₦airaland Forum

The only thing that comes to my mind whenever I hear his name being mentioned is: "God bless him".

Kolenda:
Please sir, I'm in the non graduate category. I was paid September stipend but I wasn't paid for October. I have not been posted also. What is the way forward?

Personally, I don't know but you will be getting alerts for the number of months it was stated that you will get it. No non graduate has received October stipend yet.

21savages:
HABA u still dey pray for this kind offer..pray for better job

You can get your name slotted in and be using the stipend to catch cruise. Many federal and state workers are beneficiaries too, I know a lots of them.

ezenwaez:
[s] Please if you are an Npower Batch C Volunteer and you have not done physical verification, please you are not entitled to payment, payment is only for Npower volunteers that have successfully completed their physical verification.

Npower volunteers under the non graduate category that have not been posted and are yet to undergo their training are also not entitled to payment, Npower non graduate volunteers will be paid when they have been posted and have commenced work at their places of apprenticeship and training, [/s] duration of camp training is three months after which the non graduates are to commence apprenticeship which will last for nine months.

You are very wrong and now, I know that most of your posts here are based on your personal opinions and conjectures.
My niece I was helping with Non Graduate application didn't go for physical verification, wasn't deployed too.
Her physical verification status on her profile is showing PENDING.
Her payment status first displayed PROCESSING but later changed to FAILED! So, I stopped checking it.
Just yesterday, I checked it again and saw PAID for September stipend! So, I called her to confirm if she received credit alert which she replied YES. She said that she didn't know where the money came from, I had to explain to her about the programme she did biometric for.

Charly500:
Goodevening Ezenwa, i have someone who is under the non graduate category, she didnt do the physical verification , but her bank details have been validated.

Her payroll initially was showing September pending, but some few days ago it changed to processing, will she be paid?.

Going by my experience concerning that of my niece, she will get paid eventually.

Bola146:
They wouldn't listen, na by force to buy bone straight hair and iPhone Slay mama my ass

everythinggirly:
The love of too much money is the beginning of pain and death! Girls be wise!

Deborah98:
Godliness with contentment is great gain...but that boy or whoever did this won't go scot-free..

Even from fellow females, this is very low for you all. What if she was tricked by someone she trusted? Una just concluded like that because you saw the word "hotel"! Mtchewww

Onyiiobi7735:
Buhari is Nigeria's greatest mistake.

Nigerians are mistakes of their own. Buhari will go but your problem will remain as long you're not ready to take responsibility but always looking for who to blame.

chatinent:
They will start sanctioning Daar communication now, and targeting Ray. Government wey hate opposition.

No be the same "his children" dey spilling that same blood?

DennisEche:

Thank God say she no b Northern headslammer ooh.... If not na six feet under the ground she for de now.

You are a fanatic. Not only that, you're equally ignorant. And a trouble maker. How old are you?

Lol. They're wasteful in nature.

egoldman:
Read my post again, some typos were corrected.

No need to re-read. You gave reasons why he won't drop Biafra and IPOB issues and I said that's why he won't be released

MrBrownJay1:
blood relation you would waste your every dime to save them, while in marriage you have CHILDREN TO FOCUS on and take care of, because your addicted wife/husband will soon abandon you and your kids and focus on getting high fulltime. if you dont protect your family from that person, then you may all go down with them.
blood relations are over there therefore your family is protected, while a spouse is in your house poisoning your family environment and kids. thats way different, and thus you gotta get rid of that addicted spouse from that family unit.

I can't even bring myself to understand what you're trying to insinuate.
I should try to waste my money if it is my blood relation or children but shouldn't try it if it is my wife or husband! My wife who is the next person nearest to me? When was the last time you saw these your blood relation that you so much love and prioritise over your wife?

nairaman66:
Buhari a wicked president as a military leader and a democratic leader. A disgraceful corrupt, senile, inept and dumb human being

Is that all?

egoldman:
Why does he refuse to give up on IPOB? And do you think he is the only Igbo that feels so?

What fuels the agitation for Biafra? Why did we have such agitation dusting the government of shagari and yaradua who are both Fulanis like Buhari?

The answer to the above questions should tell you why the agitation persist and why kanu won't give up Biafra .

