Read fiction especially to introduce new material into your mind.
Having no purpose is a mind killer. Having low vibration thoughts running through your mind on a loop is the very definition of hell.
lalalista: I wake up each morning with sadness. My life has no bearing. I begin to question myself that what is my purpose in this life. Waking up in the morning and not having where to go. No job, no business, no husband. Ever since I lost my job 6 months ago it has been like this. I was able to save some little change from my previous job. I live in a comfortable apartment. Feeding is not my problem. I have everything I need. There's always light, pay TV is subscribed, refrigerator stocked with food, I have a loving and caring fiance but I still feel empty. I think of starting a business but I'm scared it might not be a success because of the Nigerian economy, this is not a time to loose any funds. I feel so empty. I don't even have friends here . All my friends traveled out of the country. I feel so empty. I'm not even interested in myself any more. I can't remember when last I did shopping for myself. I've not made my hair for 3 months. Staying indoors daily is killing me and I don't even know what to do about it. As each new day starts I don't even have direction of how the day will be. I feel so unproductive. I've been applying and the job isn't forth coming. I just feel like pouring out my heart here
We have just finished cleaning the house, and we agreed to cook together. No one cooks better than her, while I am the world's best dishwasher.
It was my birthday and since there was not much money at hand, I decided to suspend it until some other time.
My sweet baby then told me we should get some juice from the nearby store.
Evelyn has the sēxiest legs. I love it when she flaunts it around the house. Her backside is my weakest point.
She puts on a bump short with a spag. While I put on the usual gym-top and shorts. I just love to flex some muscle around to tell some guys that the six-pack you want to entice my wife with is plenty at home.
We are two playful couples, and we do that shamelessly anywhere. We were just behaving like a newfound love.
Suddenly, a brand-new Mercedes bypassed us.
“Babe, stop playing with me and face front. The man in that Benz is looking at you.”
I hurriedly said. As a smart babe, she coded and played alone.
Truly, the Benz reversed and stopped beside Evelyn.
“Beautiful lady, where are you going this evening?”
The elderly man in white agbada said. As expected, my wife ignored him and walked further. The man refused to back down.
He pursued.
“You are too beautiful to be walking alone without a bodyguard. Besides, you shouldn't be walking with your legs.”
The man insisted. I smiled sheepishly that this man doesn't know my wife.
The person that it took me 17 months, 3 weeks, and 3 days to toast before she eventually agreed to be my friend. The friendship lasted another 8 months, 2 weeks, and 4 days before she finally accepted to be my babe. And we dated for 2 years before she agreed to marry me.
Oga, you will talk today, your mouth will peel.
My wife stopped abruptly. I thought it was a film trick. How will she stop nah?
“Sir, I am not in the mood to talk today because what's happening now is..... (pretending to be crying).”
She sobbed. Perfect actor.
“Oh, sweet lady, don't cry. Even if you want to cry, enter my car and cry. It's better to cry under the AC than in the street. You are too beautiful to be seen like this.”
He flattered her. The man has catchy words. The next thing I saw was he handed over a 100-dollar bill to my wife to wipe her wet face with it.
I thought I was blind. I wipe my face repeatedly to be certain what I saw was what I saw.
Immediately, my wife beckoned me to join the car.
“Hmm. What is your name and who is this young man?”
He asked my wife. My countenance changed like an innocent boy. He noticed.
“Oh him? His name is Ben and we are ordinary neighbours. And my name is Evelyn.”
My wife played that part so well again.
“Are you sure? I want to avoid having a problem with all this young husband, oh. Young man, please don't be annoyed. Who are you to her?”
“Chief, are you doubting me? How do you look at me and expect me to marry this one? (Turn to me) Ben, what are we?”
She snapped. I was confused about what to say. How could she disrespect me like that?
This small acting don enters her head. Abeg fear women.
“We, we… We are neighbours. I can't marry this ash….”
I stutter. Furthermore, I couldn't complete the last word when I saw her reddish eyes.
“Hold the dollar for me, will you?”
She handed the money over to me. The Insult has now been well compensated.
“Guess what, Chief, today is my birthday!”
