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RomanceRe: Ladies Do You Also Have This Mindset? by glloomy(m): 4:07am On Mar 30, 2016
unapapadeycraze:
I don't think all women want sex, sex for women is directly related to emotions. So we cannot assume that all women want sex in privacy. Unlike men who have only two trigger buttons on/off. But it's not the case with women without intimacy 90 percent of women will avoid sex as far as i know friends
FamilyRe: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by glloomy(m): 4:04am On Mar 30, 2016
[quote author=MsGlobalwonder post=44236009][/quote]Talk to her and discuss the issue politely without getting angry. Anger kills make her feel she is important to you and find out the problem to fix it. Unless you identify the problem you cannot create the required intimacy for sex and love for you in her heart and mind.

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RomanceRe: How Does One Politely Turn Down A Crush From A Female ? by glloomy(m): 3:52pm On Nov 09, 2015
dont worry wait for the right time be patient god must have written the best love story for you so dont worry
RomanceRe: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by glloomy(m): 5:49am On Oct 29, 2015
nice thought
RomanceRe: There Is Nothing Like "True Love" by glloomy(m): 6:58pm On Oct 18, 2015
What makes a man fall in love

Well I believe love is a very unique feeling which is common to all men and women, but it has its own variations for both the genders. The emotions are same but the roadmap for achieving it is different for both men and women. Each has to go through different stages and adventure. It is very important for a women to know What makes a man fall in love. It is true men always like bad girls, but in the end it’s the good girl who wins their heart and fall in love to make a happy living forever. This post will help any woman who is attracted to a man she wants to be with and make him fall in love.
1. Appearance
For men it’s all about how is your physical appearance ( note not for every men) but in most of the cases it matters a lot. It is a source of instant attraction. Men have a hormone called testosterone they get attracted to a women only for their physical appearance initially. It matters a lot to them, He might not even know what qualities in that woman he likes, but if they find her external appearance attractive they might fall in love.

2. Gain attention
A good fragrance really attracts men, they like the smell of a woman they are attracted to. Whenever you meet up make sure the fragrance of your perfume keeps him engaged, they will not admit but will notice the smell and when you leave give a quick shot of your perfume on his shirt or car dash. It is something that will gain his attention later when you are gone it will make him think of you more and more driving him wild enough to fall in love.

3. Forgiving
Anger is a very close friend of most of the men and they can sometimes turn very cruel and speak harsh words in moments of anger, which can hurt your feelings and turn you off. But they wish to be with a woman who forgive them even if they have done the worst possible things to her. A good woman is the one who is willing to love you even though you have done wrong to her. She is kind enough to handle your anger without getting irritated, though you are rude to her she doesn’t mind and prays for you to have a better living and hopefully change your angry attitude to have a good future. This things makes them realize their mistakes and gives a chance to resolve the situations instead of falling into unending debates which leads to nowhere.

4. Loyal
Every men wants to be with a woman who is loyal to him. A woman who is pure hearted and loyal will stay with you forever no matter how worse the situation gets. Life is full of mystery you don’t know what the future holds, every day cannot be a happy day, circumstance can be good or bad, and if it’s bad it won’t be possible for you to maintain the same level of confidence, sex drive and intimacy in your love. There will be days when circumstances will not be in your control, at that point of time a good woman will always resist her feeling and temptations to support you. This are some of the things What makes a man fall in love with a woman.

5. Good listener
Men always prefer a woman who listens to their thoughts, connects with their feelings and emotions. A good woman is the one who understands every bit of your heart, listens to you and allows you to speak without interrupting even though you are wrong, One who gives you a good advice and doesn’t fake you with false guidance. One who is from a different world than yours, she does not pretend to be good, makes you comfortable and cares for you. She constantly makes efforts to improve you in every aspects of life by giving right kind of advice to achieve your goals, more importantly she encourages you to be a better person.

A full package is What makes a man fall in love. Men are attracted to lot of women that doesn’t mean he is in love. It only shows that there are some qualities about you that makes him pursue you. If you ever want to win a man’s heart make him want you by following the above steps. But in the real world the good girl is hard to find and if you luckily found her don’t treat her badly, don’t take advantage of her innocence be nice to her, respect her emotions. For me it’s a matter of concern all those women who has been treated badly, ignored, lost their existence. I know good women still exist and they have the power to make any men fall in love with them, It’s just the men who needs to respect and love them to keep their existence.