And why he won't be released

God1000:
Nnamdi kanu went to far with his character assassination and campaign of calumny , but the president should please forgive him

Lol, you're a funny human being. "Character assassination and campaign of calumny" are the words you're using to describe the very man who instigated the killings of countless security agents, the destructions of law and order in the south east.
You even said that he should be forgiven. Go and release him now

Lawly:
My sister. Please love yourself first and ur family subsequently. Make good plans for your future and your old age. Don't please your family to your detriment and then end up at old at their mercies. I love my maternal grand dad so much. He was the best dad anyone can wish for. His wife did early and he had to quit his job with the federal government just to ensure he played the role of a father and a mother simultaneously on his children. He gave them the best he could offer. But on his old age, his male children that were doing financially well abandoned him bcs their wives won't allow them to take care of him. But they will always take good care of their in-laws and abandon their own father. They won't even visit him. Should they even visit him, it's one problem or the other at the instigation of their wives. His son that accepted to take care of him later changed and was making life miserable for him to the extent of flogging his own father. It was that one's wife that was taking care of him like her own father. Later he died bcs of lack of adequate care. It pained me much cus I was doing my nysc then. Had it been now that I'm working, I would have brought him up to my house in Abuja and employ someone that will look after him for me.
So my dear, the kind of energy we spend on family and children are not worth it sometimes. Think about yourself first and family comes later. Family sometimes is a scam.

This is more common and rampant than you could imagine. But if their mother could rise from the grave, they would go to any length to take care of her. No matter what the father did for the children, no matter the sacrifice, there is still high probability that he will be neglected in his old age by his own successful children.

UyaiIncomparabl:
What sort of bickering is this? Look, I don't care what you say but I support that girl's movement that's if she hasn't moved already. This is why marriage will forever become unpalatable.

As a man, you are a provider. [s] And curse shall be on any man who decides not to take care of his family efficiently. [/s] Who even splits bill with a woman? A sensible woman knows what and what to do. You never enforce it on her. That's the hallmark of stinginess and irresponsibility on the part of the man. A man should be able to provide for his family 100% and if he cannot, then he's not ready for marriage.

Only provider men are fit to be called men.

Another young widow in the making. What a mentality? Mother don tear father's life with curses, lol

Womenarespecial:
Instincts says she has a solid reason for doing what she did.. she probably meant no evil..

She was trying to achieve something which ain't harming the kid..
Through her facial expression one should be able to observe some few certain things..
The issue should be investigated properly..
Note it's an opinion and might be totally wrong..

Report says the boy was sick. What if there no one to help and nurse the little boy back to good health? He could have died by now and dumped somewhere!

DropsMic:
When it comes to scamming, no "tribe" reach Hausa... But you no go know because them no dey loud themselves like other "tribes"

Trash. In terms of fraud in Nigeria, Hausas still lag behind Yorubas and Igbos by far. Do they even have education and sophistication of the Yorubas and Igbos to begin with?

MrBrownJay1:
a drug addiction in marriage is NOT a life challenge, it is a spouse giving up on their family and giving their lives to drugs AND deciding to live a selfish life in hell (rather than to care for their familiy) . the minute you choose drugs, you are a goner, and until these addicts hit rock bottom they will never let go... and nobody wanna follow a drug addict down that path!

You did not only say that he should abandon her, but also said that if she's related by blood, he could try to waste his money. Why do you think blood relations deserve help from him but his wife doesn't despite expecting more responsibility from her in the family?

MrBrownJay1:
there is only ONE solution...get rid of the liability from your life, you CANT save her!!! just as some give (up) their life to christ, others give theirs to drugs/addiction, and believe me... its easier to get out of the religion scam than drugs!

if this was a sibling/parent/child, i would tell you to waste your money by sending him/her to rehab an hope for the best (as we know it doesnt really work most time), but as a wife/husband, just get rid of the liability and get your sanity back

Why do some of you always erroneously think that blood is everything? If it was his child, you said! Who gave him that child?
I would choose my wife over any of my siblings or children any day any time. In fact, she's the only family member I can die for! Yes, she's that reliable, supportive, understanding, loyal and dependable. She's more than a wife to me.

