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Factcheck0001:
Good day everyone

I just want to pour out my mind about series of events that got me worried lately, I have a friend who happens to be a bachelor (I am married though) so on Sundays he will always invite me to his house to come and play game and have some drinks with our other friends too.

But lately I noticed something about his neighbour who happens to be a private school teacher, though I have been noticing it on a steady and I didn't know others were observing it too till something happened on Sunday and everyone voiced out.

On getting to my friends house last week Sunday, I observed that his neighbours wife and 2 children were outside, I greeted them and entered. After like 2 hours we wanted to go and watch match I realized the 4 of them are now outside with the husband, normally as per say we discuss football together so I asked if he misplaced the keys and he told me the landlord staying in d same compound locked the door cos they were oweing 5 months house rent.

I felt bad for them so me and my guys with him went to beg the landlord and the man made it clear that he has tried enough that because we came to beg he will give them the grace of 3 months to sort the bills or else he will lock it again and the only time he will open it is when they agree they are packing that very minute.

The landlord reluctantly gave us the key as witness, so we called the man in and discussed how he will make the payment, the man made it clear he's stranded, he said he collects 40k as salary and 15k for extra lesson every month and his wife collects 20k as salary but they use his wife's salary to sort the children school fees.

Many atimes I observe anytime we want to buy something from the landlady shop in front of the house, this guy comes to buy something but will always tell the woman I will sort u but since it doesn't concern me I lock up but the one of last week Sunday touched me.

I am not here to seek for funds for anyone but to implore us reading this to stretch an helping hands to private school teachers around us, those people are going through hell and they can't beg.

The man told me he stopped job hunting with the little 55k because it affect the family a lot anytime he travels for interviews

To tech savvy guys here, please which online course do u think that guy can learn that doesn't involve money because I intend to be giving him 5gig per week and we intend to get him laptop too but what online course can he be doing with ordinary android phone for now pending the time he will get a laptop?

. It's good showing genuine concern for your frnd but you should have stylishly ask him what would he like to do aside teaching .

Your assumption about him going into online stuff may nt be his thing/passion.
Still go back and do a second visit. Bring up the matter again with him and fine-tune it.

Not just Him doing anything but does he like such skill that will make him persist on that thing til his fiance gets beta?

Na persistence in what you like doing dey bring wealth oooh not just grab anything and be doing.

[quote author=Factcheck0001 post=132339227]Good day everyone

I just want to pour out my mind about series of events that got me worried lately, I have a friend who happens to be a bachelor (I am married though) so on Sundays he will always invite me to his house to come and play game and have some drinks with our other friends too.

But lately I noticed something about his neighbour who happens to be a private school teacher, though I have been noticing it on a steady and I didn't know others were observing it too till something happened on Sunday and everyone voiced out.

On getting to my friends house last week Sunday, I observed that his neighbours wife and 2 children were outside, I greeted them and entered. After like 2 hours we wanted to go and watch match I realized the 4 of them are now outside with the husband, normally as per say we discuss football together so I asked if he misplaced the keys and he told me the landlord staying in d same compound locked the door cos they were oweing 5 months house rent.

I felt bad for them so me and my guys with him went to beg the landlord and the man made it clear that he has tried enough that because we came to beg he will give them the grace of 3 months to sort the bills or else he will lock it again and the only time he will open it is when they agree they are packing that very minute.

The landlord reluctantly gave us the key as witness, so we called the man in and discussed how he will make the payment, the man made it clear he's stranded, he said he collects 40k as salary and 15k for extra lesson every month and his wife collects 20k as salary but they use his wife's salary to sort the children school fees.

Many atimes I observe anytime we want to buy something from the landlady shop in front of the house, this guy comes to buy something but will always tell the woman I will sort u but since it doesn't concern me I lock up but the one of last week Sunday touched me.

I am not here to seek for funds for anyone but to implore us reading this to stretch an helping hands to private school teachers around us, those people are going through hell and they can't beg.

The man told me he stopped job hunting with the little 55k because it affect the family a lot anytime he travels for interviews

To tech savvy guys here, please which online course do u think that guy can learn that doesn't involve money because I intend to be giving him 5gig per week and we intend to get him laptop too but what online course can he be doing with ordinary android phone for now pending the time he will get a laptop?


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. It's good showing genuine concern for your frnd but you should have stylishly ask him what would he like to do aside teaching .

Your assumption about him going into online stuff may nt be his thing/passion.
Still go back and do a second visit. Bring up the matter again with him and fine-tune it.

