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It's common here in SA...
Our brothers are the reason.
Infact when these lots have nothing on u...they'd simply just tag u a drug dealer..
Another systemic discrimination is the non renewal of permits... and as it is currently Zimbabweans are also feeling the heat.

He wanted to treat Nigeria...
But Nigeria don treat am badly

MisterBanny:
Hmmmm: it's really strange bro. I weep almost every night. At times, I ask God why he allowed my dad to die and not my Mum instead. I just say it within myself, I tell no one about this cos it's shameful

My brother... just zero ur mother from ur life...
Whenever u get anything to give her...
Send it thru 3rd party..
Change ur number

MisterBanny:
Good day everyone. This topic shouldn't be on this Section, but I really need it to gain traffic urgently reason I am doing this here. My apologies.

I am from a family of four. The eldest. I hail from Plateau state. I lost my Dad when I was 10yrs. After my dad's burial, I went to live with a paternal anty who maltreated me so badly that I almost committed Suicide. I was like a slave. You can think of all the dehumanizing treatments in life. I started High sch. No sponsor.

Same anty never paid my fees for once, yet I was like a slave to her and her children. Throughout my secondary school, there was NO session that I ever wrote complete exams for 1, 2 and 3rd Terms. I would write maybe 6papers and not write the remaining papers, I will miss the next term's exams totally and write a few papers the final term of the session due to not paying sch fees. I was so ridiculed & mocked by my classmates cos of the constant embarrassment. As a result of this, I became an introvert. I couldn't even ask questions in class or socialize with my mates. No friends. My fee was #800 at the time. A private sch. I was so determined to get education & prayed God to pls help me bear whatever I faced at that time.

During this period, my mum who is unlettered stayed back in the village with my siblings and had to remarry. I got really pissed and cried myself out when I heard about the marriage cos I had no prior knowledge about it. My mum up till now has NEVER given me anything like Money in my Life. Highest she ever gave me was 1k at once...

At a point some person's even asked me if I still had a Mum particularly whenever I tried to seek help from them.
I was undeterred, wrote my WAEC, had 4-Distinctions and 4-credits and a Pass in Geography, then wrote JAMB, scored 220 and got admission to the University. I had to Hussle to pay my fees throughout. I spent 8yrs in the University due to money constraints. My mum never showed much concern. At a point I said I would drop out and to my shock, she said I should do so if I wanted to. Thank God I done with my Degree.
During and after NYSC she would always call me almost everyday talking about money. Making demands on me. I was always sending to her cos no matter what, she's my mum.

At a point, I wasn't responding to her calls for months and never sent money again. She started telling people that I wasn't calling her or picking her calls or helping her. She also instigated my younger siblings against me and they started disrespecting me. Anyone of us who has money and gives to her at that particular period is who she will become friends with then starts reporting negative things about others to the person that is currently giving her money. Some things would be done and I will never be aware except an outsider tells me. I felt so bad about all these and I decided to stay aloof and estranged from my family. I don't call except once in a while. My mum has been calling for almost a month now but I haven't picked cos money will be involved in the conversation and I don't have now.
Pls advise me.

The last straw was when I got Mobilized for NYSC and had nothing to even use for transport to the camp. I consulted a cooperative that she belongs in to loan me some money, but did u know that after they accepted to give me the loan the next day, I went back and they started giving me excuses. I later heard from an impeccable memeber of the cooperative that it was my mum that asked them not to grant me the loan. Her reason was that I may not pay back and she didn't want the responsibility of repaying to fall back on her. Same woman that has never given me any dime. Mind you, she has money to buy the latest Wrappers but can't help me.

She attends almost all the burials in the village even when the deceased isn't related to her and likes to drink alcohol. I have talked to her about this but she wouldn't listen.

I'm not sorry to say this...
Your mother is not an "".
She's a failure of a mother n deserves no dime from u..
This is not an issue of people telling u to forgive her..
She's an unrepentant bad mother.. who wants to sow where she didn't reap.
If ur mother can prioritize wrapper over the welfare of her child..
She's not fit to be called a mother.
No good mother will allow her kids suffer.

obiekunie01:
AI IN ACTION.

I guess the jet took control of itself and the pilot seeing that he has lost control of the instruments, ejected.

GUEST WHAT?

THE JET IS STILL AIRBORNE PILOTING ITSELF!

isn't science amazing??


IMAGINE A FUTURE WHERE MACHINES MAKE THEIR ON CHOICES. WE HUMANS WILL BE IN SERIOUS TROUBLE.

It must have crashed...
It can only be airborne if it using solar.
And that technology never dey for fighter jets

naptu2:
A former Operation Dudula vigilante explains why he left the group.

