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israelmao:
Ask Google or AI. Technology has made life easier.

Lol .. na for Kafanchan you go finally find yourself

Emeskhalifa:
Just my Opinion though, why not relocate to Lagos? It's better than relocating to Abia.
Pls have a rethink

well, some people don't have the stomach for that Lagos chaotic life where you're living on the fast lane 24/7, no peace of mind, no light, endless taxation etc. Abịa is calm, cool, less stressful, clean and you get your money's worth when it comes to electricity. Oh.. did mention it is way cheaper too?

Besides I don't think the OP is looking to relocate sha

NGArmyTerrorist:
You must be joki6

I this current situation of the country. That amount won't take you anywhere.

as in... From Aba to Owerri which is a stone throw is about ₦2500-₦3000, from Aba to Akwa/Onicha is about ₦5000-₦6500 and this one is budgeting Ore to Aba for just ₦15,000?

Mattswaggz:
Okay....now I have realized that you're someone who has fully resorted to self deceit and creating your own happiness...no need going any further since you've denied the obvious that collectively, blacks tend to be backward compared to others.

So let me even help you some more....you have better quality of life that the rest, standard sports stadiums,you mine and process most of your resources by yourself,your leaders kids attend home based schools and hospitals,you can make bold decisions without the influence of others etc....so keep on enjoying your delusion....reality will always speak the bitter truth.

Debating with people who lack exposure while being caged with mental slavery and inferiority complex is always a stressful exercise.

WriteerNg:

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So where is the new government now?

And where is the President?

So fleeing in broad is what you call victory?

Did you actually read what I wrote or you just rushed to reply?
Do you even understand the situation in Afghanistan and why the government set up by the US was bound to fail in the first place?

Change4dbeta:
Okay oo
So favouritism is now culture and tradition .No wonder our politician get to office and steal public funds for themselves and their family. (PRIORITY) Culture and tradition.

I get you.

You're just strawmaning the debate and I have zero interest in engaging with that.

But for clarity sake, any man or woman who doesn't understand that Their spouse should be priority number one when compared with the pastor and boss should just remain single.

Change4dbeta:
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You only focus on marriage.The pastor stands for religion,the boss stands for worlkplace hierarchy

BUT YOU ONLY FOCUS ON MARRIAGE.

It is well.

Listen and listen very well, The Pastor has the lowest standing in this list. I don't know how many times they're going to have to tell you people this, but your pastor should never be accorded the same respect as your spouse neither should he be placed on the same standing or above your spouse, whether it's in the church, home or anywhere at all.

Yes I'm focusing on marriage, what else should I have focused on? This question by the op borders on marriage tenets, only those who are matured enough would understand it.

As for the boss, unless that serving is happening in the boss's house or in the work place, the spouse should also come first.

Stephen0mozzy:
The matter should be properly investigated. Lazy NPF should not just assumed fire outbreak, especially as the guy "escaped" unhurt.

1. Source of the fire outbreak
2. If her body is not severely burnt, an autopsy to determine cause of death.

I don't want to allege possible foul play where the fire broke after you know.

Did you actually listen to the video?
The fire according to investigation was caused by an electric bike that probably exploded during overnight charging, and the guy was badly burnt and is currently recovering in a hospital. He was the one who alerted people that he had a guest in his house and also assisted in identifying the girl.

There's no foul play here, stop fishing for one, the girl died a very tragic and unfortunate death.

erad:
Agenda must agend. They must find a way to earn their pay from their zionist paymasters. They'll even dig up news from 1800bc as long as it is anti-Muslim. They really need to justify the terrorism their paymasters are committing against Iranians.

I'm currently watching the news on EuroNews right now, what backward rock are you people crawling out from?

Treasure17:
It depends on the setting. If they are your guests, you can serve them first but peradventure it's a random gathering, courtesy demand you serve your husband first.

Nope, you should bring the food first to your husband, he then can either accept the food or tell you to serve the guests first.

Paulscholari:
The Pastor first..so that he can pray and blessed the food for everyone.

No be only bless the food, because without him them no go fit bless food again abi?

FlamingBulb:
Boss
Boss is not part of your family so a total stranger
I should treat a visitor who honoured me first

Pastors/Imam then Husband

If the event took place in the Church/Mosque
Jejeli give your Imams/Pastors because they may be waiting in the office and might have been working all night with fasting and prayers

If it took place at your workplace
Honour your Husband first

Any person who puts their spouses last in this list is not matured enough to get married yet. Imagine putting your husband last in the pecking order in his own house when he's supposed to come first. Let me explain something to you because it seems like some of you don't really understand what marriage truly is. Your husband comes first before even your own children, if there's only one pieyof yam left in the pot and your husband and children are yet to eat, you must serve that yam to your husband first, he will now pass it over to the children to eat. That's how it is done, them no dey teach this for school. Your husband must also put your interest first before anyone else's, even his children's.

