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You are not that smart a fellow. You should have just done the work yourself and kept that 8k for something else.

But no, you want to show that you are Odogwu.

She is LIEING to you with the Rape story so that she will look like the victim to you.

Believe you me she has been collecting money and some gifts from the man. She won't tell you this.

Don't fall for the lies she is telling you!

If you are very stupid you'll go ahead to chase the wind by following up an imaginary Rape story.
It's when you get to the police station you'll then find out that it was consensual.

Don't be a fool!

MSN1:
FACT.
My 2nd GF then was about 24, had been in several relationships but neva for once experienced orgasm!

I could remember the feeling she had and how attached she got to me after experiencing it on our first knack.
IF U CRACK A WOMAN'S SOFT SPOT, ONLY DEN U WUD KNOW HOW LOYAL THEY CUD BE. DEM GO JUST DEY MUMU 4 U!.

You no wise bro.

She just tell you that one u to boost your ego.

Una still be tata, babies with women.

Lyrics269:
The vast majority of nigerian girls have never experienced orgasm. Most Nigerian girls don't cum during intercourse. Most of them don't even know that as a lady they are supposed to squirt during sexual activities.
What's wrong with Nigerian girls?

You guys should shut the Bleep up!

It's your lack of knowledge of female nature that's making you all agree with the sewage these females vomit from their mouth.

If 95% of females ever agree that they reach orgasm, don't you know that the sexual dynamics will shift? And that they'll lose their monopoly over sexual satisfaction?
You guys don't think at all.

Whatever women enjoy from men they'll hardly ever acknowledge or praise it in public for fear of giving men the impression that men we doing them a favor - in the case of sex, receiving sex from men when society has made it seem like it's women that give men sex.
If they ever come out to acknowledge it it'll be put out as "Obligation". As a man v you are supposed to. "A real man does this and that for his woman" whearas it is a favor men are doing them, but they've twisted it in such a way that they make you belive they are doing a favor by allowing you to help them.

Also, if 95% of women don't enjoy orgasm, why do women keep having sex? Don't you know that women enjoy sex much more than men, and can reach multiple orgasms in just one round of sex? Or don't you know that women have more erogenous zones than men that increases their arousal level and makes sex much more passionate for them?
This is why they keep having sex even with different guys. Different variety of dicks and orgasms. They enjoy been bleeped. They orgasm alot. Unfortunately, they won't come out to publicly admit it as it'll be a blow to the sisterhood.

In addition, when women tell you they don't enjoy sex, they leave the ones they enjoyed out of it and focus on the sex that they didn't enjoy. You can't have sex 20times and enjoy all 20. Nah... So these women focus on the sexual sessions they didn't enjoy and categorize it as all. It's just like a woman you've been assisting financially all this while and the period you don't help her she'll say "Youve never helped me before" and then you dazed! That's how these women refer to sex when they're in the open.

Don't mind these women. They are way too smart for you to take their words at face value! On this sex, orgasm matter, they don't just want men to feel too important.

Lastly, it is still your lack of knowledge that makes you think a woman must squirt as a sign of orgasm. Squirt is URINE!
You better go and learn more and get more experience.

I hope you discard this line of thought.

MASTAkiLLAh:
I recently read (didn't bother watching the video) about a guy who collected an iphone and wig he bought for a girl who refused his proposal and I just shook my damn head
You guys and even ladies have bastardized the meaning of love and turned it into a sexual transaction. That scenario mentioned earlier clearly showed the said guy had been trying to buy the affections of someone who didn't love him at all but could give him a few tumbles in bed once in a while. If he had style, he would have noticed her type of person from far off and treated her accordingly instead of embarrassing himself by collecting back gifts. Poverty is really a disease especially mental poverty.
When you love a woman or man, getting gifts should be an act of love and affection, getting gifts will automatically be because you know this will look good on your partner or they'll surely appreciate it. Getting them gifts is a thing of joy to yourself especially because they make you happy and you want to appreciate them. If you know you'll take back whatever you bought just because of an argument then don't even bother buying anything and disturbing us on social media whenever you're angry please .

You don't understand certain things yet that's why you can comfortably type this thrash and then add insult to it. Whatever expensive item you bought for a girl that can be sold should be recovered when the relationship ends on a bitter note. No need sugar coating things. It doesn't mean you are weak. It means you are wise. Nonetheless, as a Proactive person it's best you don't buy such items for them in the first place.

