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In a month! Are you guys in the same Naija?

Rubyjade:
Live happily without working keh🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's house rent, fueling (car & gen) and utility bill (Band A) that will consume all those money in a month.
Nigeria economy is shabby and he should consider a lot of things too. He can still be managing UK because there is still hope there. while he invest in Nigeria wisely, he can now come back in his 50's he will then have something to back himself up, he just need to be investment wise. Uk system still work compare to Nigeria system
As for me I earn 250k and am trying to survive. You better stay back and live happily there. You can travel down to Nigeria for vacation though

Bull and a whole truckload of it. Shes his choice, if e pain you go marry your own spec wey go fine pass u

Hankulu:
Kante is finer than the woman.

not a single pic ah ah

This

GboyegaD:
Both the parents and the guardians need be jailed. This is the extreme of child abuse.

Who dey video them and why? If its the couple what kind of satisfaction do they derive from this public exhibition of shame?

Not every man is a prize. Even if she lost the clown, she gained her life and her sanity....

Wealthoptulent:
na IGBELE na, she was in the MERCY LAND, abe abo! werin concern POLICE, the MAN MUST have GHHEARD from GOD.

now that she involved police in a CIVIL MATTER, she has not jus LOST the HOUSE, LOST HOME and HUBS.

we dont go to COURT and come back to continue friendship

You guys sef, what is so manageable about gambling tori Olorun

@ op - Have you reached breaking point? Only you can respond. Just dont put yourself in a position where pent up anger and frustration will make you resort to violence cos in my mind youre the only functioning parent, your children have.

Procashtips:
This is even more confusing. I don't understand.

If it's gambling, then it's manageable.

First, do you guys have who he respects?

If yes, threaten to report him to the person

Secondly, have a heart to heart discussion with him but you must be ready to work with him... Let him open up completely.

Then both of you be ready to move into action.

Question though, seems you also have nothing doing if it's your brother that's paying all the bills.

Since you don't have same addiction, why are you not making money?

so who videoed the fight and who's narrating the story

How about her exposure to STIs? How she wan handle that one?

frozen70:
I think the way to go is to forget about the idea of packing out

Stay there so far he hasn't chased you out

Secondly he is living a flirting life and there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop him until he is tired of such

Lastly, you have to over look that thing he does that breaks your heart
Just assume he has a mistress, obtain anything you can obtain from him through your children to start saving incase he finally leaves you for that other woman

So many women in marriage are enduring shits

Take charge of your emotions and take care of your children

Do NOT give him. Get legal protection

Oh my God. He sounds horrible tbh but im more surprised by your siblings cos i'll have expected them to call him out on his bull or at least stand up for you.

However, you own your future and should take ownership for your happiness. If he refuses to own his shit like beating up a pregnant woman and blames an innocent unborn baby, thats his loss, walahhi and you have to decide to survive him and thrive.

Cos you say hes diabolical, u need to give your life to Christ and live holy. Break all curses and I typically recommend attending a Deliverance Session at MFM. Focus on your self improvement. The best revenge will always be success!

L1TTLE:
biological, he once told me that before I was born he hated me, I didn't understand how you could hate an unborn child so I asked my mom what he meant and she said her pregnancy with me was one of the most difficult times she experienced as they was so much challenge back then, he used to beat her up even though she was pregnant, until I grew up and he saw I'm now capable of beating him up as well so he stopped using her as a punching bag, so it didn't start today, but yes he's my biological dad.

Is he your biological dad or step dad?

Man squanders resources on drink, woman follow suit, who will feed the kids? school them?

Drink IRRESPONSIBLY

illicit:
If to say d woman too dey drink, stress for no kill am...

Why do u think people drink
The man wey dey drink dey fall inside gutter and he no die nah...

Drink Responsibly

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@op - which version of whatsapp status enables people to view responses sotay dem dey even count the views

Where is this supposed to be

There is more to marriage than this extreme focus on erections and body type. I say so firstly because body types change. Personally, I'd do anything to be skinny again. Your wife may add weight after 2more kids. Also, her lack of physical attractiveness may not be unconnected to the lack of an emotional bond between the two of you. Try to sheathe your sword, look for things to laugh about and practice random acts of kindness....

