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Pukkalolo:
Trying to get women to hate you makes them love you. Trying to get women to love you almost always makes them lose interest.

My cousin learned this the hard way… and then he watched it work in real time.

My cousin and I were at a wedding. A fine lady sat close to us. I started talking to her. My cousin was quietly listening, probably expecting me to do the usual nice-guy routine.

A few minutes into the conversation with her, she started something I wasn't feeling. So in an half serious face yet playful way I looked at her and said:

“Ogbeni, Shup up jo”

Her eyes widened. My cousin’s jaw almost hit the floor.

She looked at me surprisedly and said, “Me? Shut up?”

I replied: “Yes.”

There was tension for a second. Then… the tension broke. She laughed nervously, and the conversation actually got better and more lively.

Later, while we were still talking, I looked at her and said calmly:

“Damn… I’m already starting to like you. But I’m worried I might break your heart.”



My cousin couldn't believe what his ear just heard..

She paused for a second. Then she laughed, but her eyes dilated. That mix of shock and intrigue hit her hard.

By the end of the night, we had connected. Strongly.

While I and my cousin was driving home, he couldn’t hold it in anymore.

“Bro… I don’t understand you,” he said. “Why were you saying things that should make her hate you?”

I replied, “what do you mean?”

He continued:

“I’ve never seen a guy have the gut to tell a fine girl like that to shut up. And then telling her you’ll break her heart… That doesn’t make sense. You’re trying to make her dislike you, not like you.”

I smiled.

Because that’s the paradox most men will never understand:

Trying to make women love you often makes them leave. Being willing to make them hate you is what makes them respect you.

My cousin saw a guy being “rude.”

What he actually saw was a guy who wasn’t afraid to lose her.

so you mean adult men wit bear bear shud adopt this your uncultured way of behaving in public?

......and the gal started drooling after you for love after ur childish behavior dt very? moment bah

Mut4y:
Yes boss, have accepted my fate since last year that is over, maybe I should have blocked her since then, if have done that we prolly won't be having this conversation, I kinda feel pity for her though but I won't forget every advise I get here, I'll stay away from her.

Youngman, you talking wit two mouth. You said this

The problem is that I still love her, but I don't know if I can trust her the way I used to.

Dos red flag you observe Abt dt gal is wat she was dishin out to her husband.. getting angry.... insulting....silent treatment and oda red flags.
The husband maybe a no nonsense person dt wasn't giving her any space to display her madness. DTS why she is saying she is tired and wants to leave the marriage .
And you sef tink she said dt out of love for you. Dnt be fooled. She wants to com bk to you because she knows how to press ur mumu button and get tins done in her own way.

Kalulu44:
Lolz! I know Cynergy for Festac/Amuwo Odofin area and also that Triple T for Oluti.
So you dey reach those areas and you also know Ndokwas hotels.
Hmmmm.... I don dey fear you

Kalulu....talk no dey finish for your mouth. so you don lodge for dt triple T for Oluti? For now I dey for Oluti. na my bstop now. I just stop for bstp enter street to my building ryt now.

ApstAdejimi001:
Unpopular Opinion: Some "Gifted" People Are Not Actually Being Overlooked. They're Just Not Ready.


Before you attack me, hear me out.
Every day, you'll hear people say:
"Nigeria doesn't recognize talent."
"Nobody wants to help me."
"People are jealous of my gift."
Sometimes that's true.
But not always.
Here's my question:
If you're truly gifted...
Can people easily discover your work?
Have you improved your communication?
Are you consistent?
Have you built relationships?
Are you solving real problems for people?
Many people are waiting for a platform...
While ignoring the preparation that platform requires.
A gift without character can become a disaster.
A platform without maturity can destroy a person.
So here's the real question:
Have you been overlooked... or have you mistaken compliments for readiness?

Let's discuss.
No insults.
No religious arguments.
Just honest perspectives.

