear parachutes while flying, technology behind the helmet of F-35 is still classified. These jets passengers are the missiles, enough electronics to enable "ghost mode" as I call it or evade radar detection and encourage precision. For 4k sake, a fighter pilot is expected to eject out of his seat once in his life time. Second attempt can render his vertebra/spinal cord useless.

Integrating the safety measures on d blackbox in the liner itself, will màke d jet very heavy for commercial use. These companies are out to make money. More passengers, more money. Concorde was designed as a military jet, read up why it was retired.

God, I love jets.

Wow. Today I'm being schooled o. We learn everyday indeed

MrBONE2:
Thanks TechCapon

Your gist have really help,since you said that Black Box is placed toward tail end of the plane,It would be more adversable for We BoneBeing to only Book for last seat which is more closer to the BLACK BOX so that if any Catastrophy should incase occur we would be at save hand than the rest passengers ..Emmm what amma thinking

As in ehn, my mind went there too o. Sadly, we all know how planes are.

This is very educative and I've learnt a lot that I didn't know before. Thanks.

I often wonder though. Why don't they just make planes out of the stuff used in making the "black box"?

No body should mind me o. It's a rhetorical question.

A simple "thank you" would have sufficed

Still working on that. It's not easy.

damleket:


I got a call from that August last year? Did you get a call as well?

I didn't. I was soooo sad then. Buh I know someone that got the call and resumed. She didn't stay up till 2 weeks. She left. Said it was so stressful. The target. . .

Happy new year Ammyluv2002! Welcome back.

Japan

Why did she have to bring her husband into this

Kai. This is bad o.