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nice article but how do you juxtapose this in the Bible as regards this topic.

In Luke 14:28-30,Jesus uses the parable of building a tower to illustrate the importance of counting the cost before undertaking a significant endeavor.
He advises that one should first sit down and calculate the expenses to ensure they can complete the project.

The parable emphasizes that failure to do so can lead to public ridicule when the project is abandoned due to lack of resources.

B3sty:
Hmmmm, I experienced the same thing when I got married in 2015. She did Fibroid operation in 2016, no results. We both went to test ourselves, Doctors found out I've no fertility issues...My wife did HSG , we found out both Fallopian tubes are block. Omo, we tried many herbal remedies, no way. By December this year (2025), my marriage will be 10 years. Only God know what my Mother (RIP MAMA, 2023) went through for my cause.
Anyway, My girlfriend is currently Pregnant,*we did it just once and she picked*...
Bro, the ball is in your court. No time to waste time !

"we did it once and she picked...". is she free to air or Sat TV?

maybe he is not doing well as a president. When you have a good person as a president there may not raise an eye brow.

Hope this man is as strong as a cat? Double combo at one sitting

seems wike is the way, the truth and the life of PDP? so they can't work without him?

zelnababa:
put ur sim, go to settings , go to sim and network, switch it off, then search, click on Mtn forbidden network.

dt means it is now owned by mtn. To load Na to buy mtn card be dt

though thats not how it should be. it is a wrong mindset

Bsssss:
The moment you reach age 30, no woman can love you...And if you're a lady, no man can love you. You can only be needed. Surprised??

There's completely nothing attractive and emotional that will spur anyone in their right mind to fall in love with you at age 30 and above, you can only be needed for what you can offer as benefits for the romantic relationship. Once the benefits are pleasing then I work on it backwards to try find a way to make you feel loved.

If you are young, probably you have a shot on finding Love because you're definitely interesting, beautiful or sexy and the opposite sex can focus on nothing much except yourself to love you.

Once you clock closer to 30, forget about being loved. You can only be needed and if you're realistic in life, you'd be happy designing what you'll offer to interest the opposite sex to need you badly, and boom, that's the type of "Love" you'd be sure to get...

Note: This message is only dedicated to people who are on the third floor and above. As for the young, you can keep waiting on love you might be the first one to get loved without being needed.

blunt truth the benefit comes first. working on how to like the person comes second.

chidiokay:
Dont play the "imagine" card on me, even if i am part of the players i will collect the money But make a Call of duty to vote such an insensitive president out 2027.

Nigerians are really suffering, lots of people in the IDP camps have nothing to eat, recently pensioneers protested non payment, our military that die for this nation ... how are they rewarded 2m , or is it 1m to decease family

No one is against Reward But IF Nigeria is as poor as Tinubu claim every time then that man is very sick upstairs

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since you said you will collect the gift if it was you then why are you speaking against it dt it is too much.

seems you have issues with tinubu as a person as you said you will collect the money and vote him out If it was you dt is the beneficiary

my talk is on the compensation of the players. Not who is the giver of the reward.

chidiokay:
On the contrary the falcon understand Nigeria beef his not with them But the uselezz Dead brain president who never get his priority right

A president that told Nigerians to embrace Suffering cos No money ... splashes $100,000 on players that were already rewarded by AFCON

A president that fails to pay retirees 2yrs pension claiming no Money wake up to splash $100k on young gurlz that have good source of income

The grand prize of Afcon is just $1million and Tinubu just lavish ova $2million as gift ... gift pass grand prize does it make sense.

why should Nigerians not be angry, in a country our sænselezz president shared Rice to flood victims

you say , the president lavished the money.
if it was you that was beneficiary of such money, would you say , "Mr President, pls this money is too much for me. I dnt want it"

Freebills12:
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Do you know that Nigerian borrowed that money that was given to the super falcons? We are broke. Read papers. Anyone that knows what is happening in Nigeria won't support giving of $100,000 to an individual through tax payers money. Last week retired police officers were protesting because of non payment of pension. Teachers all level and medical staffs are all running away.
Give them $15,000 , house and other benefits. They will still play this competition next two years.

You are doing side by side comparative analysis of monetary reward for service rendered in a wrong way.

you dnt compare the price tag(salary) of an International football star to a Nigerian police officer or any oda civil servants. You and I know that.

They are paid heavily in USD. they spend in USD. you are looking at it by comparing dollar equivalent to our dying naira value. Dt is why you think it is too much.

Do you know some of our footballers earns in billions monthly. an example is osimen
The oda day, he went to his former school and donated #50million naira. some of you still said it was too much.


If you dey where money dey flow in USD or you earn in usd, you won't say it is too much.

