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DND069:
Put it like this: marry someone who is teachable. Someone who takes corrections and also willing to adjust.

Not a defensive person. With that, both can enjoy marriage.

true. Not I too know . Over sabi wife

Funflipper:
It is not anxiety that causes it but poor blood circulation which can be due to excess sugar and build-up of plaque in the vein or when the liver is not functioning at full capacity.

To a large extent yes. enough blood is not getting to his penile vein.

what now happens to people having crypto in their wallet.?

MostImportant:
I have noticed that some Nigerians have a way of putting all the blames on politicians as the ones destroying the country when they themselves are equally contributing.

A fellow job seeker turned back and do evil to me for the good intention I had for him. I was only trying to be a human which of course I always try to be no matter how tight it is with me. Not as though I have but I would share the little i have when I see someone so in need.

I met this guy in an interview venue and we got talking based on job search experiences, how we got to hear about the very one we were at, about the company, tips we can use to perform better in the interview and all that.

I think we were more than 40 in that place and interview was based on first come, you pick a number based on your arrival time and wait to be called in.

So the guy went in first before me, and came out to meet me waiting. On coming out, I tried to ask him to hint me based on some questions asked inside. The interview was scheduled for 10am but it started way late, around to 12pm. So not long after which he came out, he started complaining of hunger. I told him I am hungry too, and truly nothing entered my mouth that morning, so I was seriously hungry too. From hunger, he brought in the issue of how he managed to get to the venue due to lack of transport fare. He then asked me if I can assist with any amount to pay his way back. To be very open with him, I removed the last N500 that was with me and showed him. I told him I am the same. We are all struggling as we don't have a job yet. In fact, why I have N500 in my pocket is because I woke up early enough to prepare which I partly trekked to the place just to save some expenses. Just because I saw frustration in him and the humanity in me won't let me be, I wanted to give him N150 from the money while I keep N350 for myself. From our conversation, my distance was even farer than his.

So I wanted to go out with him to go look for change but just then, it was my turn to go in for the interview. Already the money was in his hand, so he said I should go in for my interview while he goes out to look for change and come back. I thought I was dealing with a human being, not knowing I was making a mistake. Leaving him with the money was the mistake I made. I'm only human after all, and I have learnt my lesson but it won't stop me from being good.

To cut the story short, that guy ran away with my only N500. That was all that was with me in and out. I mean home and abroad, all with me was the N500. Account balance looks like a radio frequency - 87.9. Laughable. So nothing was reachable any where else but even after telling him, he still decided to pay me back with evil.

To think he is a job seeker and he still behave that way, I won't curse him even though he succeeded in making me trek for more than 2 hours, going home with an empty stomach.

May he reap whatever he sows. I'm sure he won't come back to the place even if he's called up for the job, which I doubt though. And I pray I am shortlisted for the job, to bring joy to me.

Although a sad one for me but I pity his life.

everybody prays or at least desire to always meet an helper all the tym. But wen we meet one, we stil wnt to play smart Nd do tortoise sense on the helper.

A lady employee were I work joined the company . we became frnds wit time. she walked up to me one day and said she was hungry.
Out of my church mind, I asked her , what do you want to eat? she mentioned rice, beans.....bla bla bla. I handed her money and told her to buy Nd bring me back the change.
this lady dint show up wit d change for a long time after she left wit d money. Wen I saw her the next day, I asked her. she switch over to the usual women antics and wayo. "Ooooooh , I am sorry. I spent all the money. she said it sheepishly wit one innocent face without any remorse.

I was shock. I mean shock like buhari. I just look her ,smile one wicked smile Nd walk away. I had to cut her off.

since then,I reduce giving and if at all i want to help na to give you the exact change I have wit me or I tell you say I no get.

Nsogbu001:
How do you want it dear?

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Brownshoe:
You are not getting that beautiful relationship/marriage, that financial prospect, that dream job, that contract, business bliss, etc.
When you consult some acclaim wise persons, they will tell you' you are not smart enough, some' you are not prayerful, to some you are not moving with the right people, oh! You are a sinner that why is like that for you,

Then many among them believe well it's your destiny. Which side do you go with? Is it that they are all right.

it's at that point we need mentorship and positioning.
By positioning,poor man this evening can become very rich before it gets to the next 48hrs.
If a man in the trenches by luck or by intention or divine order runs into a rich or well to do person and gets that push ,his broke ass and miserable story wil change immediately for good.

Most of diz people doing well today were below average and also struggling few years back .they were fortunate to be positioned where their helper met dem. Ask them,they wil tell you.