Fortres Insight
Apostle Adejimi Revelation Research System
(ARRS)

Not completely true dt they are not ready. they may AV the stuff within them to deliver bt character is wat is holding dem bk.

some gifted persons dnt want to serve backstage .They want the floodlight on dem.

They overestimate their worth. The "I am beta off Dan bro this or sis that". The "I shud be on the bigger stage not this small one" .

some gifted persons dnt want to serve for free or voluntarily.

some are impatient .

boy, you have already made up ur mind to join him. You are just waiting for his likes online to encourage you on nairaland to join.

kelvinmichael:
Hello House, I sincerely need your advice. Please read with an open mind.
During my NYSC orientation camp in Katsina State in 2018, I met a guy on the very first day. He was trying to move his bunk into the hostel, but everyone he asked for help ignored him. I had just arrived with my luggage, so I offered to help.
When we got to the hostel entrance, the other guys inside started shouting that they didn't want another roommate. I boldly replied, "If anyone brought space from their father's house to this hostel, let him come and stop us." We moved the bunk inside, became bunkmates, and eventually became very close friends. He is Yoruba, I'm from Benue (Middle Belt), and although I schooled in the North, I'm not fluent in Hausa.
We became like brothers. We shared food, helped each other financially, and looked out for one another.
However, I noticed something strange.
Whenever I told him I was expecting good news or money, it almost never came through.
One example happened in camp. My cousin in the USA asked me to send my account details. Out of excitement, I told my friend that my "brother" was about to send me money. For three consecutive days he kept asking, "Has your brother sent the money?" On the third day, I became frustrated and told him, "Forget it. He has changed his mind." That same evening, the money entered my account.
There were several similar incidents, so when I was processing my NYSC redeployment, I secretly gave my uncle my details to help me without telling my friend. In camp I still followed the normal redeployment process.
After camp we spent one more night in Katsina before travelling. When I finally showed him my redeployment letter, I noticed genuine surprise on his face. I was redeployed to Ogun State while he was posted to Oyo State.
While serving in Ogun, I unexpectedly met another former camp hostel mate named Fola. During camp we barely spoke because, for reasons I couldn't explain, I never felt comfortable around him.
One day I visited him. Jokingly I said, "Bro, cut soap for me" (meaning help me succeed).
Instead, he went into his bathroom and brought out a carved wooden object. He told me to pierce my finger and touch it with my blood. If it accepted me, he said he could help me.
I was frightened but didn't want to appear scared, so I did it while praying silently.
Immediately after touching it, I suddenly felt weak.
He then gave me a leaf and instructed me not to let it touch the ground. He told me to keep it on my window for a few days, then bury it near water while standing there naked at night, declaring what I wanted in life. He also instructed me to buy a padlock on the last night, lock it, and throw it away.
Although my mind kept telling me to throw everything away, I still followed the instructions.
What disturbed me most was that during those three nights, I wasn't even praying for myself properly. I found myself speaking blessings over other people and very little about myself, almost as if I wasn't fully conscious. I spoke like someone who was drunk.
Around that same period, I started dating a Muslim lady. During her first visit to my house, I behaved unlike myself. I argued about religion and even lied about some of my habits just to impress her.
Later I told her I desperately wanted to leave my NYSC PPA. She told me she could help improve my life if I promised never to leave her. She instructed me to apply shea butter to my face at night and take my bath the next morning without drying myself with a towel.
I still prayed and followed what she said.
A few weeks later, during NYSC clearance, I met some INEC corps members who introduced me to the Electoral Officer, and I was accepted into INEC.
Eventually we broke up.
After NYSC I started feeling spiritually disturbed. During one phone conversation, my ex-girlfriend said I had "jammed her akpako. Out of anger I replied that I wanted to "jam three people like her" and even made a statement that the same thing that happened between us would happen with the last woman I would meet, and that my former NYSC bunkmate would be living with me when it happened.
At the time, I was only joking.
Seven years later, those exact events happened almost exactly as I had said.
Much later I also discovered that both my former bunkmate and Fola were deeply involved in internet fraud ("Yahoo Yahoo" and reportedly practiced rituals.
Today, I honestly don't know what to believe anymore.
Thank you.

