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Mhizizzy:
I hate being lied to...itz not like I wud kill u so just say it d way it is

It's not like the guy wants to lie in d first place dear but when a friend cares about your well being, he wouldn't want u to feel bad or sad as a result of his action.

diddydiva:
Not all ladies are like this.

I prefer to be told the truth no matter how bitter it maybe.

Truth be told I may be depressed or sad which it's normal to all human being but I will respect you for being truthful.

After all it's not all we want we get. Some aren't meant for us.


life goes on

That is what the problem is, a guy who really care about u as a friend wouldn't want you to be sad and depressed as result of his action. Trust me, he will find it hard to tell u about his feeling

PunkyBrewster:
I prefer being told the truth over lies. Don't care how hurtful you think it is going to be, just say it & let me worry about my own emotions afterwards. It angers me so much when people say things like, "I didn't wanna hurt you...blah blah blah" after being caught in a lie. Like please, don't decide on your own about what I can or cannot handle. Pisses me off. Hit me with it right between the eyes & I'll respect you for eternity for your honesty.

Hmmmmm!!!!! It's quite easy to say this when u r yet to be hit with those words called "The Truth" in a situation where u r in love with a rare gem to ur soul; Outside love, it's your world darling(called Nothing do u).

If you find yourself in this, trust me, at that moment, your self esteem and what makes u a woman disappear to thin air just before your eyes, hatred set in and irrational behaviour and unhealthy reaction kick in. However, this is d point I actually expected a lady to look at things from future perspective and for d sake of their unborn children.

ShirelleBaby:

I don't hate being told the truth but I hate how the truth is being told.

If u want to tell me something truthfully--pls do it cautiously kus I have a heart not a rock.

Hey gorgeous, regardless of your presentation as a man, some ladies(85%) will hate you for saying the truth. As a matter of fact, some ll neither pick ur calls nor talk to u again.

And as a lady, don't expect your best female friends to come and tell you what their reactions to this might be cos they ll never tell u the truth as a result of their pride and self esteem. What your best female friends would do in this situation is what I m saying right here today.

However, I know it is not easy to let go; someone u r in love with, it's tough decision to make but at the end of d day, u ll end up saving those lovely unborn children from broken homes and unhealthy family background. Ladies just need to see things from future peespective...

Having read what guys have suggested and still suggesting, I now believe that the reason why marriages are failing in our society today is no longer far fetch.

Most of 21st century marriages are built on lies and it's matter of time before the marriage crashes.

alberto2k:
cuz Lies are sugar coated and sweet while truth is bitter

Totally agreed with u. What would be d fate of honest men/guys out there when ladies(90%) hate to hear d truth?

ITbomb:
Every girl has their fantasy and what remains is for the playboy to relate to her fantasy and the legs will be open.

Truth is bitter and no one likes bitter things.

Why tell a girl that you low on cash or broke when you can tell her that you invested most of your money in some construction business which will yield in 2 months time. That will give you two months of free punny while you use the small change to do some little treats and phone calls

There is level u get to in life and lies become sour in your mouth.....

hifaif:
yep, the more reason why my mirexxx told me to fhuck off cos of a discussion over ©

Take it easy....

djeezy:
Cos' the truth is bitter. Simple

Stand by dat Truth my friend cos if you stand for nothing, you ll fall for anything.

Caseless:
Keep telling them some good lies men!

But Karma my brother.....

Remember that all your children might turn out to be girls or your sisters

BeeBeeOoh:
Because, they are allergic to it but; embraces an ambigious lie with whole heart and the end point of the "Lie remains, "He Used Me & Dump Me..

You are right my friend; it's pretty saddening, isn't it?

