₦airaland Forum

Kabaz2:
Did you notice how their homeless people looked?

They look helpless and hopeless

phemmyfour:
It's better to be homeless over there than living in Nigeria hell

You don't know what you are talking about. In winter, many died as a result of extreme cold and no one misses them. I'm sure that you don't want your end to be like that

Abfinest007:
I perfer living homeless abroad than Nigeria .

Says someone who has never worked in his life, someone who is a being fed. Ignorance is the one talking here. You don't know the value of what you have until you lost it, ask abroad returnees

Kingjite:
Can the police go and arrest done in a Mosque?



Just asking?

What will happen if a wanted criminal decides to hide in a mosque? Is mosque supposed to be a hiding place for wanted criminals?

Clowns are telling the police where to make arrest and where not to. Lol

xcesspaschal:
[s] The christian truth is that direct primary ain't the problem but the muslim truth is electronic transmission of election results is. [/s]

Una just want polarise everything and paralyse this country. Fanatics everywhere!

linkers:
Sai barbarian, is a monumental failure. Buhari failed in economics and security. What a wasted 8yrs.

You meant you wasted your 8 years under Buhari? Make sure you don't waste the next 4 or 8 years under Tinubu too, lol

musicwriter:
Wike you want to take away food from the mouth of your people. Remember "illegal" gold is being mined in Zamfara.

Well, you Niger Delta elites are in a deep sleep and I have no idea when you all would wake up. That's why OBJ can capriciously say in your face that your oil belong to Nigeria.

Have your all your youths learn geology, petrochemucal Engineering, modular refinery building, build filling stations, then legalize so called illegal refineries. The only way you'll profit from the oil under your feet is learning the science and business of oil. If you can't profit from that oil legally or so called illegally, then you're not worth to be called a human being .

And who is crying now? Who is dying now?

Yves4real:
The quoted part is the aim of the publication. They want to encourage people to get vaccinated.
Is creating fear in the minds of people the best way to achieve that?

How did you know this, really? You're not a doctor, you are not a scientist, you are not a researcher. Have you ever had any discussion with any of these people, even with recovered patient? Dumb

KingAzubuike:
Una don come again. Despite the vaccine, despite the "booster".

Na that booster just weak me pass. Despite taking two jabs of morderna/astrazenica una come months later say there's another jab called booster lol.. very soon they go say another dey called super duper booster.

Abi na how a so-called variant una call omicron just came out of thin air we wan talk.?

[s] sometimes I really don't blame those who call this thing a scam. There are so many questions marks. [/s]

You could as well do better by declaring yourself as one of them. Your post reeks ignorance.
This is a new disease and everything related to it is still new and in progress, don't know why you choose wailing instead of trying to understand what the world is dealing with

Phillipsburg:
It's a long read because I had to pour out my mind wholeheartedly. Please endeavor to read through.



I so much hate my dad right now. And even my mom for supporting him. I can always remember how unfortunate it is for me to find myself in this family in the first place. Infact, not having a family is better than this living hell I found myself because these people are bent on ruining my future with their own life.

My father is the person who will be fighting with my mom in a brutally physical manner where they'd be running after themselves in the street after almost stripping themselves naked. He's the one who doesn't know how to reprimand his children except by using curses. He's the one who would go out and come back drunk and turn everywhere upside down. All these I've endured for almost every part of my life and my mom has refused to leave him saying because she has kids for him.
I know some of you people will start saying all manner of things about how you would have cherished your parents if you had one blah blah blah but this is hell. It's choking me I feel like dying.

I just met a girl who happened to be my girlfriend and we've been together for some time now and my father is help bent on separating us because he doesn't want me to marry close to him so that there wouldn't be clashes between him and the mother of the girl because he feels the woman is a violent person.
As they've turned the house into a place of sorrow, i couldn't think of spending even a minute inside the house. I usually spend the evening with this girl at her place and return when everyone at home must have slept. The next thing was for him to start cursing at the girl and even threatening to go to her house and throw tantrums.
I just want to get out of all these because it's choking me. I can't breathe. I feel like I'm losing my mind because of everything. The emotional torture I feel whenever they start fighting. How angry I feel when he starts cursing everyone and shouting at us in front of the house and disgracing everyone of us throughout the whole neighborhood. The way he go about gossiping and talking bad about his own children and wife to outsiders and the whole neighborhood. I'm sick of everything.

I just wish I was born without a family because I'm even afraid of imbibing his behaviors and acting like him when I later settle down. I will never forgive him for making me become who I don't want to be.

It looks like you still depend on him. Otherwise, why couldn't you move out and secure your own apartment far away from them?

Lightorder:
They are too close that she is the one that keeps his money. Right there before you, he will hand over whatever he is given to her . So we don’t worry giving it to him.

Give him directly, make him happy if he truly deserves it.

FernandezPablo:
Then you really need to make research before you believe things online..you don't believe every rumor son..you first have to confirm so as not to sound daft..

Research is left for you to do, not me. I already believed it and moved on, you are the one who is stuck

FernandezPablo:
Then sorry that's not enough reasons tho..your claim is baseless without a credible source to confirm it..

Sorry, not my claim but I believed it.

Emyogalanya:
Na scam o the guy want scam govt with love stories but the biggest scammer is the girl she wants the money

Or, the passport

FernandezPablo:
And how did you come up with this weird conclusion..?
Post a credible source to verify your post...her skin might be allergic to certain things or she might be battling some skin issues..it could even be old age...
This is what happens when you don't read but too quick to bash women old enough to birth you..
So having a rough skin is now equal to facial surgery huh?