You said this but you didn't say explicitly wat is the problem dt an advice you seek for shud follow suit.

Kalulu44:
If to say you sabi read epistle you go no say I talk say residence aside and guest house aside. That's the resident which only me is overlooking

Only you managing it. place looks too quiet . Are you not bored managing it alone? Or you have plenty staff working wit you

Pukkalolo:
You’re still stuck on the lines.

That’s the entire problem with your comment.

You read the story and thought the power was in the lines. It wasn’t.

The power was in my carefree energy and complete absence of neediness that said “I don't care if this interaction works or not”

You can take the exact same lines, hand them to a man who stammers, avoids eye contact, laughs nervously after every sentence, and checks her face every two seconds for approval… and those lines will die on arrival.

You're making one mistake:
You’re still operating from the assumption that the right combination of vocabulary is what creates attraction.


You’re testing lines and English level. You’re measuring whether they can “string words together.”

But in reality, it's about your vibe, not your vocabulary.

lines or vibes is still same. lines is a verbal method of communication. Vibes is a swag/gesticulation delivery method of communication. dt igala giving u audience doesn't mean D nxt one will.

Not all gals resonate wit it. wat works for A dnt work for B. DTS my point.

Pukkalolo:
I was in ShopRite for just another Saturday shopping.

Then I saw this cute chocolate skinned lady also shopping. She stood by the wine/drink section, one hand on a bottle, the other scrolling her phone.

She had this attitude facial expression that says: "Approach me and chop slap."

But I wasn't fazed.

Lesson #1: Don't let someone's appearance intimidate you into making assumptions.

Someone can look serious, reserved, or completely unapproachable and still be perfectly receptive.
You don't know what's going on in someone's head just by looking at their face. You don't know until you respectfully initiate conversation and give her the choice to respond.


Let's continue…

As I was about to approach her, her phone rang. She picked it up and started speaking Igala to the person on the phone with her.
That was when I confirmed she's Igala (for the record, I'm not Igala).

Someone once told me that Igala women only date from their tribe… Today I was about to confirm if that restriction is true.
You remember how the serpent initiated conversation with Eve in the garden of Eden.

“Did God really say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?”

That question was a deliberate distortion engineered to force engagement. In marketing that is called, “pattern interrupt”

After she dropped the call, I walked closer to her and said:

"So, quick question…… as an Igala lady, is it true that ye shall not date any guy outside your tribe?”

My statement caught her completely off guard. She looked at me with that mixture of surprise, confusion, and amusement.

Then she said:

“See funny question… and how did you even know I’m Igala?”

HOOKED. Now she's curious.

Lesson #2: Your first goal isn't to impress. It's to create curiosity.

And this doesn't only apply to interaction with women. It also applies to business and marketing too. When pitching a product. Most people immediately start trying to impress, listing out product features. They start proving how good their product, service, or expertise is…
But that doesn't make the buyer curious… it only creates more doubt in them.

Anyways, Let's continue…

So when she said “Funny question, and how did you even know I’m Igala?”

I said,
“because only an Igala babe can look this innocent and tempting at the same time.”

She smiled and said. "This guy… You're not serious."

At this point she now feels comfortable talking to me. And here's where most guys would make another mistake.
They'd immediately start interviewing her.
“So what's your name”
"So where are you from?"

I did none of that, instead I went for the kill. I said,
"I don't know what my schedule looks like next weekend, but I'm very sure you and I are going to hang out… maybe upper weekend."

My audacious statement caught her completely off guard. She looked at me like I had just violated some international law.
The atmosphere changed. War was about to start. There was about to be a clash of Titans.

Then she lashed out,
"Ah, I don't understand… You're bold o. who said I was even interested in hanging out with you?"

That statement was a test. Most guys would get nervous and would start explaining themselves.

Lesson #3: Never apologize. Never explain. Never react emotionally.