Not just Him doing anything but does he like such skill that will make him persist on that thing til his fiance gets beta?

Na persistence in what you like doing dey bring wealth oooh not just grab anything and be doing.

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iLegendd:
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MikeofKd:
Honestly I can't lie , life of a man between the ages of 25 to 36 is quite a lot of heavy task. Recently I've been working so hard that I've even forgotten what it's like to sit back and watch a movie or do something worthwhile fun , I barely even have time for myself , it's wake up go to work , come back from work prepare for work the next day and it goes on like that , same repetitive routine every single day.


I wouldn't lie sometimes I just ask myself what is the essence of all these hard work ? Cause its not like you have plenty amount of money to just say u know what , I wanna take a trip to Ibiza this weekend and enjoy myself but ofcourse i pay my bills and rents with these hard works so it kinda still pays ,just little tho.

Whenever I think of getting older and certain things aren't even in place yet I get really frustrated, cause the clock isn't slowing down and I know death is inevitable it's definitely gonna come knocking some day , living a life just to pay your bills and survive isn't a fulfilling lifestyle tbh , I've read about people leaving their high paying jobs to relocate and live peacefully on a farm with their romantic partners, i used to think they were crazy but now i understand why.

Society has even made it worse for men within these age brackets and now the pressure we mount on ourselves is scary , cause when we get to a certain age and we haven't achieved certain things we tend to go really hard on ourselves. To top it all the country Nigeria is a failed system, designed for citizens to remain poor and when you try to make it out of this taunting challenge,it feels like everything comes at you so fast ,but hang in there and you would be just fine , this is what i tell myself Everytime.
Men within the age bracket or even above pls feel free to share your thoughts , thank you.

the title of your topic though. you want to hear wining and complain of youngsters bah. maybe you should have competed your inquiry by sharing how you personnally have been meandering daily struggles.

is the one-off price in buying a phone same as when you do easy buy paying by instalment? If at all total amount paid getting a phone through easy buy is higher, by how many percent difference?

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

PCOS....that name dey cause nightmare for the female folk.
let me say this to you the guy.
It is wise you let the gal go if your mind doesn't have the capacity to continue. you are not been wicked if you end the relationship.

see my brother, there are countless couple who the gynaecologist certify fertile but they find if difficult to conceive. you hear a couple 24yrs in marriage,no issue. It is really confusing.

Your fear will develop to hatred for dt woman after som yrs in marriage if she is yet to take in.that is the raw truth. Love go run enter bush esp wen you see people dt got marid after you are done with childbearing and you wen marry yrs before dem.neva start. It's not as if it's a competition but that's the reality the mind cnt explain.

Some say get her preg before marriage. but let me ask, wat if along the 9mnts , she get miscarriage nd loose the baby. You nack her again, she get belle. anoda miscarriage com happen d following yr. second yr of marriage don go be dat without a child.

you wouldn't even wnt to be patient wit her, all you wil thinking is the PCOS that is the issue because you had dt information before hand abt the condition of her ovary and it may not be the issue. Your mind wil begin play games with you.

Am talking from experience. my wife was certified ok. no pcos but we had a little delay before she took in. Dt period of no conception, I started feeling depressed abt d situation but had to keep pushing out negative thoughts.

Are you aware of fallopian blockage? let's say the oda ovary dt is wrkin gets block or starts giving the gal wahala wit time. Gynaecologist might ask her to do HSG. the cost implication of HSG and the pain the woman wil go thru.Ask any woman in the medical line wt HSG means and she go tel you.

I kno your yet to comprehend wat you wnt to put urslef into. atlist you see people wit just one eye , just imagine the strain that only eye they have keep undergoing and if per adventure anything happens to dt second eye, dt person bcoms blind foreva.

Marriage is forever and forever dey long ooo. you know abt a problem at the start and your mind cnt carry the consequences of it. It's better you abort marrying her. Definitely anoda person dt doesn't see anything wrong or fearful in she having one ovary wil marry her.

Please look at the gals case again and count the cost.

Nanceer:
Hey guys I’m Nancy from Edo but based in Lagos. Lost my job and currently looking for one plus I’ve exhausted all I have and if any Good Samaritan won’t mind to help, I will appreciate.

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What exactly do you want?
A companion? as you said you are bored
Or a job?
Or you want random people to be sending you 1k..2k..?

If your expectation is nos3, then you are yet to be serious to provide solution to your inadequacy.

