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Who goes to an aristo's house while on her period

What did u use to thicken the soup

sonssyo:
I made this pot of soup onto Sapa level, make the bashing no plenty abeg,nah naija we dey like this.

The outcome be this...

Come and join me..

How is she sure it’s the five year old househelp (whatever that means :-) and not her own children?

A date or business meeting?

Dem nor reach...

My dear if you believe this story book, then we might as well believe that pigs can fly....

@op, abeg make una dey proof read una story for credibility before posting. Na beg i beg

mariahAngel:
She's cheating and she had the mind to call YOUR dad? Something does not add up.

Also, why would you think (there's even a chance) your dad will believe her words over yours, if you're so sure she cheated? (As you stated "I have no idea what she's told them" )

A baby not walking at 18 months is a nightmare for every parent. Apart from seeing a peadetrician, here are a few suggestions I have:

1. Quit carrying the child. Encourage floor time

2. Avoid putting your baby in a rocker. Here's a link to the type of rocker I mean at this age (https://monmartt.com/product/7155/infant-to-toddler-ro) . This will make the child's muscles develop strength.

3. Construct a local walker if u can ( https://reviews.momjunction.com/smile-pick-wooden-baby-walker/). A local carpenter can help with that and make sure the child exercises 3ce daily for about 15 mins.

4. If all else fails, ask to be referred to a physiotherapist that has experience working with children.

5. Above all, pray like mad.

How does she carry church on her head

Im sure she doesn't want you back as well but that's besides the point as you have literally fulfilled your purpose for meeting her.

On to the next victim...

Well in this instance I blame the rich relative. Like did he put any effort into determining the root cause for the constant demand for cash? Gambling? Hard drugs? Side chics?

The Bible says if you have not been faithful in little, how then can you be faithful in much? He has not improved himself with handouts and you enabled his financial indiscipline by giving him more funds! I Kent believe it.

Next time, make the clown develop a business plan. Get necessary skills to run the business like an internship and let him start small. Make im dey invest the profit for im business first.

Why must she endure for heaven's sake Let her go for cleansing from those rites, get her life back n move on!!

pocohantas:
Regina some of us warned you.
They said we are jealous old cargos.
I knew that marriage has k-leg, but I never expected DV. I believe your mum was aware, but asked you to endure because of the money she is getting.

It is so sad a beautiful young girl subjected herself to this. Look at how he even married you inside shrine. Ladies married to average men got a better wedding. But you were married opposite agbara.

Your mother failed you.

Please endure and work it out with him.

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Bianca on point as usual. N the tory bag so lovely

Such a beautiful lady. So sad she has to spend the rest of her life in jail xxxxx

Basic reason why I judge no one cos WTH! I'll always recommend honesty to yourself, self awareness - have I reached my limits? do I need a break? Coping mechanisms, prayer and counselling.

Chimamanda is not married to a white man

[Qquote author=Nonexisting1 post=136544355]The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.[/quote]

Cant the child look like the mum, grandparents or other close relatives? Must the child look like you? In instances like this, I truly wish babies can sue esp for invasion of privacy....

His ears look dark. He will most likely be dark in a couple of months

What area?

Ladiesdoctor:
Too expensive jare

With 250k you can get this in my area

You no put picture to complete the tales by moonlight...

why the mannequin no get hand bikonu? If the guy is in the abroad, why not gather funds to buy a complete mannequin

laughs in abomination.

My own be say why no kuku compose the fake story without the fake pic and even more silly explanation? Does the pic look like a woman in the village in her 40s

2mch:
Abomination for you to visit. Abomination for your younger siblings to move in with her. Which village are you from? I seriously doubt your story. So for 6yrs, your mother just sat in her fathers house doing nothing, after having kids and being widowed?

