₦airaland Forum

philip0906:
You dey make noise abeg. Just twisting your own words upandan. How can you open your mouth and say that the girl is NOT obligated to tell the family she stays with her whereabouts? Are you even remotely joking? Have you heard of the word accountability?

You're living in my house (not your house) as my ward and then you go missing for 2 weeks and you think I don't have a "right" to know? Aside the trauma you're causing me, when the authorities are looking for you and launch investigarions, I'll be the first point of call...Doesn't that tell you something? We're not even talking about the fact that society will hold me accountable to an extent for not knowing the whereabouts of my ward in the name of "it's her right not to tell me" ?

If you don't feel any obligation to let your parents, family you stay with, in to days and possibly weeks of disappearing from the house, in present day Nigeria, you're an adult, you're better off living on your own...at that point, they do not have full responsibility or accountability over you.

I swear the guy weak me, I just off. Which kind adult be that?? Even Chickens don't behave like that. All this people that thinks that Adulthood is freedom to be mad should know that Too much freedom kills.

linearity:
That is not true.

She can choose to inform them out of courtesy and respect....and that depends on the mutual dynamics and depth of relationship and friendship among all of the family members....the family have no right to know, as an adult, she is entitle to her privacy until she chooses to give them up.

Also, the family's desire to know and be informed does not create any obligation on her part. I understand the concerns on the part of the family and the emotional trauma she must have put them through by not keeping them in the loop; all of that are well intended and good, but that does not mean they have the right to be in the know.

I think you are the one that is wrong here. One person at least, even if it's a friend should know where you are at all times for security reasons. The idea of I'm an adult so I owe no one my whereabouts is a childish and selfish mentality that is deadly to have

punisha:
How many days later...
The chats increase.
One thing is certain, Nigerian don't talk this way. So without stressing my self further, I can comfortably say that Indians are behind this.
Only them can be this stupid and Randy.

Guy you no get joy at all.

purpinkx:
Flattery will get you very far, as long as you don't over use it.



Depends on what you think I can help you with.



No!



Sure, worst case scenario, I can point you in the right direction.

Lol, How did he over flattered you now?? Some people are just experts in finding faults.

ibkonekt:
sounds like an excuse to enable bad behavior, if a woman wants to shiit test an Alpha then she should be ready to face the repercussions. no time for female manipulative nonsense. on that ground maybe she is not that intelligent

I wish I can like this a hundred times.

He eats unhealthily during his birthday celebration that is why. After eating meat pie, burger with sharwama and washing it down with Gulder, coke and bullet how you no go sick??

The first woman that is mid to late thirties looks younger than the second one that is early twenties.

The question is intimidating.

What ever happens, use your head oh no let too much emotions blind you. Forget that guy abi na girl wey dey talk trash about friend's intention.

TOPCRUISE:
Pity the jobless man that impregnated a broke girl from a poor family in this era. He is finished

This one na kill and dry

He said nothing wrong in my opinion, Some men will not even celebrate the birthday day at all sef and Feminists will still complain if he doesn't appreciate his submissive wife. Leave all those angry fools

No wonder, I was shocked to have a few messages the same second I entered, that raised my suspicions. Na the money matter just make me run, though I felt bad and angry cuz I ( as I thought b4 reading your post ) had already started talking to some females.

Unattractive?? There is nothing like an ugly billionaire.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Most people are guilty of this
Including me
Gone are those days in school.. Uniben..after banging a girl from electrical engineering department.. just wanted to bang and move on but unfortunately for her she was madly in love with me....she was very intelligent but stupid me put beauty first before brain...
I still regret it up till this moment...
I still wonder why I gave her such disdainful treatment those days....I treated her like she was a nobody simply because she has no facial beauty and no coke bottle shape...
She will sacrifice her time, money and books just to be around me but instead of me to reciprocate. I Will ignore her..
Still she didn't give up... constant calling..non stop begging me with tears..Buying gifts for me always
She was doing all these because herself esteem is low due to her unattractive body! And stupid me continue to take advantage knowing well that guys don't toast her alot... until one day she decided to walk away with tears....