Na wen you hear how mch the avg American basket ballers dey collect as salary monthly dt is when you go know say even our osimen and co dey receive peanut. They are highly paid Dan football stars.

every profession has a salary range or a way of compensation.

the way we place value on money has to do with our mindest.
If you are the type when no dey see money esp if your Frm a poor home.
you will always fault sm1 when he spends excessively.

Giving has to do with our much you place value on the person you wnt to give to or to that occasion.

the girls where on national assignment and they delivered esp the way dt final match went.
You cnt place a price on National pride.

because we are use to suffering and seeing small small money. When somtin big comes in an unusual way we say it is too much.

those ones among them dt plays abroad won't say is to much because them dey see the money steadily. It may look too.much for those.ones that are still playing in local league.

bixton:
Yes, Yes, Yes...

Noted that I'm not against the President doing such for the players for it creates a sense belonging and a way of appraisal.
But the civil servants especially those whose income is below #100K deserve something as such once in a while....

You say yes,yes,yes...... keep deceiving yourself.
Your yes wil be true yes,yes,yes if you your networth is up to that amount.

Angelfrost:
Onanuga, think about it...! You do have a brain.

In a nation where hard working and dedicated civil servants, teachers, and other members of the labor force earn minimum wage peanuts, what or how exactly do you expect them to feel about their President doling out millions of Naira to footballers?!!


A nation where basics like Electricity, Potable water, and Security, not even mentioning good roads, are daydreams, do you expect citizens to jump for joy at such outlandish displays of monetary gifts?!!


How much did you give to individuals and families that suffered losses to flood and terrorist attacks?!!


Just recently, soldiers complained online about the meagre earnings and meals they receive... we all know their allowances are nothing to write home about.




By dashing Falcons money that is way higher than their Cup prize money, what exactly are you trying to prove?!! What message do you think suffering Nigerians will glean from that ostentatious gesture?!!




Make una dey think before rushing to defend and make posts.


That was how Buhari was dashing Billions as donations to Niger and other nations in conflict, while IDP camps suffered hunger and malnutrition.


Omo!!! Nigerian leaders and their supporters might have serious M£ntal Health Issues.

You will not say this if alozie or ajibade or plumptre is your sister.

bixton:
Do you know how many productive civil servants that will never see such rewards given them except they indulge in corrupt office practices...,

would you have still held this opinion if one of the players is your blood sister?

Update147:
Please I need opinion from both male and female cos this is one thing I have never experienced in my 33 years on this earth.

My wife whom we got married this year wants me to eat her p*say during sex.

Well I tried it but I didn't like the taste of it so I just could not continue. And I was also worried about the health implications of eating a woman's p*ssy. So I just stopped.

But being an observant man, I realize that she actually wants me to eat her p*say, and I am considering doing it just to make her happy and satisfy her sexual desires but mt question now is this.

1. The first time I tried it, I did not like the taste of it, so I want to know do all pussy have same taste ?? Or does pussy actually have taste in the first place ??

2. What are the health implication of eating a woman's p*ssy ?

3. Is it ok to spit out the saliva in my mouth during the process of eating her p*ssy or should I go ahead to swallow it

4. I need general opinion of any one that actually cares to share his/her opinion.

Thanks.

Son,

Stop putting your mouth there. I know some will say if you love her, then you should make her happy by doing it.

it is not only menses in their period the female vagina secrets,it also secrets discharge once in a while off their period though not red in colour.

These secretion carries bacteria dt are not good. there is no how you wil use ur tongue Nd these bacteria won't move down your oesophagus to reside there and starts multiplying. This can trigger cancer in your throat.

your health comes first before pleasure. If you go down with throat cancer dt woman may not stand with you all the way as you battle your life for medical solution.

Let me say this to give you this confirmation.

Put your wife to test by telling her you have gonorrea and see her reaction. Will she assist you to treat the forged disease?

The answer is NO. she wil wnt to start withdrawing Frm you and treat you like a leper.
I leave you to imagine how she will treat you when the real nightmare happens.

Most women will nudge to do smth for dem dt will benefit or favour them not minding if it impacts on you badly. At the end, Na only you go use ur head suffer the negative implication.

you may do it out of fear so she doesn't get it outside but still Let me ask, if it was you dt ask for bj and she insists she won't do it, wt will you do? The answer to this qtn will determine wat you wil do in dis case of she been the one wanting it.

In summary, tell her you dnt like it. hear her out. Don't assume she will go out and get it. Who knows she may see reason with you and let you be.