She announced to the man. Aside from the announcement, she hugged the man like they had known each other for a long time.
“Oh, beautiful! You are so lucky because I am happy today. If today is your birthday, it means I have to give you a big treat this evening and thereafter, we go to my room to complete the party.”
“Oh!!! Chief, you are the best! Don't worry, let me see your treat, then I will decide if the action will be hot or cold.”
“I am a man of my word. I will surprise you tonight.”
I just kept calm, listening to their rubbish gist. It's irritating. I wanted the game to stop. On the other hand, my wife was just getting started.
“My brother, you are lucky to have such a beautiful lady in your house. You will be helping me to look after her. If you see her with another man, just call me. Okay?”
He said. I just shook my head in agreement. This one that doesn't know what's going on.
We arrived at the mall and my wife bought many things. He bought some things for me too. From there we stopped at a boutique. I was shocked when my wife started pointing to male outfits. 2 complete suits, five shirts, and one Italian shoe.
She bought just one piece of clothing for herself. I suspected foul play there. Why me and not her?
There is no way this man is not a politician. He is a politician, only a politician flaunts money like this. Well, this is my time to eat a piece of the national cake.
Daddy carry on!!😂😂
As soon as we got back to the car, the awkwardest thing started.
My wife gave the chief another hug. Ah! Even me, that is your husband, it's a side hug I get on a regular. That full hug is once a month.
Chief has two already.
I think this prank is getting out of hand. I pinched my wife to stop. Instead, she slapped my hand.
That wasn't the thing, the weirdest of them all was when Evelyn brought out the pack of condoms she bought. I nearly passed out.
“Ye!!”
I screamed. They both looked at me and then asked what was wrong with me. I told them I was fine.
The car soon stopped In front of a hotel. It was then I knew it had gone beyond a prank.
My wife used to be an all-rounder. Good girl with a mix of olosho vibe. She was the reason I don't cheat. But now, I don't know her again.
She has everything. Now she's using it to torment me😭
“Babe, don't wound me, oh. You know I am an elderly man.”
He said, laughing like a hyena. I kept tapping my wife, whistled, and winked repeatedly.
She ignored.
This is Wahalur😱
“Baby don't worry. Just a sharp quickie. Then tomorrow I will come and spend the night with you.”
She responded. The tone was seductive. What I call a play has come back to bite me.
“Ben, please wait for us for just five or ten minutes. We will soon be back. Let's go, baby.”
It was as if they muted my senses. I couldn't imagine her turning the game around. How could she do this without even having some decency?
In my head, this marriage is about to come to an end.
I watched as the chief came out of the car and opened the door for my wife, holding her by the waist as they both entered the hotel.
It was like a dream.
I jolted back to life and wanted to rush out of the car, but it was locked. I managed to open the door and rushed into the hotel. The security couldn't stop me.
I nearly created a scene at the hotel. I kept ranting;
“They just brought my wife here. That old man who came in now is with my wife. I will scatter everywhere.”
The security men tried to calm me, but my anger was 💯. I was unstoppable.
The hotel manager could not stop me either. Immediately, the receptionist quickly told me the room number.
I pushed them away and rushed through the stairs.
Getting to the door, I tried to be composed. I want to be angry without committing any crime.
“Guy, relax. Just tell your wife to follow you and that's all. Don't touch the man. Please be calm.”
I told myself repeatedly before proceeding to open the door.
The room was dark and there was a slight moaning. I couldn't find the switch.
I was breathing heavily and ready to do the unthinkable.
Just as I decided to carry the small table and smashed it on whoever is on the bed with my wife, there was a sudden illumination in the room.
“HAPPY BIRTHDAY.”
Unexpected voices roared from different angles of the room. I was shocked. I calmly drop the small table.
There, I saw my father-in-law, sister-in-law, wife's friends, my Mum, my sister, and two of my friends. Every one of them started laughing… I felt so disappointed in myself.
My wife was holding the cake and laughing.
The old man was my wife's Uncle.
The initial plan was to bring me to the hotel, but when I started the game, she played along.
