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He brought it online

leisuretym:
You have already ruin his image online, it's a big scandal, all his online competitors have employed hatchet men to finish him, the man you depend to give you everything and you want to bring him down, by the time you do, be happy, be very very happy

Yen yen yen. Most likely the incoming wife was fetish too or u think it's normal to marry a woman advertising herself on Twitter instead of just having a fling with her. The wife was desperate and desperate times call for desperate measures. Her desperation in itself was fueled by her husband's insensitivity.

I definitely will have dumped his sorry ass but every Mallam to his own kettle.

PrinceofAgoAre:
what exactly is your problem with all this ..


She went fetish.. why Should she do that ..

She already knew she married a Muslim and with time he'd be bringing in a second wife ..
.he compensated her with all that gift in which she accepted why does she still wants to ruin his life by going fetish .. if she wasn't comfortable with the whole setup she could have asked for a divorce ..

She definitely deserves that beating for going fetish which is even suppose to be against her religion ..

Some men can be so naive. Pretty sure she was the greedy one, not the first wife.

Would have loved to see her pic

Ensa777:
Polygamous ke? The woman has left and Twitter descended on the lady he was to marry.She was always advertising herself on twitter and saying how she can even be a 2nd wife on every rich man's post.well her net caught Jarus .

I for bring her pic but she deactivated quickly.

Lucky!!!

TheSuperX:
Okay let's say he flirted, but I doubt if he'd slept with her. JARUS is a Muslim and he knows what is good and bad in Islam.

My problem is with the wife not agreeing to his wants/demands, she's so greedy that she wants everything for herself. she's lucky some Muslim men won't even inform their wife before they marry second wife.

U can't make up stuff like this. A wife of 14 years is too greedy because she doesn't want her husband to marry a new wife

TheSuperX:
Let him marry another wife if he can cater for her, the woman is just being too greedy, she just want all the attention and money for herself.

The financial implication of divorce is wat makes us so uncomfortable with it and of course the social stigma....

cococandy:
What if she divorces him first?

One can only stipulate though. We don’t really know what any of them are going to do

I wish my Nigerian sisters would get more comfortable with divorce. They would be spared A lot of the BS they tolerate

Oh my God. Stop wishing people evil and calling God.

Pastorjohn2:
I pity davido marriage and his unborn children with chioma.

The God I serve can NEVER honour a marriage of Pre martial sex and adultery. It is written in the Bible, Any marriage without God's blessing is a cursed marriage honoured by a false prophet.
This marriage will end in sorrow!

N6m

So nce deserves 30k

Sapasenator:
How old are you Victor and what is the level of your education? Do you have any marketable skills or are you able to learn? Do you know beyond a certain age, you become your own background and your parents cease to be your background?

Your parent is paid less than 30k because that is what they deserve based on the level of their skills. It is the way things work in the real world, my friend. The way to solve your problems is not to pray or complain about them all the time, you will have to change your mindset and learn a tangible skill.

Does the 700k cover the fees? If not, I'm flabbergasted cos you no even get a car. In my honest opinion, slash the money by 2 cos wetin? A bag of rice is 80k for heaven's sake so the only thing I can see again is fuelling cost so if possible let em all attend the same school. Sending wishes of wisdom and loads of it across

Ndi social media like love and some insecure partner will be there comparing a great relationship with this social media pipo

Nemesis0147:
Bomb Facebook ke😂😂
You guys were clearly not ready for this marriage 😂

Doubt that he created this thread for that. I think he's venting....

cococandy:
This literally the reason why OP created this thread. So he’ll have people come join him and tell men not to be good husbands and fathers.

On Father’s Day for that matter.

Make una rest small. At least for today.

immortalcrown:
This generation!

Na the company owner I pity.

Extremely funny

Tonytonex:
chai! This funny actor. It's well.

8 years na your mate?

humilitypays:
Hahahaha


I said he should be nearing or over 70, so I am still right if he is 62

All your long epistle started with a statement thats not true. The writer said the deceased was 62, they still wrote he was born in 1962 but you no gree. You must dash am 70

humilitypays:
He should be near or above 70yrs.

You need help and loads of it. How you can think its ok to pay a faithful woman by doubting her integrity makes me certain that you are a dubious one...

Notfogotten:
A faithful woman will never see anything wrong in having a DNA test.

At least, the woman is not going to turn around to domineeringly control the woman while trying to assert himself as the head of the home.

My dear, no need to confront the single woman cos the cheating guy will have a replacement in a heartbeat while consoling himself with , something must kill a man.

TheWinterBird:
I was going to say you should go to the single mother and tell her to leave your husband alone. She must be very shameless, having an affair with another woman's husband. That said, you've no business with her and your wedding vows were exchanged with your husband and not her, therefore it's your husband you need to confront but if he's a chronic cheater and shameless cheater himself and refuses to stop, there's nothing you can do in that regard. You should, however, stop giving him money, as he's most likely giving her the money you're giving him, smdh. Don't give him a dime of your money, and further report him to everyone in your family and his so they all know what's going on.

By being passive aggressive. When 2 toxic people meet, the lesser toxic one must bow. Improve the quality of your work, study your opponent and decipher their weak points and use it Wisely while being nice about it. This only counts if you're at your dream job, otherwise first step should be to aggressively look for a new job.

How do you wash the inner part of this fish without it disintegrating

Just negodu the illiterate...
In his weird world, children only look like their mothers when there's an affair involved....

Ulunne777:
Oga,forget that cheating thought.You cheated and now suspecting your last child looks like his cousin because you think your wife was doing the same thing you werr doing.
My 1st son and my sis 2nd son could pass for twins。
Same age,same names,same face.
It is blood .
HOW WAS I EVEN ABLE TO RRAD THIS EPISTLE

You the Born again Christian cheated but your wife's child is not permitted to look like her first cousin, a relative by blood. So your narrow minded brain can't comprehend that children are also allowed to look like their mothers, so your child can't look like her mum, while the sis in laws child looks like his/her mum, explaining the resemblance.

Look, your lifestyle / your guilt are fueling your suspicions and maybe your biased mum! What a mess....

Forget ibo girls and work on your grammar! Can't believe you are a graduate

Do you by any Chance mean disaster?

reiddecuti:
Sylva is one destater not only to Bayelsa but to Nigeria. He should go rest because he has nothing to to offer to Bayelsan.

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. I truly feel your husband could be doing more in the situation particularly with helping out at home but let's assume he's depressed. Now, why do you feel hes reluctant about getting a new job? Cos Nigeria is not really swimming with jobs. You need to get family involved and try to be emotionally composed if you intend to stay married cos he's always gonna paint himself as a victim once you overreact. Can he drive uber? Are there hustling jobs you can point him in the direction of? In all, the safety of you and the children whose paternity hes contesting come first. God blessss

Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him

The one pouncing on his overworked wife is 'endangered species'? I hear you, I really do.

TINUBUISMAD:
Men are endangered species

Men's life matter

Less than a month ago you were undecided on if your mum or your boyfriend should stay with you. ( https://www.nairaland.com/7773338/should-let-live-me-mother).
Now Now you Don get husband wey I'm brother dey advance towards. Since na only you waka with all this plenti tales by moonlight, I wantu confirm if you're paid for storytelling by Nairaland

Shes not ibo. If you listened carefully, she said people from her local government are usually known for kidnapping so are kidnappers honest?

001Lagos:
Igbos are honest people so I'm not surprised

Congrats to Ngozi Mary and thank you for making the Igbo nation proud

Daalu