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Culture / Re: Awujale Of Ijebuland Is Not Dead, Says Palace, by Gisbourne44: 7:29am On Jul 16, 2021
Good Morning house

pls this isnt scam

I'm a masters student who needs people to carry out my survey for my course work

its a 1 page questionnaire on disaster waste management systems.

pls the link is below

i need about 200 reviews for a valid result and i have just 10 at the moment

thanks in anticipation


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Literature / Help Me Carry Out This Survey For My Msc Course Work by Gisbourne44: 7:28am On Jul 16, 2021
Good Morning house

pls this isnt scam

I'm a masters student who needs people to carry out my survey for my course work

its a 1 page questionnaire on disaster waste management systems.

pls the link is below

i need about 200 reviews for a valid result and i have just 10 at the moment

thanks in anticipation


https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfyy-emAzGqNO9aoNWuVy53-PBcyh_P4Zc7i6d6rq3ulP64ew/viewform?usp=sf_link
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With A Married Man by Gisbourne44: 8:04am On Jun 13, 2021
What I meant was in my own case I found at after investigating

I meant your even had the remorse to tell you

It makes things easier that way
Kelvin30286063:

Confessing to me has nothing to do with the guy in question. I knew something was wrong with her cuz she wasn't her self. And she confessed out of remorse not because someone wanted her to. She never had sex with him, just slept him the house and the guy lives with his parents who are pastors so don't say what you don't know.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With A Married Man by Gisbourne44: 7:29pm On Jun 12, 2021
She even confessed to you

Not like you found out

The guy probably was trying to blackmail her

Kelvin30286063:
Move on bro. People make mistakes. Just take your mind off it and move on.

Some years ago, my girlfriend (now my wife) and I had a misunderstanding. She was staying with me briefly at the time cuz she had accommodation issue. After that misunderstanding, she said she needed the money I owe her. I had to call someone I shouldn't have called (my mom) to send money to me cuz it looked like the relationship was over.
My mom came over, give me the money I requested and asked that I follow her home cuz we need to talk about my life. Lol
On getting home, I was worried about her (my girlfriend) staying alone in the house and all that.

So I called her several times to know how she's doing and try to settle the differences but she didn't answer the phone.
She later picked up the call at night and told me she had gone to Ibadan. I was like oh cool, her grandpa is at IB. We settled our differences and she came back 3 days later.

6 months later, she confessed to me that she didn't go to her grandparent's place that night, she went to her ex place.
I was devastated and felt betrayed. But guess what, I forgave her. We are happily married today and she's never been found wanting ever since.
If I had concluded so quickly and not forgive, I won't be married to this beautiful woman and have this cute little angel as mine!

What I'm trying to say is, people make mistakes! It happens, the only unforgivable mistake is a repeated one.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With A Married Man by Gisbourne44: 7:28pm On Jun 12, 2021
Her sleeping with the man twice in space of 3 days? Can that termed a repeated one?
Kelvin30286063:
Move on bro. People make mistakes. Just take your mind off it and move on.

Some years ago, my girlfriend (now my wife) and I had a misunderstanding. She was staying with me briefly at the time cuz she had accommodation issue. After that misunderstanding, she said she needed the money I owe her. I had to call someone I shouldn't have called (my mom) to send money to me cuz it looked like the relationship was over.
My mom came over, give me the money I requested and asked that I follow her home cuz we need to talk about my life. Lol
On getting home, I was worried about her (my girlfriend) staying alone in the house and all that.

So I called her several times to know how she's doing and try to settle the differences but she didn't answer the phone.
She later picked up the call at night and told me she had gone to Ibadan. I was like oh cool, her grandpa is at IB. We settled our differences and she came back 3 days later.

6 months later, she confessed to me that she didn't go to her grandparent's place that night, she went to her ex place.
I was devastated and felt betrayed. But guess what, I forgave her. We are happily married today and she's never been found wanting ever since.
If I had concluded so quickly and not forgive, I won't be married to this beautiful woman and have this cute little angel as mine!

