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MrLP:
Hello Nairalanders,

Pardon me, i had to create another moniker just to post this.
I am in love this babe i met in my estate, but i got frustrated and let out a piercing outburst which has made her delete me on BBM, blocked me on Whatsapp and have made her refuse to pick my calls for 2 weeks now. I will attach the screen shot of my outburst below.
In other not to bore u with some long stories, wi just state what actually led to this.
I have been asking her out for a while, i met her in my estate some months back. i left her when she told me she was seeing someone. I later saw her again walking home in my estate while i was driving by. I knew i still liked her, decided to try again as i was not in any relationship too.

We got talking again, but she is always not there. claimed her job and all that. sometimes takes up.to 24 hours to revert my messages even sometimes ti pick up my calls. There are sometimes i see her online on whatsapp, while my message remains pending on BBM. Its always excuse of work,being tired and all that. I had to take it like that afterall am still just an "admirer".

But i noticed one thing, its when i want to get something from a store...she remembers she needs something too. There was a day i was getting a bottle of beer in a shop in my estate, that was when she knee she didn't have milk and sugar at home. She told me to get her milk and sugar. i saw that as odd. " milk and sugar" well i got it. The other day i wanted to recharge my phone, she suddenly remembered her unit was low too. I got for her, she never even called me with it. I dont need to say much, you guys already have an idea. I kept on asking her out and telling her I loved her and all of that. But it was frustrating because we mostly see Sundays, and my Sundays too not always free, as i may be on duty. Her sub finished, my messages weren't delivering, i was able to get her on phone and she told me her sub expired. When she hung up, I immediately recharged her line with quick Teller. it took me about another 48 hrs to even let her know i have recharged her line. She wouldn't pick her calls she wouldn't call back.

This time she acts like she is tuning in with me, next time she acts strangely. To cut it all short, she is been telling me she wished to go clubing. 24th was a public hol though i went to work, but she didnt. Called her and told her, ok today we are both free....what about clubbing? she said fine. Called me like 3 times before i got home. Its only when something is at stake she calls. Told her will come pick her by 9pm then we chill somewhere till late, when club will be opened. At past 9, called her i was enroute, she started complaining it was already late, i was like late at past 9? which club opens by 9. she said she is not going again, she is even hungry, just come pick me to eat and drop me back home. I was like WTF in my mind how can a lady be home since morning and tell a guy to come pick her and buy her food at past 9. Those are things we do on campus. I told her no...we are going clubbing, she will eat along the road. Hung up and met her outside her gate. she was dressed casually with simple slips. I was surprised. so she actually meant it. She entered the car and i drove off...told her she will enter the club like that, i will try not get her bounced. lol. She was boning and angry...i gnored her, picked my friends and drove straight to an hotel that hat a restaurant and lounge. Got her her meal, then we went to the lounge later. Told me she was traveling next day, and i have to drop her at the park or something since i will make her wake late. I agreed, she insisted i dropped her home, as a gentle man i did just that around 3am. Waited till she was safely in, before driving back home.

she called at 8am, and i was still sleeping, i picked and she started saying, you are still sleeping when you know you to drop me off. please come and pick me, i am late. and hung up. I was upset but went to pick her, it was then she remembered she needed to use ATM. I became a driver looking for ATM. we didnt get to use, its either crowdy or no money. That was when she said she can manage with what she had. Dropped her and went back home. Didnt hear from her, no thank you, she didnt even tell me she had gotten to her destination. When i asked and told her how was missing her...took another 9 hours to reply. and it was just a line. i got pissed and exploded.

meanwhile night out , someone was calling and calling she refused to pick. eventually turned off her phone. i later collected it and tuned it on...she had about 76 unread messages on Whatsapp. Phone was locked. I just gave her back...because she was getting angry i was holding her phone.

This made me wondering if that was how she turned off her phone when i keep calling. No calls returned but phone eventually says switched off. Excuse is always work and being tired.

Below was what i told her....becaue i couldn't take her games any longer...But i cant stop thinking of her still. I really like her....and i am almost regret blasting her. But i can't let feelings manipulate my normal sense of reasoning. she is a working class and should stop behaving like an hungry campus girl.

I mean while gather all the admirers and respond to whichever u please to at that time.... I find it strange, whats the gain?

But should i have been more patient?

mr nice guy. get a grip.abi u wan mumu die ni

9jayes:
Having de-flowered 5 gals prior to her (Emmanuella) she joined the list yesterday, what pained me was that I couldn't go more than one round cos of the pain.
NB she's 18+ so no child abuse here.

be piling up similar nemesis on ur female kids too

sagitariusbaby:
Good evening follow Nairalanders, I trust we all have a blessed day.

I am a 31 year old man, a graduate, descent, very hard working, a core gentleman and any lady's dream man in terms of physique. I have been working all my life even before going to school and I also worked to sponsor myself through the university so I have always depended on myself through life until I lost my job some few months back.