Your mentality towards this matter is why marriages are collapsing in its infancy, it's why divorce are spiking, because todays young adults do not understand nor try to grasp the tenets of marriage and what it means to build a home.

Change4dbeta:
Africans and our low mentallity .What is order of priority. Are they not all meant to be serve..This is why divident of good governance dont go round in Africa. And we are all copable.
In civilised countries,be you lawyer,governor,president,servants,househelp,richman,poorman once you are all seat in the same roll of chairs you will be given a plate to pass it on to next fellow till it get to the last fellow and every one get a plate each.

It is not low mentality, in fact, the person displaying Low mentality is you. This is about culture and traditions not about mentality or whatever.

Some of you will come online and in your bid to sound smart and enlightened you end up sounding very ignorant

edogu:
It depends on the occasion.

It shouldn't ever depend on any occasion. The spouse should always come first in every occasion.

Jokay07:
The answer to this scenario are plenty and it also depends on where the event happened. The law of territory.

Let me just answer one of them.
1. The pastor:
If it happens in a neutral ground where by both the pastor, the wife, husband and the boss are all guests, then the pastor would be regarded first.
In a event when people gather, it is the pastor that will do opening prayers and even closing prayers. It is even the pastor that will bless the food. That pastoral office must be regarded.
Again, the pastor is the spiritual head in a neutral ground where the event is taking place.

Secondly, you serve your boss. Serving your boss doesn't mean disrespect to your husband.
Well I will explain this later

This is Why I say that most people here don't have sense, there's no scenario where the pastor should EVER come before your spouse in pecking order, none! Whether it's a neutral setting or private settings. Your pastor is an outsider and should not be placed in the same pedestal as your spouse, let alone being above your spouse. This is why homes are breaking because people no longer understand what marriage really is. The spiritual head of any religious family is Christ! Not your Pastor for crying out loud!!! Your pastor is on the same level as you spiritually, any well read Christian knows this.

Let me ask you a question, supposed the one serving the food was the pastor's wife and the people being served are the pastor ( the husband) , a fellow pastor, and the wife's boss, who should the wife serve first?

dododawa1:
I have seen the real video of the officer a d the guy.

The officer was requesting for brine because the guy did not have some documents for the goods he's conveying.

And then the officer said, if it was another tribe, he would have let them go

The emboldened above might sound harsh but that's the reality in Nigeria. The goods with no particular was the main questioning because it's a pattern

oh so this is what they told you people to repost from your WhatsApp group? helinues just wrote almost the exact same thing, abi this is his alternative account

ojuu4u:
As if Igbo not treating others the same way in their domain.

You are the one who is far from reality, come to same Akure and and evey other major town in Yoruba land, and see that Igbos already bought all their houses and turned them to shops

since when did buying a property become a crime in Nigeria?
You people really sound so much like those xenophobic South Africans

WriteerNg:
They spent $4 trillion & 20 years and still lost to barefooted goat herders in Afghanistan.

So whether they spend $100 trillion, e no go change anything.

Everybody knows that US weapons are over priced & over rated.

The US military is well known for paying exorbitant amounts for even the littlest of things.

The US army once paid $42000 for an item originally sold for $62. That's how bad it is for them.

What China or Russia will buy with $32 billion, it'll take the US $5 trillion to buy the exact same thing.

They didn't lose in Afghanistan, They literally look over the country and established a new government. The only thing was that the government they established wasn't strong enough because they (USA) misunderstood the dynamics at play at Afghanistan, so the government collapsed immediately the US left the country. In terms of warfare, the USA were victorious in Afghanistan.

HacheNoire:
22 billion palace allocation 😳😳😳

Seems the administration of His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR) is fast becoming a joke and ridicule of Nigerians.

E don dey clear for una eyes abi. Continue supporting these thieves as they throw crumbs at you while they are feeding fat on our national wealth.

Mattswaggz:
Firstly, war is in human nature...I wasn't arguing about that.
Imperfections are also in human nature so I wasn't arguing about that either.

If you think my talks has something to do with inferiority complex then you're wrong because I am amongst those who are well aware that Africa was a great civilization back then and our ancestors didn't depend on foreigners for architecture, technology,medicines,weapons etc but what went wrong now is question for another day.

Now back to the main concern which I raised which you've ignored so far.......why is the black race the most backwards amongst all of them presently....no patriotism, almost totally dependent on foreign technology et al, no self confidence and so on and so forth.....you should ask yourself that question or you can as well answer my question....there is no point living in self denial because only after admitting a problem can one trace it's source and profer a solution and not by dodging and being dishonest.

i have addressed your question multiple times using different examples of other races being in the same situation as the blacks. And I have shown examples of the black races being better than the rest of the world when they're given equal opportunity to thrive.
You ask why the black race is the most backwards among all races, yet there's no black country that's as backwards as the people of Bangladesh and Afghanistan, two races that are not black, one is pashtun and the other is Bengals.