I hope you guys found the post on What makes a man fall in love useful. If you liked it please share and comment below.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is HIV/AIDS Positive What Do I Do? by glloomy(m): 5:42am On Oct 14, 2015
It is very unfortunate to hear that Gf is HIV positive, But i believe that you should not leave her right now, she is also a human she needs your support at this point of time you need to console her, but make sure you are not in any sexual relationship with her coz it wil ruin u too love her help her and take your time dont directly leave her wait and watch how things go ahead and than arrive at a suitable decision but make sure no sex tc GODBLESS
RomanceRe: How To Politely Ask For Sex without sounding rude or funny by glloomy(m): 5:51pm On Oct 12, 2015
Listen my friend sex is not a joke first part is to make a gal comfortable with you let her trust you let her develop her feelings for you let her fall 4u how is this possible with your behaviour and your real love, Sex is equally important as it builds and boosts a relationship to another stage, But make her comfortable you will yourself understand whether she is convinced or not u dont have to ask it will happen still if you want to ask dont ask directly just praise her about her hairs, lips smile dont praise her private body parts as this can misguide her, slowly steadily things will turn in your favour ask for a small kiss first if she agrees slowly go ahead but not forcefully keep her happy u will ultimately win her love be like a man win her trust sex is enjoyable more wen a gal is mad in love with u and she trust u than sex is passionate try this out its a slow process but surely will lead to success and dont rush give some time tc godbless
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Need A Real Man! :'( by glloomy(m): 5:42pm On Oct 12, 2015
well my friend you cannot ask someone to PM you to fall in love. It is spontaneous when your time will come it will happen eventually. at this point of time you need to control your emotions have fun with friends dont search for love in general dont search for a guy i mean to say it will come to you at the right time. just relax and learn from your mistakes or rather from your ex bfs mistakes and behaviour what went wrong between you both. Try to move in the right direction just a general advice correct me if i am wrong tc Godbless
RomanceRe: Seriously In Need Of Your Help Please.. by glloomy(m): 9:17am On Oct 12, 2015
I think he should not run away with that girl to be fair the girl should have ran away before she got married now her decision will ruin everyone in the family which is not a good idea for anyone, she will not only betray her husband, but also her father mother and the son. She might get succees in it but after sometime she will regret on her decision so to be wise its good not to run and try to sought out things positively and understand that love is sacrifice her husband loves her so better concentrate on family whatevr happened was past now dont ruin the future. or else all will regret
RomanceRe: Ten Ways Guys Frustrate The Life Of Virgin Girls..... by glloomy(m): 4:36pm On Oct 11, 2015
hmm
Omotayor123:
I know!
CelebritiesRe: Can I Have S*x During My Periods? (only Educative Comments Pls) by glloomy(m): 5:51pm On Oct 10, 2015
myafronews:
[img]http://3.bp..com/-CydwvQeXSxc/VhjTmP36FGI/AAAAAAAAISU/lGdIAMiCSpw/s1600/A23.png[/img]

Absolutely. The myth that it’s dangerous or forbidden for women to have sex during menstruation originates from earlier times, when a woman’s menstrual blood was
accorded all sorts of powers.

Some religions still forbid sexual contact (or contact of any kind) during menstruation, since the blood is seen as impure, among other reasons. Scientifically, however, there is no reason not to have sex during your period — and several good reasons to do so!

Reason number one is that orgasms are a natural painkiller. They cause the body to release endorphins and help to relieve muscle tension, making them an excellent treatment for cramps. Other typical period symptoms such as mild depression or irritability can be helped by orgasm too, since you get a feel-good boost from the endorphins as well as a general sense of relaxation. In addition, many women crave sex when they are menstruating, due to increased feelings of fullness in the pelvic and genital areas.

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Yes you are right but i believe sex during menstrual phase should be avoided for the first 2 or 3 days in the later days it can be enjoying for both correct me if i am wrong
RomanceRe: Ten Ways Guys Frustrate The Life Of Virgin Girls..... by glloomy(m): 5:48pm On Oct 10, 2015
Omotayor123:
This is to counter my boo tosyne2much thread.
Lemme keep the ball rolling grin

1. They tag her a liar - 99% of guys will not readily believe a mature lady is a virgin. Tell her guy you are a Virgin and he would be like "Do I look like Sanyeri"

2. They want to be the one to deflower you - Guys believes a girl will never be able to forget the guy who deflower her. Once they know you are a Virgin, they try everything to get under your skirt.

3. They call her names - Guys will not hesitate to give you names like Virgin Mary, holy Maria, iya Jesu And all.

4. They ask for "Just The Tip" - I read on NSG blog about a guy asking her to allow him put just the tip even after hearing she's a virgin. Some guys will say "I'm not trying to sex you, Just Romance" If I hear undecided

5. They Offer you large Amount of money - Yes, just so they know you are a Virgin, They ask you to give them your virginity in exchange for money.

6. They Isolate You - Guys Isolate virgin ladies because they believe she has nothing to offer. Smh!

7. They tell you love making is a proof of love - Guys will tell you they can only believe you love them if you allow them under your skirt. Abegi embarassed

8* They will threaten to break up with you - They will tell you they can't continue a relationship with you if you won't allow them sex.

9. They Plan to kidnap and gang rape you - As crazy as this may sound, some guys indulge in it. They will defend this act by claiming they are trying to prove she's telling the truth. Chai , virgin girls don suffer.

10. Abeg add yours, I don try grin

Cc. Lalasticlala my sweerie. Who killed ithuh cheesy
Source : Omotayor123
This is not the case if every guy my friend every guy is different it depends from person to person
RomanceRe: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by glloomy(m): 5:22pm On Oct 06, 2015
Being childish is fine but at the same time be carefull too don't go into wrong hands or else they will take advantage of you. so be safe and enjoy but know your limits
RomanceRe: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by glloomy(m): 5:21pm On Oct 06, 2015
first you need to be clear in what you want and expect from your relationship. Its very important to know the road were u are walking. Its upto you judge where you stand.Love cannot be forced
RomanceRe: Kisses Are They Allowed In Premarital Relationship. by glloomy(m): 5:47pm On Sep 30, 2015
RomanceRe: . by glloomy(m): 5:44pm On Sep 29, 2015
My friend don't fall for anyone who is not worth your love it is very important not to rush into love first analyse for sometime than take your decision at this point of time u need a break let your mind be stable and than try to move on with fresh mindset things will be stable. Learn from the mistakes of the past there is no harm in making mistakes we all do but do not repeat them be wise in choosing someone and dont rush tc God bless and if you wana learn about love and relationship visit my website www.lovefindsitsway.com
RomanceRe: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by glloomy(m): 3:45am On Sep 29, 2015
yes of course my friend but don't rush into it love is a beautiful feeling and it is totally natural don't force yourself to be in love just because you are 16 now doesn't mean you need to have a bf take your time choose the right guy to maintain the balance of love tc and if you wish to know about love you can visit my website www.lovefindsitsway.com i am sure you ll find useful information on love

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