We all need guidance and direction. Dt is where mentorship does the magic. somebody dt Hz done it before Nd knows the way. if you interface with person dt wil show you the rope, you wil make it very fast and quick.

codemaniacs:
It has nothing to do with faith but knowing the date and time of day you had sex with your husband that resulted in your pregnancy.

How does the date Nd time of sex affect the genotype outcome of a baby?
Does morning sex or nite sex result to a particular genotyp?

Xpol:
Congrats, now you guys will know the reality of living as husband and wife.
Marriage is full of " had I known", "so you've been hiding yourself all these while?", regrets here and there bcoz "see finish" will actually come, according to my own research over 95% of married couples are tired of their marriage after one year, many of them remain in the marriage doing suffering and smiling cos of one reason or the others, the remaining ones go for divorce. So my new couples make una dey tolerate una self oh. No one is actually perfect.I wish you well.

"according to your own research.....". a strong bachelor talking. who told you most couples are tired after 1year.?

One of the fish am seeing here is too xpensive for 2k.
I bought one lastweek, far bigger Dan dis size for 1200. na the sellers go even dey struggle to get your attention to patronze dem.

I guess you bought it in a mkt where you have less competitors. few pple selling fish in dt mkt.

the op shared her job hunt experience through job agent and asked if any other person Hz experience such to share his/her story too. Nobody shared a gist. Nland guys begin form helper to get her a job. Its good anyway but

Is it her gender status that is the evoking the suppose help.? Or we kno read the story to understand wat she said

If na guy share his experience, him no go get helpers running out of their cocoon to form helper.

flakkypasteries, weldone.

Nwaezeudo:
E no go better for APC

Tho the high rate is favouring my NFT hustling wella. The least 0.08ETH wey I comot sell I don full my kitchen and settle some bills

But for the love of my dear country I still hope something should be done abeg

Teach me nft hustling

the daughters look different from each other. No much resemblance with the parents too

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DeOTR:
He said that in the context of an APC member.
He didn't mean he's the next Nigerian President, but APC Presidential candidate for the next election.
Baba should stop been ridiculous. We also understand Yoruba language.

even within the party, he is stil wrong to claim to be the next APC presidential candidate when it's not it's birthright . Der are many other persons from another party and also APC members that collapse their structure when APC merge with other parties to enable buhari win the last election. It wasn't a solo effort frm Tinubu

the price of rice keeps going higher. I asked my foodstuff seller how much is paint rubber of rice , she said 3k. went back after 1week to buy, asked her again, she said it's now 3600naiira. cost had to push me to channel rice money to garri Nd sweet potato.

BusinessPlan22:
Baba you lie, show me the single mother all by herself with 5kids, she will run mad.

No be lie. I know few single mothers handling like 4 kids all alone. thou it's a role that is easier if the woman is financially stable.

CoolJul:
Hmm... thank God for His grace o.

I'll advice anyone to get extra source of income now.

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Hotfreeze:
As at 2016 when you were looking for a bungalow in Mowe, I was already in real estate selling terraces in Agungi, Osapa and Oniru.
I only use this moniker to look for trouble. Real life, people like you work for my staff. If you want proof, I will show you.
No be mouth, the small change in just 1 of my dorm accounts as at today will lift your family out of poverty.
Entrepreneurship doesn't mean you should look down on those in paid employment. After all, if your father was a Manager in Mobil, you would have had a better childhood than you did.

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AllDModsAreMaad:
Hi People,

I decided to create this post to know if there are others experiencing same thing I am experiencing.

This year will make it two years that I have been planning to settle down without settling for a lady.
It is either they piss me off with one thing or I will just lose interest in them for issues that I would have overlooked few years ago.
Those that show me love and care are not what I'm searching for(in my own view), despite my harshness towards them at times they are still there showing the love and care some times secretly without leaving.

Now, I understand that popular line "Women are many and everywhere, it when you want to marry that you will know that women are scarce."

I initially wanted to opt for BabyMama but that path is a no-go area for many reasons.

I have decided to tell my people to get me one if they can next year because I am tired of searching.

Married men in the house, how did you settle for your partners?

Single guys, how una dey cope?

my friend, I understand what you are saying . Give yourself a break from the search. relax the tempo. Infact, stop worrying about who , when and how it wil come.
Not that you should be docile or non chalant about finding a woman but dnt allow the obsession of your search keep bothering you.

It is when you go silent and still that's when some of this things we desire in life miraculously comes . Not just it coming but it comes effortlessly. it comes without you struggling to get it.

Not that you don't put some little effort in that direction . You will definitely but dont throw all your resources into it to get it.

