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Please kindly help with suggestions on how I can make her to eat food I give her or at least start eating them. It’s frustrating when you have more than enough foods but your dog won’t eat them and you have no ideal what to feed her .

I’ve taken her to the vets and they didn’t see nothing wrong with her. I’ve given her all necessary drugs and vaccines.

Oh I’m so frustrated I don’t know where to start. I’ve never seen a dog that is so stubborn and picky like mine.

The first day they brought her she was so small looking and I went like “Awwww”. But right now I’m like “urghhh”.

She only wants to eat the food she likes. She doesn’t eat eba, rice , beans, dog food , sardine and etc. she only wants to be eating meat, not like she eats much of it thereby making the remnants go to waste. After you have bought full lap of chicken thinking she would eat it, she would only chew it a little and go away.

I feed her golden morn in the morning by force. I have to force feed her and I’m tired . My mom and I have been doing this for 7months now. We get sorry for her but she doesn’t pity us.

How do I make her to eat the food I give her not what she wants? Please help me . Right now I don’t know what to do anymore. She loves eating fruits though but they barely sustain her.

I keep screaming and grunting like a pregnant woman till the bathing session is over.

Annkiss440:
Please how is QEI+ Innovative to a very light in complexion person?

Yes it does tones the skin. It’s a very very good body cream of you find the real one. Fakes are out there and are too much.

I used it and my skin was so lovely and toned into 1 color. I be like oyinbo lol, people were asking if I was.

It’s really nice I swear. It gave me some black spots sha on my face but I didn’t care. My skin was muah. Soft and shiny, fair like oyinbo skin.

Let’s assume they didn’t get to have their biological child, would this question have come about?

I love the way fat people smile. So bright and beautiful.

olalekan9320:
I think he was just throwing tantrums around, that looks like a joke

Ok , I thought he meant it . I was so shocked .

kobosmart:
Op how good are you with a gun? I have a farm at borno and I would like for someone to guard it the last two security guards were killed by herdsmen its 24 hours 7 days a week and it pays 15k accommodation will not be provided
Call 08032773199

The last two guards were killed and you want the op to risk his life for a mere 15k? You must be mad. My God!!! What sort of human being is this poster?

Men now rely on their wives income to push the family going. Na wa. And later they will say it’s a man’s world .

I salute men that take care of the family without stressing their wives. REAL MEN.

She bought me a phone . I was in SS1 and I belong to a group of friends, we make night calls with our far away pals of the opposite sex then, come to school the next morning to gist gist and gist. It was just pure innocence of teenage life.

My mum happened to catch me whispering like a rat during one of those calls and gave me a very loud , thunderstorm, hailstorm and barbaric slap that made my left ear bled blood.

I held my ear in shock and disbelief.

Smartchoiice:
5 years izzit then. Scary though. Havilla and handbagss

It’s a joke biko. Who washes bra in 5yrs.

I wash 3 weeks apart

*leaves thread*

Smartchoiice:
Great. I am sure you meant 5 weeks.

Lolz I don’t wear bras much dear. I wear bras whenever I wanna step out and I’m mostly indoors so my bras ain’t dirty much. Constant washing of bras spoils them though .

Smartchoiice:
Mays24 ginaz princesses your truths please

Once in 5yrs

Our girls were busy showing breasts up and down . The day was used to showcase their sales for potential male customers.

This is what we call brilliant. God bless him , I so much love this .

Oh my God , I have to share mine though this thread is for men.

So those glorious days of night calls when I was still in secondary school a number called me. I didn’t know how he got my number but however we hit if off and we were going on and on round the calls and getting to know each other part.

Well, the day came for us to finally see each other . I took my aunt with me though, I don’t want a case of “had I know” cos I was still a teenager.

The plan was for us to see at my street , chill somewhere closed to my house.

I and my aunt went out to the street to welcome our visitor and who came was never what we had imagined .

He was putting on a very dirty white top, black long trouser that was dirty . His feet were stained with red mud and he looked so unkept, he was Creasy, hair was bushy.

I was like “are you the one “? He was so embarrassed. In fact the 3 of us were.I didn’t know what to say, what was he thinking coming out like that?

I gave an excuse I wanna go home , he said “ok” . All these while we stood on the street , we didn’t even get to go and chill.

I got home , blocked and deleted his number . That was the last day I ever saw him.

Ladycewhy:
OK ,just making sure this is a balanced argument ,cos you know when i was growing up ,i never knew the scriptures i put up there existed, all the pastor kept hammering on was "wives submit,i say submit, submit oooo". Even the pastors wife suffering from stockholms syndrome will also come and tell us submit to these men ,i say submit o, So i thought oh well the bible probably didn't leave instructions for the men, but alas it did but the there was a grand conspiracy to ignore that part.