I met this lady who is about 5 years older than me last year through a friend who introduced me to her because my then relationship was about hitting the rock, it eventually did. I live in Abuja while this lady lives in Warri, we got along quickly, I visited her a couple of times just to know her better and I must say she is a nice person and a wife material. She has two registered companies that are doing very well and her family have been very supportive of our relationship part because we are from the same community and they all are waiting for us to announce our wedding date. She do go out of her way to make me happy especially now that I have lost my job, she has sent me money in six figures on several occasions in form of assistance, she indeed has a gud heart and very independent. I respect her a lot

My main issue now is that I don't love her not because she is not a nice person but because we operate on different levels entirely, while I am an extrovert she on the other hand is an introvert, she allows me to take decisions in almost all issues that I have concerns us when she is supposed to contribute and even suggest superior ideas, but I feel she is been over submissive just to please me and I so dislike this about her, I see it as a form of desperation to let me have my way always in the name of marriage, she dresses moderately but I like hot ladies, she is a university graduate but doesn't behave or act like one, she is the direct opposite of my kind of lady.

I have not introduce her to my family even though she has been disturbing me to, but she do talk with them on phone on regular basis and I strongly believe my dad and some of my siblings will be against our union because of the age difference and some other things.

My people, what do I do and how do I go about it because all she want now is marriage and nothing more. I don't want to hurt her, she has told me her life will collaps if I ever leave her. Please I need you advice, try to be civil about it I beg of you. Thanks

Mod please help me push it to the front page because it is very urgent

call me .+27813991092

abeg 96k for sch fees. na magodo primary sch abi.... na ifako primary sch. abeg make u give ur girl d money.... she go thank u n do snake in d monkey shadow style 4u. if train anoda woman pikin. na loss 4u o. pikin kukuma no dia papa. and let me tel u. she wil always go back to her babydaddy if d idiot comes begging. na den u go c urslf as mugu of d year

Adeoba10:
.... During my 2nd year on campus, i wanted to change my phone, so i went to computer village.... I saw this guy with my desired phone n i approached him, after negotiating, i said he should follow me to the atm stand so dat i can withdraw some cash, (whereas, my aim was for him to leave his colleagues so that they wouldn't robb me) on our way to the atm i just dipped my hand in my pocket and gave him his money n i collected my phone. Brethren, walahi... On getting home, this sliding phone just pafuka, na paper cellotape and copper wire they used gab the panel together..... Since 2011 e still dey pain me

had a similar experience in 2008. i cry taya say dem do a whole me wayo

bros no go train bastard pikin o. am teling u that pregnancy aint urs. why we men no dey no date wey we Bleep babe. na wah 4u o. tel her parents u aint responsible for d pregnancy buh as soon as she puts to birth... u wil go for dna and both party wil fund it. thats if they agree o. if they dnt. jst stand ur grand u cant father a child not urs. i wd suggest u go to the station 1st. if they agree and the outcome isnt u been responsible...u wil sue the family for damages. am sure after hearing that.they wd sit their daughta down and ask her again whose responsible

winkmart:
I am about to establish a standard video gaming center in Abeokuta
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PS 3, flat-screen, comfortable seats and Toshiba fan

make sure u go dey settle police o

praisekeyzz:
emmm oga chill. I didn't cos I just wanted to be brief and don't bore u guys. She didn't disclose her age in 2days, she disclosed it @ 2nd week of knowin each oda, and as for kids, she said she has a daugher of 21 in Madonna uni. And her husband is abroad.
Satisfied?

stop forming innocent. if na her daughter now...u go phuck am. onyoshi

guy...if u wana phyuck just phyuck n stop acting like a dunce. are u a baby? buh if na 18yrs old girl...na u go make move force-phyuck her

guy...if u wana phyuck just phyuck n stop acting like a dunce. are u a baby?

Prince4945:
We had sex, skin to skin...Before cumming I was fully aware I was gonna cum, and i did the withdrawal method and I executed it perfectly ...

But what I don't understand now is her sending me a picture of doctors report on WhatsApp saying she's pregnant ...

My day was ruined by that picture ,. I know she's a faithful type, and very emotional and abortion is a no no for her ...

But I still can't get my head out of the woods , how possible did she get pregnant ....

idiot! go n embrace ur wife

Homers123:
The one that I dated and the girls around her(cele also) were promiscuous, I mean very and those alagbas in the church no epp matter also.

guy. on dat mata. there is no denomination wey no flirt o. na prsonal mentality. any lady can be flirtuous.

Joshrob:
baba those girls can distroy your life when you break up with them..
thou they hardly date guys that dont attend celestial church.
Am about asking one out right now,she's has been giving me green light but my real niggars are advising my to leave her and look for another girl..
cele girls,benin girls and egbira girls(kogi girls) na thesame o..i fear dem die

stupid boy. who told u they hardly date non members? beta free them if u scared

Montaque:
For me, i love neat feet, but the cele girls hardly ve that. cos they walk bare footed most of the time.

u are grossly stupid... av u seen fair skinned cele girls?

slayking:
You can start selling UK bale clothing.