I did none of that. Instead I simply changed the direction of the conversation.

I said, "Wait… I just realized something."

She rolled her eyes and immediately asked, “What’s that?”

I said, “Do you know you’re the weapon fashioned against me… and it seems like you’re about to prosper on it.”


She replied confusedly, “How?”

I let the silence sit for about three second, then I said:

“I swore to myself that I’ll never talk to any girl this year. But here I am… wooing some fine-ass Igala lady.”

She laughed. Real laugh this time.


And at that point, I knew it was time to give her space. I said:

“I want to leave you to keep shopping. How can I contact you later?”

She paused for a second, then replied:

“Uhmm… you can take my WhatsApp number.”

Lesson #5: Igala babes are beautiful… duh.

Romeo. if at all this ur write up is true, let me just respond weda fiction or real life incidence.
your first rule says don't assume. you broke dt rule by assuming dt the gal will understand your lines and delivery.

Occasionally wen I want to be mischievous to initiate a chat wit some random ladies on the road,

Most tyms I use good diction comunicatin wit dem bt hearing a response frm some of dem in funny pidgins accent dey trow me off balance.
Of course ,I communicate in pidgin too. Bt I go shock say fine gal like dis wen I tink say na classy gal cnt string words togeda in proper English. Dt was my assumption.

beautiful or well endowed lady no mean say she go understand dis ur embellish toasting lines.This your lines no dey work for most ladies.

skliz:
So I checked my wife phone 2 days back cos I saw some usual behaivour from her sending a voice note to someone arround 10pm.

So there was a particular chat were a guy sent 3 messages greening her as usual.

The 4th message was a voice note. Which goes does ?

"What I mean is I would like you and I to sleep together."

So I saw a missed call on her whatsapp from the guy. I went to normal call. I saw 1 missed call and another call that was successful.

So I could establish that both of them had a phone conversation.

When I heard the voice note. I pretended like I had not seen any thing. Later she saw me looking at her tiktok and she asked for her phone.


2 days after. I asked her why is it that she is not keeping boundaries with some of her male friends. So she asked why I said so. According to her she blocks alot of guys on her whatsapp.

Then I collected her phone from her and played the voice note.

The statement from her, "was ooo that messsage was for someone else". The guy was refering to someone else.

But the voice note I heard was directed to her not some else. According to her that he was referring to some other lady.

So I asked her, ok tell me the story behind this lady that prompts this dude to send you this voice note.

Her response: Dont worry it none of your business, you dont need to know about it.

That got me angry, Then I told her. Look in a marriage you are suppose to respect your husband and honor him. I did not accuse you of cheating, I only said you should set boundaries. if you tired of the marrriage you are free to walk away.

Her response: You are not the only man.

According to her she does not have time for cheating but my problem here is, I only asked she set boundaries and for explanations. I was extremely polite.

Infact I just think marriage is not worth it honestly. Today's women are something else.

By the way she as access to my phone and I always clearify any chat that she has concerns with cos I dont cheat on her.

Oooh you this man..so you still went ahead to marry this woman after most persons replied ur last post of she threatening you dt she will scatter everything.

You asked for advice and majority told you to end the relationship . That you will be served more frustrating in the marriage. You replied dt you won't marry her. Now it is happening as predicted, you are now coming "bek" in SA phonetics for anoda advice.

The honest true is this, no advice will work on you.

marrying late as a man means smth must av caused the delay. cud be intentional or difficulty finding a woman. All men loose vitality as we age.

It's good you dnt bear much children esp men marrying around frm 45 upward.

you may AV the money bt strength may fail you to give dem dt training and discipline and as for dos men dt are struggling financially ,dnt birth children more dan 2. your own case is double wahala. poor pocket and weak strength.

Advice is easy to say to sm1 if you aren't the one going tru difficulty and hard time.