It's very good we take action in issues that concern us so that we get results but paradoxically there are som things it takes the divine to actualise in our life not hinged on the action we took or dint take. marriage is one of them.

I mean searching and following the right process of bringing a woman into your life(as wife) not d wrong way of getting a random gal preg and she ending up as a wife of circumstance. you can call her a situational wife. marrying her because she got preg for you.

Adam was busy doing sometin else. it was God that directed eve to Adam. Keep engaging ursef with wateva is noble that is keeping you busy.

Take a break from your worry. Don't allow your age or the passage of time put you in worry Nd impatient mood.

You are not doing badly weather you tink loneliness or boredom is killing you. If others share their own experience to you. you will understand that yours is beta.

The woman with a reasonable amount of spec you desire in the first place is what the divine will direct or bring towrds you.

Am not jst sayin this. It has worked for me and so many other testifiers.

Magnumproperty:
The major reason I recommended Income Protection plan from casava.co but nairalanders didn't even read my post maybe it's too lengthy or jam packed.

I sent you a mail sir

Magnumproperty:
I created this thread in response to an earlier thread about men who earn below N100,000.
If you earn below N100,000 in Lagos, you can actually manage yourself especially if you have a very understanding wife. And if you are single you need to discipline yourself and cultivate the habit of saving. I might not be able to breakdown how I manage my little income as someone has earlier done that in another thread. I will only be sharing those services I discovered and I have been using to manage myself and my family.
I actually earn below N100,000. I just got a job on the island not quite long as the pay on the mainland isn't anything to write home about.
I love searching for information online. Below are some services I use in managing my life and family.
My net salary is N70,000. My wife's salary is N60,000. Though she just joined me on the island with our son not quite long. And I just got the job for her not quite long.
*Lagos Health Insurance Scheme for the family: N40,000 per annum.( A very good health insurance plan by the Lagos State government. I did this for my family since the organisation I work for doesn't have a family HMO but a personal one. It covers the whole family. And it's just N40,000 per annum.
*I discovered a device insurance firm called 'getgamp'. [/b]You can check them out on Google. I intend to insure my phone with them. Though I'm yet to do business with them as I'm planning to get another phone as this one I'm currently using is an outdated Gionee phone. When you insure your phone against damage and theft you are rest assured that you don't have to tamper with your little income in other to repair or buy another smart phone as far as you pay your premium.
*[b]HealthCash benefit with casava: i have an healthcash plan with an online microinsurance company called 'Casava'. This plan doesn't cost me more than N200 per month. Incase one has a minor accident, the holder will be reimbursed a maximum of N20,000 for hospital treatment. I made a claim and I was surprised they paid me in less than 5 hours after submitting all necessary documents.
*Income protection plan with casava: I'm in the process of completing my registration. With this plan, if one is sacked from work you will be paid for the next 6 months before you get another job. I recommend this for every salary earner out there to also key into this plan. Your boss can just wake up one day and do something funny, with this plan the microinsurance company will continue to pay you for the next six month till you get another job. This plan isn't more than N1200 per month
Oxford buildbay: this is a real tech company. You can download the app from playstore. You can buy land from them and pay daily, weekly or monthly from the comfort of your home. I have an account with them also. As soon as you make upto half of the total payment, you will receive your allocation. Though their cheap lands are in not too developed area. I key into one of the cheap lands. Though if God pick my call I will buy property on the island also but for now one doesn't need to wait. You can pay as low as N250 daily.

These are the services I use for myself and family in order to manage my little income. Irrespective of your low income some of these services might be of help. Health has been covered, anything that has to do with our smart phone will be covered, job protection plan has been covered, becoming a landlord has been covered.
If you have any question concerning some of these services you can drop them below this thread. I will be glad to attend to them.
Tbh it's not easy as a family man with the present economy. And we shouldn't limit ourself to salary work alone. We should try to add other legit side hustle.
I don't mind if anybody can sow a seed of any average smart phone in my life as the Huawei I was using packed up some months ago. Please don't call me beggy beggy oooo ���

I sent you a mail. I need clarification on income protection plan

victooman:
groom a human being to ur taste? it doesn't work that way bro let her discover herself and her true identity,, when u meet her in her full adulthood if she matches what u want then u guys settle,, don't ever try to groom any human being it doesn't always end well

It depends on the approach you use to go about it. It all boils down to the kind of person the bride is.
The qtn is:.
Is she open to learn new things?
Is she teachable?
Is she flexible and not difficult to reason with?
Is she SM1 that takes to correction?
Is she SM1 that is sees you as her leader?
Is she SM1 that understands that you both are partners but recognizes you as her "boss in the home" that has the final in decision making?
Is she putting effort on her own to grow and develop herself through hunger for knowledge?

