Dear, deal with your husband however you want but don't leak the affair to the ladys fiance....she might decide to fight to death and ruin your marriage as you ruined hers ..
DouglasH92: What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?
It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman, irrespective of how much she is earning, who agrees to marry such man isn't a wise woman.
Well, a friend of mine earns 25k and his wife earns 15k per month..they are living happily. No condition is permanent. My elder sisters husband is a bank manager and earns about 700k per month plus other side income.,.but guess what,my sister is tired of the marriage, we keep encouraging her to be strong and continue...if not she would have left... Point is.... money shouldn't be the basis for marriage ...but love and compatibility...
They think war is a joke. They think live bullets is like in the movies.
They will know. I blame Buhari for all this rubbish. Instead of him to lock Kanu up,and use the federal might to shutdown any agitation from those separatist parading as IPOB,he is still looking at them.
Cut off the head of the Snake,and you will see the other cowards run into their shops at 9th mile,and they will never show their faces again.
If it was that easy as you highlighted, do you think the government wouldn't have done it?
Nigeria's movies supposed to be cencored real hard..Most of these baseless stereotyping and misbelief about us is a product of those superstitious rubbish they usually dish out to the public and the world at large...
There cows doesn't need your car...cross there way with your farm...or a 62 year old helpless woman...then come back and give us your testimony,i may listen to you then.
Igbos are he problem of this country..see what they did to this innocent old woman... They will all sneak into there shell now..but if its biafra matter, maturbating marathon begins... Cowardic Afonjos....
He should look for a Lesbian and marry and then they do this artificial insemination thing...the lady doesnt neer his dick anyway.she goes on enjoying her lesbian thing..win-win.
Igbos doing Yorubas proud.... Thats why they convulse at the mention of Biafra..If Igbos leave the west today,it will crumble like the historical kingdom of Rome.
alexialin: I like him cause of his sense of responsibility
Have not thought about love with him, cos am in the school of thought that one shouldn't date neighbors, cos we dont know if it will end in marriage or breakup as usual. Thats one.. So inlove? Nope am not but I like him.. Hes a good responsible guy.
Sighs but my fear is ikorodu With the killings going on there and the terrible traffic to and fro to my buisness, I can't risk both at all
First my biz? It took me 11years to keep it running, stable and successful. If am going to relocate my biz, not anywhere near ikorodu at all!
I can't afford to loose my company for anything in the whole world and I can't afford to move my biz to a location where it wil not prosper. And ikorodu is too fetish for my liking With oro festivalsa and all
Then thieves abeg.
Where I live is very secured and safe
Am very paranoid about safety. Due to past experience. Sighs
And on the second hand, I would love to start a family but not at the detriment of my peace of mind.
I just taya. F
Strange....so you want to drop the potential father of your kids because of the location of his new house ? Talk true abeg, you no like am reach marriage level.... If not, you won't reject his proposal rather you would have told him to get his money back and relocate to a place more convenient for you, then if he refuses ,you can now back off...house rent is refundable.... personally, this is non issue... House rent is how much?? It is laughable to cite it as an excuse to distort your future?...dear, i think you are not into him that's why...
scholes0: Me too nko? I am facing the same issues. The South West is by far the largest consumer market in Nigeria. In Biafraland , who do I want to be selling okrika cloth and my pirated CD disks to? is it wawa or Imo people who are all average civil servants or Ebonyi people who are as poor as church rats?
What is Nnamdi and co planning to do to keep the more than 20 million Igbos youth that will be heading back to SE occupied? by then, the era of village rallies and shouting "Afonja" all over the street would have been long gone.
You are letting us know now because it didn't work out..you intended to go check him out and rate him and and then know if you would side-chick your other boyfriend and make him your main guy or sponsor or co-boyfriend....Because you thought from his profile and activities online ,he could be better than your guy...and when it didn't work out you remembered to call your real boyfriend..did you tell your boyfriend from the start that you were going to have a little chitchat with some guy in a lounge? Big no, ofcourse. Smarty...hahaha..
Aufbauh: Onneh, subtlety to me should be part of politicking and politics. The notion of being used and dump is a function of individual perception. This is because a lot of middle beltans have benefited politically, socially and otherwise from our friendship with the core North more than any region in the country. From political office holders to civil servants either military or paramilitary. P As for the war, it was a necessary evil then, borne out of the collective goal of keeping the country one.
The benefits surely includes the consistent slaughtering of middlebeltans by hausa fulani i guess?
You guys don't even know what's going on underground.. easily swayed... Obiano is grand patron of biafra agitation..this is just political gimmick and cover up...No sitting southern governor will openly show his hand until the right time...to avoid political sucide..
Fun fact: There is a part of Nigeria where the people there wake their elders up with sliding tackle
A lot of pigs in that region as well
And when the people from that region that wakes their elders up with sliding tackle decides to repent and start kneeling down to greet there leaders/elders,like in the case of Kanu...y'all starts masturbating and having heart attack..
These broke ass ladies be rushing us lik almajiris... Normally,broke ass ladies supposed to be dating only broke ass niggas... they shud be boss ladies before looking for boss men... that's why i always make sure i expand their vagina when ever i come in contact with ladies with that kind of mindset because i know they fall for me because of my money.....i already have a nice girl who loved me from when i was a broke ass nigga and I treat her like an angel now....only this year alone i have disvirgind 3 of those gold diggers and in all there mind now ,they got me..... not all boss men are dumb....
Their god pastor initiated the idea so as to scam them easily when there eyes are closed...e.g like dropping a dead lizard from there pocket to the floor etc
The #menaretrash and "I'm now afraid of getting married" crew will all crawl back into their shells right now.... But if its a story relating to domestic violence,all of them will jump in like an alien ship that crashed from another planet...
I respect Nnamdi KANU, I believe in Biafra But I am a blunt non-hypocritical realist.
Nnamdi KANU is taking this too far, After watching the Owerri video today with soldiers I was very unsettled.
It's a very thin line between bravery and insanity. He should not dare armed soldiers and policemen please!!!
He tried it in Ebonyi, He's done it again in IMO He might not be so lucky.
I commend the young soldier who restrained himself despite the taunts and abuses. Nnamdi KANU, please, please stop courting trouble. The IPOB crowd can even be infiltrated and they will disturb the peace with soldiers who will be left with no option than to defend themselves.
Being an ex-officer...i can categorically tell you that the young soldier needs no commendation.....He would have very much loved to fire but could not fire even one round off his riffle if not expressly ordered to....commend the amnesty international rather... they got the army and the police at a very tight corner.
sarrki: KANU and ipob miscreants should learn from this
History is good
God bless federal republic of Nigeria
Reverse is the case...it encourages us...it makes us stronger.. it makes us resolute....the death of those biafrans will never be in vain....Biafra must come so that they can finally rest in peace.
tolexy123: Just like i said, you can only fight an E-war. Real men are out there fighting for real freedom while your jobless punk keep on typing poo here on nairaland. Get a real Job.
Thanks...real men like our sweet Nnamdi kanu.... his mode freedom fight is really REAL...
tolexy123: Just like i said, you can only fight an E-war. Real men are out there fighting for real freedom while your jobless punk keep on typing poo here on nairaland. Get a real Job.
Thanks...real men like our sweet Nnamdi kanu.... his mode of freedom fighting is really REAL...
tolexy123: E-idiot, i bet all you can and will ever b useful for is to fight an E-war. Why can he walk alone without those hungry looking youths/bodyguard? You retards!
You the way your trusted beloved honorable politicians walk alone?