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Ayaayo:
@Ginababy, men generally shy away from expressing their pain and hurt, it doesn't sit well with them to feel helpless. If dh acts like he doesn't support ttc, its just his way of managing the situation and not allowing u to stress urself over ttc, deep down he is just as concerned as u r, but expressing it differently. I have come to realize this with my dh. also sometimes when one spouse is actively ttc the other tends to be relaxed about it. i see that happening to me and a lot of mamas and papas here.

I can type for Africa shaa!!!

Legendymama, show face na, abi na ur white teeth make u show

True talk dearie. Its beta nw dat he is involved ooo. Even financial support frm him d giv me extra joy.

rejoice03:
@ginababy thks for ur resp I realy appreciate. I don't realy have family members in ABJ marriage actually brought me here last year. All my frnds dat got married after me all have dere baby now so is difficult to even relate wit dem even my best lady. I got married Jan last year. Church activities also keeps me busy apart from dis teaching. I taught of resigning but won't d situation be worst especially dis TTC dat consumes money and DH won't even give me mony for any supplimment. He does not even like me reading anytin TTC.

Dh nt supporting is d more reason 4 ur depression. I was in ur shoe some tym bak. All I did was pray abt it n reporting my dh 2 my pastor's wife, leta my pastor had a counselling session wt us n advices dh 2 support me both physical n spiritually bt he discourages local herbs. Now my dh is more dan ready 4 anything n I'm nw at rest. Thank God u r strong in fellowship n u can also do same or just pray n God will touch his hrt. It is nt just ttc dat is ur pblm, it is dh nt supporting dat is d biggest problem here. Face d devil dat is standing in between u n dh in prayers n it will liv ur home.
Bt no b wt fight ooo. Small small.

rejoice03:
Gooday fruitful mamas!@joyfulmama HBD by dis time next year u will celebrate with ur twins In Jesus name. Pls mama hw do u cope with dis ttc at home and at work? Its realy taking a toll on my job I hardly concentrate again and am a teacher. What can I do to be myself again. I did mfm deliverance in august, I and DH also went for september Holyghost service from Abuja yet no show. AF showed dis morning, I knw God will answer evryone of us soonest but wat can I do to get dis bad feeling away?I just feel like not doing anytin just to stay in door. The only time I seem happy is wen am in church. God bless us all.

Apply 4 some days leave n change environment 4 d main tym. Go to were u can open up n hav a gud gist wt som1 who can understand u. Like ur Mum, elder Sis or a friend who is also ttc or come to my place. In general u just need somtym off dat environment because u r depressed n it will affect d children u r supposed 2 takia lyk ur own. Ova 2 oda mamas 2 help suggest.

PweetyJay:
Good day everyone and baby dust to you all. I started following this thread a couple of days ago and I have been pondering since then if I should share my dilemma. I started TTC some months back and got on fertilaid 2 months ago. Before then I had a missed or rather delayed period (I tend to have an irregular cycle once i get stressed). I was hoping fertiliaid will help regularise that and boost my chances, but it's been 2 months and this intermittent spotting won't stop. As in I could spot like a few drops bi-weekly or every week. Am so worried and too scared to go see the Gyno. Has anyone experienced this please. Help!

Welcome 2 d family. I pray ur stay will b brief n fruitful. I'll suggest u get a gud Gyneacologist n run som necessary test to check if der is fibroid or infections of any kind. Pls avoid self medication wtout being monitored my a Gynea or doc. Let me live it here 4 oda mamas 2 touch light it.
@Joyfulmama, happy birthday n many happy returns IJN. Amen.

Flakeey:
hello All,

been ages here
just checking on you.

Alwaystrue and Chyvia..i sight you.

catcha y'all larer

@Chyvia, since you said you have tried drugs and agbo, have you tried checking ur cervical mucus if it's not too hostile to the sperm? if u have a hostile cervical mucus, it would kill d sperm instantly and as a result, turn watery and leak out.

pls google up "7 Steps To Prevent Sperm Leakage After Intercourse" for more info

cheers!!!