Tboymessiah:
NasoLifeBe!!!

What of:
Male 32
Female 23

9 years different we still dey advice de guy sey de girl small e no gree

the age difference is not much. most of diz single ladies in their 40's won't bait an eyelid to marry a 60yrs oldman.
They wouldn't like to marry down say a man of 30yrs

I got sunk into this series as I read tru. it's a good read. kudos

holocron:
You have been advised not to go anywhere by those who have passed through it but it's unlikely you will heed it until you put your hand in the fire and gain experience first hand that it burns.

You won't listen but still: The best thing for you is to totally forget them and forge on with your life. Concentrate fully on your business or your career or whatever your life's mission is. If you have money to spare you can be sending her child upkeep. If you don't have just forget it and don't even stress yourself. Feel very free. The minute she walked out on you without your permission has absolved you of the child upkeep responsibility. It's up to her to upkeep the child. You can't be upkeeping a child and be labouring to have a say. They will use that child as a weapon to torture and ruin you. Find another woman, younger and more beautiful and have another child or children. Name the new ones the same name as the lost one(s). Rest assured that if you succeed and become successful in life, come what may, the lost ones will surely come back to claim the dividends of their paternity. But if you are a failure, everyone will deny you. OYO will be your lot. You won't accept this advice, but later you will regret not using it.

oga sir, you don't transfer the sin of the mother to that child. Fine, the mother acted without considering the Dota.
For you to say because the mother left without his permission absolve him of takin care of his own Dota is wrong.

Na the father and mother get issue not the daughter. Even if he refuse to send upkeep to the wife such decision shouldn't affect the Dota's welfare.

Trustedapparel:
Have u suck her clitoris b4? Have u giving her Anal sex b4? If yes, the other nigga is better in that areas than u ...... If no,try it and see ur girl chasing u like flies. If a girl commit abortion for u , she tend to bond with you more.... Mr man go and work on ur performance

Is your assertion medically proven dt if a gal commit abortion for you she tends to bond more wit the man. convince us

Tfare from point A to point B in some route within Lagos is killing. trekking don be the norm

Mom007:
Better do your calculations well. Nigerians think everything is about money... Time no? Stress no? Peace of mind no? Better don't rake a job that will burn you out in a few months then u loose both ways. Stick with your Mai land job until something better comes along. 30k incentive is too poor to make such a drastic switch. Besides, do that your calculations again o... 20k/month transport expenses in a day... In Lagos..? Adonbelievit!

he dint add feeding xpenses aside the 20k.
He will be denied good sleep and lack of good sleep affects ones health.
the stress sef fit no make the 150k show for him body because of the plenty stress.

victooman:
will u marry her? you that you are serious? because husband is scares? so can l connect both of you for marriage or u just want to be stupid?

Youngman , calm down. You drop a.post asking for advice but your reply to what some.pple are saying is too aggressive and confrontational.

even if one or two persons opinion sounds harsh or unpopular to you, stil calm down. Despite some response sounds blunt bt if you look deeper, there is some truth in wat they are telling you.
You sound too authoritative Nd strong headed. Hope say your leadership style if you nd dis woman begin live for huz no go dey too authocratic.

You appear too narrow minded . We all as human are unique and understand things in from our various experiences nd see things differently.
Relax Nd learn

person when come out for mkt square to ask for help no dey run mouth.

Prettygirl200:
Guys am heart broken I am honestly i am. Have been in the relationship with this guy for six months now, I trusted him I gave him my heart. His ex squandered everything he had with him and left him when he was broke, she went back to the street as she is into hookups and all I entered his life and things started growing again, whenever he has she will come back once he is broke she will run away.
I have been faithful to him, just yesterday his friend called me secretly to tell me she came back for over one week they have been living together and he has been having sex with her, I couldn't control my tears as I found it hard to believe.This morning I decided to go there as early as 7am only for me to see my bf with his ex cuddling I felt a sharp pain in my heart and it felt as if I should just die ,this was a girl that humilated and abandoned him for another guy, Have been crying as i felt dejected I don't deserve this my ex who took my virginity cheated on me, now it's repeating itself?? Am too young for this kind of strong heartbreak somebody should come nd hold me pls am down!!!!

On the 12th of may 6:34pm you drop a msg here that ur desperately in need of a bfrnd dt he must be tall,rich,handsome Nd u said you dnt mind if he Hz body count bt not more Dan 3.

Is it the person u screen during ur interview Nd gave the job for the role of bfrnd that Hz all the qualities you listed shattered you or another person in that Delta state.