Slytiger:
Fresh Crisis Brews In Rivers State As Militants, Youths Vow To Take Over Local Councils After Chairmen's Tenure Ended



https://saharareporters.com/2024/06/17/fresh-crisis-brews-rivers-state-militants-youths-vow-take-over-local-councils-after


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a2foWFQpl3g?si=eIhzkdr6CnH69e6K


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=130gRscFchI?si=ilI8-RKA2fK841Pp

I wonder what kind of governance will work in this Nigeria. weda na parliamentary or capitalist or federal system.

You do Federal policing system,some say it's not working. don't we think if we go for state police, is this not what our eyes go dey see from time to time?

On the surface,it looks as if they are fighting for a good course. Are these guys different from other thugs terrorizing the state? With diz their brazen audacity seems them get mouth pass the licensed police officers in that state.

Navallo:
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Tonididdyx:
Now your bulidng yours, I hope it will be free rent?
I know you're not feeling the heat but wait till you start foundation.
Na land you just clear buy sand and granite
Wait till you start to buy cement and set the structure...

smile..the plan is to build and rent it out not for free.
By his grace, land cleared and foundation done and completed.

GUNITGuy:
Osimen abused social media he shouldn't have used Instagram to attack the coach calling Out the name of the coach in a rude manner...
He's not just a football player but a model and should carry himself with modesty like Didier Drogba, Lionel Messi, C. Ronaldo

was it not Emmanuel Adebayo ex-benin football star that brought in the last nations cup into the field on the final day Nigeria played Ivory coast?
these are football legends and ambassadors representing for the game they once played.

Except osimen is taking football as a side hustle. Do my thing , retire, forget about football and find smth else to do after I retire.

Fortune may beckon on him in future to com stand in as an ambassador as a one time football star when he is no longer playing active football.

As him don upload an evidence for internet against himself unto his outburst insulting his coach . I wonder how he wil keep explaining himself to people to wriggle himself out of this in future.

nairalee:
Nigerians don't like the truth
Infact some were posting achievements of Finidi
That you've achieved alot in your life or that you're older than me or even in higher position than me doesn't give u the right to insult/disrespect me

point of correction, the coach never insulted osimen. we don't know what happened behind closed doors that made the coach say he won't beg osimen to come play for super eagles. that is not an insult.

The way osimen is reacting is as if there are underlying issues or bottled up anger he has against maybe NFF or the football ministry.
The coach's statement is not what he should latch on as a what is making him angry. He is over reacting

RoiNews2:
Victor Osimhen just dropped another video few mins ago, he was very angry and even crying responding to allegations made by the Nigerian super eagles head coach (now former), Finidi George that he can’t beg Osimhen to come play for the Super Eagles during WC qualifiers.

Finidi George Slams Nigerian Football Federation, Says Victor Osimhen, Other Senior Players Lack Commitment And Are Above Discipline. And Osimhen has angrily replied him, and everyone. Let's listen to Osimhen part of the story...



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hpPvX8HoeNw?si=DI1x8V0MiBgPfQfs

Now I understand why the elders DNT talk too much. silence most times may be the best appropriate disposition one should take when crisis occurs.
You may end up saying or actin silly in the heat of blowing hot.

Osimen may have a point to justify his actions in this saga but his approach is not just it.

KossyKiss97:
Have a heartfelt conversation with your wife, and let her know the implication on this on your finances. Let her be the one to speak to her family members directly and not you.
Usually, these issues are best discussed before marriage, so that before situations like these arise, they are already nipped in the bud.

This your "heartfelt conversation" make the thing sound as if the man dey for courtroom before the judge and he is negotiating for plea bargain.

from the man's story, the financial burden don hook am badly dt he cnt bear it anymore. You DNT do "heartfelt conversation" in this scenario. You bluntly say it the way it is to your wife thou politely.

You will be good and nice towards people for days ,weeks or years but the day you DNT give to them they wil begin malign you and call you all manner of names. untop your own money ooo

few weeks ago, my wife's sister told my wife dt she wil bring her 3 kids to com spend their holiday with us. They have already discussed and agreed without even letting me know first. I overheard them concluding the mata on the fone while I was on the bed pretending as if I was deep asleep.

Na so I wake up go piss.mount bed and dint say anything. Na so wife call my attention say her sis children wan com spend holiday with us. I kept mute for few mins and ask her "what is your plan when this children com stay with us" she keep quiet

I told her, you agreed to host your sis children without informing me first .since you have agreed to harbor them. you wil take responsibility for their welfare when they com.

you know women. emotional blackmail go set in. I repeated what I said and I told her . when they com, DNT ask me to buy this or that on your way home bk frm wrk for this children because me I won't burge. Na she give herself brain and chng mind frm allowing them com.

