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JSnw:
it's not for your mum, the expression has been since 1386

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

GAZZUZZ:
#cyberpeace

thesolutions:
I have a colleague in Abuja who confided in me about his feeling 4 days ago. I too noticed something different but blamed it on alcohol.

He told me that he woke up that very day with bitterness in his heart. He can't explain it. He said he also had this thought about killing someone. He had no one in mind but things has not been all that good for him and all other colleague too.

He had to get himself intoxicated with alcohol that very morning before coming to work and had several bottles at work to help himself from the bitterness and thought. He ended up being angry and quarrelsome through out that day.

He told me what happened the next day and ask me what could be the cause of that feeling but I had no idea. I told him I have never heard of such Case and he went out mute without a word.

He is not a quite type to think of depression. He is a very lively person.

What is the phenomenon called so I can try to explain it to him.

itunity007:
let talk on WhatsApp am a nice person

GeoAfrikana:
Actually, it's not the amount that's the real issue. There are many products that cost more than #600k. But the issue is which value does it add to you?

I think you get the gist.

Lalasticlala

obiekunie2:
since he trust u enough to confide in you and you didnt tell him to solve the problem for himself by enjoying a full small bottle of snipper, pls tell him that the people of Nairaland advises him to start by killing you and after doing that, he should relax and enjoy a big bottle of snipper that way he will be saving the world from from two potential david wests!

Fentanyl:
if you don't have enough sense to know the difference between sharing content for fun and making profit off people's sweat then you are not worth explaining or debating with

stay in your ignorance

please and thank you

Torch1:
Do you transcribe short calls? Air strike calls are always like 15 mins call. They can waste release tokens like mad.
I noticed their calls always flood the platform around 5pm to 9pm.

SUPERPACK:
me too. their calls are just informal and easy to mistake rep for customer. But the have the best audio.

adigun98:
Shey this thing self dey pay like this, registered for over an hour now and nothing

DocH:
OK chop ban.

NobleAngell:
I hope you live long o. Having two women is not a joke. More power to your waist, may you never experience power failure on duty.

DocH:
Have you ever heard of rhesus incompatibility and how it causes erythroblastosis fetalis which leads to spontaneous abortion (medical name for miscarriage)? People like you de cause a lot of problems in this world today because of their stark ignorance. Just imagine where you become a mother in-law with no brains, you will call for this man to be killed because u spent all ur years in school learning how to do stupid make up and snap pictures.

I'll advice u to make a better use of ur phone. Google has answer to everything for ignoramus like you. Learn to think before you talk this is 21st century.



Op, your and ur wife are rhesus incompatible and I suspect you guys have one child but if no child yet then your wife has been sensitised by having a child somewhere else or a terminated pregnancy before you guys married. A Union of rhesus incompatible people can produce only one child that will live if and only if the woman is not yet sensitised by having a baby, or an abortion before marriage.


This is a case of immune hydrops fetalis and the only way your Union can have a living baby is via a transmission of IGm fortified blood to the child while still in the womb once a doctor confirms the child is having anemia.


Your wives blood and your sperm are incompatible and the antibodies of ur wife are killing her babies thinking they're bacteria. Na big gbese inside life.

Love4God:
If you don't defend false pastors you won't be happy?
OPM helped him and are still helping others.
What about the others in opm that are still being helped by the church despite the fact that the serial killer tried to drag the name of the church to the mud.
If opm didn't help him possibly he would have started his serial killing then.
Salvation ministries did and are not doing the right thing by not helping their members children in attending free schools just like opm is doing and they haven't built any home to accomodate sex workers or criminals just like opm is doing.
He abused the oportuinity that opm gave him but what about those who are making good use of the opportuinity opm has given to them to better their lives .
Salvation ministries should help their members and leave those who would try to abuse the help or assistance rendered by the church because nature would surely teach them a lesson.
Note:I am not a member of opm

udemzyudex:
Vindicate him,how? By allowing another man to impregnate her and she delivers the baby or by marrying another lady? How ?

Ten06:
The best comment on this thread, you are gifted

ornicus:
I miss yuzedo of banana island mansion

GodCovenant:
its now.clear dbanj was talentless in music, but only on entertainment. check at his new lyrics and compared them to previous once under don jazzy. only God knows how many of his song Don jazzy most have destroyed and never see the light of the day or amends to good music because of quack lyrically.

tiredoflife:
What is of a truth
Is that English
Where did u learn to speak such poor grammar.

Love4God:
IN HIS WORDS HE STATED: "I was a committed member of the Deygbam Confranternity which I later denounced and joined the OPM Rehabilitation home before I left for Salvation ministries who refused to give me an accommodation."