Mine will be shouting Jesus as if its going out of fashion

Ishilove:
My mother will react more than this 😁

Its not just about money. I cant imagine being in love with a man that prioritises fun over his well being and there are several men that do this. At the very minimum, I expect common sense from a LIFE partner cos Im offering the same....

All some men want is a woman begging them to eat their meals, to be faithful and stay away from STIs, to save, to eat healthy and to pray for them otherwise your wife material no go reach. What they are however failing to recognise is that women are capable of falling out of love. By the time a woman keeps begging her spouse to pay school fees when he has the means, ultimately her love for him ebbs away and then you want to compare her as being less than your mum. What a mess

franchasng:
One came for the money oh, the other is there for the blood



That your wife wouldn't have married you if you didn't have some things and qualities she needed in a man. She chose you out of hundreds of men cos you have the things she want, so stop feeling too special lol

All romantic love is conditional, meaning if the conditions that made you to fall in love with the person you claim to love seizes to exist, your love for that person stops too, that's why romantic love is a fallacy. True love have no condition, you love for no reason and no man or woman will sincerely say they love another for no reason, na lie.


That's why I tell people that there is nothing like true love, every romantic love is based on a reason or condition. The only true love that exist is the love between a mother and her child, and that between some fathers and their child too. Every other love is transactional; you bring this, I bring that, we pretend to be in love just because of what the other person have that we need or like lol

Guy, what do you mean you are not an extravagant spender after chopping N20m? With respect to the wife, you married bad market. Why cant she buy salt? why must her friends say that you are pushing her outside? why cant she teach in a school? find online work? I suggest she finds work so she learns to appreciate your efforts....

Well for your marriage, if theres no violence involved, you shouldnt give up on your marriage afterall you saw her bad side n opted for her cos shes your spec. Shudders cos whys she comparing the things you bought in courtship to what you are spending now Please retrain her. Find out what interests her - cooking and then engage her in culinary school; fashion design etc. Also try marrriage counselling.... and report her less to your family, unless you have to.

Whatever rocks your boat sweetie...

Kobojunkie:
The child is not a bad thing. Children with disabilities are not bad children; they are human beings with freedoms, rights and desires much the same as you. This isn't whitewashing but an attempt to have you see beyond your particular issues with that which you don't understand.

unfortunate but not the end of the world... make she japa too

Well, it is a bad thing for a child to have special needs. In some instances, its considered a disability so please stop with your usual model of whitewashing the truth. More importantly, this particular child does not have special needs.

@ op, you should be glad your child is not interested in screen time. Read to him, give him blocks to play with and encourage play time in a creche or day care. It shall never end the way the devil planned it....

Kobojunkie:
. Being a special child is not a bad or terrible thing. Most of the geniuses you know of today, and many of those who rule the world you live in, were special as children. But many of their inventions, you and I can barely do without today. So, let's stop with this mess of the way we see these things, abeg.

na wa o. Hes not special IJN

79lauya:
Special child. Is a tricky situation. He has a talent that need supervision, but need to allow him space to express himself. You can free most of the time if the actions wont negatively affect him. But control him where there are risks.

What of the cooking directions?

So what do you suggest?

spice123:
If you're a Christian Op read Mathew 19: 3-9.
It said it all. A cheating partner is a cheating partner. Cheating does not happen like magic.
1. There must be an attraction to the individual who desires to cheat.
2. There must be a decisive thought to commit it.
3. There must be a location or permission to do the act.
It must have been thought through before the act is being committed. You can forgive a cheating partner but know this, it's a matter of time. It will repeat again. Sexual sin has a very strong spiritual tie especially for the married ones.

It's pathetic that even though Bianca is an authority figure in her own right, umahi thinks it's normal to touch her waist and this doesn't seem like a coincidence.

My own is that if women like Bianca who was called a slut the other day, the nddc lady and maybe even natasha get touched arbitrarily and in public too, what is the hope of a house girl, a cleaner or even tea girl So next time, be sure not to shame the accused cos they may just be victims....