Beautiful cup. Has almost same semblance as world cup.

arapoa:
Hello house, i need your candid opinion on this pls. My siblings only call or chat me when they need money. I'm always the one that call and check up on them. Though anytime i do, they respond fine. But they have never called to say hello or asked how I'm doing, or open a conversation with me, even if we dont talk for years. But when they need money, they call.

This wrong behavior Frm som siblings comes Frm throwing their responsibility to.others to bear for them.
The notion of "my father or my uncle or aunty will hook me up with a good job or fix me up" they just stay laid back and dnt wnt to push themselves.

if you had not taken risk and put in the effort to hustle and grow financially, would they see a tree to always run to to pluck fruit?

Nd they do see you waking up very early jumping Frm bus to bus trying to go for job Interview occasionally or attempt one biz opportunity here and there bk then.

They kept mute. To them, they felt, you just dey waste your time making attempts.

You won't be surprised to see dt some of them even up till now dnt wnt to move their ass to help themselves get somtin doin no mata how small it is and som siblings dt have and keeping billing you may be out of greed.

If ur siblings were also on their toes been serious pushing the way you did bk then, they too might have been lucky to get a good job or a biz brktru.

Their inaction consciously or unconsciously not to hustle like you bk then is what brought them to their present situation. That is what they choose to settle for. To be at the asking and begging end.

They are still your siblings. you go vex at their request, do the small you can and dnt allow it affect ur finance so much.

MrHandsome2013:
I mean do you cope.
Guys married to Igbo women from poor background how do you cope

are you saying all igbo women are very expensive to nurture?

Leep:
Knowledge comes from pre-existing knowledge. If you were schooled enough, you'd understand this. If it's not completely true, then why not add to the list instead of advertising yourself?

You just exhibited one of their traits irrespective of the gender type you front on this platform. they dnt like criticism.
They always hunt for likes and validation.

Leep:
If you belong in any of these, then, it's time you have a rethink about your entire existence especially as a man.
A man is weak if he shows the following signs:

1. He is Addicted to Porn
2. He's always Worried About what people think about Him
3. He's Afraid to say "NO"
4. Have No Goals in Life
5. Have self-Doubt
6. Prioritize Pleasure over everything else.
7. Having High expectations from everyone
8. Constant Excuses and Whining about their Problems
9. Low self-esteem and Low confidence
10. Blaming Others for their miserable life.

The only Solution you need here is IDENTITY-Shifting.

seems you just copy and paste this article. Not
all listed is completely true.

Giftedhand47:
Ogijo bus top
Ogijo bus stop
Ogijo bus stop
Ogijo bus stop

Is ogijo in lagos or ogun state?

harjay1986:
This is one of the thing that make me not to argue with anyone in Nigeria because we are too emotional ... there is a story of a kid on YouTube that employ his parent and paid them monthly, he's just 10 years old but get paid thousand of dollars per day .... as Nigerian we dwell too much on emotion and that what ruin us as person .... nobody force anyone into schooling, Education is different from schooling .... A tailor, road Side Mechanics, Trailer Driver , Actor and many more actually go through a formal Education not schooling ... many people that go through Education have tendency to solve problem and in return it will pay them ... schooling on the other end make you dependant but if you have the two you will have a sharp edge .....

To you he's embarrassing those people but those people know before going there that he's not a graduate like them abi ... I will say the Guy have Education which mean skill that he can profit from but the position the school guy are waiting for many people can actually do it

there is no emotion in here . did you see the 10yrs old boy humiliate his parents before giving them the job?

There is notin wrong for an ssce holder to employ a graduate. anybody cn call for interview and employ sm1 but you don't insult dem before you accept them.

harjay1986:
You are getting me wrong try to read what prompt me saying that ... the guy was comparing Education to schooling yes the two are the same but are distinct into there own way ... if a person can have the two it will be super but if anyone want to choose one Education will be the best. Many people only think those who go to formal school are the one who get Educated but they fail to know that, that's just schooling

oga, you are the one calling it your own name.

Kasali in a motor mechanic wokshop learning how to repair vehicle is in his own school.
James in University of Lagos reading law is in his own school.
Both are been taught by a teacher. That is education. I nor know which one you dey call schooling and education.

harjay1986:
They only tells you education is the key ... but do you bother to ask key to where .... education never produce a billionaire skill always deliver

youngman, education is not only to go to a regular school, graduate and get certificate.

You said education Neva produce billionaire skill will do dat.
I know you know this but you just want to argue needlessly, the root of Wateva skill anybody will have is education.

If na carpenter wc is a skill, you need to be taught how to be good at carpentry, dt is education.
The gal next door dt sells akara and bread was taught by smbdy, dt is education.