Sometimes, they make you feel bad about being honest with them. They(not all) ll make you feel like a devil when you tried to be their "Hero" by coming out clean and honest. The moment you call their attention to how you (no sex at this point), sadness and tears all over the place and this alone break ur soul cos this is what u r trying to avoid in the first place.

missjenna:
First of all, before I say anything I would like to say this... whenever you are stating your opinions and thoughts about a particular gender, try as much not to generalize.
The problem with gender based stereotypes like this is not that they are not true, but that they are incomplete.

Ladies are humans beings. We have heart, and most times we tend to express our emotions deeper and stronger than the way guys do.
If a woman, likes you, and she feels you like her too, probably from your behavior and the way you have been expressing yourself towards her and latter you come out and tell her point blank that you don't love her, I believe she is entitled to expressively show her disgust. Especially when you have slept with her countless times

But not all women would behave that way. As for me, I wouldn't .

I tried not to generalise but i m sorry if my write up
seems/sounds like that.

Back to your point in 2nd paragraph about sex, if you choose not to sleep with some, they ll end up calling you some funny names jokingly.

Even without sex, it's annoying, disappointing and painful to see someone whom you see like your own biological sister to hate you just cos u decided not to hurt their feelings by telling her the truth or take their pride away from them as ladies.

I wouldn't know if my view on this topic represents the views of all men who have actually experienced this at a particular point in time in their lives. However, having spoken with few friends and colleagues, I have realised that ladies are(were) the architect of their own misfortunes in some relationships.

It's natural and nice to mingle and make friends with opposite sex; it's equally healthy for both but when these ladies fall in love with their male friend/colleague and this gentle male friend decides to be honest with the truth by telling them in a mature and polite manner that he is not in love with them, ladies reaction to this is quite disappointing, heart-wrecking and annoying.

And this repulsive reaction is d main reason why i am here today so as to get others opinions about this; to find out why do ladies hate you almost immediately after telling them the truth. Do they expect you to lie to them about how u feel?

Lol!!!! Having read extensively about 1st and 2nd world war, Vietnam war, South and North Korea War, China Invasion by Japan, Serbia against Bosnia, Iraq invasion by US, 6 days war between Israel and Egypt, UK against Argentina over Falkland, Russia war against Afrganistan, Russia war against Georgia, Cuba missile war and some civil wars in Africa and Asia continent(India and Pakistan), I have never come across where rebels/aggressors/militants/nationalists expected the same system they are(were) fighting against to feed their children and wives and equally pay the rebels or soldiers that fought at their side(pay my enemies for killing my people). Chai!!!!! Absurd to say d least.

Here is the picture of Nigeria president Sai Buhari in UK today with UK former prime minister Tony Blair.

Talking from experience, it's quite easy to get rid of anybody if u r really serious about it. You know what, try and find out all what she dislikes as a person and as soon as u get the info, start to do those things she hates so much. Trust me, it works like magic.

irunobo3:
Oloshi ashewo olobo 10kobo. Mumu

I am not beefing you my sister or brother but trying to have an heart to heart chat with you. But are u for real? If you are truly a lady, then there is a problem somewhere.

It's quite disturbing and heart-trending to see a Nigerian lady choosing and using repulsive words in this manner.

irunobo3:
and it's obvious you have eyes but cant see

I can see young man but my instinct tells me you are a guy/boy. How did I know that you r a guy is the question you should be asking urself by now? I knew cos no Nigeria lady ll upload what u have got on your dp and write all that gibberish.

As

irunobo3:


I'm naturally beautiful, no makeup, shiny skin, i got swag and a lovely boyfriend.

Guys what do you think?

It's obvious you are a guy.

cuteboy2:
[size=18pt]Commissioning of the 750MW Olorunsogo NIPP currently ongoing on right now.
AIT showing the event live this morning.

Pictures attached. More to follow.[/size]

But how many times PDP wants to commission the same Olorunsogo NIPP cos I remember vividly that Obasanjo did twice?

I don't know if this is an additional power plant.

