₦airaland Forum

garriAndsugar:
Don't hide anything important.. but don't disclose everything sha..

So if you buy boxers and singlet you will now go and tell her too??

She's just naturally greedy.. you need to understand your wife and follow her the way she is to avoid getting issues with her..

Timekeeper:
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Sorry you don't have any common sense with this stupid comment....

U didn't even address the issue.. [/s]

Hehe! Somebody make his own opinion known, u com dey abuse him. Did he offend you or what is your problem exactly? He said something basically most married men do: don't disclose everything.
He already addressed the issue, you just didn't get it.

officialmario:
She will know through the already prepared budget.

You don't need to hide anything from her, that is, the money you're sending to your mum. Just tell her to respect your decision.

Why are you all ganging up against Op here? He shouldn't have created this thread. Chai!

Olam09:
Well.. no behaviors or attitudes from her

That's good but her post is still a disrespect to what you guys have going on. You should let her know.

Franckly62:
My fellow touts? Bloody liar?
I won't join words with you Sir. All I'd like to reiterate is that having spoken to people at the grassroots (unlike you who I'm pretty sure hasn't been in the SE since this year), I stand by my assertion that the majority of Igbos in the SE have varying degrees of sympathy for the plight of MNK and think (right or wrong) that they owe him this sacrifice.
My point was that it is left for Ohanaeze to attack that mindset if they think it is a wrong one.
Good morning, whoever you are

That explains why putting guns in their heads. Lol

uBuNiT:
Ohaneze lack the authority they WISH to exercise

And IPOB has the authority they exercised? They only achieved that through terror

Elbinawi:
Breaking: 99.4 % of bank accounts in Nigeria contain less than N500,000 ($800).
- NDIC

Mee:

This is worrisome and underlined the prevalence of extreme poverty under the genocidal Buhari regime. Only 5% of individual Bank accounts in Nigeria has N500,000 ($800).

With this statistic by the Bank regulatory body, it is not an understatement to declare that presently Nigerians are extremely poor.

And it was in the midst of this extreme poverty and hunger that Buhari's jobless son recently distributed iPhone13 and iPad as souvenirs in his wedding. The most expensive and extravagant wedding in the history of Nigeria.

#ElbinawiTweets

That's breaking lie! Politicians, senior career officials, businessmen and women and individual investors account for more than the remaining 0.6%.

puzzlegate:
oga, it's only You, Buhari & Malami that sees KANU as a terrorist, the whole world knows that KANU and Biafrans are just fighting for their freedom. Dazzol !

By killing and destroying?

tamdun:
Now we are talking, nothern elites need to challenge gumi, why is he carrying bandits matter on his head like gala, you'll never see that stupid sheik defend the victims but he's always there to fight for those terrorist

What is his offence again? Nigerians just like chasing shadows

Iyaebe:
Imagine ooo.Please I want to ask,do old men have erection?

U no see Alaafin of Oyo with his one year, one new wife policy with new born twins every 6 months? Laughing

Icouldhave:
thanks very much for this, but don't you think it's a little bit too harsh?
we wouldn't want to treat him like a kid or make him feel like we are punishing him for his misdeeds. no matter what he's still the head of the family.

He's a kid again, already. And, are you saying that people shouldn't be punished for their misdeed if they fail to heed warning? You have sit him down and talked to him, he didn't change. Time to try another method. Unless you are not ready to take advice but just want attention.
I knew a man like that too, he has a son abroad but the wife was no more. The old man was just giving his money to women and playing pool. His son just instructed his helpers to be buying food and drug for him and to give him money that would last him a week. The son didn't care if he wasted it within two days which he would still do. He would call his son repeatedly, he would call his helpers here in Nigeria repeatedly but papa would not get anything until the beginning of the following week. He's still alive today and his people don't care if he had adjusted or not, they handled his case the way they deemed it fit.

