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lol i heard she is preggers!

yeah j.lo is pregnant
that is why she is no longer doing dallas
a co-star's boyfriend mistakenly said it on one show
anyway we will soon see if it is true

i just love the name nwakaego. is that where kaego is from?
welcome to Nl

i didnt know you had to be a virgin to preach abstinence or give abstinence based advice oh
it seems like something is biting some people
abeg breathe

@mamaput, there are risks involved in all activities and one must learn to minimise and manage that risk. you have done that as u see fit and i have done that as i see fit. shikena because i no fit talk again. as for adjusting for anybody, i believe in compromise within reason

welcome hunny!
did u post in the new members thread yet?

babyosisi u are female

jesu christi lol, i thot u were a man oh and ur name was baba osi lol. since all these days

@mamaput, your first kid is 17? arent there health/pyschology riska associated with sex now? then again u point out that ur daughter is mature beyond her years. bodywise nko?

all these things u do with ur daughter, my mom also does with me. however she never said have sex or dont have sex, but she laid down all the pros and cons from her own experience and i know what the bible says and i know what my eyes have seen. even though she never directly have sex or dont have sex, there were always subtle adn subliminal messages on the great risk involved in premarital sex and i listened well. this is what i hope to adopt with my kids. i just pray i dont get kids with hyper sex drive lol. i want to see if her method will work on my brother lol

there is no blood relation between you and your aunty's husband, so there isnt any medical reason why y'all cant get together. as for family, it should be alright, if you make it clear that you are really into each other.

see his mouth like cheap shags, i bet you are an ugly prick in real life

lol ring the alarm has got to be worse. i want to see how many epileptic fits this one triggers off. that country outfit shes wearing while she is screaming at poor me as if i stole her husband is just wrong lol

yeah this is really good

hmm where did u see this igala girl's piccha? abi na my own u dey talk? im not igala oh
infact where is ur own piccha lol

hey sista kilon poppin?
lol this story has made want to watch a naija movie now

sil,
na wah for you oh, i hope this is a lame attempt at getting attention on Nl, cos otherwise,

Lord Jesus, is this guy for real? this is a nollywood script right here
men oh men, you don Bleep up oh
gosh i think you should just confess all, leave all your worldly possessions behind and go on penance to help feed the starving kids in africa.

@cleofel, really?

after seeing ring the alarm
deja vu has got to be my choice
beyonce pls go for deliverance

hold up mamaput, where is antagonism coming from?
i never said i didnt like your posts, i enjoy reading them. i said i would like to see less cynicism and jadedness because you tend to paint all nigerians with same brush based on your experience. it is the way of some naija parents to do 'don't ask, don't tell' and it is the way of some naija parents not to do that and i have seen first hand, the results of both. but note that you are doing a great disservice to the parents who raised me by using all these broad strokes of the brush. after all my own parents are also very proud of me.


i said even tho i didnt agree with your logic i.e kids will kids, your children are your children and i cannot tell you how to raise them. and i was not trying to bash your parenting skills, i was merely debating some points of your logic.

i also never said you should pretend your kids are not having sex oh or that you should silently condone abortions. so i hope i was not the one being referred to, when you said u didnt know nigerians were still so hypocritical.

i hope i have clarified my earlier posts oh b/c i wasnt trying to say you were a bad mom

@ mamaput
i have heard you and even tho i still don't agree with all these ur kids will be kids, i cannot tell you how to raise your children. sha sha, i would like to see less cynicism and jadedness from you in future posts because yes even though i know a lot of ppl who do way more than hold hands, i know a whole lot of ppl who do just that.
some things are unavoidable, it does not mean we should turn a blind eye and adamantly refuse to adjust, neither does it mean we should throw out the baby with the bathwater and encourage anything and everything at the slightest opportunity

what we need is better parenting skills not pills and condoms. as for having a sick attitude to sex, a small fraction of that is bad parenting after all where did their husbands learn how to do it, if their parents never mentioned sex in the house? abi their father used to give them special saturday lessons in his obi?

(hey this is offtopic, sorry everybody)

ya piccha looks fake

@mamaput,
i think its just like saying i know i stole sugar when i small and hid in it my pant (err not that you did), so i know my children will defn steal sugar from me and their neighbours. but i will teach them how not to get caught. but if they do get caught and are punished, then they will learn from it and be better kids. no matter what parents do, some kids will still be wayward, does that mean they shouldnt try?

mamaput ur really not giving your kids or youngsters credit. just because u snuck out to have sex when u were younger does not mean your kids or all kids are doing the same. what did you gain by having sex when u did that you could not have gained if you had waited. dont assume that your kids will act in a stereotypical manner because when u do, they will go and have sex at any time, as long as they feel they are practicing 'safer' sex. and incase u didnt know, a lot of ppl when they go out really only do hold hands. dont be cynical and jaded to the detriment of your kids. there is a time for everything under the sun


meanwhile gem87, i think moving is a bad idea unless you guys are beyond poor. i dont know if you are headed down holy matrimony lane but if you are, the thing is that marriage is not the same thing as co-habitation for a reason. marriage requires a greater deal of commitment and sacrifice because you cant just walk out like that. so all this we are co-habiting to know each other is nonsensical, because some personality traits will only come out when you are married.
i would give an analogy but i may be going offtopic

familiarity also breeds contempt, y'all will be seenig each other everyday, why act married if you dont have to. abeg keep the spark alive!

lastly, why buy the cow if you can get milk for free lol

i just read that there will be a quarter of a million ppl at the thing so they are moving it to an airfield
i guess the show is still on

i know an igala girl, but who are you? u have only four posts on Nl