Nice one, I just finished reading. Men I was blessed. I will suggest ever1 shud take tym n Google dis n more.

Gudmrng Mamas n Papas. I had a dream similar to wat one of d mama's dreamt abt last mnth I guess.
The dream goes thus: I was in my fada's house in d village. I was wt strange people of both sex bt mostly ladies in a pit dat was nt 2 deep bt wide n we were lukin for som1's hair clip. Den I suspected a guy dat was standing outside d pit bt I cudnt point at him. All I did was 2 quietly tell one of d ladies who was courageous enough to tell d guy. He objected d first time bt he was pressurised n finally brought out his wallet. To my greatest surprise he had wt him more dan just a hair clip. There were diff types of wrist watches falling off d wallet n diff ladies were picking deirs den I picked d hair clip n held onto it lik it was mine in d first place. Bt no one tried 2 collect it frm me. After dat d guy started manifesting (evil) in diff ways ooo we all took to our hills n some jumped ova d fence while some of us headed toward d passage, on reaching d passage door refuse to open. We were like four waiting 2 get out. We started praying n commanding d door to open in d name of Jesus n spilled d blood of Jesus on it. Low n behold d door got open n we ran outside d house wt great crowed celebrating our victory. Den I woke up n I was glad n satisfied dat I came out victorious.
Since den a particular praise song has just bn ringing in my head n I kept singing it.

Wateva dis dream entails, we are 2 physically interpret it our way. Bt I will urge us to sing any praise song throughout 2day as d spirit will lead us.
I pray dis mnth shud be far beta dan last month IJN. Amen.

rozeeb:
pls am ttc since a yr after ectopic have been ttc and have done test hsg two tubes there was spillage,hormones are gud, bt still my doc said i should wait pls what should i do. i do have ovulation pain and have positive opk. please help me oit am confused

Don't b confused dearie. I will suggest u get dh to run test. Oda sabi mamas will still touch light on dis.

bibeetee:
Mamas please remember me in your prayers. TTC is making me depressed. Anyone who has conceived after loosing a tube to ectopic pregnancy?

As long as God is still on d throne. Protocols r meaningless. Just hold onto Mumihaja's confession.
Plenty of baby dust I pray.

I noticed my cervical mucus dries up immediately afta bd during my o. Yet opk will still show positive. Why is dis so n has any1 observe same b4?

ajuwarhodes:
U are just me,I can't stand pain...well,it means I will prepare my mind towards the pain.

Dats d spirit. Dat was exactly wat I did n at d end I'm glad I did because my mind is at rest concerning tubes.
All d best darling e-Sis.
@mummypurity2, a big Amen 2 ur prayers.
@all, happy new mnth.

@Ginababy nice 1 also may God grant us all our cherished BFP's amen[/quote]Amen ooooo

ajuwarhodes:
I haven't done yet,but can I ask,was it painful?where did u do urs?

It was pain. Bt dat was because I feel pains a lot. I can't stand injection n menstrual cramp can even make me hate dh. In fact, I'm nt in any way a fan of pains so I can boldly say it was really painful.
Aspa were I did it. It was in Makurdi, Benue State.
May God take us out of dis soon I pray.

For me, I'll prepare a surprise dinner outing just for 2. And say thus 'my CHOICE, we r going 2 be parent in 9mnths tym' den I will show him d text result.
I'm sure he will go on his kneels for God nt minding those around.

Pls does dat hav undergone hsg help here. Is difficulty to use d white room (poo) one of d side effects of undergoing hsg? Feeling uncomfortable.
Hail all d e-sis n e-bros.

Dat dream strong ooo. Tnx 4 d prayer darling.

@Ripvanwink, very very true.
@all glorious Sunday.

@Udoomama, abeg no tear my belle wt laugh ooo. 4 u 2 vex announce ur bfp na act of faith ooo. Just vex do am faithfully I dey ur bak gidigba natin d happen. Bt concerning d complications just give lyk 2 to 3 days n test again. Bak it up wt prayers because 2 powers r in battle trying 2 fight deir way tru dis circle.
Congratulations my dear.