Smartestelvis:
yea u find her irritatin,n y is dat? coz she made her self dat way or coz she wouldn't be happi if she came into d world maybe as prettty as u wld fink u r....such persons like u r d reasons 4 increased sucide rate or if an educated person like u cnt understnd dat ur words in corretin sm1 mite actually be a tool 2 fuel d person's griefs n guilt den who will.....speakin of civility,i fink u shld tke ur own advice...evn micheal jackson did a nose surgery nt bcoz his nose wasn't breathin fine,bt coz of ppl like u who felt odas should look like u......if u cnt accept ppl 4 who dy r den jst zip it please

You shut up and read

So u expect people to shut up because i m a God when my beard is left unkempt and messy all over my face as a man

You are just arguing blindly. I didn't complain about her nose, mouth or any part of her body but the hair on her chest which could be shaved as a lady. If guys( even female friends with scanty beards on their lower cheeks) think of suicide simply cos we re told to shave that irritating beard on our faces or chest, then loads of us must have committed suicide over and over by now. It's natural for people to tell you to shave your beards as a woman and as a man if you not well groomed.

It's pretty obvious like a biblical teketekemeneupharsin that you are xtremely opinionated person which is not an issue to me. It's your life anyway, live your life d way it pleases you. May God help u in your newly found career (fighting people who air their opinions).

You already begin to sound like an halfwit to me and I ll not dignify you with my response any more.

valdes00:
Well, u r right sha.. Buh tins lik dis ar common in distant relationship

My friends, there is no statistics to prove that one is better than the other. Both are opened to disappointment; it all depends on the two love birds involved.

And it's crystal clear like biblical teketekemeneupharsin that 90% breakups usually happened in close relationships cos boredom set in along tge line while distant relationship bring the missing flavour to the relationship.

My friend, look around you and you ll realise how many friends of yours, family members, community members, marriages and school friends in close relation have broken up in recent months and some ll break up in the next couple of months......

Smartestelvis:
i consider any harsh n sonoyin coment against anytin havin 2legs n breathin d same air wit u a serious threat agains me n i make it priority 2 attack such ppl on nl...no marra wot a human has got feelins n immagin such person readin ur trashy comment,especially comin from one hu cant even cr8t a doll say less a human...pulease n pls try n put some morataniun in ur choice of wordss

All i said:
1) Channel your effort towards her cos you can never stop millions of people from airing their opinion.

2) I suggested that the lady in question should shave from time to time

3) I equally suggested that there might be a medical solution to it

And i finally said that, the hair on her body was IRRITATING which was why I apologised in my previous post but i was just being real with my observation at that particular point in time.

However, i have read thru your ^^^^^^ and every bit of the message therein was clearly understood by me but permit to say this, there is absolutely nothing you can do as human about billions of peoples around the world, airing their opinions on different topics.

If you find someone's opinion on particular topic pretty irritating, all you need to do as a civil and educated person is to call the attention of the person to it in a polite and civil manner rather than throwing insults which might complicate the whole thing. Remember that nobody has monopoly of impoliteness.

valdes00:
Reason y I dnt lik distant relationship

Either distant or close, when a lady or man is ready to leave a relationship for another, closeness wouldn't matter anymore.

Smartestelvis:
u v got 2 sick in d head 4 such a rediculous coment

Hi, you don't need to be rude simply cos I made my opinion known. I tender unreserved apology if my aired opinion got you upset.

But like I said earlier, you can't make my your grievance known without insult. Thk you.

Nice one

Looking at that picture, it's obvious that the young man wasn't brought down by gun shot but was chased, caught and butchered like a goat.

Missy89:
Loser: He hasn't seen a girl unclad before apart from porn and magazines. He cant ask a girl out and still lives with his parent even after college

Sex Starved: He doesn't have a girlfriend and needs something to look at when applying the soap or Vaseline

Creep : He is a creepy individual and gets his kick by storing girls nude picture on his phone (so he can brag to his loser peers)

Immaturity: He thinks the girl does not love him if she hasn't sent one


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