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TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija: Fans Storm Emenike's Page After Mercy Revealed They Were Dating (Pics) by generationz(f): 1:49pm On Sep 14, 2019
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Self Employment Opportunity: Transcribing For A Living In Nigeria Part 1 by generationz(f): 1:48pm On Sep 14, 2019
Has anyone ever used Uh uh as a response to a question before?
TV/MoviesRe: Mercy Eke: Emmanuel Emenike, My Boyfriend Dumped Me - BBNaija's Mercy by generationz(f): 12:00pm On Sep 14, 2019
RoyalBlu:
"Mercy said the player did love her but she felt it was because she was a 'nobody' at the time that made him dump her for someone famous".


I'll bet my breakfast this wasn't Emenike's reason for marrying Iheoma. wink

Lol what else but that she was a beauty queen and light skin?

That one was desperate to join Adaeze yobo to be a WAG so it was a win win.
BusinessRe: My Journey To The Kindle World by generationz(f): 10:35pm On Sep 13, 2019
myjourneysofar:
There would come a time you choose service to money. And service is money.
I am still learning and very fast.
The publisher rocket and ghost writing fees has delayed me a bit.
In all, learning is a continues procedure.

Have you started?
Not yet.
BusinessRe: My Journey To The Kindle World by generationz(f): 4:31pm On Sep 13, 2019
myjourneysofar:
PR is acronym for Publisher Rocket.

Its purpose is to check profitable keywords etc.
Thanks.

How's your journey going?
Your story inspired me.
BusinessRe: My Journey To The Kindle World by generationz(f): 1:07pm On Sep 13, 2019
obamartins:
Yes, but fully subscribed.
Awesome
BusinessRe: My Journey To The Kindle World by generationz(f): 12:10pm On Sep 13, 2019
obamartins:
I have and it can't be shared. However, it is a major investment for this biz. Do anything legally to raise funds to purchase it.
What is PR
CelebritiesRe: The Mo'Dogg Studio Where Wizkid Started His Musical Career by generationz(f): 11:51am On Sep 13, 2019
grin


For the life of me I never could grasp what he said in that part of the song.
FamilyRe: Extortion In The Name Of Aso Ebi by generationz(f): 11:47am On Sep 13, 2019
truthsayer009:
Iyam waiting for you na. Na you I wan marry but your shakara dom too much. So I just move on.
Marry? huh since when?
BusinessRe: My Journey To The Kindle World by generationz(f): 11:43am On Sep 13, 2019
obamartins:
My hands are full. So many people I am mentoring, adding anybody else will not be easy on me. I still dey write too o.
Is your mentorship free?
RomanceRe: My Gf Refused To Chat Me Up Again Because Of This by generationz(f): 9:41am On Sep 13, 2019
Finnese001:
No ma'am, I didn't heave a silent sign of relief but instead a louder one. Thank you
Werey grin

Do something about your phobia for commitment though.


I have seen this thing destroy actual families when the father fails to deal with it.
CultureRe: A Yoruba Guy Needs Matured Advice by generationz(f): 5:48am On Sep 13, 2019
People will just be shouting Abomination , Abomination.

When you ask them why they will say " well, its not a part of our culture."

Ask them why it isn't ? If there is any scientific or hkstorical reason to back up their claim , they will be looking at you like epa and finally
conclude you ask too many questions. angry


Apparently, it is called inbreeding in science
marrying a close relative.


Off google:

First cousins who marry run twice the risk of having a child with genetic abnormalities, according to a previous Health24 article.

Now a new study suggests that children born to parents who are cousins have a significant risk for developing a mood disorder – such as depression or anxiety.

Now,for the cultural aspect, I'll advice you go to an elder you respect and confide in him or her. If they are not too sure about this type of issue in YOUR VILLAGE they can help find out on your behalf or talk to tier elders about it.
FamilyRe: Extortion In The Name Of Aso Ebi by generationz(f): 8:47pm On Sep 12, 2019
NLmember:
Na wa o
Fine the wife is wrong to demand so much for aso ebi but what kind of advice is this?
Marriage is not oga and slave relationship it is partnership based on love and the op is not wrong at all by being diplomatic in his relations with his wife.

Don't encourage him to start being harsh with her by questioning his authority at home. Thanks and god bless
Diplomatic you say?

Bringing something as little as ashoebi matter to nairaland for opinion
before he decide is what you call diplomacy? undecided

Oga, for him to bring this tiny issue here e mean say water don pass garri.

Or did he bring it here for us to bash her?

Tell me how men enforced decisions in their homes before nairaland was created.

Nothing like being harsh.