It's only you dt understands the whole tin. I also feel same way sometimes, church gets boring and you dnt feel that urge you use to before wen you were zealous.

taking a brk frm church is understanding bt dnt erase dt believe dt God doesn't exist. He does and still wants us to kip in touch wit him.

everybody goes Tru the dark tunnel. some persons take a stroll Tru it, some persons maybe lucky to run Tru it quickly and fast, some tarry too long in there taking baby steps before they come out of it. All in all, all of dem will come out of it. Just a matter of time.

Dnt isolate urself. DTS the mistake most of us make. we wnt to stay indoor. come out. make urself visible. keep talking and telling good frnds you know dt ur out of job. you cnt tell wen one of dem will link you up.

Dnt allow desperation weigh you down. Be positive .You will recover all you AV lost dear frnd.

Ambitious27:
So my wife and I dated 4 years before 2022 before I was approached by my brother and his wife about Japa, they said it’ll be easier if I Japa married, so we got married and they loaned us about 90/95% of the entire funds needed for the journey.
We moved to the UK and after things got easier we refunded all the money within a year of graduation. Then we relocated to the US where my brother and his wife are, my wife was already pregnant here.

At some points I noticed some frictions between her and my brothers wife, like her texting my my brothers wife and she won’t reply her text.

My wife stopped talking to her and kept to her lane, my brothers wife started coming through me ask for things she should normally ask my wife like wig vendor and things like that. At some point they got back together late last year. My wife is already saying things like she appreciates them loaning us money which was refunded but she won’t like it to be like she’s been trampled upon because of their help.

Early this year, another thing happened around snubbing someone etc and I don’t know the details, my wife has vowed never to go to their house anymore. I still go there and my brother comes to our place too but his wife not coming. My brother at some point called to ask if they are not disturbing us because sometimes they come and my wife is not around or not coming to their house and not even talking to them, he just wants to know if things are good between us.

At this point, bros wife want to have bonding time with our son, would suggest picking him up for the weekend etc, while wifey doesn’t agree to it. Things like these breaks my heart and I just need a way to fix things respectively btw both parties.

We’re happy family and I don’t like the idea of separating families when you’re in foreign land and you have the opportunity to bond and have fun. I don’t want to go to my brother and also discuss this because it will sound like I’m reporting his wife to him.

Please how do I approach this and bring both families together again? Your contribution will go a long way.

for now let the mata rest, see it from the angle of woman to woman beef. Na two of dem kno the real cause of the issue .Leave both of dem, na dem start am na still dem go settle am btw themselves.

You can discuss it wit ur broda not for him to discuss it wit his wife bt for him to also be on same page wit you to dey look both of dem . wen dem tire dem go use dia hand settle. dem too dey petty. DTS how most of dt gender dey do.

udemzyudex:
I no believe, na the guy customise am himself.

you can't really say. I wouldn't be surprised if it is real because I was at the mkt yesterday, I saw grp of crowds at diff spots and i ask wat is was happening and was told by the mkt woman I bought stuff from dt they( the people on apc branded shirt) are asking people to pick wateva items they want amd they will pay for it. Frm umbrella to crates of egg to tomatoes to meat to just anything they feel like giving.

I first doubted bt curiosity made me move closer and heard one telling the seller to give a guy tomato worth of 3k anoda person tomato worth 1k. The (apc guy) was telling his colleague dt he shud stop adding more names.

Clems79:
These legs may be tired right now, can't we get a few new legs, the coach should pick from the falconets

If the coach changes the team and they get beaten by Malawi or Zambia or south Africa. Na una go still say why him change the winning team we are use to already.

I been think say SA team is stronger Dan Tanzania team.

who is from bini or esan among the two

Goodmarlian:
I am just tired of this my girls approach towards our relationship,this girl is good ,well behaved and has a good job shes doing at hand but the problem I have with her is that she barely picks my calls or reply chats don't get me wrong we talk so very well offline we can gist for long and all that but we are no longer together forget it she will never reply my chats or calls
I have complained a lot about this to her she will apologize but still continue now I think it either she doesn't really like me as I think or she just want to weaponise communication I just want to continue with the relationship for fun while a find someone else who is ready and prioritizes me for marriage ,I see poor communication as a huge red flag .