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Let your parents know. Don't hide it from them. If you ever told her that one of your testicles got removed, but you still ejaculated, should she still remain with you? Ask yourself that question. She'll definitely have fertility issues. Don't let feelings blind you.

Eunoiaa:
That's Amaka's Theory at play.


Once debe, always debe. If you like, loose guard and cheapen yourself. She wants to chop you and go, and will very much continue to do so for as long as you remain her ex alive.


You only have a 1% chance of being freed from her grasp and the allure of the feminine, so your only way out is to completely widen the distance between you guys as much as possible. Like disconnect all forms of communication. Relocate to a new locality, if possible.


You're not doing anything right or different; it's just a woman's nature to taste again something she has once chowed, as dictated by the desires of the p#ssy.

Thank you for this.

Your wife is looking down on you. Vanish for three months then she'll miss you and see you differently.

Don't mind him. He is deceiving himself.

You did the right thing bro! Kudos. Some of this girls need to be taught bitter lessons. It is because lost guys don't do anything about their madness that's why they keep repeating their useless behavior here and there, highest he'll walk away without doing anything to me. My ex I ghosted her for more than a week. Panic almost killed her before I reached out to her and then ended everything.

But then never, even under the pain of death, return back to her or accept her back. She is gonna inflict a revenge that will crush your soul.

God bless you. I almost got this tablet.

Ballmer:
. Na wa for NL O ! So she as a right to Bleep around because they are not married ?
My guy I won't encourage you to leave the girl just like that instead I will advice that you study her countenance henceforth. Some girls after being caught grow bold and turn gangster Olosho while some are genuinely sorry it happened and take it as a learning curve never to let it happen again.

Now the reason I'll advice you not to let go is because of what is out there. My EX cheated during orientation camp I broke up the relationship thinking I will get another and indeed I have had tons of other girls but my ex is married to the older man she cheated with and they have two lovely kids. Now every single girl I have met after her live a life dedicated to deceit & cheating those I met in NL inclusive. There is none that does not have strings of bf labelled toasters waiting or servicing their honeypot till the mugu to put a ring on it comes around.

Here is a beta appreciation of the situation the guy she cheated with understand the quality your girl posses and he's seeking to covet her, if you slip up which happened to me bro they might be married in 6 month just like my situation. Now I have no idea how out going you are, how knowledgeable you are about finding "good marriageable girls" in Nigeria but trust me you'd NEVER find a beta girl than her so long you can vouch today she is a good girl but you need to figure out if her apology is genuine or not so you don't end up with a gangster Olosho or keep her in the wings faking forgiveness & search for a new girl. If a new good girl comes along well n good if not make do with her. What is out there is more dangerous.

What are you are saying doesn't make sense. A woman who has cheated on you will do it again and again. This is what you don't understand.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the red flags are obvious?

You have seen all this signs and behaviours and you are still seeking for advice.. I beg you in the name of God abort mission. Run away from her. Kick her out of your house. You'll suffer like a fool. I see that you are pitying her, but she isn't pitying you or herself. She will deal with you mercilessly and go back to her ex when she's done. Your heart will bleed and your tears will flow like a river. You'll look for help from her hands and you'll not find it. You'll suffer to the point where you'll question not just you sanity but also humanity. She'll punish you terribly for all the good things you have and are doing fot her. You will suffer bro, terribly and deeply. And there'll be no one to help you or recoup your losses once she's done with you. Do the right thing now that's not too late. She is not interested in marrying you, but in marrying the comfortable lifestyle that your money and resources bring. Do this. Return her back to the streets of whoredom. That's where she comes from and where she belongs. Take her back to her maternal home of self_destruction so that you can have peace and joy eternal in your heart and life. Please and please I AM MENTALLY ON MY KNEES, MUSTER UP COURAGE AND CUT HER OFF!

Thisisa:
I have been thinking about this girl that doesn't like me for more than 3years now. And she has told me several times that she's is not interested in dating me.(tho I already admit this fact

But I always find myself always thinking about her EVERYDAY! I am really tired of this.

The said girl isn't making it easy for me to move on from her!
I have done a lot of things for her to never talk to me again but she always find a way( even a text from her makes think about her alot. I told her point blank block and unblocked.