CharleyBright:
All these brainless teenagers that have turned Nairaland into playground with childish comments.
I bet this teenager don't even know what UN means.
If the UN wants to go after a govt and run it down, can it survive?
Go and ask Saddam Hussien and Gadaffi. Who be Buhari compared to these two whose powerful govt was brought down.
Continue to be mumu and be supporting a foolish Buhari govt and be asking who is the UN.
Brainless fool.

So, UN is coming for Buhari because of a terrorist who's responsible for the deaths of over one hundred security agents?
BTW: USA is UN while UN is USA

Armaggedon:
The death that kills a dog won't let it hear the hunters whistle.
The odds are against the FG on this case because it concerns violation of international law as earlier predicted. Nigeria committed a state crime that the high clout US wouldn't do.

Little wonder malami's litany of allegations against KANU and IPOB

And?

Now, what is UN going to do? Attack us or cripple our economy?

DuBLINGreenb:
This story has HOOGE relevent facts missing or distorted

For only urgent 2k the Nigerian youths I know will tell you everything, with a bottle of beer their fathers will tell you everything, with a rubber of garri, a piece of wrapper or a few tubers of yam their mothers will also divulge information. No need to pay Ransome twice. Feed the community with gala and pure water they'll not only talk, the entire community will help you search.

So it's either the family didn't do enough to get him
Or the "youth group" is a criminal organisation
Or the entire community was in on the plan including close members of the man's family and people powerful enough to silence the police or atleast shift there eyes away for 2 years
Also the police didn't do their jobs at all one small drone, a few patrol vans and one canine unit would have found the man much quicker. Even proper questioning alone would have done the trick.

I hope you remember all these and I hope it works out if this ever happened to you

SLOVFO:
Primitive people. They couldn't accord his remains any dignity...they just lay the bones out in the public like some pieces of sticks

It's a skeleton man!

Well, I suspect Kanu's armed zombies. Or, Igboho now have armed zombies?

Calicoe:
You guys were fortunate to meet a set of police who were determined to give you result. But if you are not lucky, you will meet the type I met who were just after the money I payed them. Two active numbers yet no result. If the numbers were not going, I would understand that tracking him would be impossible.
I fear for the crop of men these days The fact is I don't trust the police

Majority of Nigerians don't either. I told you their motivation already

mrvitalis:
Are you not aware IPOB have lifted the sit at home for months ?

But the real criminals are still enforcing it. That's what happens when a struggle has lost direction. Did you see the yesterday's Monday killings and destructions as a result of the enforcement of sit at home order? Are you aware of the fact schools are now shifting their Mondays activities to Saturdays because the hoodlums are not listening to their commanders again?

kowalsky:
Advising someone to go get OTC meds for a medical abortion of a two month old fetus, which would presumably be conducted at home by teenagers who have no idea what they're doing is dangerous (and illegal).

That was my point.

Also. Medical abortion meds are prescription only afaik. So not sure which other abortion meds she was talking about that are OTC.

It is needed to be handled by a competent and experienced doctor. OTC or through quack could go south

thebosstrevor1:
Isn't this the most stupid story i have ever read on planet earth, i believe this must be a troll story.

Like a man left his wife when she was pregnant, wasn't there for her, from pregnancy till child birth but then came home after child birth because his wife called him home.

If this story is real, then something is wrong with this WORLD.

lanocfoods:
I tire oh, like the poor woman has not suffered enough. OP pregnancy hormone is a thing, it is real and affect a lot of women, gives them mood swings and all.
Also try to make a sacrifice in your marriage, if she wouldn't go for family planning you can, there are family planning for men too, don't be too selfish. You let her go through a whole pregnancy with your child all alone, she gave birth all alone and now you are still blaming her for not assenting to family planning, like every goddamn thing wrong in your marriage is the poor woman's fault.
I fear for the crop of men these days

Lol. So easy to become emotional and judgemental because of the pregnancy most especially if you didn't read his first thread.

udoji2021:
created this thread to update you on how she changed and prove those that attributed her behavior to pregnancy right. I'm still struggling financially but I don't need help from people, I said this because of the people that called me a scammer that time , and as far as I can remember, it was only one person with Nnamebuka(God bless him) moniker that sent something to me.