Even the so called peller, he is educated in his way of making money.

wateva trade, biz , handwork or skill you cn tink of is rooted in education weda formal or informal.

harjay1986:
Brother let leave that, check most of the billionaire in the world today are they graduate ... school only teach you how to be employee while street teach you how to be employer of labor

but if am to respond base on your opinion, I tink you are probably rubbishing education.

You have nt watched the clips of the interview he did wit these msc dt applied. If you did then you will see clear dt the guys just wants to trend.

He was using other people's misfortunes of job search to catch cruise. Do you know dt the whole world saw dt insulting drama online .

Let me ask you, how will you feel if you were the one on live recording in front of a dt guy embarrassing and belittle you and same time streaming it online?


very rude and unprofessional way of talking to them. casually teasing and making mockery of these ladies and guys dt turned up.
Telling one of the ladies to come and hug him. imagine! dt guy because he is fortunate.

Please, go to YouTube ,search for the clips and see for yourself.

harjay1986:
Brother let leave that, check most of the billionaire in the world today are they graduate ... school only teach you how to be employee while street teach you how to be employer of labor

of a truth yes! we all know . I am only responding base on the title of the gist not arguing for or against wether graduates or non graduates are the one controlling billions.

the young chap is only trying to create a buzz online. He wants to give the online space something to talk about . It is more of a content.

if and if truly he needs or employs a msc graduate for dt job, he won't be needing his certificate, his aim is to leave a story for us to keep arguing dt peller employed a master degree holder as a photographer which wil spiral into further arguments to rubbish education.

If he had employed the regular street cameraman , it wud be seen as normal and it won't trend online.
Moreover, those photographers he has been changing all dis while before now dt are nt probably msc holders, did it go viral as this one?

Do you guys even know how.much diz msc cameraman gist has generated for him tru streaming to follow up the story online.

Moreover, i dnt tink this gist is really in the certificate because you cn have a master's degree holder dt is not sound same way as a bsc holder dt is half baked.

He's intent is more of I want to say something online to trend and go viral not dt he actually seeks proficiency in the job role per say.

we lost to Zambia wafcon2022 by one goal. the present Zambia female team is hot. technically , they play a good football transition style in their team beta Dan super falcons. Dt their striker Banda is something else. .

1phone:
I will not even bother you with long stories.

I'm navigating a complex situation regarding an unplanned pregnancy. Despite initial considerations for termination, medical professionals have strongly advised against it due to potential health risks to the mother, given her previous Cesarean section. As a result, I'm faced with the prospect of having another child, which adds to the complexity of our relationship dynamics.

The relationship with the mother of my child began in 2022, and while we've had some time to adjust to parenthood, our relationship is still evolving. Furthermore, my relationship with her family is strained, which adds another layer of complexity to our situation.

Given the current economic uncertainty, I'm concerned about the financial implications of raising another child. I'm nearing 40, and the mother is 32; we're at different stages in our lives, and I hadn't planned on expanding our family further.

I'd appreciate guidance on potential co-parenting arrangements, financial planning strategies, and support systems that could help us navigate this situation. Specifically, I'd like to explore options for ensuring the well-being of both the mother and our children while also addressing my own concerns and responsibilities.

Confused right now

Son,
you see these your embellished Cambridge questions of how to go abt co-parenting , financial planning strategies and support system is not a question dat you should ask first.
the very first question you shud ask is how do I formalize my relationship with this woman dt has one child for me and anoda one on the way.
Let's assume the first preg was a silly mistake on ur part because you dint see her as ur spec for marriage.Then why do you keep sleeping wit dt lady? probably you have been lying to her dt you will marry her maybe dts why she kept hope alive and continue keeping in touch with you but alas you were nt sincere with your promise.

Your qtn is wat makes me to assume so.

Let me ask, is it the person you feel you dnt wnt to get married to you will be consistently dropping allowance for mother and child if at all the financial support you desire comes in?

you are torturing dt lady mentally in this situation you both put yourself esp you as the major culprit.
Go back and meet dt woman and clear her doubt as regards her status. That is the first step to your emancipation. You will get a breakthrough in Jesus name.

OgidiHerbals:
You've said it all summarily. Most divorces happens with LEARNED couples.

it is not really been learned dat causes divorce. it is more of character Dan sophistication , exposure or acquired higher knowledge.

You can have husbnd and wife both not educated and still pushing for separation.

There are plenty couples outside dat husbnd Nd wife are both learned but have stayed over 30yrs in marriage.

character here i mean has notin to do with he or she been decent or responsible. you cn be decent or responsible and nt have character one shud put up in marriage.

An educated or non-educated person cn have the character.

Forgiveness, tolerance,goodness,truthfulness,empathy,patience,love,kindness,self control etc are what holds marriage for long.