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Fine daughter. Many more years to you little angel.

Awwww I want to give birth right now, she’s so cute.

Am I the only one who have not heard any of fireboy’s songs?

I like joeboy though.

Kemi is trolling but she’s right . Tacha pack your breasts up next time .

If this is true, then the guy is a dirty pig.

“I don’t want to lose you”, Then he went to get a girl pregnant.

DrWhizy:


No be today sha. Had several experiences

The most painful was a child who needed to be taken to a tertiary center for an urgent dialysis after he had been given nonsense native drugs (as treatment for a possible meningitis)that had knocked off the kidneys. The distance between my facility and the tertiary center was much and they weren’t mobile. The child didn’t have much time and if they waited to get a vehicle (which would have been almost impossible at that time), the child would die. I offered to take them with my car, a risky venture because my fuel tank was in reserve and I had planned on refueling the next day. Luckily we arrived the tertiary center on time and i helped in providing vital info to my senior colleagues at the center. The problem became payment for the peritoneal dialysis. They didn’t have enough cash at hand and were pleading that it be done as they promised to pay the next day. To make it easier I lent the relatives a small sum of 14k which I luckily had on me; he also promised to pay back the next day as I left for my facility which was unmanned all this while. Unfortunately my fuel wouldn’t take me that far as the car stopped enroute. I trekked at that odd hour for an unimaginable distance as I didn’t even have a dime to get a bike (that’s if I find sef) and finally arrived. Till date I never saw mr x neither did I see my money. Got his number, called him and when he heard my voice he dropped and barred my number. Well, i know not to do such things again. I was just a Corp doctor trying to help.

Oh my God . People are so terrible . Please don’t regret what you did, believe me it would come back good for you. You were amazing.

Very foolish question and only a foolish girl would do that .

A man will never allow such to happen in his lifetime . Send his best friend to live with his wife to be. Lolz . Not in a life time .

If wishes were horses...

This is commendable.

cococandy:
Which video please. I only saw pics up there.

I’m curious

The video of the procedure in action .

Oh my God I just saw the video . It’s so horrible . Look at her skin peeling off

Awww I’m so sorry darling for your situation. Have you tried to talk to him the changes going on in the relationship? I suggest you should give him some space and have a moment to yourself alone to really figure out where he stands in your life honey.

You don’t have to kill yourself, you have done enough judging from what you have written so far . Now allow him to make moves to make the relationship work.

For the main time , find a new hobby , read books, go out , do things that get your mind off him. Never neglect you life in a relationship. Never never do that. Have something going on, be occupied with your life too.

Try to communicate with her physically. Technology have rendered so many people useless so much they can’t communicate one on one with their spouse.

Imagine if there was no WhatsApp eh you o.p? What would you have done? Look for other means you can substitute for WhatsApp . You can call her via phone call too. I don’t see any issues here.

Child of doom has turned Nairaland to the book of lamentation. We are waiting for revelation from God concerning his plight.

But Tonto why must you quarrel and fight all the time?

Congratulations bam bam and teddy A

naijadrivablog:


Nice, but why not build in Nigeria first before buying a house in the UK? Just a little case now, those Tax hungry people would seize it or something.

So that wicked relatives will eat the money abi?

C

This matter is long over due . All those that care should simply locate the girl and send her to whatever or whichever school they want her to.

Nigerians it’s only mouth they have. All talk no action . If you want to hug her or send her to school do so. Babcock said they don’t want again shuooo.

I sighs!!! I’ve been there dear. Just go far off from him . Change to a new number , change you daily lifestyle so he doesn’t have time to come to you.

You have to help yourself too. Stop talking to him . He won’t change , nothing will change .

It’s all a big facade. Do you feel beautiful inside Tasha? I guessed no!

Please focus on your books and don’t go anywhere close to her to avoid another ruination.

Temitope009:
The Dream Of a Little Nigeria Girl.


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This dream was cut short as ABU did not offer me admission to study medicine and surgery 2 years on the row. Ha, I cannot come and become old in my Father's house o. I changed my course of study the 3rd year on the row to study chemistry and I was offered admission.