How old are you and she , how old?

Axis313:
Don't enter people's house without knocking, you don't know the position the occupants are inside, maybe the couple are romancing each other's and you just enter like that like a cattle that have no owner.

. shey person don jam into your room without knocking when you dey browse woman body?

Toolegit123:
. It'll be more preferable for me to be correcting her than to settle down with the one that will never heed to correction simply because she feels our age different isn't much.

Besides,I'm 32yo.

You say you are 32. if the lady is 18yrs meaning it's 14yrs age gap btw you both. hope you have weigh the pros and the cons?

dnt be too quick to assume older gals are like the gal you just described.

Wat counts most is the maturity of the lady in qtn you want to be with not age.

some older ladies behave same way as the 18- 23yrs age pool you want to pick frm.

Misnomer or deviant behavior is more of an individual thing not by age range .

Nice article. A Good read.

Goo0dHardDick:
You just rephrased what I just said that women cannot stay where they're not benefiting anything from.

Wether it by being parasitic, cunning or whichever means, my brother she's directly or indirectly benefiting something from you

wat am saying is dt , dt is not wat smartness mean.
You are saying a different thing entirely using the word smart to describe your gist.

Goo0dHardDick:
Women are Calculative. They're smarter than men. They cannot stay where they're not benefiting anything from. that's the smartness we're talking about. A man can stay even though he isn't benefiting anything from the parasitic relationship. Sex isn't something to benefit from. The woman enjoys it more. either way, money must leave the man's hand to the woman at the end of the day

Dt is not been smart . beta say they are frnds for benefit alone.

Na wa for you ooo. so you will call urself smart if you as a man always attach yourself to sm1 you are benefiting from? always collecting bt nt giving.

Dt is been parasitic. such people They Only stay when you are benefiting from dt person.

Goo0dHardDick:
Who are the alot of women who spend on their men? Are they up to 19%?

Knacking a woman is still a win for her. I'm glad you have finally agreed to my point that a woman cannot stay where she isn't benefiting anything from. You're the one going to knack her and still give her your money! Wetin she spend on you? What are you benefiting from her? Knacking isn't benefit. She enjoyed it far more than you did. And on top of that you'll indirectly pay her for it.

That concludes it all that women generally can't stay where they're not benefiting anything from.

the title of your topic would have been women can't stay where is not beneficial to her than outrightly generalizing dt the female is smart Dan the male.

Mister op you are making a generalized statement. any of the gender can be smart.

you actually want to express urself in a way to describe the antics of a female gender but using the inappropriate word smart.

Here is a definition of smart from the Internet.

A smart person is typically someone who effectively applies knowledge and reasoning to solve problems, adapt to new situations, and learn quickly. While sometimes used interchangeably with raw intelligence, being "smart" encompasses a broad blend of mental sharpness, practical judgment, and information retention.


Let me continue my talk.

It is widely accepted dt the male gender is more logical and analytical Dan the female gender.
smartness is rooted deep within been a very good logical person. And men are generally deep thinkers. You cnt be very smart if you are not deep in thoughts.

It is just like you saying men are more emotional Dan women.

Generally, women are more impulsive Dan men. Meaning they act most times without Depth in thought.

Yahoo(Internet fraud) is more associated wit the male gender dan the female. Reason is simple. It takes critical thinking and well orchestrated planning to fraud sm1.

The nos of fraudulent actors is prevalent in men Dan in women because yahoo takes critical thinking to steal money from people. Most women cnt go Tru such rigours.

maybe you meant the female gender as sm1 said before is full more of deceit,guilt tripping, gaslighting, emotional blackmail, cunny, weaponizing love(sex) and very manipulative.