I was talking to an older married woman the other day, she said "na who nor talk e own come out you nor go know, marriage na patience ,all men na the same". It hit me that these women have been made to believe you have to manage men and excuse their behavior, so i asked her who made it a standard to excuse a man's bad behavior because "na man".
You see a good woman builds her home but a good man should give you a foundation to build on.

Yes dear , I totally agree.

Ladycewhy:
galatians 3:28
There is neither Jew nor Greek ,there is neither bond or free,there is neither male nor female,for ye are all one in Christ.

Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefilled, but whoremongers(woman) and adulterers(man) God will judge.

Ephesians 5:25
Husbands ,love your wives even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it.

Ephesians 5:28
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.He that loveth his wife loveth himself

1st peter 3:7
Likewise yes husbands dwell with them according to knowledge giving honor unto his wife as unto the weaker vessel and as being hairs together of the grace of life that your prayers be not hindered.

Eccelaiates 9:9
Live joyfully with the wife whom thou loves all the days of life of thy vanity which he hath given thee under the sun,all the days of thy vanity ,for that is thy portion this life Andi thy labour which thou takest under the sun.
Now this last one is the one i want to particularly talk about

1st Timothy 3:5
For if a man does not know not how to rule his own house ,how shall he take care of the church.

A man with no sense of responsiblity , a man with no direction , how will a woman be given the responsibility to mould him?

I know all these. I only gave her the Bible verses cos she said I should tell her how men are not women’s equal.

AntiBrutus:
While I gree with your subsequent posts, your first post isn't in agreement. I am also of the opinion that is her choice to stay.

1. You brought in the bible. Our God is not an author of confusion. When he told men to lead and women be the helper (like you rightly said), he didn't send women to go help broken men because she has some "powers". Why she isn't using that power on a man who has his life figured out is story for another day.

2. As much as we are not in a competition with men, there is nothing wrong in calling out double standards. We are all humans after all and every class of human desires to be treated fairly and justly across every line. Racial, gender, social class...whatever.

Nothing wrong with equalizing. As far as some of us are concerned, all humans are equal. Would you think you are trivializing your African power if I tell you that you are equal to the White man and shouldn't be handled like a terrorist at various POEs? I bet not.

We appreciate our "feminine power", but we should use it for better things na.

Toke's argument is that men shouldn't make suffer head the standard for a woman earning love and commitment from her man. I like to think she is right- irrespective of gender too.

Stop modifying to sweeten your post . Your number 1 point I have said severally a woman should not condone any act of violence.

The door is still open , if you wanna walk away do that. If you think you could instill a good influence on your man then stay in.

Life there is always a choice . Toke is playing a victim card though she may be right in her assertions but no one ever held her to stay where she isn’t wanted cos of love .

Our power should be put in good use instead of putting blames on men for mostly everything.

You’re in a tight relationship you are no longer happy instead to make a choice , you say men won’t take the crap you take so you have to walk away doesn’t sound right in my ears.

You’re equalizing it . Toke is confused and she doesn’t know it . If you wanna compare what a man can’t take to what a woman would , you gonna lost it cos the two are different in everything.

Mstick:
You're a just FISH BRAINED pick me. You can't even defend your own argument.


What is this magical women power you've been talking about, can you please name one?

You were asked to bring up bible verses that supported your initial comment about men and women not being equal and you pulled up verses about husband and wives.


You trying to trivialize real life issues women in Africa go through every day and calling it "victim card" shows how stupid and weak you're.


Using your religion as a back up further shows how useless you're because am sure you wouldn't appreciate if a Muslim lady uses the Quran same way.

I have every right to say I wouldn't take bullshît from any man because I am not going to do the same. Relationship is about partnership and respect and once respect is lost love follows.

I have 2 words for you. “YOU ARE VERY FOOLISH and you “LACK INSIGHTS.

If you wanna argue be my guest. When you’re done acting like an empty brain devoid of sense but think you do have sense , THEN YOU CAN GO TO BED!

freshvine:
Babe, don't go down this route with them, they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with stupidity. No cussing plz, your self esteem is priceless.

Thank you my dear. I’m done with this topic . Women they will always play the victim card.

The toke that is preaching, was she not the one they said was sleeping with someone’s husband last year, an old man like that? She’s here crying wolf and acting like she has done good all her life when it comes to men.

