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Started this r/ship cos i wanted money from u but u've suceeded in emptying all my bank accounts

There4 we're both gold diggers but you were smarter

Na wa For Nigeria O.

It's like this is the latest way they operate these days  

A similar letter was sent to my area in this same Lagos about 2 months ago but _{they've not shown up till now} (hope they don't).

Pray  they don't show up in that community cos there may be little or nothing the police would do.

Thank God O! I thought I was having problem with my system when I was getting the Invalid Password or ID reply.

Please somebody send a copy of the 2007 Gmat to my box : aijayspal @yahoo.com

I would be very grateful.

Thanks in advance.

@ Poster

I'm Igbo O! but that doesn't mean i should support what is not right.

I feel you. It's not like the guy is a millionaire - he's trying to start up his own life with the little resources he has.

These so called sisters have jobs O! It's not like they are broke O! they are just being wicked. they want to save their money and keep drying their brother up.

I feel you should explain to your guy that if he continues like dis, he would not have any savings to put up his future.

I'm not saying he should not assist them when the need arises, but putting people that have jobs on monthly allowance to his own detriment, abeg that is too much.

He has to make a decision on which is more important to him - supplying his siters greedy needs or building a future for himself.

I once had a guy like that. this one was not even his sisters dat were demanding; it waz one grandmother's step son's daughter somewhere in the village, or one uncle he has never seen b4 but hears his name and he was always complaining that he was broke. He cud not plan his life (cos any little money he saves they are already there with their demands).

Me, I did not even tell him anything but I just resolved in my mind that I can't marry him. one day he told that me dat one of his ex's was always complaining about his extravagant life style and he was begining to see reasons with her.


So talk to him about it, don't nag him O! Explain the consequences of his actions to his future. If he still doesn't see anything in it - and you cannot stand it any longer, then you could leave the relationship. But someday he would appreciate the fact that someone once cared enough to advice him - and he wud see what he has done to himself.

Hope it won't be too late by then!

Good Luck!

Abeg leave the girl jare!

just because you were not there on her birthday, she goes around sleeping with a guy.

It could not have been a case of rape (cos she went visiting the guy and spent the night in his place), even if she claims she went visiting to kill boredom - it was getting late 6 ,7, 8 O'clock and she still did not go home. What message was she passing to the guy? Now, she's telling you that the guy took advantage of her. That's rubbish!!!

It's not like she doesn't know the reason why you could not make it for her birthday. It could have been a different case.

How about her other girlfriends, couldn't she have visited any of them to kill boredom? Or were they all with their boyfriends celebrating their birthdays on that particular day

I feel she's been doing it for a long time. She just decided to confess because she felt you may find out soon.

It's girls like this that make guys feel that all girls are cheats.

If you DO NOT CHEAT ON HER, then you can SAY SHE FAILED YOU, but if you do, then 2 CAN PLAY THE GAME

Cheers!

Showing off how wealthy they are cos they want to get you

As in - introducing his wealth first b4 himself as if it is only his wealth that matters and his money would cover up for all his numerous flaws .


Nothing could be so annoying and disgusting

don' t think you really know what you want.

sorry, i sounded harsh but it's true

so called "boyfriend" spits on you? that is the height of humiliation and the worst thing someone can do to me - especially in public Gosh!!!!!!!! it means he doesn't have an atom of regard for you.

so end whatever it is you have with him (whether "friendship" or "relationship", let that "ship" sink now

yu deserve more respect than that. no matter what reasons he gives for the spiting.

@ Chimezo

I dey Lagos O!

@ Poster

i think there are many reasons why the girl may want a comeback.

First, I think she has realised that you truly loved her.

maybe she was going through a heart break at that time and was not sure you were for real.

I think she has realised her mistakes.

Please give her another chance since you still love her but you have to be very careful. Talk to her and find out why she suddenly wants you back.


Btw: True Love is the only condition to redate and re-love your Ex.

Hellooooooooooooooooooo, this is aijay, ECONOMICS (OZOR'S CLASS) 2004.

I mean for entry level.