Janedyke6:
This might give you an insight to your first question (while you await answers to the rest ) ;

Cestra® ‘Pre Natal Once A Day’ is purposefully formulated to prepare women for pregnancy and promotes health, growth and development of the baby. It provides the special nutritional requirements of the pregnant woman and the developing baby throughout the pregnancy. It supports the immune system, energy levels and vitality during pregnancy and breast-feeding. The antioxidants present can help reduce the risk of pregnancy related hypertension and pre-eclampsia. Vitamin A is excluded from the formula as excess preformed Vitamin A may cause birth defects and liver toxicity. Cestra ‘Pre Natal Once A Day’ is available as a pack of 30 ‘gentle non-constipating’ tablets.

#source #google

Tnx darling, same was written on d leaflet.

ginababy:
Make I yarn una small story. Na 2day I send myself go market tank God say I sabi road com house. Kai ttc is really a bustard. Last nyt afta spending tym reading post on dis trend, I suggested wt dh 2 go c a new gynea. Na so him agree wt me ooo. We made our way 2 d hospital dis mrng aspa holiday strolling. Low n behold I was asked 2 check my follicle of which I did n on my ryt Overy was 17.94mm n on d left 15.00mm wt odas less dan. Asked 2 do hsg 4 d first n last tym 2 d glory of God no blocked tubes. Bt d experience no b 4 children ooo. So painful, bleeding n slipry whitish substance accompanied I vomit full d lab 4 dem. Took 3 tabs of ibuprofen. Was leta given a fertility drug called "Pre Natal Once A Day" multi nutrient.
My question now is:
1. Any idea on dis drug?
2. How long will dis pain last?
3. Any oda suggestions on wat 2 add?
4. Cud d whitish slipry substance normal?
5. Cud it b ovulation because I'm on cd12
6. Which oda text is needed?
7. Do I need 2 induce O?
Sorry 4 my long post n questions. Just dat I hav made up my mind 2 c dis 2 d end. Pls don't ignore.

Abeg make sombori ansa me nah.

Be strong at dis tym because I c d devil busy in ur home.
Sry abt dat. Some of us na learners.

Make I yarn una small story. Na 2day I send myself go market tank God say I sabi road com house. Kai ttc is really a bustard. Last nyt afta spending tym reading post on dis trend, I suggested wt dh 2 go c a new gynea. Na so him agree wt me ooo. We made our way 2 d hospital dis mrng aspa holiday strolling. Low n behold I was asked 2 check my follicle of which I did n on my ryt Overy was 17.94mm n on d left 15.00mm wt odas less dan. Asked 2 do hsg 4 d first n last tym 2 d glory of God no blocked tubes. Bt d experience no b 4 children ooo. So painful, bleeding n slipry whitish substance accompanied I vomit full d lab 4 dem. Took 3 tabs of ibuprofen. Was leta given a fertility drug called "Pre Natal Once A Day" multi nutrient.
My question now is:
1. Any idea on dis drug?
2. How long will dis pain last?
3. Any oda suggestions on wat 2 add?
4. Cud d whitish slipry substance normal?
5. Cud it b ovulation because I'm on cd12
6. Which oda text is needed?
7. Do I need 2 induce O?
Sorry 4 my long post n questions. Just dat I hav made up my mind 2 c dis 2 d end. Pls don't ignore.

@imoge2 and olubanke, dis mamas done spoil finish. Make I close my eyes pass oo. Gudmrng mamas.

@Sanrima, I celebrate wt u darling. All is gonna b fyn.

legendsmother:
@joyfulmama 1vial is 1mil so u use a 5mil syrige to draw all 3vials in one injection so u take d injection just once and on ur laps.


