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Why u cover face? Na wa, people need to know how to take pictures. Anyway I wish you what you wish yourself.

That's touching, may the pot of the policeman never dries.

I pee like 5 times each day after drinking a jug of water

Post like this gets me angry , so you spend on a girl so what? Naija men needs to stop this very foolish thinking. Their logic is if they spend on you even if it's not up to a bottle of Fanta they own you.

They complain that you need to be self reliant, when you do and become a linda ikeji they complain.

They say you should not ask for money, and when you do that, "haa, somebody must be giving you money, you are cheating on me"

Men folks are more confused than women, please for all the ladies don't rely on a man, make your own damn money and watch them beg to date you.

What nonsense!

Uche is so pretty. Seems fun

Stancity:
Last time i checked, she wasn't looking for a job neither is she broke... What's your job at present if i may ask...

What.ever.

Pls can somebody gives this girl something worthwhile to do? All she does is take pictures and pictures of her new clothes and snap snap snap at every background.

Gosh, this girl gets on my nerves. She should learn a thing or two from geny

gregvash:
thank you Ginaz.
I respect your opinion. I am not trying to justify my actions either. I will not also say I had no faults. of course I also made my mistakes by letting the trauma get the good side of me. Because since I was no longer sexually attracted to her, I tried masturbating, of which she saw me one day and immediately called her mother right there and also informed some members of her family, and we all know how human minds work. Even when I tried talking it over with her she refused listening and even informed the pastor about it. It resulted in me keeping an affair outside, which naturally made it worse, as I could get heat at home and be consoled outside. I listen to other men talk about their marriage issues and decisions they take as a man, even when theirs is far far less than what I experienced. There was a day she displayed her true self before my pastor, and the man called me privately and said "Please no matter what happens to you, never take anything from that woman or ask her for help"..It was so obvious she wanted me to be her tom boy while she rules.
The least thing I ever prayed for was to cheat on my wife when I ever get married. and it was my fears that turned out to be reality. As for my kids, I always feel a deep cut inside when they see us quarrel, I never hit her and most times I just walk out quietly without saying a word with many yell words raining behind him. I would have long ran away, but I tried to be patient just because of my kids. Then the worse happened, after she left my house before my return, she denied me access to my kids. Then my parents advised that I go get a life since I was llosing everything.

O.P take heart, I understand what you're going through. Sometimes our heart urges us to follow a path but we realize it's the end of the road and our hearts never knew what it wanted.

You're in a fix, trying to repair a marriage, trying to live up to the expectations of your children and family and trying to be the head of the house but you are only human O.P, it's not bad if you just sit down and relax, stop being hard on yourself.

Search your heart for an answer concerning this marriage, if you don't wanna stay then don't cos it's obvious you're no LONGER in love with your wife. What can't be fixed will never be fixed! Once love dries, all that remains is dessert of hatred.

Please, don't kill yourself with worry, be gentle on yourself. Marriage is for better and for worse but when only the worse time is only thing you have, then something isn't right.

You no longer love your wife, that's the truth. Get a divorce and live your life. It's your life O.P, and God won't want you sad. Your life matter too. Think of your children, if growing up to the kind of loveless marriage will do them good.

Even pastors gets broken homes too, you're not alone. The most important thing is your happiness. I totally advise you to work it out some other time with your wife, if it doesn't work then get a divorce. Life is too short to live it in sadness.

Sorry to hear about your family problem though, the poster above me sha, you doubt the story is not true yet you're giving advise.

Back to you Mr O.P, everything I could understand from your write up is that your wife is a bad woman, she's terrible, she's manner less, she's rude. I got to see that from the way you painted her to be.

She's the one with all the whole faults in the marriage, O.P ain't you yourself flawed too Didn't you do something out of character, or your wife is the devil in the marriage and you're the angel?

Between two people, one only can't be flawed, between two people, one only can't be perfect. You did some bad stuff too you're not admitting cos your mind just don't wanna accept the truth that you wanna do everything possible to leave the marriage.

You're taking the wrong way out of your marriage, by sinning and committing adultery therefore bringing more problems to yourself.

The truth is,you're no longer in love with her, all this your story is just for sympathy. You stopped loving her a long long time ago, the love is dead on arrival.

There is just one option for you O.P, divorce your wife since you no longer love her and live your life, marriage is not by force. As for the children, it won't do them good growing up to parents that doesn't love each other anymore so don't tell me that crap of ''I love my children". Do you know how it feels like seeing your mother and father fight and quarrel everyday? . Let me tell you, it destroys the heart of a child beyond emotional repair.

Both of you would be doing the children a very good job of separating and sparing them the trauma. Then you can go and marry your girlfriend you so much can't live without but remember, she will soon show you her true colours and will become a devil just as your wife has become also.

And I also have this last option for you, forget your girlfriend, end the relationship and come back home to your wife and work things out one more time.

Looking at a coconut one would think it won't break except it's hit hard with a stone. Don't ignore your problems, solve them.

None gets me more upset than when I'm trying to catch a sleep or some rest then my mom choose that damn moment to call me.

Call me to come and see something

God God God!!! she always finds something or the other for me to see. If she weren't my mother, I would have sent her packing to her husband's village.

