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And you wil keep replacing them for every lazy farm worker that receives.money and refuse to do the job. tomorrow, you wil tell the farm owner to send more money to settle the new guys

the issue here lies more on the man Dan the woman.

Beyond the angle of finance(providing) there are oda attributes the man lacks.

every marid man has passed Tru and some men are presently passing Tru the heat wit dia wife. Everyman wit his own form of heat/headache his wife is giving him but wat makes the difference is the way the man responds to the shenanigan of his wife.

The intention of your wife's statement determines how u respond to her nagging. Is her intention/request genuine? She told you dt you are poor nd wretched because you cnt buy her a fone.
Most women throw tantrums nd insults at d husbnd just because they wnt to talk carelessly as som of dem do just to broke shame you to do somtin abt their request . in a way, dia antics cn somehow push you to bring out the solution frm you and if u are nt strong enough,na smth silly dia pressure go push u to to do.
It is their usual antics and if you are not strong psychologically as a man, you go wan react out of anger nd hit her.
my frnd in dis story, you are not psychologically strong.seems the woman is psychologically stronger Dan you. Work on urself . You are weak in dt area.

reduce the amount u send to ur siblings or u pause it for somtym and use the money to attend to ur needs of ur own family. Now dt u are marid, ur family needs comes first before your siblings. weNeva they call u , let dem know dt you don't have for now, dt u wnt to use the money with you to get some items for ur family.

You said you dnt know wat to do or wer to go to. Do u want to run away from your home?to say it the way it is, you have a weak self esteem.

Work on urself. most of us Neva had a mentor before we got marid. We learn frm books. dou we haven't arrived yet. We are still learning frm seminar, experience from odas ahead of us in marriage,self development books. you cnt give wat you DNT have. Wat you DNT have is knowledge. get it

Anoda area you are lagging is dat you are not been assertive enough as the head of the home. you said you always go to the oda compound to fetch water and because of dt your wife keeps insulting you. Mister husband man, you are not acting like the head of dt home. You are talking like a teenager. Is the woman incapacitated dt you cn not ask her to go get water for the huz abi shey she do operation wen put her for wheel chair or she dey bedridden? atlist let the fetching of water be shared btw you nd her not you carrying keg or bucket of water on d street like a teenager all d tym.

A man needs to talk like a man irrespective of how much you earn. wat if to say you no dey wrk? Dt means the woman for dey injure u back to back with house chores.

You said ur wife told you dt she regrets marrying you. You also said she has been dragging you dt u must buy water tank in d huz. I may be wrong but it seems it is the woman in dt house that is calling the shot. Oga sir, I know u DNT have tv in dt huz as u said .
my advice for you is dis;weNeva u visit ur frnds dt have gotv or dstv, tell him dt u wud like to watch natgeo wild or any Oda station dt shows wildlife particularly clips on how lion act in the midst of oda smaller lions. A lion is bold, fearless and assertive. You will learn alot frm it. am not saying you shud go beat up ur wife u claim you love.

Make I drop pen for here . Dou I get plenty to say

the super eagles midfielders weren't feeding him with balls.

SIXFEETUNDER:
Grindr

Tell me abt dis grindr

young guys smoking have been smoking right from time even before they born dis person talking . Did she jst drop frm the moon?

Moreover,wt she said is not true. Me I DNT smoke nd most frnds around me I know DNT smoke

I have qtns to ask the marid man in that home.

Is this the first time the woman is talking to him dt way?
How long hz he been marid to d woman?
Before now, how does he riggle himself out of dis similar situation in d past wit dt woman?
Is the wife the first nd only woman he dated before marriage?
How old is this marid man?

17sept to anoda 17sept the next year is one calender year.

the landlord is not suppose to count frm sep1st to sept16 for you since you dint pack into the apartment as at dt period.

He is shortchanging you if he tells you your rent expires august the following year.

He can only say your rent expires the following year if you packed into dt apartment sept1st

seems it's all ova Lagos landlords increase their huz rent. Increment in rent is normal bt the top up most of dis huz owners add is crazy and aside this ,some wil increase your rent few yrs after you packed in.
Imagine a huz owner increasing huz rent 2years after the person moved in and also telling the person to pay to construct borehole in the compound. Not that the borehole money will be deducted from his NXT yr rent.

I was forced to get a land and start building when my landlord increased my rent by 60% . and it will keep on increasing. I had to give my sef sense quick.
ThankGod, the project have started.

don't go meet the hr.

Every standard organization has probation period for a new employee. It could be 3 or 6mnts. That is the period you are assessed to know how well you can fit into the job. Use this period to prove that you can do the job. After this, you can now approach your hr for upwards review of your pay.

The amount you told them was documented and the hr wud have probably told the MD the amount you are asking for.

Mind you the hr too is an employee of the company so he wouldn't want to go back to the MD and say the new guy said the money is small nd shud be taken up after you have called a figure.
The hr wouldn't want to take insults because of you frm the MD or say smth on your behalf dt may put his own job on the line.

Painfully accept your mistake. Resume the job. Be patient til after your probation period and go back to the hr for upward review.