Before I was offered admission to study chemistry, I had a little drama with my dad the first time I told him I no longer wanted to be a doctor (this is another story entirely) and this isn't the aim of this story. Alas, I got admitted, and as a vibrant young lad, I had great hopes and aspirations.

Fast forward to all the rigours of school and all, I tried to ditch all distractions, with God's support, I graduated with a strong 2.1.

Immediately after graduation, I started powdered detergent production (I underwent some trainings beforehand). I named it RIAMA DETERGENT (in fact, I just sold out the sealing machine I used to someone yesterday). It came out very nice and foamy but alas, like every entrepreneur, so many challenges like drying and grinding, not having industrial machine to do all these process were great barriers. I soon got shortlisted for NYSC and I stopped.

Before the end of NYSC, I had put in for some jobs, reading, gaining skills on job applications and applying to any that came my way. I got married along the way, like 3 months before the end of NYSC. After NYSC, I still kept my hopes high and kept applying for jobs. I soon got a teaching position which I gladly took. I immediately enrolled for my PGDE program which I'm done with (with excellent results). Along the line, I had to resign for so many reasons (I was nursing a baby, running a postgraduate n lots more), I had to make a hard decision to leave when I was building my career (because I just got appointed as the assistant head department of my section).

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These and many more are the little efforts I've made to achieve the dreams of that little girl (though even if not becoming a doctor, to at least become financially independent and not strain the necks of my darling husband as we still dey hustle.

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Do you do wholesales? You and I can work things up together. Kindly reply .

See him face like dry stock fish . With all the money he ate nothing good came physically out of him.

What do an 18yr old girl wanna do with marriage though?

SenecaTheYonger:
You've changed so much Ginaz. That big brother thread don spoil you finish.

Change is constant and this one is to vent for dem southy . Nothing out of place . dem too do anyhow .

Fucccck South Africans !!!!

Shame on their big hairy bloody ass of a nation! Killers of no just reason. A time would come nothing good would be related to South Africa but bloodshed and blood guilt . Shame on your nation.

piroux:
When i was younger, i went to attack a male neighbor for beating my sister. He ended up nearly blinding me! People came out to deliver me oh!

Lol

I don’t know but I always have the gift of managing my resources very well. I can hold 1k for a week so far there is foodstuff at home and be able to make use of Till it expires.

I can manage , plan, make use of what I have to get what I want till the main time . It’s a gift I took from my mom. My mom would go to the market , buy bag of rice , bag of garri, soaps for washing , groundnut oil, milk and milo at great quantity , red oil , maggi, salt . Everything we have to use .

These items take time to run out cos they are in abundance and cheaply bought too. So we don’t have to restock every month thereby saving money that should have been used restocking to simply run other things in the house .

O.p I suggest you should buy things in bulks and you can go to villages too to get them cheaply. My mom gets garri from the village .

Try to manage . Account for every drop of money . It is not being stingy or poverty nonsense they say. Things are hard , you shouldn’t ’t make it harder that’s why you should learn to plan . That 30k is enough for two people if I should be honest .

But the mother and her child didn’t do well let’s truth be told.

I remembered my schools days with feelings of Joy. During my school days you dared not even be seen with a lipstick on. There was a girl who rubbed marykay on her face to school, our principle saw her and called her out to stand in front of the assembly. She used the white shirt uniform on the student to wiped off the marykay from her face and by the time she was done her shirt uniform was stained with muddy color and she was very ashamed to even come down from the podium.

Let there be discipline!!! At that age I knew nothing about lashes or nails . Children these days wanna grow before their time. What help would the eyelashes do for her in the class?

She’s very stupid . If she were my child na seriou cane she go chop.

Gosh I hate salad with passion . I rather soak garri than eat salad. I used to hate fried rice too, I would pick the carrots , red beans abi green beans whatever! I don’t like seeing them in my rice . I got used to it sha.

I hate meat pie , Burger, chicken pie . I don’t want to see any Irish potatoes or whatever they use inside my food . Lord pls!!!

I hate chicken too. Only eat it when necessary and not much except my appetite wants it .

I hate pizza . I rather starve than eat pizza .

Try to use Vaseline

AryaSand:
Exactly!

Yes .