No more games with my wife again. I can't come and go and die of hypertension. 😂
My name is Amusan Tolulope Writes, and I am an impeccable writer.
You are free to change yours too. Put yourself first.
Chijeep: Yes... I posted this some months ago and that's the truth. After taking advice from people I took off my mind from the two ladies and now this is the worse am facing. I'm in deep sh*t already 😩
That “women are only sweet when they come and go” statement is gold.
advanceDNA: Shebi u are in love..... And she told u she doesn't love her husband and her parents forced her and mumu u believe all her revised standard version of everything.... Ehen!! go ahead naa... Ngwanu!! Love conquers all things naaaaa
Just know that weda she leave her kids with her husband or she pack them come ur house...... u are taking care of 4 children and a women insensitive enough to leave her husband and kids because of what she already has and can even nurture.....
My own is .... Women are only sweet when they come and go, seeing them once in a while ........baba . u see ....once they pack into your house... Ur eyes go soon clear with a very rude shock when u see the principality in them emerge....
Rebuker: Former NBA player Joe Smith recently discovered that his wife has an OnlyFans account. Her reaction to his surprising revelation appeared nonchalant, as she recorded her conversation with her clearly distraught husband, casually responding, 'It's my body.'
She proceeded to defend herself by stating that she's not involved with anyone but herself, emphasizing, "It's my body, my choice."
The husband interjected, asserting, "I am your husband, and you should communicate with me." She then explained that she had asked her husband questions, but he never provided an answer, leaving her with no choice but to take action.
She told her husband that she knew her identity before he married her. You can watch and listen to the entire conversation .......lol
If you were in her husband's position, what would you do?
Femininity is the foundation for a masculine man. Every other thing is additional.
Note that having money doesn’t make you masculine. Case in point Bill Gates.
maestro299: Women will never understand that most men don't really stress themselves by whether or not you wear 'expensive wigs' or sporting stunning makeup or wear suggestive clothing. A man will definitely look at breasts and bums (it's how God made us ) but it's a woman's underlying femininity, not just superficially (in the clothes, make-up and accessories) that draws a man in. There are a lot of physically beautiful women out there but many of them find it tough to attract a man who doesn't want them just for sex. Women tend to like strong, masculine men, and in the same vein, men generally like sexy, feminine women. Many women today (no thanks to poor orientation by many feminists) misinterpret femininity as being passive and a pushover.This couldn’t be further from the truth. Feminine women aren't pushovers, infact, na dem get power pass. When a man gets hooked, he's ready to become her slave, to do anything to please her. It’s not a look, it’s not just an outfit, or your smile, or your hair. It's about her wholesome attitude and character. She has that feminine presence aura; there’s some feature about her that would make a guy stop and take notice.
She walks, sits, talks, and moves with sexy confidence and that seductive, charming, graceful feminine beauty.
While fully confident and respecting of herself, she still gives off the air of approachability. She doesn't look like she's ready to kill anyone who dares to introduce himself to her.
A woman who understands the power of her femininity knows she is of high value, doesn’t need a man to take care of her, and is confident in who she truly is. She's calm and isn't overtly aggressive.
Focus all the energy you have on getting a better job. She did you a favor.
Abisolababe: Good morning nairalanders I think this world is turning to something else
I work with a private organisation where I earn 20k as my monthly stipend For the past one four month now we have not been paid salary and we dare not ask my boss because she is a disciplined woman who doesn't tolerate nonsense..
Things are really getting hard and I couldn't even afford transport fee to work this morning as I have to trek down to work this morning, and on getting to work I decided to summon courage to ask this woman about my salary, She told me to go back to my duty . but to my greatest surprise it was sack letter that follows. I tried talking to her and telling her the situation of things but she wouldn't listen and all what she said is that I have been fired.
I was told to come back ending of November to get my salary..
I don't really know what to do right now, it looks like cheating to me . This is my sweat, something I have work for ...
Don’t worry you will find someone else. Don’t subscribe to scarcity mentality…there are at least 3 billion women in the world.
Even if you met a new woman every day, it would take you 3 years to meet 1000 women.
You will be alright.