Mstick:
You keep poking holes in your own argument.
You claim women and men are not equal according to your Bible, same bible that says everyone is equal and you're here ranting about black mentality.

Now reread your original comments and this crap you've just written and ask yourself am I bipolar?

You said and I quote
"Women have a lot of influences over men, if they could focus their energy in trying to better their lives and instill a good influence over their men, they will be better off than becoming a bitter , over sabi, I know my right deranged psycho"

And you wonder why women in abusive relationship stay? After all they believe they can influence a FULL GROWN ADULT.


You're the FOOL because at the end of the day you ended up talking from both sides of your mouth.

You’re the one foolish here. Both times I have said if you don’t wanna stay then walk away. Nobody held you at a gun point for God’s sake.

some women , they are the architect of their own bitterness . They play the victim card at all times.

If it’s too much then walk away . If you wanna stay STAY!!! If you wanna walk away WALK!! If you’re not so blind you would have seen where I said physical violence should not be condoned.

What I’m saying is, we should stop trying to say men can’t take bullshit so we can’t . It’s like we are trying to equalized instead of putting to good use what our woman power could do .

Stop looking for holes cos you want to argue for the sake of it . You crying black mentality, how many women have your white mentality helped ?

bukatyne:
You haven't answered any of my questions.

See, if you leave the Bible out of it, you can accept been treated like trash, that is for you and the culture.

When you are quoting the Bible, please get it straight.

Stop mixing your cultural beliefs with the Bible.

Thank you.

Since you wanna be so petty and argue for the sake of it . I will leave you to these bible verse if you like accept it or not. Your cup of tea. This bible verse clearly states that a man and woman are not equal since the man is the head. That doesn’t mean we are lesser beings by the way, we are powerful in our own rights than always playing the victim card when things doesn’t go our way.

Ephesians 5:23
Because a husband is head of his wife just as the Christ is the head of the congregation.

Colossians 3:18
You wives , be in subjection to your husbands, as it is becoming in the lord.

Titus 2:5
“To be sound in mind , chaste , working at home, good, subjecting themselves to their own husbands, so that the word of God may not be spoken abusively .


*dont bother quoting back. I won’t answer you. You don’t wanna learn but argue I don’t have energy for that*

AntiBrutus:
You should learn to pick a stand and not deflect from it. This isn't the premise of your first post.

Thank you.

I’m explaining more on it now. Since you town criers won’t listen .

bukatyne:
Is there any place in the Bible that suggests women and men are not equal?

Is there any place in the Bible that allows for men's misbehavior under the guise of this inequality?

We are all sons of God but God’s arrangement still remains the same. Christ is the head of man, man is the head of a woman. Simple !!!

Mstick:
Not with the type of black women in this country, did you see ginaz comment?

It will take a century for that to happen but we shouldn't stop speaking out.

You're not better than me just because you have a penis.

You’re the one with a black mentality. You women act like victims a lot it is so pathetic. Y’all should maybe channel your black mentality into fixing your self esteem issues and lives.

Lolz, you see a girl whose boyfriend beat the crap out of her yet still clings to him. Is the man at fault ?

A woman knows a guy has a womanizing spirit but still wanna hang in there. Is the man at fault?

She knows he’s married but doesn’t care, is the damn man at fault ?

Victims victims and victims that is what y’all are good at. Pick a dam choice . You walk away or stay behind to fix it. There’s always a choice in how we all want to be treated , nobody gonna kill you if you don’t comply.

Stop acting like some fools ! Get your acts together and men would be forced to respect you. That’s the power of a women . We influence, we scheme, we are builders, we are anything but the head . Take that into your empty head and it shall be well with you.

mhizsuzzy:
Did you miss the verse that we are all equal in the sight of God
No one seek equality does not mean one should be treated as trash or any how because they are female...
Need I tell you we are to complement each other and not one-sided complement
You were also deceived with that "women have hidden powers"

You are too high...interact with women (married) and also those in rural areas you will understand that a lot a suffering because they are women..Did they create themselves?

Even when Mary Magdalene was caught fornicating, she was about to be stoned... Do only one person fornicate..where was the man she was fornicating with??

We will fight for a better tomorrow not for us but for our daughters

We are all equals in the sight of God? Yet he made men to take the crown over us? Listen to me, I’ve seen what married women get to passed through ,I’m not a baby.

Please try to read good insightful books and get to understand the unshakable power women have . We undermine our power a lot . See let me tell you, a man won’t do shit to you if you don’t allow it.