As Klass Kaptain
https://www.nairaland.com/2620653/trying-concieve-child-ttc-thread#38317057 That's our newest thread o biko so we nor go scatter abeg lol make we take attendance as soon as the thread close

Make I still take land space for
@Mamakendra
@mamateniola
@mummyelena
@mumidudy
@mumihija
@mummyejire
@Cravingchic
@mumtobesoon
@chyvia
@melsmum
@mamakendra
@hotmomma
@fotamg
@4realwoman
@carinpro
@smokescreen4
@lynsunny
@deyola
@safe06
@sexyboochaler
@shithaappuns
@preetemum
@mummyester
@sallylove
Can't remember every1 but I pray that the way BFP embarrassed this thread in d month of June may it be so for the rest of this month ooo amin

I no hear my name ooo. Anyway I no vex sha because I no need land space as na porting level I d aspire for. My expectations shall not b cut short IJN. Amen! Happy Sallah 2 all.

@estagirl, congratulations may God finish wat he has started IJN.

mompurity2:
Ok my people! It's my wedding anniversary today, yippie! .... pop pop pop pop, pop pop, pop something!........ Chei! Even in my unfaithfulness my God has been so faithful. My people join me and celebrate God ooooo.

Happy anniversary darling. Next is dedication in 9mnths tym.

Ayaayo:
Time to start submitting ASSIGNMENT oo, deadline is 12noon today.

@4realwoman, i sight u my sister
see this mama @sugah, common paint that limzstek on ur lips, u r come and be intimidating me with ur mac limztek, it is because my own is borrow pose

@Mummyesther, weldone jare make u bring my own share when u collect salary
@Ginababy i hope it's boli & nuts u av been busy with
@Waistbead, yes ooo our BFP is very sure this year #sexy2016preggies

Please if anyone should see mama Safe06, tell her to report to this house o, i am just FED UP with that mama, if u threaten her no show, psyche her sef u b OYO, wetin i wan do for her oo....., House suggest how to deal with mama @Safe06

@Ayaayo, I will tell my mummy for you ooo. Boli ke, grand nut niiiii. Ok I traveled no ntwrk der. I guess it's 2 late 2 submit my assignment. Class captain, dis ur assignment na one in town.

Dis gangaria tin I sha don question am inside my heart ooo. Bt it's all abt choice. I knw so many ttc women way don chop shit n drink all manner of tinz. Some got solutions n some r still dsame.
I try 2 follow my heart on everything I do n dh always hav d final decision as d priest of his family.
E fit sha work ooo n e fit multiply wahala n person fit dupe u 4 dis journey ooo bt at d end na ur decision mata.
On dis trend pples decisions is becoming odas headache n unnecessary argument is popping out all because of dis.
Make we take am easy on each oda abeg. Me na chill I dey come chill hear ooo no b to fight pple.

@Ayaayo, present Ma. I hav bn quite busy lately. @all d belle full mamas I celebrate wt u. @all d newbies, may ur stay b brief n fruitful @all d pink lips, una 2 fyn no wonder devil d try 2 distract waitin God take tym create. Devil na BASTARD n MUMU. Happy Sunday 2 all.

stephyberry:
The ijaw women are women dat are good in massaging, knows belle tins n everything about a woman's body, this women are mostly from ijaw dats yl dey r refered to as ijaw women. There are good n experienced ones with testimonies, am even looking 4 a good one in P.H, I ve heard of good ones at Lagos.

Ok! Tnx 4 helping out. I'm nt sure dis one has any slitest idea abt dat. Dh will nt even allow me mingle at all.

Blessed Sunday mamas in d house. I dnt understand d issue of ijaw woman in dis trend. Does it mean any ijaw woman is capable of help? I sha hav one in my neighbourhood ooo. Pls I need clarification.

All d beautiful mamas experiencing af pain, epele ooo. It will soon b history. @Monalisa1 and Lynsunny. I share ur pains. It hurt to see hope n been turned down. God has heard ur cry n angels have bn discharge to deliver ur bundles of Joy. I celebrate wt u in advance. Just b strong.