All the best youngman

Navallo:
Salary? 3m net pay (Naira equivalent)
Position? Senior Chemist
Highest Qualification? M.Sc.
Years experience? 8
Organization? IOC
Location? Nigeria

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Emilokoiyawon:
That's not how it works. If you have a business disagreement with someone and that person dies does that make you a murderer? Even if the disagreement was so intense, does that mean you're now responsible for the person's death?

People should be careful how they accuse others. We're talking about murder here not some flimsy crime. Lets be guarded.

You won't say this if to say that guy was your blood brother.
it's more Dan a biz agreement. the young dude said it with his mouth dat if he dies they shud hold naira marley and his crew responsible.

I DNT tink it's just a biz agreement. they must have been series of threat naira marley nd his goons must have been serving him back to back.

How can you say we shud be guided when you too saw the video of his close associate use weda na cane abi na Cutlass threaten the guy.

how cn they still be intimidating and oppressing him even after he has left the music label.

some Oda young guys dt spent time with naira marley music label too are coming up dia own harrowing experience during their stay in that label. some running mad and you say is just biz gone wrong. It's more Dan dat

nobody will ever complain when he is in a company where he is been treated well nd vry happy.

Na so e dey also be. Wheneva you are in a questionable group and along the line you say you no do again. e don be for you be dat.

After you done dine with devil and him don take you round to see his own holy of holies, show you him strong room and you say no do again. Na gbas gbos you go dey collect if you attempt to leave the grp

i tink it's the fear on the part of the label dt the guy will expose dia diabolic activities after he left the grp dt made them to keep tormenting him thereafter.

Naira marley cant say for almost 3yrs the guy spent under him, he did not know dt he was been oppressed and tormented by his goons.

It's possible he(nairaa Marley) may not be the one dt nailed him finally but he is an accomplice for sniffing off the guys light.

Your associate kept on bullying him with dangerous weapon nd he(Marley) says he doesn't know abt it

the mental torture dt lad suffered was so deep dt it changed him completely to vegetable.

you cn treat malaria and you bounce back few days after . But you see mental illness caused as a result of continous torture ,threat and intimidating dey hard to heal.

It's just the few video clips we are privy to see on the internet dt we are commenting on. wat about Oda attacks dt wasn't recorded. Oda despicable incidences dt the guy dint tell us.

the guy harrowing experience in the hands of those evil men is not wat evil breeze shud blow us into.

$525? this should be typographical error

DND069:
Put it like this: marry someone who is teachable. Someone who takes corrections and also willing to adjust.

Not a defensive person. With that, both can enjoy marriage.

true. Not I too know . Over sabi wife

Funflipper:
It is not anxiety that causes it but poor blood circulation which can be due to excess sugar and build-up of plaque in the vein or when the liver is not functioning at full capacity.

To a large extent yes. enough blood is not getting to his penile vein.

what now happens to people having crypto in their wallet.?

MostImportant:
I have noticed that some Nigerians have a way of putting all the blames on politicians as the ones destroying the country when they themselves are equally contributing.

A fellow job seeker turned back and do evil to me for the good intention I had for him. I was only trying to be a human which of course I always try to be no matter how tight it is with me. Not as though I have but I would share the little i have when I see someone so in need.

I met this guy in an interview venue and we got talking based on job search experiences, how we got to hear about the very one we were at, about the company, tips we can use to perform better in the interview and all that.

I think we were more than 40 in that place and interview was based on first come, you pick a number based on your arrival time and wait to be called in.

So the guy went in first before me, and came out to meet me waiting. On coming out, I tried to ask him to hint me based on some questions asked inside. The interview was scheduled for 10am but it started way late, around to 12pm. So not long after which he came out, he started complaining of hunger. I told him I am hungry too, and truly nothing entered my mouth that morning, so I was seriously hungry too. From hunger, he brought in the issue of how he managed to get to the venue due to lack of transport fare. He then asked me if I can assist with any amount to pay his way back. To be very open with him, I removed the last N500 that was with me and showed him. I told him I am the same. We are all struggling as we don't have a job yet. In fact, why I have N500 in my pocket is because I woke up early enough to prepare which I partly trekked to the place just to save some expenses. Just because I saw frustration in him and the humanity in me won't let me be, I wanted to give him N150 from the money while I keep N350 for myself. From our conversation, my distance was even farer than his.

So I wanted to go out with him to go look for change but just then, it was my turn to go in for the interview. Already the money was in his hand, so he said I should go in for my interview while he goes out to look for change and come back. I thought I was dealing with a human being, not knowing I was making a mistake. Leaving him with the money was the mistake I made. I'm only human after all, and I have learnt my lesson but it won't stop me from being good.

To cut the story short, that guy ran away with my only N500. That was all that was with me in and out. I mean home and abroad, all with me was the N500. Account balance looks like a radio frequency - 87.9. Laughable. So nothing was reachable any where else but even after telling him, he still decided to pay me back with evil.

To think he is a job seeker and he still behave that way, I won't curse him even though he succeeded in making me trek for more than 2 hours, going home with an empty stomach.