All these internet cries are from women who have low self esteem issues to deal with on their own. Haven’t even fixed their lives yet, can’t pinpoint how they want to be addressed ,some have their own issues . How can you in a right sense be in a relationship with a guy and he respects you when you don’t have respect for yourself?, how can they use their woman power for good? If your man is not setting standards then help him. TALK to HIM or walk away for the sake of your DIGNITY not for the sake of men don’t take crap so I won’t .

Women wants respect, they should go all out for it! Some women can’t even respect their men but they want to be respected.

We love to play the victim card all the time . All those negative feelings should be channeled to a good use . If you are tired of your man and you wanna walk away do so but not on the basis of men get away with lots of things . Nobody held you at gun point .

I think the mistake women always make is they try to compare themselves in all aspects when it comes to men.

The Bible said women are helpers . We are not equal and can never be equal to men. Until women learn this hard and naked truth they will always be at the receiving end of pain!

Nobody will force you to do what you don’t want to do. If you love a guy but wanna leave cos he hurts you then fine. Don’t leave on the message that men doesn’t take bullshit so you won’t take bullshit .

Women have a lot of influences over men, if they could focus their energy in trying to better their lives and instill a good influence over their men, they will be better off than becoming a bitter , over sabi, I know my right deranged psycho.

Be careful of the type of advise you take as a woman. Physical violence of any kind should not be taken though. In that area I suggest you walk away.

purpleprincess:
This is a huge lie sister and you know it. Stop deceiving yourself. If there is a key that can open any lock, that key will be regarded as the most valuable key in the world and world powers will fight to own it. But if there is a lock that can be opened by just any key, that lock will be regarded as useless and it will most probably be destroyed.


Everyone should be morally responsible though, that we can agree on.

Have you not seen keys stuck inside locks? One day it will be stuck and that would be the end of it . There are some locks more powerful than keys itself. So be very careful, cos it opens doors doesn’t mean it won’t be swallowed one day.

DonroxyII:
I don't equate you with her ... more muscle to you but a thread like this ain't where such strength should be discharged ..... I respect womanhood but you can't afford to be defensive over such simple issue as this !!

There are more pertinent issues such as :

Abusive Relationship,

Violence against women e.g. Rape

Maternal Mortality without corresponding effect on Paternity

but d.ick inside pvssy .... shouldn't worth a sweat for a savvy girl !!

I'm sorry if I was rude Initially!!

Compare the rate men abuse women with degrading words to their inputs in those topic.

DonroxyII:
I just want to quash your anger , I don't mean to make you feel less nor degrade you anyway !! it just amaze me when woman throw up fight on simply silly matter and feel judged throwing caution in the air !!

if they call u names, call them names ... for every Ashawo girl, there is Ashawo guy .... For every pvssy that get fvcked in a year there are also dicks that get fvcked in a year .... no need to throw all caution in the air and go Anthony Joshua-Luiz ortiz over simple senseless matter.

but when you become defensive, then you have given them the strength to become offensive and launch more attack against you !!

Your action is what makes you less , Poco is a real sensible fighter on Nairaland, I give her that!!

I’m not poko, she’s not me . We Both are different people. It’s not every thread I poke my nose into and I don’t think you have seen much of my moniker. The thread didn’t come out well to me and that’s it. I’m not playing a super hero role , not interested in it a bit. Maybe the whole sex grade for a thing is getting on my nerves but I just hate the way people come in here and use degrading words on women day by day.

DonroxyII:
This is a social forum not your room !!

I don't care about your ranting, if you have problem with Prostitutes be civil and open a thread about it ...... This thread is about how many dick enter your vagina this year , if you can't answer that just read and ignore !!

spreading mat here and constituting a nuisance thinking you are a freedom fighter is absurd and madness !!

The dude keep replying you to create a counter thread which is a civil response to your nuisance but I think you have some offline problems you wanna vent on this thread .... It is not necessary lady !! If you think the thread is Offensive kindly alert the mod to shut it down!! That is more civil !!

Catch fun or gerrout!! ..... No need to fight or feel judged ....

if a thread of this nature is created by a female, you will see boys running their mouth and possibly "no one" will feel judged, prejudged or post judged....

You don't really need to play victim cards over something as silly as this thread !!

How many women have created one? You see they can’t even express themselves cos men like you won’t stop degrading them and throwing abusive words up and down. How many women here on this thread even expressed fully ? This is what I am talking about . Name calling and insults would be the order of the day.

You come at me and say I’m uncivil with my words, please look at your write ups and compare to mine whose is filled most with insults and totally barbarism?

Drink lots of water to flush down your hypocrisy. You stink of it and good fuckingg night .