If David Ibiyeomie led salvation ministries had given him an accommodation possibly he would have not commited all these crimes because he confessed to have done it out of his frustration of being homeless.
That is why i still believe that church schools should be free and they should also assist members that have needs even as the early christians did.
Acts 2:43-47
43. And fear came upon every soul: and many wonders and signs were done by the apostles.
44. And all that believed were together, and had all things common;
****45. And sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as every man had need.****
46.And they, continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, did eat their meat with gladness and singleness of heart,
47. Praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily such as should be saved.
If you say it will reduce the standard to that of government schools ,is it not the so called public schools that Enoch Adeboye,David Oyedepo even Goodluck Jonathan e.t.c all attended.
Their bewitched followers would still come to their defense.

LargeProfessor:
I met this girl close to my house and I couldn’t take my eyes off her. She is extremely beautiful: she is tall, busty, has lovely dark skin, a pointed nose, thin kissable lips and massive a$$. I just couldn’t help but wonder how one girl could have it all. I approached her, we exchanged contacts and began talking on the phone and chatting on WhatsApp.


I wasn’t in any relationship when we met, so I planned to ask her out and really wanted to be serious with her but during our discussions and interactions, I came to realize that she is a slay queen whose primary concerns are partying, clubbing, acquiring and wearing the clothes and shoes that are in vogue and other such frivolities. A serious relationship is the last thing she wants.
Since I’m no novice in the dating game, I know full well that there are some girls who only want money from a guy and will offer 5ex in return without investing any emotions in the relationship. And I knew, from what I had seen and what she had told me, that she was that kind of girl.

So, I adjusted accordingly and shelved the idea of asking her out. From then on, we only chatted, talked on the phone and hung out together occasionally. As I expected, she made several monetary demands of me, none of which I granted. When her demands became too much I told her that I knew the kind of girl she was, that nothing serious could ever happen between us and that if she really wanted money from me she would have to give me something in return; the only thing she could ever give me: 5ex. Again, as I expected, she agreed. One day while we were chatting, she told me about a pair of shoes that she really liked that she saw at a nearby boutique. She told me the asking price was 10k but that she didn’t have the money, and she wanted me to help her buy it. That day was a Friday. I usually replenish my groceries every Saturday, so I promised her we would go out together to buy the shoes the next day and afterwards I would take her to my place. She agreed.


Fast forward to Saturday afternoon, I took her first to an eatery where we had lunch, and subsequently to the boutique to buy the shoes. I ended up buying not only the shoes but some other items of clothing for her. After leaving the boutique, we went to a supermarket where I bought my groceries, and then we began heading to my place.
At my place I served her food and drinks which she declined because she was full. She didn’t act uneasy or uncomfortable because, at that point, we had known each other for more than two months and had hung out several times. On the contrary, she made herself at home, walked around the apartment admiring my furniture and the tidiness of the apartment, took the TV remote and switched from channel to channel and chatted with me without the slightest hint of fear in her voice.


Then I moved close to her, smoothed her hair with one hand and placed the other on her lap, and brought my head forward to kiss her. She didn’t resist. I kissed her gently but passionately. I then tried to remove her blouse but she wouldn’t let me. ‘What is the problem?’ I asked her but she just nodded her head. I tried again but she resisted and then got up from the couch she had been sitting on. At this point, my horniness was slowly metamorphosing into rage. ‘What is the problem?’ I asked again, this time forcefully. ‘I’m not in the mood. I just don’t feel like having sex now,’ she replied. I went mad on hearing this. My brown eyes turned bloodshot red. I’m not the type that physically abuses women otherwise something terrible would have happened in my flat that afternoon. ‘I thought we had an agreement!’ I yelled. ‘I thought I told you that you could only get money from me only if you give 5ex in return? You want to play me for a fool? We had a deal, I have fulfilled my own end of the bargain but you want to renege? You think you are smart, don’t you?’ She saw the rage in my eyes and started trembling. ‘It’s not like that. I’m just not in the mood,’ she said.


I seized her phone (an iPhone XS Max) and drove her out of my apartment. I told her to come for it when she was ready to reimburse me for what I had spent on her that day. She pleaded with me to take the shoes and items of clothing back and give her back her phone but I refused. Of what use to me are a woman’s shoes and clothes? I asked her if she expected me to return them to the boutique or to try to sell them to get my money back.
To cut the long story short, she reported the case to the nearby police station and they have invited me to come and write a statement at the station. I want to know if I would win this case. Police officers and lawyers in the house, please contribute.