May he reap whatever he sows. I'm sure he won't come back to the place even if he's called up for the job, which I doubt though. And I pray I am shortlisted for the job, to bring joy to me.

Although a sad one for me but I pity his life.

everybody prays or at least desire to always meet an helper all the tym. But wen we meet one, we stil wnt to play smart Nd do tortoise sense on the helper.

A lady employee were I work joined the company . we became frnds wit time. she walked up to me one day and said she was hungry.
Out of my church mind, I asked her , what do you want to eat? she mentioned rice, beans.....bla bla bla. I handed her money and told her to buy Nd bring me back the change.
this lady dint show up wit d change for a long time after she left wit d money. Wen I saw her the next day, I asked her. she switch over to the usual women antics and wayo. "Ooooooh , I am sorry. I spent all the money. she said it sheepishly wit one innocent face without any remorse.

I was shock. I mean shock like buhari. I just look her ,smile one wicked smile Nd walk away. I had to cut her off.

since then,I reduce giving and if at all i want to help na to give you the exact change I have wit me or I tell you say I no get.

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Brownshoe:
You are not getting that beautiful relationship/marriage, that financial prospect, that dream job, that contract, business bliss, etc.
When you consult some acclaim wise persons, they will tell you' you are not smart enough, some' you are not prayerful, to some you are not moving with the right people, oh! You are a sinner that why is like that for you,

Then many among them believe well it's your destiny. Which side do you go with? Is it that they are all right.

it's at that point we need mentorship and positioning.
By positioning,poor man this evening can become very rich before it gets to the next 48hrs.
If a man in the trenches by luck or by intention or divine order runs into a rich or well to do person and gets that push ,his broke ass and miserable story wil change immediately for good.

Most of diz people doing well today were below average and also struggling few years back .they were fortunate to be positioned where their helper met dem. Ask them,they wil tell you.

We all need guidance and direction. Dt is where mentorship does the magic. somebody dt Hz done it before Nd knows the way. if you interface with person dt wil show you the rope, you wil make it very fast and quick.

codemaniacs:
It has nothing to do with faith but knowing the date and time of day you had sex with your husband that resulted in your pregnancy.

How does the date Nd time of sex affect the genotype outcome of a baby?
Does morning sex or nite sex result to a particular genotyp?

Xpol:
Congrats, now you guys will know the reality of living as husband and wife.
Marriage is full of " had I known", "so you've been hiding yourself all these while?", regrets here and there bcoz "see finish" will actually come, according to my own research over 95% of married couples are tired of their marriage after one year, many of them remain in the marriage doing suffering and smiling cos of one reason or the others, the remaining ones go for divorce. So my new couples make una dey tolerate una self oh. No one is actually perfect.I wish you well.

"according to your own research.....". a strong bachelor talking. who told you most couples are tired after 1year.?

One of the fish am seeing here is too xpensive for 2k.
I bought one lastweek, far bigger Dan dis size for 1200. na the sellers go even dey struggle to get your attention to patronze dem.

I guess you bought it in a mkt where you have less competitors. few pple selling fish in dt mkt.

the op shared her job hunt experience through job agent and asked if any other person Hz experience such to share his/her story too. Nobody shared a gist. Nland guys begin form helper to get her a job. Its good anyway but

Is it her gender status that is the evoking the suppose help.? Or we kno read the story to understand wat she said

If na guy share his experience, him no go get helpers running out of their cocoon to form helper.

flakkypasteries, weldone.

Nwaezeudo:
E no go better for APC

Tho the high rate is favouring my NFT hustling wella. The least 0.08ETH wey I comot sell I don full my kitchen and settle some bills

But for the love of my dear country I still hope something should be done abeg

Teach me nft hustling

the daughters look different from each other. No much resemblance with the parents too

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DeOTR:
He said that in the context of an APC member.
He didn't mean he's the next Nigerian President, but APC Presidential candidate for the next election.
Baba should stop been ridiculous. We also understand Yoruba language.

even within the party, he is stil wrong to claim to be the next APC presidential candidate when it's not it's birthright . Der are many other persons from another party and also APC members that collapse their structure when APC merge with other parties to enable buhari win the last election. It wasn't a solo effort frm Tinubu

the price of rice keeps going higher. I asked my foodstuff seller how much is paint rubber of rice , she said 3k. went back after 1week to buy, asked her again, she said it's now 3600naiira. cost had to push me to channel rice money to garri Nd sweet potato.

BusinessPlan22:
Baba you lie, show me the single mother all by herself with 5kids, she will run mad.

No be lie. I know few single mothers handling like 4 kids all alone. thou it's a role that is easier if the woman is financially stable.

CoolJul:
Hmm... thank God for His grace o.

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Hotfreeze:
As at 2016 when you were looking for a bungalow in Mowe, I was already in real estate selling terraces in Agungi, Osapa and Oniru.
I only use this moniker to look for trouble. Real life, people like you work for my staff. If you want proof, I will show you.
No be mouth, the small change in just 1 of my dorm accounts as at today will lift your family out of poverty.
Entrepreneurship doesn't mean you should look down on those in paid employment. After all, if your father was a Manager in Mobil, you would have had a better childhood than you did.

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