All of these vices are in same group but one character is more prominent in a gender dan the oda.

what are the benefits for BUA rabiu abdulsamad acquiring a Nigerian club?

tenancy law in Lagos state guides the process like this

A tenant dt is paying is rent every 3mnt is given a period of 3mnts to stay after his/her rent expires wen issued a quit notice.

A tenant paying rent every 6mnts is also given a period of 6mnts to stay after his rent expires before he /she leaves the apartment..

Similarly, a tenant paying is rent annually is also given 1yr to stay after his/her rent expires before leaving.

But most of these landlords dnt follow such instruction.

Most of dem use dt excuse of renovation to evict tenants weda you are paying ur rent regularly or not. They Increase the rent,put anoda tenant. collect new agent and agreement fee.

wat I will advice is dt dnt argue or challenge ur landlord base on this law and at the same time dnt talk with fear.

Be calm and make your point known to him.. be diplomatic in reaching a reasonable agreement wit him Most of dem play on tenants lack of knowledge of the process to force you out.
The way they evict tenant A dt doesn't understand the process is not the same way they evict tenant B dt understand how it is done

Also note dt it is the court dt can arbitrate btw you and him.

Sirchiboy:
Victor Osimhen reveals that when he made money , HE TOOK ALL HIS DAY ONE FRIENDS to Turkey 🇹🇷. He sponsored everything and got them accommodation and jobs there , today they are doing extremely well too .

Victor didn’t tell them to keep hustling and praying , he simply showed them the way .

Many of you have made it but you can’t even help family . Shame on you

Moral lesson : Stop telling your friends to work harder , just help them
If you can

You this man!!! you like coming up with topics laced with pain and victimisation.

not true. What about taxes over there?

ajilegend:
Start greeting people and it will change

to some extent true. Bt at the same tym, how many you wan greet?

You can greet dos ones you know dt are few distance away from you while walking not turning head left nd right looking for people wen no send you to greet while walking on the street.

Dnt boder yourself weda they like you or not. As sm1 said above, what they discuss Abt is not wat you want to hear and wat you are pursuing is not wat they are pursuing.

na people wen you dey a bit familiar wit like dos people doin biz on the street you dey patronize not just everybody you see.

shey na dos street urchins or dos idle street boys loafing around making noise Abt arsenal nd man utd or those ones smoking igbo you wan dey form familiarity with?

Greet people dt are deserving to be greeted not dos idle able noise making young guys . some of dem just sit for front of compound dey expect you to first greet dem.

I came out of my building recently, I saw some idle street guys sitting outside talking their usual unproductive talk, I walk pass dem. while coming bk to d huz, one of dem had the effrontery to call my attention dt won't I greet dem. I was just amused. I ignore him and walk inside.

na person wen dey struggle wit self esteem dey worry who dey look am as him dey waka for street or who no greet am or they find who to greet.

But make sure you get good rapport wit ur fellow nebor for ur compound,few for street, workplace nd few persons for church dts the koko in case of emergency tomorrow. You no know who will be of help to you tomorrow.

Lithiumite:
You people lack emotional intelligence,read between the lines and don't just take the message at face value.....do you see him attempting to tear down the govt or repudiate tinubu at every turn.....its because he is mentally matured and understands the problem isn't all about tinubu but several factors that has brought us to where we are today......instead of everyone to look critically at the problem and seek solutions,you obidients sit on the Internet all day cursing and making a nuisance of yourselves......pls [b]went as high as 1,300 in the past when [/b]tinubu came in but eased to about 800 before the global headwinds from the ME crisis heat the whole world.......did any of you acknowledge tinubu when the prices were easing? Rice prices dropped by about 50% has any of you ever acknowledged the govt for that but its only negatives you all magnify out of proportion.

Fuel is expensive but it has only thought me one thing to be more economical with it and get good value for every liter and I am seeing results.

Oga, are you saying you bought fuel at 1300 during buhari govt?

Kalulu44:
Everything don yamutu bro

hahaha....yamutu no be small. Kalulu, How far all those your smallie gals wen dey use sir sir sir dey block your advance. How many you don catch?