Talking about patriotism, how many African countries have you visited? Do you think Ghanaians, Togolese, Cameroonians, Gabonese, Kenyans etc aren't patriotic to their nation? Nigeria as far as I know is the one African country that I have been to that patriotism is almost none existent. One other country with same lack of patriotism that I know is Lebanon, there are a large section of the Lebanon that are more patriotic to iran than to their own country, Same also goes to Afghanistan, these countries are not black!

Almost every country is dependent on foreign technology. UAE, Saudi Arabia, Oman, Lebanon, Portugal, Uzbekistan, Yemen, Nicaragua, etc are all almost dependent on foreign techs, again, these are not black countries


Every single thing you mentioned here can be said of other races, it's not exclusive to blacks. So saying that blacks are backwards because of something that's universally present in all races is a clear indication of inferiority complex and mental slavery.

Mattswaggz:
I wasn't talking about Nigeria alone okay....I am talking about the outing of blacks generally compared to others generally as well....just like pitting Africa(minus the North whom are mostly Arabs) against Europe,South/North America,Australasia,Asia/middle east.....there is a reason why they're the lowest ranked amongst all.

You're suffering from inferiority complex. These other countries that I mentioned are not blacks, and yet all these negative aspects are found in their society, even here in the USA all those things are present In the white folks community.
Someone will open their rubbish mouth and say " Give the Africans guns and they will kill themselves" and people like you will take it as gospel, is there any race in this world that's more war mongering than the white man? Theirs have been a history of one major war after the other, they even have 2 world wars in their name and the UN was created to stop them from killing eachother but they still can't help themselves as you can see from Russia and Ukraine. When was the last time two African countries warred against each other? And yet they say we're the ones that are backwards? These people practice open defecation and open sex right on the streets, can't define the difference between a man and a woman, casually walk into an elementary school and gun down every kid in there and yet they call us backward and people like you are cheering for them. We're backwards and yet kids from Africa participate in the same educational competition with the white folks and come home with gold regularly.

Mattswaggz:
Overall general score for growth, development and advancement.

Have you been to Bangladesh Or some parts of India?? It's crazy some of you will say this when there's a place like Afghanistan which is currently the poster child for under development and negative growth, and then you have Timo-Leste and Yemen. You can even add Cambodia to that list.

I have been to Bangladesh, Timo and Cambodia and I can tell you that Nigeria is more advanced than these places. There are some parts of India that them no born you well to live in, you will catch disease instantly.

Streetinvestor2:
Nigerians are interested in debate on how someone daughter died nicked in your house

The man wants to use Obi to deflect from the suspicious circumstances surrounding the death of the lady in his house.

Mattswaggz:
There is a reason the blacks are the most backward.....think it through.

Backwards in what sense?

Image123:
Is your salary up to two thousand 50naira notes. All these students that don't learn.

incoherent none sense

ColdHunter:
Decades down the line, this fact stands.

Nonsense talk. The same thing he said about Africans can be found in Every single race.
Russia, Ukraine are white countries and yet are just as corrupt and power drunk. Here in the United States of America corruption is big problem, they just know how to keep it out of the mainstream media but bribery and corruption is in almost every facet of the government. Of course you All know about the Gun problems in America, everyone knows how dangerous it is to live in a place like Detroit, Brooklyn etc. school kids are not even safer in their classrooms and all that.

There are a lot of countries doing way worse than black African countries, so stop swallowing racist view points concerning the black man.

Osidazz19:
It is not a federal road. Those who made the skit ate not ignorant like you.

Honestly I don't know why I'm arguing with ignorant people who's never travelled out of their region all their life. This road passes through one of our houses at Ukwa.

Osidazz19:
Stop lying. The people in the area know it's not a federal road.

That's a federal road. Try and verify before spreading your ignorance all over the place.

FSBoperator:
Liar.

This is not a federal road.

It is a federal road, this road connects to ikot ekpene road at ogbo Hill Aba. There's another bad spot that's at umuga immediately after Umuogele, this spot is directly in front of the yet to be utilised mechanic village.

You people who have never left your region can not be The ones to tell us which road is Federal road and which isn't.

untoldtruth:
One time like that itel came through for me when I was on a tight budget, I know naija people no like itel as per previous experience but check their 5G series, they're affordable and good for utility

utility kill them there
I no fit advise my enemy to buy any of their phones.

SeeWahala:
Zee this one claiming he is USA

Whats the time now in USA? Instead of you to be asleep you're on nairaland by 2am doing dàta b0i for tilumbu 😏

Na our backyard United States of Alakija na him this one dey CORNfuse with ShiKaGo 🤭

If you think that this guy who is in disguise is in the USA then I have a bridge to sell to you

sulaak:
Stupid development; that's why the SA call African hopeless.

We need gas to generate electricity; why not get a $25billion loan to fund our electricity needs

The gas that we desperately need locally is being exported to other countries. Watch how price of gas will increase locally due to the high demand in foreign markets.