Quote me if you need help.

nice idea buh u gotta have flair for marketing plus patience

Histrings08:
Extra mural class for secondary school leavers

bad idea... not profitable wt ur 100k. u need space

maklelemakukula:
Use the 100k to do 40% ROI ponzi four times in one month

bad idea. maybe na ur turn dem go pack up. its a no for me. i been a victim of 3 of dis ponzi

JideAmuGiaka:
Viewing center is ok depending on the location but what happens when the season is over?.

when the season is over... there are minor international games been played tho it dont matter. i av a brother in ijebu ode. he combines playing of ps2 console games and 2yrs ago started bet9ja with it. dude is making money both off and on season. if u r in lagos please go to supabet office and get a franchise deal. they originate from south africa. this advice is for those in busy n populated areas and mind u its not a 150k project. its better if u r outside lagos whr shop rent is cheaper. stick wt supabet n see what u wd gain in 1yr if ur sales turn up is high

oh boy wetin happen next

FreeSpirited:
Sometimes I get attracted to smash an ugly girl, usually the ones with large boobs, round ass and perfect shape. If she's intelligent and interesting, in no time, I can consider smashing her and probably look beyond her ugliness cos that also add to her sexiness.

Most times, their ugliness compensated by their humongous boobs and ass or legs is an aphrodisiac for me. In bed, they are free, ready to try out stuffs, and will do anything to please you. The expression on their face while knocking them hard on the bed can be funny, yet an exhilarating sight to behold. Some even have nice ringtone to spice it up....

They can be very loyal, caring and quickly showing commitment.They make less demand and if they have money, u will so enjoy them once you give them some attention and appreciation. Some of them have good atittude compared to their beautiful counterpart. We might say life is not fair on them with the kind of premium we place on facial beauty. The ones with nice assets to feed the eyes could still get lucky and with some good make up sense, can still find guys falling in to bid for those assets in attempt to oil the well.

However, the down side is they can be very clingy with great fantasies going beyond the present pleasure a man derives from them. And some can be unnecessarily bitter and insecure.
Beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder, alas, They could still find love from people who appreciate them, more so, for their character if they try to have one. My thought....You may share your thought and experience too

u are a psychotic pervert

does ur sis have kids sef? move frm ur family house. let her n her husband kukuma move in... dont let ur mum know where u moving to. otherwise ur sis wil find out. this shd b why the matter is in court.... am sure her husband shd b able to tel her to release the documents.that if she respects him

report the matter to the police. forget family ties...ur sister has ur wife certificates... go to the lent of taking her to court. if u sister can kill u n wifey...she wouldnt hesitate o... she needs spiritual deliverance. buh 1st do the right thng involve d police. when them torture am she go confess o. and she shd b given a restraining order from that house.

ejosh4:
To be very frank with you, I think your sister is taking advantage of the fact that “There is nothing no one can do to me if I misbehaves". She has grown with this mentality and right now it might be difficult for her to stop.

There are several ways to deal with such kind of women, One of such is using her emotions to your advantage. One of the weakest part of a woman is her emotion. For the mere fact she is your sista gives you an advantage cos u know her darkest moments which you can use to witchunt her soul. There are things you tell a woman and you break down her soul. Tell her how her action have made her a laughing stock in d community. In doing this you must not show any form of aggressiveness, it must be done when u alone with her with a calm voice and a smiling face. She wud see u as a devil @ first ......
But then she wud think over it moments she is alone ..... And am sure it would make her feel guilty......And such behaviours wud b reduced drastically

u think d woman described above get emotion sha? this one na devil wife. am sure there is a curse on her. plus na she go dey control her own home.

bebe2:
This is getting annoying , how come each time a person is asking for directions on how to travel abroad most pple in diaspora will be discouraging the person.

If it's dat terrible why are u still there?

You enjoy the benefits of living in an organised society, knowing fully well that naija is a difficult place to live.

Are u scared of the competition the new immigrants will bring?

Nigerians in diaspora , what exactly are u afraid off??

i wonder o. thank god am with a family friend here in south africa

87kwin:
Mth 412 and 419 , Partial differential equation (PDE)
and Ordinary differential equation ll (ODE).

in maths we 'cram' and pass.

i concur. we did that too in babcock

chipappii must see this o

Tinulaw:
Na iPhone battery better pass

iffa slap u ehn

doncaster:
awwww is this thread dying or what? where is Toshnwanyi Otele Presido1 Agaba123 Romeo fromuk Ikomi Ifyalways Ghettochild Nnenneigbo chika98 etc

am not igbo. jst stop dis madness