There are leaders we fear, respect and love all at once. They are not mean but at the same time aren't push overs.
FamilyRe: Extortion In The Name Of Aso Ebi by generationz(f): 2:09pm On Sep 12, 2019
wwwkaycom:
Hoooo. Why should I stop her from buying hers? She is insisting I must pay the 29K. I have told her I'm not paying a dime, she can go ahead to buy hers. I'm not even going to send anything to the celebrant because I've made up my mind not to attend. The celebrant is the same person who packaged the inferior clothing material that washed away late last year, I must do this so that they won't make attempt to extend such to me in the future. This is obvious fraud and my wife's stubbornness on the issue annoys me a lot.
Oga I'm sorry and don't mean to be rude, but if you can't enforce a decision based on something as simple as Ashoebi at home and have to come online for people to corroborate your decision then there is something wrong with your authority at home.

Madam is supposed to know some things you won't even comment on. Eg extorsion by family members. She is even the one supposed to say. If she is a socialite out of " fear" and respect for you she wont even bring it up, she would just use her money for hers because some women can't offend their family members no matter what.

It seems you give into her every demand. Oga, easy o. Even pikin dey spoil.
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FamilyRe: Extortion In The Name Of Aso Ebi by generationz(f): 2:00pm On Sep 12, 2019
truthsayer009:
Sir, Please stand your ground. Last last your wife will not give you any Sex for few weeks due to anger.

You go do soapy. Marlians.
you never marry na, you fit give this advice. grin
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Is The Most Annoying Question A Guy Has Ever Asked You? by generationz(f): 5:17am On Sep 12, 2019
Mrpsly247:
Wow.. I actually don't feel bad being INTP..self development is all I'm about. I'm not going to be defined by an mbti algorithm.. I am what I do and by knowing how my mind is programmed I believe I can rewrite the program
Sure
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Is The Most Annoying Question A Guy Has Ever Asked You? by generationz(f): 7:22pm On Sep 11, 2019
Mrpsly247:
results shows INTP but I feel ambivent... damn wish I had much J part in me though
well, if you feel you are not satisfied with the result you need to keep doing more research.

Research more on cognitive functions. When you know more about cognitive functions, it will help you understand which function you use the most and which you use the least. that way, you will know whether you are developed or not your comfort zone whatever type you have.

If you are really an INtp you don't have to feel bad. Your second cognitive function is extraverted intuition you can train yourself to see more possibilities and organise with your third function which is introverted sensing.
For me and about 20% of the mbti community it's it's all about self development

I hate it when I go on career and so many people especially with intj personality keep saying things like that's how we are. Personality type they should be about self development and not comfort zone acceptance.

By the way famous intp include
Elon Musk
Marie Curie
Steve Wozniak
Albert Einstein

and I personally believe Bill Gates is also an intp.

So no type is useless whether you are a p or a J type
RomanceRe: Se'x Tourism Is A Booming Big Business In Gambia( SEE PHOTOS) by generationz(f): 1:17pm On Sep 11, 2019
Naijazure:
I'd rather suggest you support these hard working naija youths as they embark on a treasure hunt.

If dem cum bak... All them gurls go get one iPhone and 4matic each.����
grin
CelebritiesRe: 'I Can't Come And Kill Myself'-Yomi Gold Unwinds In Dubai Amidst Marriage Crisis by generationz(f): 1:04pm On Sep 11, 2019
cheesy


After two children and getting his American citizenship,


My broda Japa with smallie.

Suffer with him they said, build with him they said, it will worth it. grin grin


The wife has been going crazy over social media, even followed them to Dubai.

Never ever put your hopes on any human being.

Depend on God to bring trustworthy / loyal people to you and commit to them.
RomanceRe: Se'x Tourism Is A Booming Big Business In Gambia( SEE PHOTOS) by generationz(f): 12:54pm On Sep 11, 2019
angry


See all the men on this thread already asking how much it would cost to go to Gambia.


Later they will say

All naija women are olosho

All naija women love money.


And no one should tell me they are just joking.

If it were female monickers making those comments there about sugar daddies , the bashing would have been something else.


#Double standards.
CelebritiesRe: Onyi Adaba, Ken Eric's Wife "He Never Touched Me Before, During, After Marriage" by generationz(f): 12:25pm On Sep 11, 2019
Ishilove:
This is what happens when you don't involve God in the selection of a life partner.
You couldn't have said it any better , dear.
CelebritiesRe: Onyi Adaba, Ken Eric's Wife "He Never Touched Me Before, During, After Marriage" by generationz(f): 9:41am On Sep 11, 2019
Ishilove:
Somehow I find this story VERY hard to believe.
Why, though?

There has always been rumors that Ken was gay even before she came out.

And this story is how many gay Nigerian men act. Some sleep with their wives but can't even stand the sight of a Lady.