How about the communication firms like MTN, Celtel and Globacom? what's their pay like? Anyone dat knows, pls help. thanks.

@ POSTER

Please mind the way you take girls names to "pastors" because many things are happening these days.

If you want to take a wife, pray and ask God to show you whatz rite for you and he will.

The one you love may just be "acting" cos she wants to get married desperately.

Sojust keep your mind neutral and pray and God will give you answers.

about how to get rid of the other girl, you've been playing both of them, so just play your way out. Afterall you've been doing it so it's not a new thing. Good Luck.

@ poster

I totally agree with you. Once you start noticing changes in the guy's character towards you, you talk to him about it and he doesn't come up with any reason, please respect yourself and walk out of the relationship or better still, give him a break.

Don't keep waiting and expecting him to change because the more you stay there, the more the respect he has for you is diminishing (cos you'd be forcing yourself on him) especially if he doesn't want you anymore.

For me, I'l jilt him before he jilts me at least to have some respect to myself.

If he really loves me, he'd come back.

I have a very sensitive skin too.

When you go to shop for your cosmetics, read through it to find out the ones dat are HYPOALLERGENIC. They are mostly for sensitive skin

Or any one that is 100% perfume/fragrance free.

I think you should use OLAY Classic for Sensitive Skin.

It does not have any fading effects. It just mosturises and keeps your skin smooth and supple.

But it doesn't clear pimples O. but for pimples i suggest you use MARY KAY BLemish Control Toner. It really works.

Just try it out and see how it works.

@ poster

My sista you just took the question out of my mouth. I wonder wat is really happening?

There is this mad rush of girls wanting to get married at all cost. Some say they just want to change their surnames. Some want to marry cos the society expects you to be married. One begins to wonder - is that what marriage is all about?
Where is the love, the happiness, the friendship and all that constitutes a happy marriage and a happy home.

Morality has been thrown to the winds. You walk on the streets and out of 5 people that asks you out, 3 are married men. We don't seem to have married men anymore wat we have now are MARRIED BACHELORS.

It now seems that it is a norm that every married man should have girl friends outside his matrimonial home.

You begin to ask your self - how about the marital vows they took at the altar before God and man.

God have mercy O!

For me i think if you find the right person, you get married, if not, move on with your life happily.

Cheers.

Who Cheats More in a Relationship?

I'm not trying to be biased but I think it's the guys.

What do you think and why?

Cheers.

I met this guy thru my girl friend. She told me they were just friends and the guy confirmed that too. Afta a while, we started dating. But when my friend found out I was dating the guy, she felt so bad. She even told me to leave her guy alone. Even though she claimed they were just friends.

I continued asking him because I wanted to keep a clear conscience but he insisted that they had nothing going on. I even got to the extent of asking him to talk to her cos she developed this sudden coldness 2wards me, all in the name of making sure i was not trespassing.

Somehow, I have settled with my friend (we pretended as if nothing ever happened) and have parted ways with the guy.

But what bothers me now is that one day, the guy saw both of us and snobbed us (but he usually greets me when he sees me alone).

Could it be that he was actually dating her? Or did he just lie cos he wanted to have me then? Should I confront the guy and ask him why he did that?

Please send your comments. Thanks

I don't advice any girl to date a neibor cos when there's a problem in the r/ship, you may not be able to raise your head in the streets especially when your "lover" is flirting with another girl in that same area.

You'd wish you neva met him.

Talking from experience? YES!

31st of May

Abeg wetin she dey find there. what is so fantastic about the guy that keeps her rooted to that relationship.

She needs 2 be dragged out of that r/ship else she wud be telling her story from the other side.

Maybe you shd find out what she treaures most about the guy (is it money, sex whatever) and try linking her with someone better. Maybe that cud help.

Goodluck cos dis is not an easy one.

Re: Can I Trust A Girl

Hey! common you can trust a girl

That you were hurt by your girlfriend does not mean that every other girl out there is a cheat. It wud be very unfair to judge girls that way. the truth is that there are very many faithful girls out there looking for a "faithful guy" like u who wud give them his all.

So don't let an experience make a wrong judgement.

Go out there and get the girl that's right for u.