The wife in the story is not the one taking financial responsibility for or probably not contributing and you want to burden the husbnd with Xtra load. Na firmness ooo not heartfelt conversation.

there is a level one gets to in life that we should drop some shitty behavior and gutter language we use at people esp when you are well known in your circle/area/community no to talk of across the world.


At that stage, decorum in behavior and action is what keeps you going higher. I DNT know if he will feel good if his team mates in Napoli and frnds see this video.

what is "eni kure" , "Ogun go kill una".
Nooooo now. It's a big NO. such gutter talk from a supposed role model to your coach?

you DNT use such dirty talk because you wnt us to know say you too sabi all dos dirty street language.

Even if you had spoken to the coach about your injury prior to that time that you won't be available and ask the coach if you can com around to cheer your teammate. That stil wasn't you shud use as your alibi for your distasteful outburst.

The coach was wrong accusing him. Osimen was double wrong based on the way he responded

Fcold:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dY37DPBJFLg

Nigerian skipper who had recently gotten into a feud with Super Eagles coach, Finidi George, almost got into quarrel with his friends telling him to calm down

everybody wants to put up a front as been tough. "I don't take a shit" ,"......who him/them be?", "......do you know me?", "......do you know who I am?"

All the drama he did wasn't the best way to respond to a critique or critiques. You calm down. Articulate your point and then you express urself. You go even dey smile they reply what was said abt you that wasn't right.

he didn't act well as an enlightened person. your friends around you where even calming you down, you kept on blowing hot.

I hope he hasn't forgotten that his name is a brand. He is known all over the world. it's okay to rebuff what was said about you esp if what was said was wrong.

He should have presented his own response in a way that will even make the coach look stupid not by talking rudely.

the coach shouldn't have directly or indirectly ascribe the teams failure to osimen. The coach might have built his match plan hoping osimen wil be available to play but unfortunately such plan didn't go the coach's way. what was expected of the mgr was to have alternatives to do the job.

The coach shouldn't have called osimen out when he didn't play the match reason known to him. Had it been he played and didn't play well, the coach would have been somehow justified to accuse him but still in such case, the coach shouldn't do blame game. it is a team.

Before the discovery of osimen, there have been great football stars in the team and there wil stil be players better and greater than him that will com in future.

of a truth, a player or an artist or a member of a dept in a company may have the prowess in doing somtin good but what if he is not available or probably dies or incapacitated prior to the show or performance (not osimen anyway) won't the team succeed without him?

The coach should have made provision for anoda person that is also good to occupy a vacant position when the first choice is not available.failure is nearby
when we build a system around one person.

Osimens reaction and outburst definitely was out of the spur of the moment. fine, he was trying to defend himself but he didn't do it well. He didn't handle it with tact and maturity with his response.

Am very sure he use to talk to press after a match at his club somtimes. He is too professional to use gutter language. what is "eni kure", "Ogun go kill una"

Going live on the internet to talk rudely at your coach was wrong despite the coach's speech. This video he did on the internet will be waiting for him in the future as reference when he gets older .

Definitely , people wil also use it against him especially when he occupies leadership position either as a coach or as a sport analyst or commentator because that's the trajectory most of our great footballers end up.

yomi007k:
My friend is a nurse who was explaining family planning to a man; this man has a child of just 1 yr and 3 months . This wife just gave birth yesterday to the second child which means the woman got pregnant when the first child is just 5 months old.

Guess what this man said " he said he is not interested in family planning and even if the wife does it, he will stop it"

...Later such man will start suffering and come on the internet.

sometimes we are always quick to reject other people's opinion or belief or counsel or idea dt make more sense Dan ours because of our premodial sentiment towards where we belong on the divide as regrds religion or culture bias.

A colleague of mine has about 6chldren or more. He is a jnr staff dou advance in age probably 47yrs or 48.
Before now, he kept on complaining dt his pay is small to cater for his family . I was surprised to hear he added one more baby.
most of d time, you wil see him after close of wrk stand at d bus stop begging conductor for free ride.
I stopped a bus to enter to wrk ystday only to hear sm1 call my name. I turned nd saw my colleague hanging on d same bus I entered probably he has begged d conductor to allow him hang for free.
If you let him understand that he shud do family planning, he wil tell you dt from his place, it is a taboo to use contraceptive or do family planning. He is from igala kogi. I dnt know if dt is tru.