IF it is true, he probably married her for his family to stop disturbing him and she married himvfor his celeb status.
Christianity EtcRe: Benson Idahosa's 81st Posthumous Birthday Is Today by generationz(f): 9:23am On Sep 11, 2019
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This man , I believe, was one of the few Nigerian Christians to be endued with the rare spiritual gift of faith.

Now, that gift is not the same as the faith in Christ every christian has when they become born again.

It is a gift that makes you terribly bold and daring. You become like a mad man.

It goes along with the gift of working miracles.

This gift was especially needed for the father of pentecostalism in Nigeria.

Needed for someone who started in the great Benin city.

You can't come from , face Benin witches and
wizards if you are not emboldened by something out of the ordinary.

Even the great Babalola was once arrested in Benin when they couldn't get him spiritually.

Rest in peace "Mad man".

We love you.
Christianity EtcRe: "All You Need Isn't Prayers, But Responsibility" - Bishop Oyedepo by generationz(f): 9:21am On Sep 11, 2019
HigherEd:
Thank you. Today, the man has been running a marathon retreat with his University staff to indoctrinate them of the University vision till the end of the week. He isn't sitting somewhere throwing prayers only.
Plus he is still the only Top G.o who still goes out to evangelise.

Always leads by example.
Christianity EtcRe: "All You Need Isn't Prayers, But Responsibility" - Bishop Oyedepo by generationz(f): 7:39am On Sep 11, 2019
StrikeBack:
Kasala don burst, baba don tell them say prayers no fit work again ooo as things don hard and people don dey wise up

OLEDEPO!!!!
Whoever knows oyedepo knows he is a workaholic. Even his kids can't catch up with him.

So, if any so called winners member hasn't been learning by example they have themselves to blame.
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Is The Most Annoying Question A Guy Has Ever Asked You? by generationz(f): 7:20am On Sep 11, 2019
Mrpsly247:
don't
cheesy
don't
are u INTP
cheesy na


Full fledged Intj with strong Ni/ Fi


You?
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Is The Most Annoying Question A Guy Has Ever Asked You? by generationz(f): 6:06pm On Sep 10, 2019
MissJoy29:
I dont think it's about boredom or timidity.

In my opinion, there are people you will meet in life & you continuously wonder why they never crossed your path all these while. You will discover they are all you've ever been looking for but now you have found them, you can't have them because:
1)You(not you o) have wasted enough years waiting for them & you have perhaps moved on (got married).
2) You prolly lived roughly in your younger days & you still have the good mind not to drag the seemingly innocent & utterly good person that has crossed your path into the mess that's your life currently. You are willing to let them go even if it means losing a great shot at marital fulfilment.
2) You don't have the heart to know you deserve the best no matter what. So you tell yourself you don't deserve them because you are focusing only on your inadequacies forgetting they have theirs as well.
3)The person might be out of your league (financially, socially, academically etc) & you feel it will be too stressful & will carry a lot of hassle to get to his/her level or have him/her come down to yours.
4)You might be older than the person & feel you & society will frown at the possibility of you two ending up together forgetting that age is just numbers.


I hope I didn't end up confusing you the more. You have to know though that this is usually a complicated issue & only the person experiencing it can really pinpoint their "WHY" as there are so many scenarios that can play out before you hear someone say, " he/she is too good for me".
You are right.
PoliticsRe: Benue Pensioners Hold Church Service At Govt House Gate, Vow To Stay Until Paid by generationz(f): 1:14am On Sep 10, 2019
sad
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Is The Most Annoying Question A Guy Has Ever Asked You? by generationz(f): 11:04pm On Sep 09, 2019
theadams:
I don't think I could have marry her even if I was ready back then, because she knew everything about me and she is way too good for me. she deserves better.
Jesus Christ !

You are not the first guy I'm seeing saying ' I can't marry her, she was too good for me'.

Biko what do you guys mean by that because local woman is totally confused.

Is she boring , timid abi or what?
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Is The Most Annoying Question A Guy Has Ever Asked You? by generationz(f): 10:56pm On Sep 09, 2019
MissJoy29:
A site call it THE COUNSELLOR, another call it THE ADVOCATE. But in all,whatever name they choose to call it, they ALL agree it's INFJ...(INFJ-A/INFJ-T).

Thanks for bringing this to my attention. It was spot on!
Yeeee! cheesy

I saw somewhere you said people love to confide in you and I immediately knew you would be an infj.

I'm glad you agree with the test.

There is so much material on the internet about infjs .

You can start with Erick Thor .He has a blog and page on YouTube.
He is also an infj.

Then I'll also recommend C.s Joseph. Just Google C.s Joseph infjs. He has a ton of stuff about each type.

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