I don't understand what I'm seeing

Miatha:
Thanks for your respond I really appreciate. I got the lotion,it dried my skin up so fast I had to mix it with coconut oil though, it's a bit ok now but it's darkening me as I am a light skinned person. I just need something that will really moisture but not darken me. Do you still suggest I go for the cream? Saw your pics, your skin look good, do you use any lightening serum, what complexion soap would you recommend and what do you use to achieve a smooth face? Thanks much dear.

I just got your message, I don't use serum or harsh creams. I have naturally smooth face, I don't even use foundation or Mary kay on my face cos it's smooth so no need. But I use a good soap to lighten and take care of my complexion cos since the kind of lotions I use don't tone or lighten, I will have to use soap that does that.

Baby lotions are good, people think they don't offer anything but let me tell you, if you want a smooth and beautiful skin use creams that are mild and moisturise. I used Johnson baby lotion with vitamin e, it was so nice but I couldn't see it to buy again. Currently, I'm using this doremi baby care lotion and for bath soap I'm using pure white multiple action complexion bath soap.

The soap is so good, clears black spot, makes your skin smooth and it doesn't dries your skin. And the doremi lotion is also good, it doesn't contain mineral oil which always gives me pimples and break me out. It contains titanium dioxide, I heard it's a sunscreen. The only bad side is that it dries easily on your skin but you can buy vitamin e capsules like 3 or 4 and popped it then add it to the baby lotion. I've done it before it's so cool, makes your skin shiny and radiant. Or you can add any oil of your choice but pls don't use local oils.

That's what I use for now and I don't wanna change it, it's good on my skin and I get compliments a lot. So dear, you can try it if you can get them around you to buy. Below its what I use.

* modified*

I told you i was using this Avon gelled oil, that shiit was a total bullshit . It made me dark and I dumped it's ass for this baby lotion. I will tell you how it goes and so far so good. I love the smell, makes me feel like a baby.

Religion aside, pornn is really damaging. The things they do in porn is so disgusting, it doesn't display the true meaning of sex. In porn, sex is seen as a medium of release, where people get together and fucck, nothing attach.

That's what they breed, that it's OK to have foursome, it's OK to sleep with 10 men, you're not a man if you don't last an hour. It brings misconception which sadly many youth of nowadays are following.

I hate porn with passion, it should be banned cos it is destroying the real conception about sex.

austinbrown:
I always see this man as a sick man. But someone told me that he is not a Nigerian

Please be nice......

Aaronsrod:
Do not mock. Dr Olukoya is a learned man of God. MFM prayer points are powerful. His MACHINE GUN PRAYERS are dangerous in the wrong hands. We forget our God is a consuming fire and a man of war. Sometimes death is the portion of our enemies.

I have killed many in his name through imprecatory prayer.

Many more will follow through imprecatory prayer, In Jesus Name.

I'm not mocking..... I never knew jesus asked us to kill through prayers with his name.

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Love is a complicated something unfortunately I'm dumbfounded by your story and as a result, my ideals are reluctant to be summoned for this pitiful Scenario. You should not let me bore you about my advise cos I'm dying of an advise to solve my own dilemma of love myself.

That one no reach to chop?

You should write episode two and please make it short cos episode one is too damn long.

He sold himself to make the money either alive or dying, now he's dead who's gonna stay in the mansion?

I'm not the follow follow type, I follow those that interest me. You're not here to do fellowship.

I had just 3 female friends, one of them was my pady we roll together but unfortunately it ended. It's painful due to the circumstances we parted but sha, female friends no get joy.

For male friendships, I don't get too close cos they always end up with feelings. I don't have time for dramatic complicated friends zone friendship of any kind cos I sabi friend zone die.

The only friend I have right now is God, myself and I.

She is not bleaching, just toning

mrkay101:
Ur sound selfish no offense.. So because u say its a loving affair dat means the guy shouldn't enjoy it. Or knowing how to ride is not part of the "Loving affair". Sex is meant for both parties to enjoy not jst the lady.

If riding is wat gets ur guy off why wouldn't u want to pls him?

I ain't reading that shiit you wrote on my mentions. Different stroke for different folks.

rokiatu:
I am fine darling thanks for asking. Life is too busy nowdays.

Feeling your swag like strong thing, nice profile pix jareee.

The life sweet for ur side, I can see it everywhere around you. Ur little sis just dey here o make I find you come?

The pictures doesn't look alike, the first one got a stitch on her head and around her eyes, second got a stitch on the nose and none around the eyes.

I love love love love it. it's so simple yet cool and interesting. I wish the couple a happy married life.

That awkward moment you think you've written a truly brilliant story and nairalanders ain't buying the shiiit you're selling..

rokiatu:
they are indeed a gift from God, but don't rush it thou make sure you are physically and mentally ready.

Rokiatu, where have you been? Haven't seen you online for a while, hope you're doing great

mrkay101:
I almost took u serious.. But then I saw ur profile pic.

Don't say during the times of our parents that this stuffs didn't matter. They did, the only difference is dat no one of them had the courage to express their frustration unlike the way we do now.

No one likes a log of wood in the sack take it or leave it. Sometimes it feels like ur forcing dat person

Whatever, my profile pix had nothing to do with anything. people tend to judge at first glance but I ain't bothered. Sex suppose to be a loving affair, not a thing seen as just a pleasure ride. If ur woman can't ride ain't my problem. I ain't bothered about riding a niigga.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha,, waiting for when he buys pot to cook it next.......

Haaa, so beautiful. Children are gift from God. Will be having mine soon, waiting for the husband.