Because she lives among people, simple

Even if from the tribal group that looked on like mumu as their region is overwhelmed with proliferation of small arms and ammunition. Lol

AGurlnoname:
the worst thing that can ever happen to you, is going through a man's browsing history, videos, hidden vault on his phone and WhatsApp chat.

Men are hypocrites.

Don't worry don't give up on love, you'll soon find the right one.

If you are going to generalise, women are not any different. Many women keep a lots of nasty things on their phone without even trying to hide it

Elporo:
Sorry, can't relate. I have long accepted gay people as humans. If we have to live with Feminists - that want to destroy men, why not the rainbow people.

As for your 2 years; Men have given far more to women and got nothing back.

Like you said you still attract boys. Hopefully, you won't be heading to Shiloh anytime soon.

And just so other people know. Nigerian women are fatter than Nigerian men, in or out of marriage.

A redpiller spotted! Thumbs up though

pointblank247:
Illiteracy in that part of the country is terrible. So where did they hear that you can drink 4 bottles of spirit and live ?

Instead of to face the furadenunu or kunu wey dey sabi.
Nonsense

Illiteracy and ignorance is rifle in every part of the country, stop this nonsense stereotype! I have heard one died the same way in my city some years back: Osogbo, South West Nigeria. Even oyinbo sef died from water drinking competition

Acme45:
good for him

He was ignorant. Just thank God for the little knowledge you had opportunity to acquire.

Prenonjebose:
These are people that ran for their dear lives, pulling off uniforms in the process, during endsars protest " He don send am? "Make we go straight go withdraw the money, make we no dey waste the man time". The reckless impunity, without observing that his face is clear enough for recognition .

I think his cup is full, alongside others with him.

ajl:
Not just that. The PEOPLE called NIGERIANS deserved to be wiped off the face of the earth. It's of no value to humanity, rather it's a representation of how low humanity can go.

Fixed!

obembet:
Dear Nairalanders, how do you feel When your ex says, you'll never find someone like me, how do you respond?

It's a very deep emotional statement which sometimes could be a statement of fact. You don't typically respond but use the opportunity to think twice over such statement and reconsider your decision before it's too late.

Kellibae:
He is a rare gem becoz normally they mine skull and harvest organs

Even for a female? Fake female

I proudly celebrate him

Maobichek:
It's well, i was angry with my sis when i sent some money and she gave my mom 70% and my dad 30% but with time i realized that she did absolutely the right thing; when you give to your parents, mom should get more than dad because she will still buy everything needed in the house with the money while dad will likely save his portion .

You should have known your parents better by now. Who spends more in the house and who always keeps his or her own? That would help you decide who gets what and how much.
I spend more in the home while telling my wife to keep her spending minimum.

Realmi:
Are ur inlaws that bad..e bilike u no like them at all


U for just buy bag of rice instead of giving them that amount....u will become a father in law too someday

obembet:
This is too poor for your in-laws. Someone that gave a whole beautiful wife. U wicked o. Why can't u keep the money to urself

25k would be more useful than a bag of rice because it could get them everything in little quantities for the festive celebration.
They're in laws, not his responsibility. Whatever he gives them is a bonus, not mandatory.
They have their own kids too including the wife of Op who is also free to give her parents money/item separately from what her husband gave them.

Usman16:
The kind of things that enters front page just dey baffle me these days.

This is an highly educative and debatable topic, Op just didn't present it as such.

Lightorder:
thank you ma niggar. Sometimes, I give all the money to my mum and tell my dad, “ merry Xmas sir”. Once she got it, dad is covered

Really? That means your dad was never responsible and still not responsible, that's the interpretation of your post.
He didn't do anything for you to deserve something from you.
Secondly, he still doesn't provide for your mum and the home in the present. That's why he's covered with whatever you gave your mother.
I hope you will be happy if your kids treat you the same way

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

This bros op is not a real niggar

Why give your father 60k

For me it would have been

My father 20k...

Mother 90k

Men have been been complaining from the time immemorial that kids give them less than what they give their mothers, sometimes nothing at all. Meanwhile, men are naturally responsible for the needs of needs of family, wife and kids included except for irresponsible men.

dobnina:
So you gave your mum 50k and your dad 60k.
Seems you love your dad more than your mum.
Hmmmmmmmm.

faithfull18:
Exactly, what I wanted to say. The money given to the woman will be spent on the dad and house in general.

Mariangeles:
OK. If not, your mum should've gotten more.

She should still have gotten more though, 'cause women's needs are more expensive.

I don't blame you all at all, it is what you have been witnessing over the years. Even if it is possible to collect husband's 60k in addition to your own 50k, I know you would do that. What does husband deserve? Nothing.
I got questions for you all: who provided you with most of what you needed (and/or still needing), be it food, medical bills, school fees from KG to Uni, cloths and others?

jamesope04:
The man has a strong face. If only the woman had known

Nonsense and ingredients. Do women who murdered have strong faces too? Like Chidinma Adaora Ojukwu?

AGurlnoname:
Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.

What would be the contribution of the woman?
What about the prospect of the man? You can start a family with your man with any amount of combined income, just make sure both of you grow financially as your family grows. A family starts with two people, not with three.

Iyaebe:
What you earn shouldn't determine when and if you should marry.

Charmingrascal:
My Sis husband was earning less than 40 thousand when they got married 8 years ago.

Dude is now a millionaire, with his own investments.
It is not really about what he earns it about how smart and hard he can hustle to change his life.

It is about focus and determination to earn more

I started a family when I was in NYSC serving in a community secondary school in 2011, not with NNPC, CBN or FIRS. Came back to a 10k monthly job, wife too, 10k a month. I knew that I had to grow fast financially to accommodate my family that would soon start growing. Today, I have 8 people working for me.