I should never even think about her again I know this but. My mind always move to her.


I have always delved into doing thing that's eventually are detrimental to me. In other to stop this obsession however I still find myself thinkkng about her...

How old are you?

I am sorry sir,but you'll be an idiot to follow the words of a woman. She doesn't mean you well at all! If you wanna build do so with your money from start to finish. She wants to contribute chicken change while planning her escape route with the house should you both divorce. She's already eyeing your future property. You better be wise. If she doesn't want to rent with you, let her go.

Why are you taking the relationship serious? She shouldn't even be the only girl you should be seeing. When will you guys realise Nigerian girls have no respect for relationships, but only the benefits?

She lied to you. She has been sexually active withun those years, buh because you are chasing she hasto play the giod chaste girl card for you so that she'll look worthy in your eyes. My guy, If you have the opportunity to go through her phone, you'll die of shock. You better be extra careful.

She is already scamming you.

That girl is actually wide down there. The only way you would cum is if you focused your mind on imagining yourself fucking some other girl.
And some friendly advice: conserve your strength and seed. You are losing out on every facet of your life when you Bleep these life sapping whores.

Tell your elder brother so that this snake will be exposed!

If you are foolish enough to end up marrying her, you'll hate yourself ×100!

Ignore what your parents are telling you. They are very traditional. But your wife isn't traditional. Most girls only want to take and take without giving anything back. Without contributing.

All of the money will be used for herself and her family! In the event that you fall sick or lose your job or have a financial setback, she won't wanna lift a finger and even if she does she'll make you hate yourself. Or in a worse case scenario she's gonna leave you when she feels she's now equal to you or financially better than you.
You better be wise!!!

You better be wise !!! You better be wise!!!

Im talking to you from practical experience! Don't say you weren't warned!

If she loves you..you'll know. Of she doesn't, you'll get confused.
Understand this: If you strive to remain where you are not accepted, You'll be used!
Cut her off ASAP.

Firstandonly:
my girlfriend is very good in sawing and she have always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. she is still in school and support her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.
should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life. pls have any body face this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome

Don't dare it! You'll regret it!

Is this one still sane ?

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You just want to shorten your lifespan. You better free yourself from her trap. She will be very sweet and romantic with you, until you get married. You better be wise. No woman harbors genuine respect for a man she's older than.

Also, menopause is around the corner. She's already aging faster than you can imagine. She's not a good choice. Let a man older than her we'd her.

Ask yourself why she couldn't get a man before this her age 45. You should think about this and don't let her charm and your feelings lead you astray.

What if I told you she was never pregnant and just wanted to scam you from the very beginning she told you she was pregnant ?? Think about it.

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GraGra247:
Op, you honestly represent my views about women in totality. I'm just a little different because I have a very soft spot for the vulnerable and humble ones among them.

I'm willing to go out of my way to spend or suffer to assist a down trodden or down to earth lady without any strings attached. Of course sometimes they want strings afterwards and its still ok.

But once I detect slayqueen, feminist type of pride, I'm ready to let her die without paying any attention cos they've done far worse to people I know.

I just hope your kindness will not be used against you or used to string you into a parasitic committed relationship. Be careful how you help women. I'll not say more than this.

chigoziri2403:
You don't know girls, you will just be printing and doing photocopying for free, be there be forming audio love, don't get sense.

Just what I wanted to text bro. The guy is fucking dull

Brock202:
Hi everyone, i dont want to bore you with long talk.
I need your advise on this issue,
Me and this girl have been in a relationship for over a year now, she posses some of the features i want in my woman but she's lacking one thing which is intelligence, i always be the one to bring up a topic we can talk about, I've never meet her for advice or anything that bothers me because i know she can't proffer any solution to it, we don't use to chat on WhatsApp after saying hi and i reply, how was your day that's the end, I'm the only one that bring up issue to discuss everytime but now am tired of it, I've complained to her several times but she said she don't what to say, I've sent her some books to read but she didn't read any of them. I'm thinking of breaking up with her because i can't cope with her again and then i decide to give it a second thought that's why i put it here if there is any other tips i can use to build her up to my taste

Advise me please!

She's not very attracted to you. She's not so interested in you. Trust me she's flowing very well and laughing at the jokes and even flirting with other guys. I have been in this position before. I just hope you are not a boring bf to her. On a whole she's not so into you. Let her go.