What I'm trying to say is, people make mistakes! It happens, the only unforgivable mistake is a repeated one.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With A Married Man by Gisbourne44: 7:23pm On Jun 12, 2021
Meant last day in April
CheedyJ:
Never knew April had 31 days, we learn new things everyday sha
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With A Married Man by Gisbourne44: 2:23pm On Jun 12, 2021
BareFacedLies:
So you knew that she cheats on everyone she dates and you still went ahead and fùcked her without a condom? shocked

All these I knew while she was begging for forgiveness

So I told her to tell me and She did
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With A Married Man by Gisbourne44: 2:21pm On Jun 12, 2021
Mikester:


With all the numerous threads of the red pill on this forum, the accompanying experiences shared here and you being a nairalander with your story similar to those others posted here, I must admit to you that this your tale is simply to be condemned as a fake story.

Don't nurse any hopes of trying to convince me otherwise. Good day.

Show me similar posts pls
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With A Married Man by Gisbourne44: 2:15pm On Jun 12, 2021
baralatie:
I am seeing the need for DNA test

How did you find out the exact date she slept with the other men?

Done that already. Child is mine. Looks like me self. I saw the chat of meeting then I remembered she was absent that day. After piecing one and two together. She confessed
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With A Married Man by Gisbourne44: 12:20pm On Jun 12, 2021
Been good bro
Codezz:
This dude, how have you been.
Romance / My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With A Married Man by Gisbourne44: 7:58am On Jun 12, 2021
Hello guys.. good morning.. I met this girl in a cab, I got her contact but it took us about 3 weeks before we met and discussed. I liked her and Wanted to date her. I asked her out and she replied she was in a relationship. I said okay. She went on to further tell me that it shouldn’t matter to me that 95% of ladies are in relationships. Which is something I kinda understood too as well. Two weeks later she said she had broken up with her boyfriend. I said okay. I asked her out she said she just came out of one an not really ready to enter another. I left it at that. But after about a week we both just settled into been in a relationship because she would call and get angry that what kind of boyfriend am I that can’t call his girlfriend in the morning etc... that was how things were and we were until about two months after our dating she told me she was pregnant. I told her to keep the pregnancy(cos personally I won’t have sex without protection if I don’t have intentions to marry the person).

I told my mum about it and she was like I should prepare and do her introduction. I was preparing towards that when I found out that she cheated on me with a married man the same period she got pregnant (from calculation of the pregnancy) we slept together on the 31st of April, she slept with the said married man on the 8th and 10th of May with and without condom respectively.(the worst part was I found out myself, she didn’t tell me out of remorse)

That realization was what cancelled all plans I had for her. While we were together I give her 35k monthly because she wasn’t working(she had lost her jobs some weeks before we started seeing each other) she begged and begged that I should forgive her that it would not happen again. But to be honest I only saw tears and no remorse. Because I didn’t want her to do anything stupid that would be on me(I had gone to see her mother and we discussed before I found out she cheated) I even told the mum she cheated. I still went ahead and Moved her to my place but for The first three months the relationship wasn’t good at all. She was always crying and saying she is sorry. I most times tell her it’s okay so nothing happens to the baby not because it’s actually okay. Cos till date if I see the type of car the person she cheated with drives. I get angry as well. I wasn’t doing so badly. At least I had a car my dad gave to me to use in Abuja after he retired to his house in Lagos. Now sha she has given birth to a boy and dna confirms its mine.

Three months to the time she was to give birth

Doctors kinda adviced me that her condition wasn’t good and that she was thinking too much that I should forget any issues we have and pretend so everything goes fine when it’s time for labour. So I changed at that point for the sake of the pregnancy and her health.

But now that everything is clear. Would it be adviseable to go on and marry her?