PeeboyDmx: I have a friend, she is kind, she is very caring, emphasis on caring Honestly, I feel like the heart is the most important thing in a human being, and I see her as someone who possesses a big heart although she is very young by age she has been the one doing the toasting for a while now and I am kinda going with the flow.
Now the only issue I have is her body size, she is a really fat person I am not good at body shaming people, because I wouldn't want anyone to do the same to me, but sincerely I don't think I can keep up with her body size.
My reason for bringing this here is that, I feel like I am losing something really precious and valuable all because I am more focused on the outward appearance, secondly I feel like there won't be any intimacy between us even if we start dating because I am not sexually attracted to her.
I am scared that I would look back and regret, but I think I would rather let her go than to hurt her in the future
Woodshot: You'all might have guessed right but stop judging one by his mode of dressing because on the high side you'd always be in the wrong.
"Being addressed by the way you dress"
Is why you can't imagine the kind of bloody crime which is perpetrated by guys on cassock, other official attires worn by pastors, clergymen, and designated clothes for leading men of traditional gods and other religions. And once you're attired in one you've within you power to device, scam, manipulate and make mostly Nigerian women to do as you wish.
Looks might be deceptive.
That guy or woman whose countenance is as gentle as a dove might be a volcano deep inside...
The inside of man is what you should look at for not what he's sporting or the kind of clothes he's wearing.
A yahoo boy who stops and shuns dressing the ascribed yahoo way will never be harassed by the Nigerian police. His dressings has made him in the eyes of the cops perhaps any other thing but not the boys they're looking for.
Looks might be deceptive.
PS: I'm defending nobody I'm only stating that the way people should be addressed is always wrong when only their dress is addressed.
Scientifically, fasting helps the body keep healthy.
Too much eating is not good for the body.
kpakpandoN: There was this man called Mordecai — Esther’s uncle. There was also Haman – an officer of the king, who hated Mordecai. Haman expected everybody to bow to him, but Mordecai wouldn’t bow to anybody except God. Haman decided to hang him and destroy his people completely. Haman got the king to sign the death warrant of all the Israelites.
When Mordecai heard of the decree from the king, he went to Esther, who was then the queen, for help. Esther replied in Esther 4:1-17 that they should all fast, and then she would go and see the king. They fasted for just three days and things began to change from that point. By the time we got to Esther 5:1-6, Esther appeared before the king without being summoned and the first result of the fasting was that instead of the king asking her to be killed, he spared her life. Fasting can change death to life.
The next thing that happened is that Esther found unusual favour before the king The king told Esther that though he is yet to know what she wants, but she should consider it granted already, even up to half of his kingdom. When you fast, you get more than you ask for. By the time we get to Esther 6, the king couldn’t sleep until he honoured Mordecai. A good deed that Mordecai did many years previously, which had been forgotten, made the king restless until it was repaid. When you take fasting seriously, all your past benefits that you have been denied can be brought forward and handed over to you.
In Esther 7, the enemy of the entire nation became completely uprooted, and then in Esther 8, the house of Haman was given over to Esther. Proverbs 13:22 says that the wealth of the wicked is laid up for the just; do you think the wicked will let go of his wealth easily? You get it by fasting and praying. Wealth changes hands when you fast. Mordecai also got promoted because promotion comes from God (Psalm 75:6-7), and since fasting draws you closer to God, it leads to promotion.
Finally, in Esther 8:3-17, the Jews were saved from destruction, and the Bible also says all the people around became Jews because they were afraid of the Jews. Fasting is a powerful weapon of warfare. Begin to use this weapon from today.
My compassion to all those currently suffering in Gaza.
nnatobryno: Isreali president is committing war crime in Gaza. Hope he gets arrested to answer for his crimes. An arrest warrant was issued on Putin for taking children off harms way in Ukraine but israel is there bombing Indiscriminately resulting in the killing of thousands of children and women. Using hunger and phosphorus bombs are all war crime. Hope the West will not play their double standard again
HugeElephant: IDF Ground FORCES are currently engaging non state actors in a Fierce fire fight. Israel has invaded Gaza from multiple directions, including 3 distinguishable fronts.