Ammishaddai:
My brother, marriage is for better or worse . And I believe you took this oath when you got married . So to cut the long story short, you hiding her away will not solve the problem. So I suggest you send for her and take her to see a psychiatrist who will evaluate her , and possibly place her on a rehabilitation program. Because from the little you have said , her mental health is deteriorating quickly , and the sooner you act the better it will be for you and your little son

More for the son, Op is already getting by. Lol. Though, I agree that he should stand by her in her trying period.

Hafizu Kawu missed the road. He doesn't know the market day.

sapoyoro:
which means they are not that different from tinubu and his gang of thieves.

They're not in any position to portray themselves as being neutral. I don't care what your thoughts are about "Tinubu and his gang of thieves".

Ofodirinwa:
How come Nigerian journalists, who never leave their laptop and father's living room, always have detailed confessions whenever an Igbo 'suspect' is 'caught'?

Do the police call the bloggers/journalists and put the phone on speak while said 'suspect' starts vomiting information?
do the police get this direct quotes, then start DMing bloggers with the quote?


[s] The minute anyone in Nigeria sees a handcuff the next thing that comes out of their mouth is "We kidnap people to take control of oil, our leader is a native doctor, he lives in Enugu, he has a wife and 2 children, he supports Man U but he used to supposed Chelsea, his blood type is O, he is a virgin, I am a cannibal, Nnamdi Kanu sent me" [/s]

You sounded like a criminal. Or may be you need a psychiatrist help.

LegendHero:
I have a question for OPC.

You said what we Yorubas need is restructuring (100% correct). How exactly are you going to get it if you fail to support someone that have at least 60-70% chance of effecting the restructuring?

If you can’t support Tinubu/Osinbajo/Fashola etc publicly, then at least let us know who you’ll rather support coz to even get restructuring, the nation need to keep working and you will need to have a president that can at least support it to an extent.

Are Ona Kakanfo that doesn’t know how to be diplomatic as a leader. Even if the Northerners don’t like Atiku, they won’t come out and be talking like elenujawaya like this.

They will support whoever PDP present as their flag bearer because that's where their own money will come from. Lol. It is all about stomach infrastructure

Like Afenifere like OPC. They are both PDP errand dogs, they follow nothing else but money.

wallay77:
Don't know why people like lies... a brand new Samsung 3000mah battery is better than a tecno 500mah battery. ..I can bet my balls

You are wrong about that, don't bet your balls.

Animegirl:


You don't even know "woman's need", that's why you did that rubbish list. That 80k, isn't enough as a lady talkless of family. Unless you want her to look like an hag, in her husband's house.

Worst, you haven't even settled down yet, you're placing small responsibilities on her head.

If you want something like this, better find another woman who is willing to contribute to the family with higher earnings.

In another interpretation, 80k is not enough to waste on her personal effects. That's why men die early because food, school fees, rents, medical bills and so on fall squarely on the man while the woman needs to look "not like an hag". Lol

Mariangeles:
Let's just agree that you're not yet ready to marry.

And she's ready?

Sent87:
[s] I love that your girlfriend,thank God for her life she ran away. There's a reason why men are regarded as head of the family, that's because they are meant to provide for their family, not saying your wife shouldn't contribute to the upkeep of the family, but you don't make it her responsibility like she must do it. The sooner you men realize that women were created to be pampered, the better for you. There's also a reason why God created them last. Everything was already on ground before they came. Now you don't need to wonder again why most women are wired to go after ready made men. [/s]

Put your gender in front of your moniker first before we consider your opinion here. Stop hiding

Twoclans:
I really wish more women can voice out ,everytime I log into nairaland and see all this small boys abi small men saying Nugerian women do not contribute to the family i usually ask myself if it is this same Nigeria that I see alot of women hustling and fending for their homes completely with the man being a complete liability.

The nature of my job puts me on the move always ,as it is I have three apartments in different states and I know what I see almost on a daily basis.

I really do not think any woman should be shamed because she refused to contribute to a home that she could be driven away from the next minute especially in this country that does not protect women at all.

This comment of yours is funny. Did he ask her to contribute to a house building project? No be contribution for food, TV, children's needs? I think any woman who is not ready to contribute financially in the family shouldn't get involve in family business

wirinet:
Keyword, back then. Back then when salary was N50 a brand new Peugeot care was N6,000. Education was free and naira was higher than the dollar.

Now N50 can hardly but children's biscuit.

It didn't matter the value of the naira back then, the truth is that their income was very low at the time just like many still have low income at the moment