The trust is actually not there

Cos most times she goes out I always feel she is going to see someone or she would give out her number. I always want her to be indoor. But it’s not healthy and that’s not how it’s supposed to be. I intend to train her in school for the fact that she is my baby’s mother. So that in the event that anything happens to me (unforeseen circumstances) she should be able to stand and carry on with the training of the baby)

My parents don’t even want me and her staying together (but I fear for her choices in men) let her not go and date one yahoo boy that’s would end up using my son for ritual. That’s my fear ��‍♂️��‍♂️

Her mother has told her there is only a 5% chance the relationship would work out.

Then based on her past(she has actually cheated on everyone she has dated) reasons been that most of them were stingy and she had needs. That’s why I gave her 35k monthly so she stays faithful to me. But she still cheated on me as well for money ( she kissed and had sex with the married man)

I didn’t know married men now kiss girls they meet on cash and carry basis. When she cheated, we had issues two days before she cheated(the first one) but we were talking but not much.

I’m just confused. What should I do about her pls

Can I still marry her if she says she won’t cheat again

Even if I want to marry her now it would be after I’ve observed her properly and with what has happened so far, it could take me about 2 years to decided. But that thought of me thinking how proud the man would be seein me somewhere with a chick he banged raw makes me sad
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 5:49pm On Dec 26, 2020
Gokemranonymous:



Bro I sent you a pm please reply

I think I’ve replied

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 2:06pm On Dec 19, 2020
MrSuama:
All I wanted to know was if navy continued with their screening as scheduled which @ Koes confirmed and based on that I am hopeful the list would be out soon.
The death of Gen. Irefin which led to about 26 military officers attending the COAS conference testing positive to Covid 19 most definitely affected the proposed screening. Though not sure, I believe the chairman of the selection board must have been attending the conference before its abrupt suspension.

The conference started on 7th December and was cancelled on 10th December 2020.

As at 13th December, the 417 officers who attended the conference were tested for Covid-19 and advised to self isolate. Other staff at the army hq were also tested with hq eventually being fumigated and Covid-19 guidelines strictly adhered to. Meaning activities are still going on at the army hq irrespective of the incidence.

As at 14th December 2020, 26 army personnel have been implicated in the Covid-19 pandemic.

Covid-19 self isolation period is between 10 -14 days. For the 391 officers who tested negative, they must observe the self isolation from probably 13th to 27th December 2020. For the 26 who tested positive, their recovery from Covid-19 is based on how well their immune system is fighting the virus and responding to treatment. So most of them would be discharged on a different day.

The questions that are begging for answers are:
1. Is the military secretary in charge of this recruitment amongst those self isolating or amongst those receiving treatment?
2. Is the selection board chairman amongst those self isolating or amongst those receiving treatment?
3. Is any or some members of the selection board amongst those self isolating or amongst those receiving treatment?
4. Is the military much concerned about this recruitment and putting everything in place to continue this recruitment in earnest? My answer is yes, reasons being that, with the ongoing Covid-19 pandemic it seemed like there would be no recruitment but the army still deemed it fit to enlist amidst its tight schedule. Also considering the ongoing RRI enlistment, one would find out that age requirements was relaxed to 35 years as maximum as against the 27 or 28 used in the past. This clearly signifies the need for more manpower be it officer or rank and file.

Based on all of the above, I believe commencement
of screening will most likely fall on any day between 4th to 9th January 2021. And if the military secretary and the chairman of the selection board are luckily not amongst the 26 officers presently receiving treatment, list should be out around 27th or 28th December 2020. My assumptions are based on my emotions and the army new style of short time notice as against the 2 weeks grace period given in the past.

Please lets remember the 26 officers in our prayers, it's my prayers, they recover fully.

Victory is from God Alone.

Answer to number 1

No

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 5:33pm On Dec 18, 2020
Putin007:
Abeg House,

Who among these two will salute first,
. Abayomi Gabriel Olonisakin
. Tukur Buratai

And (with clear inside information) Pls wat warranted the promotion of Abayomi over Buratai, Instead of simply retiring him and give him a political post.