I don't know why Nairalanders are fond of doing this to their fellow members, it's pathetic. Nothing bad in helping someone who is in need of assistance whether they asked for help or not. It's the least we can do for one another. Even if you can't help, you don't need to discourage others.

kowalsky:
OTC meds for abortion are illegal in Nigeria.
Aborting a baby is illegal in Nigeria.

Doesn't mean people are not doing it. Doesn't mean they can't do it. And doesn't mean that it is not a possibility or the best option

Easylion3569:
Please can someone put himself in my condition and tell me what to do?

Abortion is an option by experienced doctor or let her parents or your parents be responsible for her and the pregnancy for now since you don't have means. It is not the end of the world or your journey.

BiafraInc:
DSS has done their worse. I hope the DSS will be present on her burial day.

Lol. Still living in denial?

mrvitalis:
Remember ipob was peaceful for 5 years plus and no evidence they are responsible for crimes in Igbo land

What about Mondays sit at home orders and people who have been killed for not obeying the order and properties that have been destroyed for the same reason? Who is responsible for the killings of security agents in Afghaneastern?
When you are done lying to yourself, let us know.

Dialogue kil una dia!
After instigating his armed zombies to murder over 100 security agents and destroy multiple police stations and cars? He's no more in position of strength, he has lost.

Calicoe:
Please don't listen to this man. Oga how can you advice him to go to the police? They will only collect money from you and you won't get any result Trust me. Just let it go and count your losses instead of letting the police add to your misery. This is coming from someone who was trying to track someone who absconded with my money. The biggest mistake I made was involving the police. I provided vital informations like his two phone numbers that still connects till date, his bank details(incase they want to track him through the bank). Yet no result. The only thing that changed with the person was that he moved out of the neighbourhood he was staying yet the police couldn't find him although I'm quite sure they just collected my money and did nothing. The money I gave the police was lesser than the one I was hoping to retrieve but it was the one that hurts most when I lost it to the police. That is why you should just let it go because the police is not going to help you

You see now! Tracking a stolen phone and using police to track your debtor has become the same thing?
My brother lost his phone (not stolen), we involved the police and got the phone back after about 5 months that the phone came back online plus the money he paid for the tracking and transport to the town where the arrest was made.
My ex driver found a touchlight phone in his motor and instead of returning it, he removed the sim and put his own in it. The owner involved the police and it was tracked, he was arrested and made to pay for the phone, the money paid for the tracking and of course the police "service".
Quite a lots of people who tracked their phones got it back while many are still pending for various reasons (like phones not coming online, phones tracked to very far distances and things like that).
Police are usually motivated because of one thing, the money they are going to make the thieves pay once they are arrested.

Copy: danieldinho

Hahaha! When you (southern governors) were making and passing the anti open grazing laws, did you carry the police along? Did you seek their opinions on the law? Can there be anti open grazing law enforcement without first having the alternative means? DOA!
Over 90% of cattle rearing in Nigeria is through open grazing. By the time you arrest all the herdsmen and put them in jail, I wonder where meat for the Nigerians will be coming from? Ordinary beans farmers couldn't go to their farms because of the bandits criminal activities, look at the price of beans in the market today!

Ikpunekenwa:
My people, our darling daddy only calls IPOb terrorist organisation but Fulani herdsmen go about with ak47 and defiled cows to destroy our farmlands, when we complain they terrorise and kill us.

What is your take on this?

You mentioned my moniker and I'm going to tell you again in case you didn't notice before: north is almost gone, the rate of crime there is overwhelming!
But is it good for you and your people to be competing with northern Nigeria in terms of who is inflicting more destructions on their own people? Sense falls on you.

techgeniusworld:
Mine was a Tecno T349 from 2010. It still Works.

Tecno N3, 2012 or 13. The only tecno I used up to date.

RihannaPa:
I use 2/3g sir..u not using something doesn't mean others don't

I once tried that shiit long time ago on this same airtel network, na waste of money because I couldn't even use 100mb out of it.