Please! Blessing! Anywhere you are right now. Just forgive me.....and forget those treatment......i apologize...

What's with you and this Damnnnn niggarr
issoright
e dey make ME laugh sometimes

Descortes:
see the best way, the way she comes to you house to eat and spend time, also go to her house, eat and spend time shikina

You cannot tell me that this girl doesn't cook in her house

Sense will not kill you

Kobojunkie:
This man quit after 30 years of gaining nothing... how does that compare to Jesus Christ and His disciples?
You "Daddy GO" missed the mark when he decided to set up his own kingdom and run it by his own rules, not Jesus Christ's rules at all.
By the way, do you remember that Jesus Christ said you should call no man father...

You missed my point I was supporting the other pastor odutola, not Pst Adeboye. Besides I don't attend RCCG i'm a Catholic.

Kobojunkie:
Wait a second... you want to compare this to what Jesus Christ did? WOW!!

I really don't know what you are thinking that you are saying WOW but just know that Jesus Christ is the Model of the church and we all have to look up to him. Any ministry practice in the church that is being done today should be compared to his because he is the MODUS OPERANDI.

LibertyRep:
It's not unexpected in such a big institution with several outlets.

Cut the guy some slack. After 30 years, he should be free to set up his own ministry. Some men in a known tribe will even take up the responsibility of setting up the establishment of their apprentices upon graduation.

Guy me sef just dey surprised at how people can be insensitive. See how they are condemning him, as if 30 years na child's play. Even Jesus Christ sent out his disciples to preach while he was still alive and they all spread after his death, this is less than 3 years oh. Come imagine 30 years, even if na marriage he try Abeg.

ibkonekt:
this is true, feminism has nothing to do with declining smv (age wise). that is nature at work. (but SMV is not only limited to aging)
How feminism affects a woman's SMV
1. women are told to explore their sexuality....aka become a wh0re in your prime years and settle to marry a simp
2. refuse to be submissive.....aka we are equal and i don't have to listen to him
3. be masculine and not feminine....women power hear me roar nonsense, not know how to cook clean or take care of a home
4. body positivity......aka get as fat as a land whale but the man should love you all the same

i think they are more but these are what i can recall....either way feminism is truly the catalyst that destroyed relationships as we know it...we are headed for uncharted territories now

Chai savage. Have small mercy na

Older women lie to fit in socially and professionally, while the younger ones just lie for the fun of it.

That tubaba wife picture no be only weavon be her problem oh, HEAVY POVERTY follow cause that her second picture

SweetCunt97:
She doesn't need boys but a companion who can buy and pay for his shiit and not a full grown liability.

Lol, OK but is that what is meant by the word RICH?? It made him sound like a Gold digger

Oluromantic:
As much as many igbos would come here to argue, it's still the truth. Apart from lazy sef, most of them are rude in the name of being pampered by a rich husband and self-centered. I can't count how many of such I've seen. Most house help abuse are carried out by them while they spoil their own children with pampering. I don't know if to say being rude is part of their culture. The men too can re-nail Jesus to the cross cus of money. The culture dey somehow o

I wanted to insult the hell out of you for foolish tribalism but when I see that part of house help abuse I just weak. I'm igbo but the way I see house help being treated like tissue paper here in the east is depressing. When I visited in the north it's not like that, even Yoruba own is better.

So now in your mind a rich man will come and apply, at that age how it works is your mom using her money to get boys, no insult but she's too old for the other way round.

Dannyfan:
The most important thing a lady will gv to a man is to support his career and home. Sex, emotional, moral, financial support are what u gv each other.

True talk.

Opportunity gone

EYAH, Ladies have their own sexual shortcomings too. Does she even knows and accepts that she have. problem, or na only you dey break head for the matter?? Bitter truth be told, it's not your problem to solve.

Lol, it doesn't affect your destiny or future. It only affects your sex life depending on how you do it.

illitrate:
One dey miss

** hang your cloth for that nail **

Haha haha, Ye. God will have mercy on us in this country.

Number 15, 19, 21 and 22 dey funny die