Clear Answers pls.

Abayomi senior tukur

So the junior go salute

As for the appointment

It’s political

Anybody can can

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 12:07pm On Dec 18, 2020
The army dssc result na

I feel the army must have handed it over to them
Prospect048:
which result?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 10:51am On Dec 18, 2020
So as Nairaland big like this
Nobody Dey work for punch dailies way fit leak this result ?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 10:20am On Dec 18, 2020
Koes:
siko baba... read it carefully na... dey talk say "All" activities Not only SSS/DSSC even EC nd other activities.



Let us not all deceive ourself na dem know wetin dey won do as per d lekki shooting to protect d system. Navy screening is going on nw since 3days ago so which covid_19 are we talking abt nw dat make army suspended d screening... mo ya look away......

Nda cadets in training nko?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 8:03am On Dec 18, 2020
Na people like una make this recruitment exercise till further notice

officialchikzy0:
Anybody knows anything about this?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 4:07pm On Dec 16, 2020
Thank God it’s not even bitter

Mugiwaraluffy:


I know this sawaba very well. My guys trust this medicine more than any drug and it's always amazing to me. So they decided to buy for me one day just simply coz I consume a lot of sugar but I wasn't really comfortable with the medicine sha.
I'll go and buy it abeg o

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 1:10pm On Dec 16, 2020
If you have anyone in Abuja they can get it for you. If you want me to get it for you
I can also be of help
Lydiason:
Boss how can I get this mixture in Lagos, Ill really love to have one. though my name was shortlisted but I didn't go for the exam because I felt it will be a waste of time considering my medical challenge (hepatitisB) which I've talked about on this forum. if this medicine of yours is as potent as you have described then I'll be the happiest man on Earth. next year we move!

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 12:09am On Dec 14, 2020
lol
Me self na second degree

And I just roll that way
Emmyrate5:

The general! thanks for dis enlightenment. So Mr Gibourne pls can my 2nd degree flat foot be corrected??

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 9:42am On Dec 12, 2020
If it’s for the exercise

Depends on how flat it is

Some may not need correction

Emmyrate5:
I greet the House! Guys I have a question. Is it possible to correct a flatfoot.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 9:41am On Dec 12, 2020
Bifrost:


No. I'm not accusing you. The way the other Gisbourne quoted you was just strange.

Is it possible to get the herbal stuff across to Lagos. I'm just concerned, what it's made of.

All I know about it is it doesn’t have a pleasant smell

I guess that’s how all herbal stuffs are

If you want it in Lagos

If you have anyone in Abuja

The person can buy and send to you

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 5:18am On Dec 12, 2020
Bifrost:


So is he scam?

If I want to scam you would I tell you 100 naira per bottle

The bottle is equivalent to that of small coke

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 6:18pm On Dec 11, 2020
Replied you
teadrake:

Check your DM please

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 6:15pm On Dec 11, 2020
Emmyxclusive:
I do see them selling the drug all over especially in maraba and other places but I'm scared of taking it cus I don't know what it's made of. I don't have hepatitis dough but I may take it for other minor stuffs. Are u in Abuja? If so let's connect na, send me ur number emmyxclusive@gmail.com

Yeah and I stay in mpape

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by Gisbourne44: 11:47am On Dec 11, 2020
Hello guys

I’m not here to scam anybody

But while we wait

For those going for the naval interview

And for those expecting the army to shortlist them

If you know you have hepatitis B

I’m not saying what’s working for me will work for you

But you can give it a try

I attended 3 NDA interviews in the past 61rc,64rc and 65rc

I successfully completed 61rc

64rc I was dropped for flat feet

65rc I was dropped for hepatitis B

I didn’t treat

I just ignored

I went for ssc course 46 and was dropped again for hepatitis B

Last year I didn’t apply

But this year I found myself working with one general who is an engineer officer

So after showing he is ready to help me

I decided to apply for dssc this year

I have it in mind that if I get shortlisted for the interview

That I would tell him I have hepatitis B
If he wants me to proceed with the interview