Palestine have already begun requesting for a 5 days cease fire in exchange for all prisoners.
A correspondent in Gaza has reported the airstrike has not stopped, resulting in bodies being scattered across everything.
Israel has been reportedly using white phosphorus. The full HRW (Human Rights Watch) reports concludes that white phosphorus can be used as an incendiary weapon in densely populated area in Gaza
Obviously written with good intentions but the story is manipulative.
First habit every sexually active man must develop is safe sex. No condom no sex.
Next, don’t be naive about the different types of women. Learn their archetypes so you can know what type of woman you’re dealing with. Proverbs gives an example of an archetype, the seductress.
Kindly reflect upon the story of a guy named Fred:
"Fred was a very intelligent and talented guy in his mid-twenties. His parents were strong faithful Christians, and their faith influenced Fred greatly. His parents' faith and influence molded him into a responsible guy who ignored the pleasures of the world (fornication, wild parties, clubbing, alcoholism, etc.) but focused squarely on his future. And so, Fred was obviously on a path to greatness in life.
As at when he was in his final year at the University, he was still on a first-class and was still enjoying various sponsorships from various organizations. In fact, one of these organizations - a multinational company - already promised him a lucrative job immediately after he graduated from the University. The job was attached with lucrative packages, including an official house and an official car. Fred was the envy of everyone in his school, everyone recognized the fact that he had a very bright and glorious future ahead of him.
The problem started when Fred crossed paths with a lady called Vivian. Actually, Vivian was Fred's ex-secondary school classmate. When they were still in secondary school, Fred and Vivian were always contending for the first position each term. They were obviously the brightest students in their class, though they weren't close friends.
And so, Fred was surprised when he received a call from a strange number who later identified herself as Vivian - his former classmate back then in secondary school. She told him she was within the environs of his University and asked for his address.
Afterward, she started visiting him frequently, obviously trying hard to establish a relationship between them, even bringing him cooked food just to make him comfortable with her.
Then, on an unfortunate day, she visited his room on a cold rainy evening, putting on a revealing provocative dress that threw Fred off balance. She lured Fred into having sex with her, and that day, Fred had his first sex right there on his bed.
However, immediately after that encounter, Vivian stopped contacting or visiting him. In fact, she ignores his calls intentionally whenever he tries reaching her. Weeks later, Fred was experiencing changes in his body system. He was frequently getting sick and was losing a lot of weight, getting leaner and dry. His frequent sicknesses made him miss numerous tests and even his final exams. It was when the multinational company that had offered him automatic employment decided to treat him in their private clinic that they discovered the main problem. Fred has contracted a dread sexually transmitted virus! The news quickly spread around the school. Before Fred died a humiliating death, he was subjected to stigmatization and constant ridicule - especially from those who have always been jealous of him.
And that was how Fred, the youngster with a very bright future, thwarted his life just because of a few minutes of pleasure. Indeed, the graveyard is the richest place on earth, as it contains numerous unused potentials and talents.
What Fred never knew was that Vivian, a promiscuous lady, contracted the virus from one of her numerous sex partners. As soon as she became aware of this, she swore not to die alone but to share the virus with various other people, especially those with a promising future.
She drafted a list of those she knew were endowed with talents, intelligence, and a bright future ahead. Then she began getting closer to them one by one, luring them into sex and sharing the virus with the unsuspecting folks........
This is the unfortunate story of Fred, and I'm sure you will have drawn a lot of lessons from it. I want you to understand something. You have a bright future ahead, and you are meant to achieve and do great things in life. I'm confident of this because your Creator - God - created you gloriously.
However, the devil, who is your adversary, hates you bitterly and is bent on destroying you and your destiny. Nevertheless, you are guaranteed safety and immunity when you live your life only within the confines of God's Will by His Word.
Don't ever forget that the devil has numerous agents meant to lure you into sin and get your life ruined. That beautiful lady around you might actually have an ulterior motive towards you, while you think they are innocent. Life is not as shallow as it seems, but very deep. Let the Holy Spirit keep leading you to victory.
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