1) If you say all foreigners must go, that means that all embassies in South Africa must shut down and all our ambassadors abroad must come back home.

2) The people that suffer from these things are always Africans. You don't see the Chinese being affected. It is always Africans, Mozambicans, etc.

3) It is the people in the townships that are affected. If we say all foreigners must go, that means we want battles in our townships.

4) People have never heard me say all foreigners must go. I have always said that it is the undocumented foreigners and criminals that should go. I don't agree that all foreigners should go.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXUF-yWwH6c?si=RPrdDFU3T21b-XWX

The werey realized they were fighting the wrong people.

On top deadbody hair

Where is the nurse that injected him and the doctor in charge of the hospital?
Why did NDLEA put something in water n asked him to drink??

I hear say dem wan use mohbad push drug...
Guyman back out..
And them remind am of all they'd done for him...as e no gree...dem kuku decide to threaten n frustrate his life if he ever said anything to any one.
One day.... Zino go expose them...
But then it will b God's hand in it.

ErnestNc:
You appear to be unnecessarily arrogant. You must be so little minded to think that buying a 25kg size bag of milk is a huge achievement which puts you on a pedestal above everyone else here on this platform.

I wonder, to whose benefit and of what significance is this post, if not to inflate your already low self esteem and ego which you perceive to be attacked by a mere inquisition. There's really no point of posting such here on a public forum if you're so overly sensitive to scrutiny and void of emotional intelligence.

This is the reason why people who knew how nairaland.com was in those days have stayed away from this platform...

LikeAking:
This particular brand I guess is fit for humans?

Some are for industrial purposes…

The words industrial purposes means that it's used in big industries for confectionery or baking so that doesn't mean it's not used for domestic(home) use as well...
Mind u. It's not a chemical... it's meant for consumption.

Skyview01:
My sister, there are some marriages that are meant to be disolved. When you are married to a narcissist and an abuser, you just have to run for your life.

I pled with my friend to leave her husband and marriage after multiple abuses and because of their 4 kids, she decided to tough it out and clung to the marriage against my advice.

They had a disagreement last year over a property and when she was sleeping at night, husband doused her with petrol, set her on fire, locked the door and disconnected the water supply.

She did not make it.

Her death caused the elderly mom heart attack who also died.

The husband is still at Panti prison while the children are like orphans

With some marriages, you have to run for your life.

I will write the full gist one of these days.

Please do so it will b a message to those who think marriage is a do or die.

Why u no post am here

ourunivibes:
Boss man i am in Ilishan currently. Not been easy securing a place yet. Any idea will be fine

Whatsapp +27737839889

TMKsouth:
News that "Hillbrow's ghetto child" will never post or update since he now has egg🥚on his face.

https://www.timeslive.co.za/news/south-africa/2023-09-08-councillor-released-without-charge-in-joburg-property-hijack-case/

Lol what makes u always ignorantly think I live in gauteng nonetheless hillbrow??

Here is the news of the criminals who hijacked the
joburg building but TMKSouth will never ever post this but only get orgasm from posting other things about Nigerians.. well he definitely wouldn't survive without nairaland.

@Iamdbull post pics of ur Maldives collection ooo

Or delete the app..if u know it comes from an app

It's those useless website n na Google ads dey cause am..
Just go to setting n switch off notifications

U no swear for them ni

They should sue dss..
The case will take a long time but they'd sure get paid

Why these thieves no dey run come Africa??

Person no even know which news to believe concerning these boys

dinachi:
I raised this issue long ago but it was men, surprisingly that shouted me down with where is your evidence. Sometimes I think that men are some of the dumbest creatures God ever made. Every single day more and more girls are turning to lesbians. Men are busy thinking that it is all about having money, they forget that if you marry a lesbian unknowingly, she will Bleep all your sisters and be sleeping with your female house help, everybody will be against you and you won't even know what is happening. Almost 70% of young ladies today are hardcore lesbians. I pity the foolish men of 5his generation.

Common thing here in SA...
Infact most are bisexual

5secs

Tayorshd87:
I dey tell you so it won't be a story that touches the heart later 😂😆

There was a time that Nigerian men were killing their RN wives ooo because them dey misbehave as they made more money than the hubby.

Oga no go use wife do girlfriend ooo.
U go regret am ooo...

Saying it for me is like saying hi or hello..
Idan like me

Dangote refinery never start work... na ph refinery wan ready by December...
Make this government continue playing us

Na their children them go pack put for the program o

Na dem!
Seyi's syndicates
Make una go find work to do o.