Fine

And if it’s something he can’t cos most officers don’t like to involve themselves with medical related issues

Then fine I continue as a civilian

So I was passing my junction one day and I heard these guys with public address system saying they have the cure for it

So I patronized them and took what they gave me for 10 days which is the prescribed dose they said

After taking it for ten days (1 bottle costs just 100 naira)

I went for test (the same lab I usually run the test)

So when I got there, she asked me if I was taking something

I asked why

She said the thing is reducing

I now told her

She said the thing is working o however still positive

That I should continue

I took it for another 7 days

And went back for test

This time around the test came out positive but she couldn’t see it with her eyes (she had to use a magnifier)

She told me that if it’s someone who doesn’t know I have it

The person would say I’m negative

Since then I haven’t taken it cos I’m on one antibiotics drugs

So I decided to try what she said by going to other clinics to check

And the result for my test came out negative

Since what I’m preparing for has to do with the military

I now decided to go to mambilla barracks Abuja to do the test in military hospital

I told them to do it twice

They did it and it came back negative

It’s however still positive with a magnifier

But the normal eyes will see it as negative

So as soon as my antibiotic dose is completed

I will go back to taking my herbal mixture which costs 100 naira per bottle

The name of this herbal mixture is sawaba herbal

If you stay in Abuja you would heAr this a lot

The mixture however smells badly

Like shit �

But for result

I think you guys should try it
Just 100 naira per bottle

Try it and see if it will work for you

I know you guys would want proof of the negative result I got I would post it in the next post

Have a nice day guys

And for this sake

I don’t even want the result to come out anytime soon so those of us with it can buy time to get treated

I also eat sugar cane too

Heard it’s good for it as well

I decided to add sugar cane cos it’s my normal routine

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Romance / Re: Pregnant Girlfriend Cheated On Me The Same Period She Claimed I Got Her Pregnant by Gisbourne44: 4:34pm On Oct 11, 2020
karkinase:

First,how old is this your girl...

She is 20

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Romance / Re: Pregnant Girlfriend Cheated On Me The Same Period She Claimed I Got Her Pregnant by Gisbourne44: 12:21pm On Oct 11, 2020
Uzomacharles:
So you plan to marry this girl?

if yes,then you're not a man

You think being a man is only taking care of a girl when you can't take decision..

I no see were you take serious decision for this writeup

I don’t even know how I manage to like her a lot

Sometimes I tell her if she is using juju
That the day it would fail

It would be a bad ending for her

I really liked her

The things she told me about her past I didnt say any here because she told me willingly so it was easy to move past them

The one bothering me are those she didn’t tell which I found out and she later owned up that they were true (after several lies and denial)

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Romance / Re: Pregnant Girlfriend Cheated On Me The Same Period She Claimed I Got Her Pregnant by Gisbourne44: 12:17pm On Oct 11, 2020
topcatking:
Don't be an idiot.

You support her, yet she had raw s.Ex with some guy for 5K!

5 bleeping K ! I mean...

and you are here asking for advice?

Use your mind, G.



Md- stay away from her, support her with cash (if you will). Baby comes, do a DNA test, if it's yours. Collect your child and leave the babe. She's not mentally, emotionally and physically ready for whatever you want with her. Anything asides these, you will keep regretting.

She said they used condom
What baffled me with this was she said even after the did it

That when she got home, she drank agbo and even took postinor 2 the following day

That was another confusing statement because I don’t see why you would take agbo and postinor if you had protected sex with someone

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Romance / Pregnant Girlfriend Cheated On Me The Same Period She Claimed I Got Her Pregnant by Gisbourne44: 11:50am On Oct 11, 2020
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigeria Customs Recruitment 2019. How To Apply. 3,200 Officers To Be Recruited by Gisbourne44: 5:51pm On Mar 17, 2020
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Uspic:
Will "argument" stop them from announcing the next stage?

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