BlindAngel:
Thank you, leaving her won't be easy but I will fight tooth and nail for this to become a reality. I haven't been happy ever since I got married, not even one day of love, laughter and happiness.

Always sad, I love sleeping alone in the other room than sleeping on same bed with her, I love cuddling but barely touch her whenever I sleep on same bed with her, the marriage is also sex less. I barely get an erection starring at her totally naked body, but would get an instant and strong erection while driving and seeing my spec of a lady on bike or walking along the road.

She was fair and rubbing cream to be fairer, u still pursue am. She slim, she still born for you. then u go on to tell her body type is not sweet, abeg ur wife aint perfect but you get your own for body....

I'd be too terrified of me being dropped and the potential impacts on the baby to pull that stunt

I wouldnt even dress my baby girl this way!

they were paid for this, walahhi

NSPPD on 7 am. Type Pastor Jerry Eze on youtube or MFM Prayer City for deliverance.

on the practical side, pay your tithes, live a righteous life, save at least 30% of your income, use a savings account and live within your means.

I'm not a retard. Hopefully, this format pays off for you, unku wey wan marry Plateau Igbo ....

Fenrir:
Send a private message and do a video call or stop calling me Nigerian you retard

Knew you were a phony. What do you gain from trolling?

Fenrir:
Why? When my white uncircumcised, fully tattooed and pierced gbola fills her perfectly

BEST WISHES IN ADVANCE TO YOU AND YOUR MISSUS

Fenrir:
We have an agreement, my is daughter 6 so can switch from original flavour Christian to the fizzy Catholic flavour and attend with the Mrs. that gives me 3 hours a week to listen to Norwegian metal which they both hate then i rock up to the church to collect them, simple and perfect with me just one thing bothers her

That i know her bible better then her priest yet i dont believe a word of it

Yeah, its fine honestly. Religion imo is personal and should not be imposed really. So far you and your fiance are on the same wavelength, it should not be much of a deal. Look out for kindness,
tolerance and anger mgt.

Fenrir:
Im Scandinavian not Nigerian and im marrying an igbo catholic, do you think anything is more important to me then her and my daughter? Scandinavians are the most tolerant and equal people in the world, yes we see Islam as threat but thats Islam not Muslims we mean the extremists like isis the kind that spout hate speech, the kind that are taking over the uk at moment and want to kill jews

That works for you cos you are not a fanatic. (Un)fortunately depending on your POV, I'm a fanatic! I only pray in the name of Jesus and compel my household to do so, not sure I can cope with an atheist spouse.

As I said, your tolerance levels is proportional to how core a value is to your personality. Hope this helps!

Fenrir:
What about an atheist? We will fight for your right to follow whatever religion you choose, the same cannot be said for religious people?

A good and supportive man is always a good supportive man godly or godless, all couples need healthy time apart so church could just be your thing and ill give you an example

I am an atheist but my 6 year old daughter is christian and i drive her to church with a nanny, give my daughter a kiss on the cheek and say see you later kjaere then i either wait in the car and listen to music until shes done or go for a coffee and collect her after because she asked for that

Respect and support are what matter not participation

wetin your boy do?

Ringstonermasks:
d idiots that beat nd bullied my boy nd was nearly beaten to death. I don't need police to handle this, i don't even need any soldier to handle it, since she can't handle it, we are done.

I will snap d boy's pictures @d hospital tomorrow

Different Teams with respect to stuff that dont touch your core values, super . Who cares if youre on a different football team, beauty competition or even chess game? I definitely wont choose a partner whose values are not aligned with mine, like you support stuff I feel strongly about like tribalism, corruption etc so I guess that covers politics. IMO, a spouse with a different religion is a recipe for disaster unless at least one party is pretty laid back about his/her religion and even at that the over zealous one may pressure the complacent one into becoming more fiery.